r/Assistance • • 2d ago

REQUEST Relief for Electric Bill Desperately Needed

4 Upvotes

https://gofund.me/066c077b8 Hello everyone! For a good part of my life, I was a unpaid caregiver for my mother and we lived off of her Social Security because I was struggling to find a job that would keep me home to look out for her. Unfortunately, not only have I lost my father to a house fire two years ago, but my mother lost her battle against Uterine Cancer passing away in her sleep on August 4th. Now I am frantically looking for jobs either remotely because I lack my own mode of transport, or in person work that is nearby me that is cheap enough for Uber.

So far I have been getting some family help with paying my bills for my apartment but now this month I've been slapped with a $437 and some change electric bill due to a security deposit being lumped into my original $159 bill because of my lack of work experience. And this eye watering bill is tough for a lot my family members to swallow and lend aid with. I've reached out and exhausted so many options before a gofundme. Everything from churches, to special programs, and even asking the electric company themselves for some kind of relief. And unfortunately a lot of the assistance in my area is only catered to seniors, veterans, or the disabled. And I am none of those.

I just simply want this huge bill paid and off my shoulders so I can relax a little better while I'm still on the hunt for some kind of job that will help me get on my feet and be somewhat financially stable. So whatever can be donated here will be of a huge help as it will be put towards hopefully laying this bill to rest.


r/Assistance • • 2d ago

REQUEST FULFILLED Help with gas for work.

0 Upvotes

Hello everyone. I am looking for $25 to help fill my tank up half way just until I get paid on Thursday. I had a tire blow out on me today and I used up the last of money on a new used tire. I just need to make it to work until I get paid. Thank you so much.


r/Assistance • • 2d ago

REQUEST in need of gas!

1 Upvotes

hello everyone! so after months of being unemployed, i finally landed a really awesome job! since i just started, i haven’t gotten paid yet. my position requires a vehicle (which i thankfully do have!) as i go to different locations all over for community visits for parents/children. if i could take public transportation until then, i would. im requesting $30-$50 for gas money to allow me to continue driving for work and back home until my first paycheck hits. i dont have any family or friends to ask as its just me figuring this life thing out alone. i always give back and do what i can when i am in a position to do so and plan on continuing that kindness regardless if its extended to me or not. this help would be greatly appreciated! thank you so much in advance and to this sub and the people in it for all that you do!!!!

i’m getting DMs from scammers. i’m already in a hard situation. please don’t make it worse😓


r/Assistance • • 2d ago

REQUEST Car's Alternator

0 Upvotes

I'm on disability, I get close to $1000/mo. All of my money goes to paying bills. I have two people who depend on me to get them to and from work on almost a daily basis. One of them is my roommate who is also unfortunately tight on money to the point where she can't help more than she already has. After helping sometime last week she's basically broke for the next two weeks since she gets paid biweekly. The other she's already contributed $200 and another friend contributed $50. It also doesn't help that I'm on food stamps and have to wait as long as I usually do to get my groceries for the month, and I got that snap payment on the 7th, I haven't been able to go shopping since the car shut down, and been basically living off ramen and water for the past couple weeks.

The problem is my car's alternators are shot. The old one apparently was putting out too much voltage while the replacement we got isn't putting out enough voltage. It's going to take too much time to return the replacement to get a refund on the replacement which we spent around $160 to get. I'm currently left with $115.70 to my name. And to get a replacement alternator today would cost $335.39(thats including the core deposit charge). Leaving me needing $219.69.

I'm not sure if I need to specify what things I have that people could send to or donate to, but I do have Paypal and Venmo. I hope that I've done everything right, I've read the requirements and such.

If you need to know where I'm located I'm in the northeast of the US. And to be clear about the specified amount that I would need, it's $219.69. I talked with the guy who helped me put in the replacement alternator we got and he told me we could get one today but it'd cost $258.39 + a $77 core deposit.

