r/confessions • • 17h ago

I want to start doing sex work due to frustration. (21M)

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Hi, to be totally blunt, im unfairly blessed in the junk department (99.9th percentile in size, and condoms would have to be ordered online)
But… I’m single, im kinda broke, and im a lonely virgin at 21, I go to college… and I work, and I go out and I’m in the apps just.. unlucky, at this point I figure I’ll lose my virginity in two ways, a sex worker or being a sex worker
Also yk… I might as well use what the maker gave me to make money if I ever get laid

idk, im tired of being single, all my friends and all my siblings have had these experiences and im here, the second oldest out of the aforementioned sibling with nothing, i feel undeserving of love, and taunted every time I’m at a urinal or in the shower cause I’ve got so much and it doesn’t do nothin for nobody but me.. :(

I’ve also avidly considered onlyfans at low points financially, but I’d find it frustrating and quit.

I’m rambling, and this’ll probably get auto modded, or buried..

peace & love.


r/confessions • • 3h ago

I’ve had this gangbang fantasy for a year and I’m done pretending I shouldn’t act on it

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I’ve only had this fantasy for about a year, but it’s been persistent as hell. I want a gangbang with 3–4 guys. Nothing more complicated than that. Just that specific scene in my head on repeat.
Here’s the actual confession though: if you have a fantasy like that, you should absolutely do it. Life’s too short to keep the things that turn you on locked away forever. And if your partner isn’t okay with you exploring it (or at least talking about it openly), they’re probably not the right person for you.
I’m not saying every relationship has to be open or that everyone has to share the same kinks. But if the person you’re with shuts down something that feels important to you without any real conversation, that’s information. I’d rather know sooner than later.
Anyone else sitting on a fantasy they’ve been too scared (or too polite) to actually pursue?


r/confessions • • 10h ago

My mom checked my discord...

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So I (16M) was sitting in my lounge on my phone when my mom called my name from the kitchen. I answered back and she didn't respond, so I went back to scrolling. Then she came to the lounge and took my phone, she threatened to go through my discord. I asked her not to and she asked what I was trying to hide... I said that they're was nothing, I just didn't want her to see my conversations. She asked what kind of things I had on my phone, asking if it was porn. I said that there was some that my friends sent but nothing crazy. She asked what kind of stuff so I told her about a goth girl (pinkchyu) that my friends sent in the discord. She looked her up and found her onlyfans… She started making fun of me and then called my dad... my dad is a bit of a gooner so he started defending me and saying that she must give my phone back. She did give it back and she seemed to find it more funny than concerning, im just glad that she didn't find any of the REALLY bad stuff...

I don't want her to see anything worse, I was thinking about locking the app, but I think that would just look more suspicious. Anyone have any ideas?


r/confessions • • 9h ago

I’d leave my life behind to be with an older man.

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I 19f have always liked older men, I don’t mean 3-5 years older I mean men pushing 30+ to like 60. Who look good for their age lol. I’ve always liked OLDER men.

I have an obsession with talking to older men online. Some I’ve even told I’d leave my life behind for them. It’s stupid I know. It’s to the point I will show them my body without them even asking,I text them dirty things, send them myself and call them. They view me as I’m the BEST thing in the world and I love it. I’ve slept with a few, and they are way better than the guy I lost my virginity to who is also my age. I find it fun and thrilling, but then after we stop texting I feel gross and used :/ it’s an addiction because I continue the cycle and keep doing it.


r/confessions • • 16h ago

Im addicted to sex

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My sex drive has increased a lot recently. My boyfriend and I have sex every day. He makes me squirt every time but for some reason it’s just not enough for me. I’m constantly using my toys to get off while he’s not home. I feel a little ashamed but I’m also loving it. The other day a man approached me at the store asking for my number. I almost gave it to him just because I wanted him to fuck me. I love my boyfriend and I don’t want to cheat on him but the urge to sleep with others is constantly there. I’m so horny all the time. I want to start selling my nudes and masturbate with strangers online. I know my boyfriend won’t like it but I want men to wish they could fuck me.


r/confessions • • 19h ago

My husband is on a work trip and all I can think about while he’s gone is cheating on him. I have sex dreams about all the other people I’ve ever had crushes on or dated. It’s taking so much willpower to not sext another guy or invite someone over while he’s gone.

