Hii

East Asian male here, mostly grew up in Vancouver and spent a couple years in Asia. I'll be turning 32 in about 2 weeks.

I've been on dating apps for awhile and honestly it's not the best experience but I'm definitely at fault as well. I'm looking to find a long term connection, preferably someone that can understand the struggles and perks of being bicultural.

A little bit about myself: I'm a mix of indoor and outdoor hobbies/interests (predominantly indoors / seasonal outdoors)

The usual snowboarding, hiking, swimming and sup

Gaming, anime, movies, manga, music (playing, collecting, and going to live music) and old man teas.

I don't drink or do any drugs, I have a kitten. My addiction is hotpot but please don't ask me which one is the best hotpot restaurant.

Appearance wise: really tall, more average to fit body build, not balding, glasses

Dunno what else to say here, feel free to ask me more questions. Also would love to ya so please share some info if and when you message.

May you enjoy hotpot like I do. Let us welcome the hotpot season.

I know what you’re probably thinking: “a post about playing wow together? That sounds awesome!”

Yes it’s true, it is awesome, and not nerdy in any way. With the game launching in November, I thought it would be fun to meet some people to game with.

Here’s a bit about myself:

I’m a 39 year old single dad. I have a great co parenting relationship with my ex and am not looking for someone to have to “be a mom” to my child. I am looking to build a long term, fulfilling relationship with someone. I am Persian, and grew up in Vancouver. I have a career in the film industry and I’m lucky in that I don’t have to really work every day.
I am 5’9, and a little on the dad bod side of things right now but am losing weight and working out. I would like my future partner to be health conscious too and I would love to have someone to go to the gym with. I like being both indoors and outside.

I’m a bit of a jack of all trades sort of person. I’m a little bit sporty, nerdy, intelligent, silly and most of all, I love to make people laugh. I can be pretty handy around the house as well although I need a lot of youtube videos 😂.

I used to do a lot of martial arts so my body is strong but I’ve had a couple of injuries in my life (torn ACL was a big one) that got in the way of continuing; well, that, and general life progression. I would love to get back into it though.

What I like:

I enjoy doing activities outdoors (like basketball, swimming, other fun sports), I like to cook even though I feel like I can get better. I love animals and am getting a cat in a few months. I love gaming and reading books and learning new things. I also love horror movies and movies in general, fall and winter are probably my favourite times of year! I would really love my partner to have similar interests, although I am open to many things that aren’t on my radar. I always aim to be there for those who are important to me.

I’m a bit of a romantic and I feel like I have a lot of love to offer. I really miss having someone there to talk to and being partners with.

I live downtown and would like to meet someone relatively close by.

What I am attracted to:

Kindness, intelligence, imagination, skills in art or singing. Family oriented mindset, knowing what they want. Having your life together (for the most part). I also think science is sexy 😂.

Thanks for reading, and if any of this sounds interesting to you please feel free to message me.
As a heads up, I will ask to exchange photos with people who message me (on a dating post, that’s crazy right?!)

Winds be at your back 🐮

I’m Emmanuel. I’m 30, 6’2”, tattooed, and based in Abbotsford. I’m mixed—Black and white. I work with trucks and heavy equipment, spend a good portion of my free time at the gym, and have two dogs who would probably consider this an application to join their household.

I’m into ’90s Japanese cars, motorcycles, hiking, video games, pool, good food, and Star Wars. Episodes 1–6. We can discuss the rest, but I can’t promise diplomatic relations. I’d also love to learn an instrument and understand more about music.

I don’t drink, and most of my favourite ways to spend time with someone are fairly simple: a walk with the dogs, lifting together, going somewhere for food, going for random drives, or hanging out at home because we actually enjoy each other’s company. I’d especially love having a gym partner because the gym is somewhere I feel at peace, and I like the idea of sharing that with someone.

There’s also a more sentimental side to me than the vehicles, tattoos, weightlifting, and nerdy side might suggest. Music really gets to me. Emotional highs and lows accompanied by music shoot directly to my soul. I often think a lot about the people I care about and the kind of life I want to build with whomever ends up beside me.

Family matters to me a lot. I raised my younger brother, and taking care of the people close to me has been a big part of my life. Long term, I’d like to move into counselling and eventually have a small dog rescue. Those are goals I’m working toward; my life is still under construction.

In relationships, I’m affectionate, direct, and invested when I feel connected to someone. Physical and emotional chemistry matter a lot to me, but so does enjoying the hours when we’re just talking, running errands, or doing nothing in particular. I want to admire the person I’m with and feel that the interest goes both ways.