Sorry if I typed too much I'm just trying to make sure I give whatever info I can.


r/Assistance • • 2d ago

REQUEST Cant Get out of this hole.

0 Upvotes

Life has been hard and I've found myself in a hole I can't get out of. I'm working two jobs, but something constantly has to come up as a wild expense, and this last month I had to overextend to make rent.

I've already cut every expense I can manage, the fees, and interest, and overdraft charges make it so I can't even break even with a good paycheck. I'm drowning and just out of rope.

I am working, but find myself in a hole of credit cards and payday advances and overdrafted accounts.

Just one of these things off my shoulders would make the rest all manageable, I just have no means to make headway, by the time rent comes due I basically have to fall into the same trap to keep from losing everything.

My total is roughly ~1500 USD, but literally anything would be huge. Anything.


r/Assistance • • 3d ago

REQUEST FULFILLED [Request] some food to help get me by

19 Upvotes

Hello! I feel really vulnerable posting this here but here it goes. My mental health has been in the toilet lately [several hospital stays and one 5150 stay] and due to that I was let go from my job. Because of that, money is super duper tight for me right now and im not sure if ill have enough food to get me through next week. I have AFRID, and because of that, going to the food bank is not viable for me because I have no control over what food they are going to give me. Rather than risking taking food from someone who would actually eat it , I made an amazon wish list. There are some pricier protein bars on there but those would be in replacement of meals. Even if you have read this far I appreciate it, thank you<3

https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/1MMWQ47FHYJY5?ref_=wl_share


r/Assistance • • 2d ago

VOTES Face of Halloween Contest

0 Upvotes

I am not sure if I am really allowed to share this here, but I have a unique request that would be completely free for anyone to fulfill. I am trying to win a contest for the face of Halloween and need people to vote for me daily. It would mean the world if you could take a few moments out of your day to vote for me ♥️

https://faceofhalloween.org/2026/janet-freeman


r/Assistance • • 3d ago

VOTES Not sure if this is allowed, but please voting for my son would be greatly appreciated. This has been a huge boost since we lost Mom.

14 Upvotes

My 10 year pld son watched his Mom have a fatal stroke in front of him. He called 911 and stayed by her side in the hospital until it was time to say goodbye. He held her hand and sang to her while she passed. And through love, strength, and some therapy...has been able to keep a smile on his face and even help another kid in his school who went through a parental loss. It's free to vote once a day, and today is 2x votes. It would be truly appreciated, and he truly loves seeing all the support.

Thank you :)

https://thesuperkid.org/2026/emmett-33f3


r/Assistance • • 3d ago

REQUEST FULFILLED Help with cat food

18 Upvotes

Hi everyone, I have my bills paid for the month but I'm falling short on a few essential items. Most importantly, cat food. I posted the same request and was helped here a few months ago. I know this group isn't supposed to be a long term solution but in about three weeks I start training for a new role at my job that comes with a pay raise. That should help me from falling behind again. Thank you for all that you do!

https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/WTQVWXN5AQ4D?ref_=wl_share


r/Assistance • • 3d ago

REQUEST FULFILLED Help with Groceries, please

4 Upvotes

Good afternoon! I’m struggling to finish paying off my rent for the month of October. I owe 265, before the late fees. Any money I make will go to that first. The problem is that I’m running out of food quickly, and I’m worried. I made an Amazon wishlist of groceries that would be really helpful to have. All of it is shelf stable. I’m in between jobs right now, even though I’ve been putting in applications and going to interviews. I’m getting leftover money in a few weeks from my student loans, that will help with rent. I also do Uber Eats driving on my e-bike in an effort to pay down my owed rent everyday. I genuinely just need a little help with food so I can focus on paying that bill down as soon as possible. I also have put two or three items for my cat on the list. Anything at all will help, please

https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/2W7A3T87P5IL6?ref_=wl_share