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We’ve been together for practically a decade and our sex life hasn’t been that great the past few years. I barely want to have sex with him anymore and I thought I just wasn’t as horny as I used to be. But since he’s been gone, I just want to have sex with someone else SO BADLY.


r/confessions • • 8h ago

Being nude in front of my mom at 23 yo NSFW

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Sharing it here and may seem weird, but had a lasik surgery at 23 and the protocol says no water splashing in the eyes for 15 days to avoid any infections.

My mom offered to bathe me so that I just stand up and she soaped me and scrubbed me..It was really odd being nude in front of her after almost after 12 years ( last was when I was 10 yo). I got even hard unintentionally a few times and she ignored it maybe as it's not unnatural. It's something different being nude at 10 yo and at 22 when ur totally grown up and have a full bush down there and hard right in front of your mom. It felt odd for the first couple of days then got used to it.


r/confessions • • 9h ago

It happened so fast. NSFW

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Probably cliche, but for me it was new. I (28 M) had a girl best friend (27 F) and one day we started talking deeply and one thing led to another and started talking sex. But we regret it immediately as eventually this may ruin our relationship.

But on the next day, when I was at her place, I don't know my pov with her changed. I couldn't resist looking at her tits and ass, because of all her fantasies she shared with me over the text

All those things that she wanted to do to me, and things she wanted me to do.

What happened next needs a little context. Even though it's new for me, it wasn't for her. She has had a ton of experience before.

And This is a woman whose thoughts are not like all. For her, even the size matters which was a shocker to me, i thought it was complete nonsense. And the one thing she loves to do to a guy is, bl*w job. At some point I start thinking like whether I am chatting with a horny guy (sorry for being sexist). Because basically this person is into everything that we see in porn.

Now let's come back, she wasn't talking like she used to. At this point someone here could relate to me and the things passing through my head. And on top of that I got a boner. I don't know, i yelled like ' i am having a boner, I can't take it anymore my head will explode'.

She asked, 'why are you tell me?'

I became little weird here and said, if we are not going to touch each other, i want to jerk off looking at you.

She asked me a lot of questions like why,? Why don't you go in washroom? Look at some porn

All she never said was No.

I insisted , she said like whatever.

As I took my pants off, something probably triggered her, she came to me and got on her knees and started sucking on it. It was the extreme moment in my life, and i understood the gwak gwak sound is actually real. But it was a bit shameful because I felt like coming and ran to the washroom. Understand, this is new to me. Later she asked me why did you run to washroom? Don't ruin the flow, Just come on my face or tits. And if you want to cum in my mouth don't ask for permission, make me open my mouth if I am rejecting based on my mood, then cum on face or somewhere else.

I was completely lost at this point...

But this bj routine kept on going, and gradually I started showing her who is the boss ( I am not insulting her. that's what she wants, me to dominate her).

When we got into actual sex, i understood that our interests were different. She was more into rough kind of sex, wants me to beat her, choke her, bite her, fu*k her with aggression.. One day I fucked her mouth really hard down her throat, and i apologized later. But she said, at that moment she wanted it and enjoyed it. But I started feeling like I hurt someone physically. Probably because I was a noob at that time

I asked her whether she has taken it in her ass. She said 'yes, but I don't think you are ready to do my ass.' she was right though. She literally told me like she need a partner who can bang her like it's the end of the world.

After a few months she got engaged, but she started sending me her nudes and used to come on video call to masturbate together. She said we left things incomplete and she wants to satisfy me completely.

I told her you don't need to do that and we agreed to stop this.

What an experience though!


r/confessions • • 19h ago

I kissed a girl that was way younger

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I(17F) was smoking some weed with a small group of people. In about 15 minutes, we met up with a larger group of teens. A few girls were flirting with me, and this one was very insistent. I told her I couldn't date her, but we could kiss. So we did. Only afterwards did I find out she was 15. I don't know whether she just turned 15 or if she's about to be 16, but I turned 17 three months ago. I'm obviously never speaking to her again, and I feel stupid for not asking her age beforehand. I feel very guilty about this, and I couldn't sleep last night. (important note, her best friend who I spoke to for about 2 minutes before the kiss, was my age. I had stupidly assumed everyone was in my age group.)


r/confessions • • 53m ago

Am I actually crazy??

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I sooooo badly just wanna let a group of men be left alone with me in a hotel room or something where they can use my body however they want and like write degrading words all over my body and tie me up and hit me with paddles or floggers while they also humiliate me by cutting off all my hair making me look increasingly more stupid until they fully shave my head.


r/confessions • • 7h ago

Recently I’ve started to wear male thongs

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With how big my glutes are as I’ve been working out a lot and thongs are so much more free but they do ride up my cheeks though and can be visible in some shorts and pants.


r/confessions • • 11h ago

I love when ppls let me rate their dih pics. Basically let me see haha.