I value consistency, consideration, and being able to disagree without losing respect for each other. I appreciate someone who can explain how they feel, hear my perspective too, and own their part when something goes wrong. I owe them the same.

The less polished part: I can overthink. When something hurts or feels unresolved, I can keep trying to understand it long after that stops being so useful. I don’t like leaving things in the air.

Marriage and children are the end goal for me. If I build that life, I want to do it with someone I’m compatible with and when I can support it responsibly.

I’d probably connect best with someone around 24–32 who’s affectionate, kind, active, and playful as well as thoughtful. An easygoing, go-with-the-flow personality would suit me well—someone with her own interests who also enjoys sharing ordinary parts of life. Preferably shorter than 5’9”, though that’s a preference rather than a requirement. Being comfortable with dogs is essential, including dogs on the bed. They’re pretty convinced it’s theirs already.

If some or all of this happens to resonate with you, and you are within a reasonable distance from Abbotsford, feel free to slide into the DMs :) If it works out, we can lie and say we met in a magical movie moment, y’know, for the plot.

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Hey everyone! I'm William, 26, based around White Rock / Surrey and working in Vancouver. Figured I'd give this a shot because apparently meeting your future wife doesn't happen by accidentally bumping shopping carts at Superstore like in rom-coms.

A little about me:

- Canadian, Japanese / Taiwanese, grew up in Hong Kong.

- Just under 6', fit, glasses, dark hair. Someone once said my dad and I look a bit like young Jackie Chan. I'll let you be the judge.

- British / Aussie accent. Don't make fun of me. I'm trying to become more Canadian by learning not to call someone a muppet during road rage.

- Work in Technology Services.

- Robotics engineering background, photographer, and creative.

- Proud owner of an 80s Porsche. Yes, I'm slowly becoming that classic car dad.

- Big fan of 80s music, movies, night drives, and exploring new places.

I'm a bit of an old-school gentleman. I'll remember your coffee order, bring you food after a long day, plan little adventures, and probably take way too many pictures along the way. I'm affectionate, goofy once I'm comfortable, and fully capable of making terrible 911 jokes with a completely straight face. Occupational hazard, perhaps.

So, what am I looking for?

Someone aged 20–28 who's kind, loyal, affectionate, family-oriented, and genuinely looking for something long-term. I'm dating with marriage in mind, not looking to collect situationships like Pokémon cards.

I'd love to find my best friend and future co-pilot. Someone I can laugh with over the dumbest things, go on spontaneous drives with, spend a lazy Sunday cuddling with, and eventually build a family with.

I appreciate the little things: good morning and good night texts, random check-ins, quality time, affection, and knowing we're both making an effort. I'm a firm believer that a relationship should feel like two people choosing each other, making each other feel wanted, and understanding each other's needs without having to constantly ask or beg. Life gets messy sometimes, but I'd rather work through things together than give up when they're no longer perfect.

I've generally connected best with Caucasian women through past experiences, partly because of shared interests in music, movies, and similar values. I know I give off the energy of a classic car dad who listens to Phil Collins and watches 80s blockbusters, so if that's your thing, we might get along. That said, genuine chemistry and compatible values matter most to me.

I'd also prefer someone local. Coffee, a day trip, an adventure, or a late-night drive sounds much better than becoming pen pals for six months.

If you're looking for something genuine too, tell me a little about yourself! What are you passionate about? What's your idea of a great first date? And most importantly, can you tolerate questionable dad jokes?

Maybe we'll hit it off. Worst case, you get a funny story out of it. Best case, we never have to use dating apps again.

Looking for help from y’all.

I’m (M) new to dating and so the apps.

So, as said, I’ve started using these dating apps very recently. Made a good profile, get matches now and then but I’m really not good at ‘opening moves’.

What you guys do to create or maintain that spark?

What are your opening moves? What do you all ask about to the new match?
Please share your thoughts! Any advice is appreciated!

Thanks all!!

Intelligent, happy, positive, and energetic man seeks a lady for in-person connection and dating. I’m caucasian and tall, standing 6'2. Divorced and single. If we have that special spark, with a deep connection, shared interests, and strong physical attraction then I’d happily pursue a long-term relationship. It’d be amazing to find my life-partner but I realize that is hard to find. For a life partner I want a lady who wants a family with a kid. I co-parent my 9 year old son. I’m good looking and slender. Multiple people told me my son is very handsome, good genes lol. Open to ladies in their 20's or 30's.

We are in autumn and with winter approaching and days with less sunlight on the horizon I am intentionally seeking female companionship. I am a capricorn and with a winter birthday there is even more reason to have feminine energy in my life to share cute dates and cozy activities when the days are darker.