r/Assistance • • 3d ago

THANK YOU Thank you 🩵

9 Upvotes

Thank you to all of those that assisted with the baby supplies and basics. It’s a huge relief to not have to worry about my little guy’s diapers or wipes this month. The baby toiletries and extra snack pouches are also amazing, he loves them. Someone even got us a second box of wipes, so they should last a while. The Lysol and toilet paper make life much easier too. I’m SO grateful for this sub, thank you!! 😭


r/Assistance • • 3d ago

MEGATHREAD Sunday Sunnies Social Hour ☀️ October 11, 2026

9 Upvotes

Hello everyone! Happy summer!

Welcome to our new weekly (weekendly?) discussion post on r/Assistance! This is a spot for casual conversation, sharing positive vibes, and getting to know the fellow members of our wonderful community.

What to post here:

• ⁠Stories about yourself, your pets, your kids, etc.
• ⁠Recipes, recommendations, and other fun things to do.
• ⁠Positive stories about your experiences on r/Assistance.

What not to post here:

• ⁠Direct requests for assistance.
• ⁠Links of any kind -- for recipes just copy&paste or mention the name. (We may adjust our automoderator down the road)
• ⁠Soft begs/doom and gloom stories about how broke you are.
• ⁠Harassment to anyone.
• ⁠Complaints about the sub, the rules, or the mods.

The mod team will be monitoring these threads carefully to make sure everyone is following the rules and no shenanigans occur. If things go well, we will probably be automating these threads every Sunday even beyond summer.

Have fun!


r/Assistance • • 3d ago

REQUEST Struggling to keep my head above water - unpaid sick leave

6 Upvotes

I was very lucky to start a new job in a field I am interested during the summer. I love my job and I'm doing well, but unfortunately I came down with norovirus and have been off work for 6 days- including an outpatient visit to hospital due to dehydration. I am barely making ends meet when I'm on full pay, so I have been supplementing my income with evening shifts at a local restaurant, but obviously I've not been able to go into work there either.

This leaves me approx £500 short this month and I am panicking. I'm still unwell, and don't expect to go back to work until maybe the end of the week, when I'd have lost even more money. This is keeping me awake at night with worry.

I hate the idea of asking but I have exhausted all other means of help. I feel defeated.

Please can anybody offer some help? Thank you.


r/Assistance • • 3d ago

REQUEST FULFILLED Assistance paying for my daughter’s AP exams

16 Upvotes

Edit: I have presently received a total of $55 from my $138 goal, thank you for the help!!

Hi! I have a sixteen year old daughter who is seriously a great kid. She’s always been top of her class and has continued that trend into high school despite taking challenging classes. She is independently successful - sometimes that means she is doing homework at 2 am but also she took a nap earlier in the day, and at least she’s getting it done? Gets up to her alarm and walks to school, makes near perfect attendance and always on time. Polite, respectful, kind.

She has two classes this year that have an AP exam attached and we have to pay for them. $69/each since we qualify for reduced lunch. I WILL make it happen regardless, but I thought asking for help towards it couldn’t hurt. I’ve been stressing and she keeps checking in to make sure I haven’t forgotten and I just can’t wait to get it paid and have that peace of mind for us both.

Why don’t I have the money available when it’s not that much? I work in public schools and don’t get paid over summer, I’ve only gotten one and a half checks so far and had to use them to catch up on stuff. I will have two more paychecks before the deadline but they are mostly spoken for with bills. Normally I’d DoorDash but my van got hit in a parking lot this week and now makes a very bad sound at every right turn so I’m trying to use it as little as possible.

I have Venmo, PayPal, Apple Pay, Zelle.. I am not expecting anyone to pay an entire test fee. I am just looking for any contributions to take down the balance for me to a more manageable level. Thank you for reading. I am not figuring out how to add picture proof onto the post but I will try in comments.


r/Assistance • • 3d ago

REQUEST Help with bills until payday

2 Upvotes

Hey everyone,

I’m stuck in a hard place right now.

