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I feel like the amount of sexually active homosexual men that know very little about HIV/ U=U is pretty alarming. This effects us more then any other group of people and the amount of uneducated comments I see here are nuts so I'm going to answer the wildest misconceptions I've seen over my time on the internet with my own person experience as a undetectable person.

1. " I would never date somebody with HIV if they miss a dose of their medication now I have HIV too many risk."
2. - This is false there have been periods of time where I have had to be off my medication for a month+ due to moving to a new place and having to establish my new medical shit and I have never became detectable again. Missing a pill or two doesn't just kick your HIV back on.
3. "Even if they are undetectable they could still give it to me."

- Medically there is a .00000000001 chance of you getting HIV from a undetectable person its only .000000000001 because you can't 100% anything in a medical way human biology is too complex to 100% anything. Example paternity test if you are the father it will show 99.9999999999999 not 100%. Undetectable means untransmittable I have had alot of raw sex in my 8 years of being undetectable and I have never once gave it to anybody.

1. "Thats nasty that you would be with somebody with HIV"

- Nobody asked for HIV and it doesn't mean they deserve to be alone forever you don't know if they were cheated on, SA'd or even if they were just reckless it doesn't mean they are dirty or deserve less.

As a people, we need to do a better job of educating ourselves about STDs, especially if we’re sexually active. Stop spreading misinformation and pushing ignorant misconceptions onto others when you haven’t taken the time to understand the facts. Sexual health education is important, and the stigma surrounding STDs only makes it harder for people to have honest conversations, get tested, and seek treatment. Educate yourself before you Speak.

Hey everyone

I’m just posting this to vent, honestly.

I’m a closeted bisexual guy, and I hate it. I’m a rugby player, and today, after a game, I was hanging out with my teammates when they started talking about girls and how they care more about their appearance than their personality.

Then, one of the guys compared it to being gay. He basically said that even if one of his teammates was the greatest, kindest person he knew, he still wouldn’t like him if he was into guys.

What he said really got me thinking. How am I ever supposed to feel accepted in today’s society? I wish I wasn’t born liking both genders. It’s such a fucked-up world we live in, and I’m genuinely scared that one day my teammates will find out that I also like guys and stop respecting me because of it.

I know I shouldn’t care so much about what other people think of me, but it still hurts, yk? Especially when it’s people you spend so much time with, people you consider your teammates, and people whose respect actually matters to you.

I just wish I could be myself without having to worry about how people would see me differently.

I understand you wont get anyone if you have a small cock like mine (4.5x5.5”)? I thought maybe the gay community would feel more for the plight of the small guy, but I guess it’s the same in both gay and hetero worlds. Thank for you opinion!

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(M20)Today I’m planning on meeting multiple guys online, putting on makeup+panties and having them come over to fuck me. it’s always been a fantasy of mine to have multiple dicks in one day.

I’ve been celibate for most this year and I’m really trying to get rid of my guilt/fear of sexual pleasure. My goal is to meet 2-4 guys the most I’ve had in a day is just 1, I’m really excited and would love to hear any thoughts or experiences.(will most likely share how it went later..)

I an a straight guy but I do prefer gay porn over straight porn. It is super fucking hot. What type of gay porn do you guys prefer? Is it twinks or bareback? For me I love twink porn especially when their dicks are on some really tight bulge. Idk how much gay guys get off to real gay porn but yeah, let me know

I'm trynna see what you masculine guys - who are also tops - like? Are you more attracted to more feminine guys, more masc ones or something in between? I know there's no one type so I'm expecting to see various answers here.

I want to share my case and get your opinions.

Where I live, there has always been this masculine guy, a dude who lives relatively close to me. He is obviously a straight man, with a wife, but what always happens is that when we accidentally run into each other in our neighborhood, he sometimes stares at me for a relatively long time. I don't understand why that happens.

He has almost never talked to me, or just a few times, but there is always this obvious tension when we look at each other, and this has happened to me even with some other straight men.

Just to clarify, my appearance is normal, just a regular guy for my age, nothing extravagant that would make me stand out. The only thing is that I decided to change my style a bit these days.

Has this happened to any of you? Why do you think some straight, married, masculine guys do that?

Hi I'm me (30 bi m) one of my housemates walked into the house (29 f) fricking beautiful 9/10 and my first thought as she walked in was "hello darling" with a pink cocktail glass in hand" now for back Information I'm 90% sure I'm gay. But you know I'm not convinced. Any advice?

A am not, I think I won't try it because I've failed every time lol!

Hey guys. Is it normal that guys check out each other in the gym locker rooms? Im interested in boys as well but idk how to make things go further in this situation.

There's a guy I like who keeps checking me out, we always had an eye contacts only, never spoke. Like there used to be no topic to start a conversation with him from my perspective.
Once he used to show off his dick on front of me and I was so embarrassed that couldn't look at his direction.