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I love when people let me rate their dick pics

I love when strangers send me d pics and I'll rate them and i love to sext tooooo sorry but that's my guilty pleasure

I'm 18 M (BI BTTM)


r/confessions • • 11h ago

Fantasy Sharing Time! NSFW

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To preface, I do not want dms about this. I'll block anyone who reaches out, I just had this thought as I was driving home and thought I'd confess to get it off my chest:

Whenever I see vehicles parked along the side of the street, specifically semi trucks or motorhome type vehicles I always picture or fantasize there are people having sex in them. I think it's because it's such an open but private place? But the thought of being at a rest stop somewhere or parked on the side of the freeway doing the naughtiest, kinkiest things without passerbys having the slightest idea of what could be happening really turns me on.


r/confessions • • 21h ago

Somebody assuming I was trans made me want to actually die

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I am not a pretty girl. I know that. I am as ugly as a rat but that was too far. I'm chubby but I never thought my body looked masculine. I always wax all my body hair. I literally got my nails done recently. But nooo. He had to say that. And when I started crying there I'm the one overreacting. I went to my home and cried over this for even longer. I considered hanging myself over this. Really? Even after all the effort I still look like a man?


r/confessions • • 6h ago

I hooked up with a celebrity on vacation

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I regularly meet interesting people at events through work and once I met a guy who had some good connections. After hanging out with him at a bar after work he recommended me to a resort where you can only get into as a member or through a members recommendation. I seized this opportunity a few months later when I had time to go on vacation. Thats where the actual fun begins. During the time I went there wasn't that much going on so it was really relaxing. On the second day of my stay I explored the whole resort and thats when I recognized her by herself at the bar. At the beginning I was star struck but after a while I decided why not approach her especially because there wasn't much going in that resort anyways. We had a really good conversation and I paid for the drinks. After that we both went our seperate ways but over the next few days we started hanging out regularly at the bar and by the pool. A few days before she was leaving we met at her room and she already was much flirtier than usual. She kinda started stripping down and at that point it was obvious where this would lead to. I was totally overwhelmed but I obviously didn't turn that opportunity down and we had sex


r/confessions • • 3h ago

32M, I made out with my brother when I was 12 and now think it was weird

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I am a 32 year old dude and When I was just 12 i discovered masturbation and jerking off, someday my 5 year older brother approached me about sex talk, and we discussed about it, i don't have a clear memory but then he proposed to try something, and then he rubbed his penis on me and we were both naked and I did the same and it was pleasure. We both did it 3 4 times over a period of month and came on each other and then stopped it totally and my brother is straight af, he was in love with a girl and today he is married as well, this experience isn't traumatising for me, we live in the same house and nor for once we remember what had happened, it's been 20 years to that thing, and it just hit my mind so I thought to share. But if neither of us are gays, why did we make out? I was 12 and gullible


r/confessions • • 8h ago

Me and my boyfriend were almost robbed at gun point

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Last night, my boyfriend and I nearly got robbed by a gang during a deal worth over $45,000. They changed the meeting location to somewhere “chiller,” which was already suspicious. When we arrived, one of them went to their car, but my boyfriend never stepped inside because he thought something was off. They asked to see the product, but when he said he wanted to see the cash first, everything went quiet. One pulled a gun to his head while another pulled out a serrated knife. They all started grabbing him, trying to pull him away from our car while I screamed and desperately tried to pull him back inside. One nearly opened my door. I genuinely thought I was going to lose him. Somehow, they ended up driving off like a bunch of bitches with a bag of rubbish from our back seat.


r/confessions • • 14h ago

Gifting Mom

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Are sex toys normal? Is it ok to give as a gift to my widowed mom? Or is it weird? I genuinely think she needs it because I have seen her masturbating. People have needs. I'm not saying in bad way.