I’m mature and stable with a future plan. The family oriented type who enjoys time with family, friends, and loved ones. I am grounded and know what I want and where I am going. My forte is planning, organization, and logistics. I enjoy taking the lead and planning dates. I put effort and creativity into dating.

I enjoy deep conversations about anything under the sun. I volunteer on the board of a non-profit related to wellness and spirituality. I am direct and an open communicator. I’ve also been getting into home renovations the past few years. One future project is my friend and I need to add insulation and dry wall to my garage, that is the last stage of the renovation. Who knows, might add a secret compartment or hiding spot in the wall lol!

Looking for fun, sweet, feminine, fit, thoughtful, playful ladies. I am attracted to slim and slender builds mostly and athletic and average ones too! We’ll exchange photos before meeting. I work at a university and get lots of vacation. I work from home a few days per week also. My love languages are time together in-person and physical touch. I have a high libido.

DM me if you feel we might be a fit. Open to ladies from other places if they’re willing to visit Vancouver, but Vancouver area locals would be ideal. I live in Richmond and I work in Vancouver.

Figured I’d give this a shot. A little nervous about posting, but hey, you never know. I’m 45, 6'2", single, and generally a pretty easygoing guy. I’m not exactly in peak physical shape at the moment, but I’m working on that and making some positive changes to my diet and lifestyle. I’m fairly active and enjoy getting out for longer walks, wandering around with a coffee, or just exploring the city.

Some of the things I’m into:

- Photography

- Movies

- Books

- Music

- Late-night coffee runs

- Gaming

- Making art

- Programming / learning new things

- Generally getting curious about random stuff and going down rabbit holes

Probably about 50/50 introvert and homebody. I’m perfectly happy going out for a walk, coffee, a movie, or some photography, but I’m equally happy staying in, playing a game, working on a project, or watching something together.

Looking to meet a woman who I can eventually build a genuine, long-term relationship with. I’m not really looking to force anything, though. I'd rather chat, see if we get along, and maybe grab a coffee or go for a walk and see where it goes.

I love animals and definitely miss having a cat or dog around. No food or animal allergies, so bonus points if your life comes with a furry roommate. If any of that sounds like your kind of person, feel free to send me a message.

Hi there, I am 32y old Fiji/ Sri Lankan. Educated and would say a good looking guy. I just moved from Victoria and looking for a date to hangout with and have a good time. Maybe for movies and concerts. Or eat an ice cream on a cold day 😋. If anyone thinks it might be a good idea dm me.

Also, I have a good sense of humour so be ready to have a good time.

Hey there. I'm 5'9", 160 lbs, brown hair and eyes, never married, no kids. I’m looking for a long-term, monogamous partner who values a low-key, peaceful lifestyle over the superficial stuff.

My idea of a great day is pretty simple: going for a walk, spending time at the beach, working in the garden, or grabbing a coffee and having a real conversation. My main passion is electronics repair and troubleshooting, but I also love film and digital photography, listening to music, movie nights, and cats.

I’m loyal, honest, emotionally grounded, and a solid communicator. I'd love to meet a woman who is kind, intelligent, gentle, and healthy/fit, who is looking for a genuine connection and something that lasts. I am serious about finding someone who's is looking for the same thing, and I ask that you are too :-)

If you’re looking for a low-drama, authentic guy to share a fun and quiet life with, feel free to drop me a DM!

Hello! I just moved back to Vancouver after spending most of my mid 20s to 30s moving around the province for work or living with family. I lived in Vancouver when I did my undergraduate and graduate degree at UBC but being back in the city without school as an anchor sure feels strange!

Looking to meet someone who is looking for something genuine and long term. I love long walks, reading, good coffee, rainy days, lifting heavy and cooking and baking. I work from home most days but do go into the office every now and then. Kindness, empathy, ambition, and taking things slow are things I really value. Also, I'll add that I'm a South Asian (Punjabi) female, but born and raised here in beautiful BC.

After giving the dating apps a shot and realizing they’re probably not for me, I figured I’d give Reddit a chance ( a friend recommended to try it), so here I am!

A little about me: I’m a 31-year-old Sikh male, born and raised in Canada. I own and run my own business, and I’m pretty active and health-conscious. I love trying new food (definitely a foodie 😄), traveling, staying active, and enjoying life.

I’m hoping to meet someone who is genuine, mature, and actually looking for something serious. I’m open to getting to know someone and seeing where things go. feel free to message me and tell me a little about yourself!