I work a job, nothing great, not bad. Usually I have enough money to pay my bills and have a tiny bit leftover for me.

Not this month. It’s the end of our work “season”, so hours have gone down from 60hours per week (nice OT) to 30hours per week.

Basically losing me $1200 last month. My company said they switch hourly over to salary at the end of season AND pay a bonus, so I was expecting salary pay for September and a nice bonus.

I did not get salary pay nor a bonus. I just barely scraped by.

Now I’m in the hole for $150 from car insurance payment overdrafting my account Friday.

I work hard. Have a decent little life.

But, I’m struggling and need help with $200 so I can bring my checking account current and put gas in my car to get to work (or find another job, but that’s another thing).

Please help if you can, and I always pay it forward.


r/Assistance • • 3d ago

REQUEST FULFILLED I need someone to send me $1 on Venmo, please?

3 Upvotes

Good morning, I know that asking for $1 probably sounds ridiculous, however, I accidentally over drafted my Venmo account by 85¢, and I am unable to add cash to the account until the overdraft is paid. It's the only form of electronic payment I have, and I use it to pay my bills. My electric must be paid on Monday to avoid disconnection, so I desperately need access to that account. Thank you.


r/Assistance • • 3d ago

REQUEST FULFILLED Left an abusive marriage and need help bridging the gap until my retirement refund arrives

3 Upvotes

Back in January, I left my abusive marriage. After years of being gaslit, verbally abused, and emotionally manipulated, I finally reached my limit and ended things. I have been trying to navigate our divorce, months of abusive texts and emails from my ex, and trying to restart my life among all of it. We hired realtors to sell our jointly-owned home. To help speed up the process, I moved out of the house into my own apartment, as our realtors told us they were optimistic they could sell the home quickly. That did not end up being the case.

Unfortunately, they ended up being largely ineffective at their job. Even though our home kept receiving positive feedback from potential buyers, the realtors could not manage to land a sale, even though other comparable homes in our neighborhood were selling for higher prices during this same timespan. We sat on the market for 5 months, and during this time, my savings basically dwindled. We have since switched to a new realtor, who is clearly much more competent. She is working fast with aggressive marketing strategies to try and sell the home soon, as she knows the financial situation is dire.

To help give me some stability in the meantime, I've decided to refund an old retirement account from a previous state that I lived in. There are only a few years of contribution in the account, and while I am unhappy that I won't be able to roll it over into my current retirement account, I need access to the funds now. The company told me that it will take 6-8 weeks for the refund to post to my checking account, meaning I have to find some way to bridge the gap until that happens.

I am trying to do everything I can. I've cut back on expenses, I'm going to start selling things on Facebook Marketplace, and I'm trying to look into gig work or contracting work to try to get money how I can.

I'm posting here to help build a financial buffer to keep me afloat over the next several weeks. EDIT: Based on the advice, I'm posting an Amazon wishlist for shelf-stable foods and hygiene products to reduce expenses. https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/13J0NPI9Y2XM1?ref_=wl_share

This would help to bridge the gap until my retirement funds arrive.


r/Assistance • • 3d ago

REQUEST Assistance With Move-In

0 Upvotes

Hello all.

I’m not going to take much time.

I work in aviation, I blew my shoulder cuff moving a mobile bridge adapter and I’m already disabled. I’m currently going through Physical Therapy. I was supposed to get paid and didn’t get paid which shorted me for a move-in fee. I’ve been living in a shelter in Virginia and commuting all the way to DC via train and I’m super tired. This is my only opportunity to get housing after being scammed by my old apartment.

It’s due Tuesday

“Total Due 48 hours prior to M/I Date in
CERTIFIED FUNDS ONLY”

356.00 is all that I’m asking for I’m willing to DM proof of the move in letter to anyone willing to assist. I’ve asked several others and nobody has anything.