r/confessions • • 16h ago

I slept with my sisters college friend

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I, 18F, recently attended my older sister’s 23rd birthday party. It was a college party so there was obviously no supervision and my sister is not one to supervise me while I’m at her place. One of her friends there, 23M, kept giving me looks for a while and eventually we started to chat a bit. We began chatting earlier in the party before either of us became super drunk. Obviously we were both somewhat tipsy since we both had a few jello shots before it got too crowded. As the party continued and more people arrived we found a way to sneak around everyone unnoticed since they were busy talking with others. We went upstairs to my room and had sex. It was great and all but I feel terrible about it because I don’t want anything to feel awkward next time she has a party that we are both present at. I do fantasize a lot about being intimate with older men but never really acted upon it besides returning flirtiness with men in public or at my job. We both fully consented to having sex and after it was over we snuck back downstairs and acted like nothing happened. It was definitely a one time thing that I have to intention of doing again. My sister has no clue about any of this nor does anyone else that I know of but I just really wanted to get this off my chest. Please no shaming or anything because this is just how my mind works. I am extremely attracted to men who are older than me typically in their 20s-30s and I do not have any attraction to anyone my age.


r/confessions • • 18h ago

When I still lived at home, I have to admit that I was incredibly turned on by my sister. Looking back, I’d almost say I was a little bit in love with her. 🙈

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r/confessions • • 14h ago

Morbid curiosity (trigger warning: self deletion)

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A few years ago a good friend of mine self deleted. I never found out the method he used, and I have always wondered.

I am still mad at him.

That is all.


r/confessions • • 16h ago

Married into money and not sure

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So I have been with my husband for 10 years married for 6. His family has money and he is an only child. We have done everything on our own without his families financial help although we are buildings a home on a very expensive piece of property now. Anyways I’m freaking out because what if I don’t want this life? What if I ever want to leave? Should I just suck it up bc I would be well off for the rest of my life if I stay?

He is very good to me, I mean very good
Although he can blow up with anger like a child but it doesn’t happen often


r/confessions • • 21h ago

I married my stepbrother

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The sex is out of this world forbidden passion and desire it’s so erotic we’ve encouraged our children


r/confessions • • 18h ago

im up late

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its 23:06. PEE. EM. That's... that's almost the next day... fuuuuuck it's this redbull fuckin with me man im so fuckin high off this rebull...


r/confessions • • 19h ago

Does he hate me? I (17F) lied about my age to (36M) and now feel horrible...

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Oh boy... where do I start?!

About three months ago, I met this 36M while he was working in my small town (I live in a movie set town and he was working on one of the shows they were filming that summer). I told him I was about 19, and he believed me, although he questioned my age a few times. He has a girlfriend who’s in her 30s (I think), and they’re in an open relationship. He asked me if I’d be interested in a casual hookup for the summer, and I eventually said yes.

We ended up becoming friends and sharing a lot in common, which kind of weirded me out sometimes. Even the smallest things, like making a salad, we did the same way. Looking back now, how does someone my age have so much in common with a 36-year-old?

What truly breaks my heart is that when he showed me his band’s music, he later said that no one had ever looked at him the way I did that night. I don’t know if he meant it as deeply as I took it. Looking back, there was nothing truly casual about us. He would say things like that or tell me he’d shared more with me than with any other girl he was just hooking up with, and then he’d tell me not to fall in love with him. It was confusing and I would just use “friends” as an excuse why we were close even though it was only “casual”

I’m someone who’s naturally flirty and very affectionate, so I can see how, to him, it looked like I was catching feelings hard. And he would say “I don’t wanna hurt anyone’s feelings.”

He gave me a signed shirt featuring two actors he was working with while filming a show I’m a fan of, as well as a shirt from his band. The day we met up to have sex at a hotel in town, my parents found out. I left both shirts and my bikini with him (we’d been planning on going swimming that day) I told him my parents would go through my bag and I didn’t want them to find the shirts. He still thought I was older, and before I left, he said he wanted to see me again. I told him I did too.

That was the last time we saw each other.

And I never got the bikini and two shirts back.

(When I got home, my parents were furious and later made me go to the police station to report him, even after I begged them not to make me. I knew he didn’t deserve it. But I did it, and he was later interrogated. We didn’t have to go to court, but he received a police warning stating that he couldn’t come within 50 metres of me or contact me ever again. If he does, he’ll be arrested immediately. That being said, I see him in town almost every week when I’m driving by and they’re filming. I eventually have to pull over or go home because I start having panic attacks, which I’ve never experienced before. It’s not like I can stop driving past the sets because they’re downtown, and I have to pass through that part of town to get to school. I started going to therapy again, and that’s been helping me, but the guilt is just eating me alive. Now, I wish I hadn’t done it. I wish I could talk to him and tell him that not everything was a lie. I wish I could apologize, and I wish there were a bigger word for “sorry” so I could say it.)

How do you make peace with an ending when you can’t get closure from the other person? Does he hate me?