Also Please no one younger than 26

Hello. I am 39M, 5'10". Giving this subreddit a try. I wasn't born in Canada but I grew up here for most of my life.

Here are some facts about me:

• Currently working as an engineer
• Enjoy running, tennis, cycling and circuit weight exercises
• Enjoy outdoor hikes, events around the city, checking out new restaurants
• Down time hobbies include reading (Currently reading The Miracles of the Namiya General Store), video games, anime, cooking, shows, board games, etc

Looking for someone around my age and don't mind older as well. Ideally looking for long term if there's good chemistry and we get along. Feel free to message me if you like!

Hello, I’ve been thinking about making this post for sometime now, and have come to the conclusion, what better time than now :)

First things first, I am a Big and Tall man, 5’11”, 350 LBS. So, if you are not interested in my body type, I don’t want to waste anyone’s time, including my own.

Second, I am born in Canada to a big beautiful Panjabi Family. I may not be completely connected to my own culture as some people, but I have a lot of love and respect for where my roots come from.

Recently, as i’ve slowly been getting back into the dating scene, I’m noticing something I’ve really come to miss, which is slow and intentional relationship building.

I had joined a few dating apps, and felt they were really fast paced environments that were mostly focused on superficial character traits, no one really has patience in getting to know some body, with way too many options available at our finger tips, along with beauty standards being the driving force behind who we decide to communicate with.

I haven’t had too many conversations via reddit, but I do feel that - it is more positioned with a focus on conversation.

A bit about me, I think I’m equal parts homebody as I am adventurous. I enjoy creativity, and creating unique art. I love going to galleries and museums, I have a major passion for music and film, so you can definitely find me searching for new venues to experience both of those things.

I’m a curious individual, exploration and finding random connections is important to me. I haven’t got the opportunity to travel much in the last few years, but it’s definitely something I’m very fond of.

For my next trip, I would love to take a trip somewhere like Barcelona, to see the insanely creative and magical architecture of Antonio Gaudi live and in person with my own eyes.

I love taking pictures and filming memories, you can say that dating me would be like having a professional photographer with you 24/7 :P

I’m hoping Reddit can help me find the kind, empathetic, and ambitious girl who is waiting for me, so we can explore this beautiful lifetime together.

Hey Vancouver! I recognize this isn’t for everyone and I respect that :) but if you’re curious to know more please message me and let’s chat!

I’m Toronto based, visiting Vancouver for work in November - I’m 35, career focused, respectful, handsome (so I’ve been told) tender and funny and lots of fun to be around (so I’ve been told lol)

I’ll be in Vancouver for a few days in November, looking to chat with someone sane, get to know each other and go out on mini dates while I’m in town if we get along. Fun walks, fancy dinners, fav drinks and maybe a cheesy movie. Open to more if we both feel it.

If you’ve been craving affection (like me) and looking for someone sane, who can hold a conversation and treat you well, let’s chat and hopefully hang out while I’m in town.

Xo

Giving this a try. I've lived in Vancouver my entire life and just trying to put myself out there (again) to find somebody.

I'm a 6'4 man currently holding a little bit of weight (not obese, but i am overweight and currently losing lbs as we speak, hoping to be at a healthier BMI by next year). I've been told I look like a cop when I have my rain jacket on, but aside from my potentially intimidating exterior I think I'm a nice guy. I enjoy hiking, brewery hopping, board games, travelling, and occasionally video games which I do not play as often anymore.

Currently I work in IT and have for almost the past 10 years. I'm currently studying accounting part time and may try switching careers by the time I'm 40, we will see. I own my own apartment in North Surrey and have for 10 years. I have my own car as well.

Im looking for someone in the late 20s to late 30s age range who shares some of the same interests. Politically, I am moderate and not looking for extremes on either side. Additionally i also want to start a family.

Thanks for looking!

It’s starting to get colder,darker and rainy weather. Perfect time to hunker down with some comfort food, something nice to watch and good company to keep each other warm.

Average body sized Caucasian Vancouverite here looking for a woman who loves cuddles and spooning as much as I do. This can be more than platonic if we both have good vibes. Hope everyone is having a good long weekend

I am really looking for someone that is serious about getting to know each other, and has the time to do so. I am not superficial at all, not into flashy things like cars or money. I am 5'9 brown hair and eyes, honest, authentic, non judgemental and a great communicator. I've never been married and have chosen not to have kids. I want someone who likes to lead a quiet, but fun life, going for romantic walks, to the beach, having great conversation, watching movies, and just enjoying being with each other no matter what we do. Someone who is bright, gentle, kind, fit, healthy and empathetic. If you like any of this feel free to DM me.