Thank you for looking at my post!


r/Assistance • • 4d ago

REQUEST FULFILLED Help with vet bill

4 Upvotes

Hi all, my little dog has been peeing blood. We thought it was just stress from moving to a new home and life being chaotic. We took her in today expecting a $400 or less bill, but upon examination the vet found her bladder is full of bladder stones. Surgery will be $2900 and we are completely tapped out. We paid $359 for her visit, xray, antibiotics and anti inflammatories today, plus we are getting her prescription dog food, but the vet said these are just bandaids until we can get the money for her surgery.

I’ve never had to ask for help before, but between having to move in the last week and trips to a specialist for our son who has Crohn’s disease, I have to ask.

If anyone is willing to help, I would be forever grateful and will pay it forward as soon as we’ve stabilized again.

Here is the link to our GoFundMe https://gofund.me/2636f0a26

I also have Venmo if that is something you would prefer.

Thank you in advance for your consideration.


r/Assistance • • 3d ago

REQUEST Seeking help with hotel

0 Upvotes

I am homeless but had been working until July 4 when I had a car accident. I passed out behind the wheel. Doctors still can not determine why but I am still going through more tests to find out. I am now prone to passing out keeping me from working. I have submitted the application and documentation for SSDI. I asking for $68 towards a night in a hotel so I can stay out of the rain her in VA.
I have PayPal and cash app.


r/Assistance • • 4d ago

CLOSED OFFER Sandboxx letters to donate

12 Upvotes

I have 5 letters on the Sandboxx app that I will not be able to use, so I'd like to donate them to someone that currently has someone that needs them, for their service member.


r/Assistance • • 4d ago

REQUEST FULFILLED Pregnant toddler mom with history of pre-e. Help I ran out of aspirin

5 Upvotes

For a little bit of context we don't have a vehicle right now as our truck broke down and we had to sell it cause my husbands work was closed down permanently from bankruptcy, so we couldn't afford to have any maintenance done to keep it driving. We are behind on bills and don't have any family nearby to help is get to the grocery store.

I just need a little bit of cash to order baby aspirin to help manage my blood pressure. I am 28w along and at risk for getting pre-e again due to genetics. My son is also running out of milk. If we could order aspirin and milk we will be ok for right now.

I have venmo and Amazon

Request granted! Thank you!


r/Assistance • • 5d ago

REQUEST FULFILLED My 4 month old is almost out of formula and we desperately need help getting some!

43 Upvotes

Ive posted on fb groups in my area and I’ve tried to do surveys to get enough money to cash out for formula and nothing has worked. I work full time, bills are backwards but paid. I don’t have any money. I’m happy to show whatever proof necessary.


r/Assistance • • 4d ago

REQUEST FULFILLED Long sleeves for baby

3 Upvotes

Hi everyone, I am requesting some items for my baby. He is in need of some long sleeve shirts and long sleeve pajamas. (We have plenty of pants)

And of course diapers and formula are always welcome.

Luckily his first birthday is the week before christmas, only a couple months away (bittersweet), so I know he will get some clothing gifts at that time. But its already getting colder where I live so having some warm clothes to get through the fall would be great. I am not expecting the entire list fulfilled, I just added a few diff options for things.

I greatly appreciate all of you and am so thankful for anything gifted.

Here is my amazon list link:

https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/4SOF5ZUE46H?ref_=wl_share


r/Assistance • • 4d ago

REQUEST Help with uber fare to get home from work tonight & tomorrow?

3 Upvotes

I just started my job after almost of month of searching & I won’t get paid till Friday. I have bus fare for today and tomorrow but my job is in a rough area & they have me working second shift so I don’t get off till 10pm. I don’t mind taking the bus there but I don’t have mace or anything to carry with me and I’m really nervous to ride it that late alone. It’s usually like $20-$25, even if someone could just help me with one for tonight I’d really appreciate it!