I (20 M) bottomed for the first time. It was weird I felt feverish and felt like I had to pee. My finger tips and toes were numb, and my chest felt tight. So we pretty much stopped after that. but I’m wondering if anyone has felt like that before and if so, is that a normal reaction or should we take things more slowly

Like during a visit or clinical hours as risky as it may be?

Why do so many of you think sexual arousal equals sexual orientation?

I could give examples all day, but it seems like you all dismiss them left and right, acting as though it's utterly impossible for a straight guy to actually be straight if he messes around with a dude.

I'd use an example so obvious that you'd think it would settle the question, but honestly, it often feels like a waste of time. I genuinely don't understand the logic here, so maybe someone can explain it to me.

OK, OK. Let's start with something simple.

When something rubs against your dick and feels good, it feels good. That something could be any number of things. Maybe not broken glass, sure. Let's not get carried away. But physical stimulation can feel good regardless of who's providing it.

So let's say a guy enjoys the physical sensation of sex with another guy. How, exactly, does that establish that he's sexually attracted to that guy, or to men generally? Plenty of us have had sex with men we aren't attracted to, by the way.

Does the physical sensation suddenly become a reliable indicator of sexual orientation just because the person providing it is male?

What happened to all the other things that factor into attraction? The person themselves, their appearance, the circumstances, the psychology, the difference between enjoying a sexual experience and actually being attracted to the person you're having it with?

And what happened to the distinction between a particular sexual experience and a recurring pattern of attraction? You know, the thing we call sexual orientation?

I'm genuinely asking. Because so many of you seem absolutely convinced that if a guy does anything sexual with another guy, he's automatically gay or bi, and I still haven't heard a convincing explanation for why the behavior itself settles the question.

Arousal, pleasure, attraction, and orientation are related, but they're not interchangeable concepts.

So what am I missing here? Make it make sense.

I am curious about this as I know a lot of straight men have a fetish for women smoking cigarettes. There is an entire sub culture of porn around it. I want to know if the same thing exists for gay men and gay porn. I don’t see much in a Google search but have seen it mentioned on Reddit before.

What's everyone views about been a slutty cumdump. And best cities to practice this

I’m afraid that my 2” width (6” girth) might make anal sex really difficult, painful, or even impossible.

What do you guys think ?

Do you have experiences with this size (good or bad) ?

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My last post: https://www.reddit.com/r/askgaybros/s/39rrQKsGtT

So yeah I ended up meeting him lol. I was at his place for a little less than two hours. He was chill and didn't force me to do anything tbh. We chatted quite a bit and then went to his bedroom. I sucked him, but he didn't wanna suck me which was a turn off lol. He did fuck me dry, like not anal but that part where cheeks are and when you close your legs there's that hole that gets formed. He also claimed he was bigger than me, which he wasn't or maybe he was, but he said he wasn't fully hard so fair ig.

I somehow ended up fucking him raw. We did it for 5-7 minutes max and he was riding me. Idk why he let me fuck him but wouldn't suck me. Weird. Anyways neither of us came.

Idk how to feel about the whole thing. The experience was mid at best, but at least he was a nice guy. Maybe if he initiates, we could meet again. And yeah, I'm visiting my doctor over the weekend to get all the medical stuff sorted out 😭😭

I started talking to a married guy on Grindr, and honestly, the conversation was going REALLY well. We had great chemistry, were on the same page, and the conversation flowed naturally.

At one point, he mentioned that he was driving while texting me (bro, please don't text and drive 😭). Anyway, he told me he was about five minutes away from home. Those five minutes passed, and BOOM. Gone. No replies, not online, absolutely nothing. He just disappeared like he never existed.

I get that he might have to be discreet, but the timing was so ridiculously perfect that I couldn't help wondering.

Like, seriously, why are we always the side chicks?

My bf is Chinese and I sometimes watch amateur Chinese porn on Twitter. In those videos the sex is intense: the top fucks the bottom in an easy rhythm, the bottom starts squirting/peeing multiple times throughout and looks like he's in ecstasy.

I'm a bottom and my bf is verse but he'd never topped before dating me. He tops in our relationship but he was inexperienced before dating me.

His dick is quite thick, and takes a while of uncomfortableness and lots of lube to get inserted. When we try doggy style like in those videos, it feels painful/unconfortable to me. My bf never gets into a steady rhythm for a long time, and he will keep changing positions every 2 minutes.

I'm not gonna lie, I watch those videos and wish I could experience the same ecstasy at those bottoms. It feels like I'm missing out and I get envious.

I need ideas of places to have discrete sex

Hiee, I'm 19 and lately I have been getting into dressing feminine, and embracing my feminine side. And now a days I have this urge to get into ball busting. Slap my balls or punch them.
But the issue is that always I chicken out. I'll be horny asf, ready to slap my balls tightly, but then as soon as I go to slap them, I chicken out and stop. I really don't know how to control it. So please someone give me good tips and advice, so that i can stop this bullshit, and finally get into ball busting...

i need help