Looking for someone in Vancouver I could spoil for time to time. Mainly weekend or Friday nights, i can be flexible. I've had one before back in toronto, I enjoy the shopping and the fun dinners. Working a ton coming up so hoping to find someone fun a quick night away! Pretty girls with cute laughs to the front please lol. I'm fit and still playing sports when i can also would love a gym buddy. I enjoy attending small band concerts here in van and trying new food/experience when presented. Just came back from some travelling too so I have some decent stories to tell. Dm with a little info, thanks!

I recently moved from Calgary (originally from Edmonton) and I haven't really had much luck with apps. I'm interested in finding someone for a long term relationship (monogamy) that shares similar values, is a bit of a nerd, and a bit silly/goofy. I align most with alt culture but am a non-smoker and that is very big deal breaker for me if you do.

I'm a nerd, working on being heavily tattooed (just have my legs done for now), and spend most of my free time after work listening to music or playing video games. I go to the gym a few times a week but haven't been since I moved (have been sick a lot). I've travelled to Europe for metal concerts so hoping to find someone that would be interested in that too.

Hello,

I guess a little about myself... first, a disclaimer: I was a male model in my late teens to early 20s, chosen for quite a few Gothic/dark settings. I'm a bit older now; appearance-wise, I look slightly older, but not exactly typical. I'm also very soft-spoken, with an obsession with education and credentials—I work a lot. Probably (and is) a deal breaker for many.

Aside from that, when I was younger, I finished high school early, then went straight into culinary school while working as a cook, then went into hairdressing school. I then apprenticed at Suki's, became a stylist, and an agency and employer pressured me into modelling.

Fast forward a bit, I went to school to become a machinist, millwright, and industrial electrician (got Red Seals in all 3). Somewhere in there, I finished a Bachelor of Technology in Construction Management at BCIT. Right now, I'm having fun pursuing another Bachelor of Technology in Geographical Information Systems and just starting my MBA.

I enjoy watching movies, cooking, and staying fairly fit/active by going for long walks/runs in the evening. Right now, I teach trade mathematics to apprentices across all trades, and I work part-time as a PM/estimator/geospatial data analyst on contract. I do my best to stay occupied with various projects.

Anyway, I'm fairly laid-back socially overall. I'm only interested in something long-term, maybe leading to marriage. I'm really not interested in flings or becoming perpetual pen-pals... life is busy as it is...

Looking for someone bright, intelligent, caring, gentle and fit that appreciates living a lowkey life. I am not into partying or anything like that. I don't have any kids, never been married. About me: I am 5'9/160 brown hair and brown eyes, I like going for walks, going to the beach, gardening, diy projects around the house, nature photography (digital and film), I do a lot of electronics repair and troubleshooting (my passion). Love to watch movies, listen to music, go for coffee and just enjoy each others company. Send me a DM if ny of this interests you!

I haven't been on a date in about 8 years. I am sober for alittle over a year and have bipolar and bpd traits. I've done a few rounds of dbt therapy and am stable on meds for quite some time.

Im in my 40s and own my condo flat out and have almost a million dollars in assets. I have a dozen people I can call friends for support. I have hobbies. I have a good government job and am successful in many ways. I weigh about 250lbs 5'10" i've been called attractive by a few people i've dated but unattractive by my longest partner of 9 months.

I didn't start dating until i was 30 as I was a hard-core drug addict that cleaned up in 2012 and haven't used hard drugs since then.

How does one even find someone who will date me with a history like this? I've dated someone in recovery which was a disaster.

I’m a little apprehensive about posting this because I did this in a much smaller city before moving here and there were still nasty responses from misogynists, plus I’ve also dated some people and I guess it’s a little embarrassing whenever exes see such posts/you on dating apps. But, you never know what’s out there if you don’t put anything at risk, I guess?? I live in New West so slightly out of Vancouver city proper. I’m progressive, bold, bookish, and really like karaoke. I don’t know if this will show up but my insta is @/ sarahmeilyana and I basically have my dating app profile as my pinned post so you can have a look to see if we’d be compatible. Either way, I wish you all the best of luck, and please, please be kind, thank you!

edit (mon, oct 12): i don’t think there’ve been any compatible potential suitors so far. I would also like to ask for a read-through of my insta pinned post and for responses to be based on if you think we’d be compatible, because i line it out quite intentionally and clearly there, i think. I’m truly not looking for followers nor admirers, and i wish the best of luck to everyone, i may not be the one (i cannot be the person for all of you, and it’s really not about whether you’re the quickest nor most aggressive nor insistent), but may we all find our most compatible partners ♥️