r/vancouverdating • • 16h ago

Age 26-29 29 [F4M] Giving this a try because it can't be worse than the apps, right? XD

10 Upvotes

Hi! I'm Ray. I'm 29, live in Downtown Vancouver, and ideally looking for a long-term partner (but like, let's be so fr, it's hard in this economy LOL). For now, I'm looking to meet people, get to know each other, and see if there's long-term compatibility. If it doesn't turn into a relationship, I'm still open to building a great connection, going on dates, having a good time together, and seeing what comes of it. I'm also very open to an FWB arrangement, but I need the friends portion just as much as the benefits portion.

A little about me:

I'm 169 cm / 5'7", femme-presenting, tattooed, childfree (now and forever), ADHD, and living a pretty liberal, mostly alt lifestyle. ENFP, chronic hobbymaxxer, and generally just someone who likes dabbling in everything.

I do a bunch of artsy stuff (paint by numbers, drawing, painting, embroidery, photography/editing), love cooking, am a huge weeb, enjoy TV shows and horror movies, and partake in the devil's lettuce pretty regularly 🌿. I love a good night out, especially for raves and concerts, but I'm equally happy rotting at home (maybe a bit more). Think of me like an indoor cat lol. I also enjoy hiking, camping, and going to the gym. Also love a random adventure.

Basically, I contain multitudes. I have a pretty active social life and a good number of friend groups, but I'll absolutely make time for someone I'm intentional about.

I'm growth-oriented, fairly self-aware, have a high sex drive, and value honesty and communication. I'd much rather we communicate openly than play guessing games. If we're not vibing, we can just be adults about it!

What I'm looking for:

Someone emotionally intelligent, kind, socially aware, and growth-oriented. Someone who's open-minded, takes care of their health, likes animals (especially cats), has their own friends and passions, and ideally enjoys cooking. Sharing some hobbies would be great, but you definitely don't need to share all of mine.

I'd also prefer someone who's wants to remain childfree and comfortable with my lifestyle.

Physical attraction matters to me, so for transparency, I'm generally looking for men who are at least 5'11".

If any of this sounds like your kind of person, send me a message! Tell me a little about yourself, what you're into, and what you're looking for. Let's see if we vibe. :)


r/vancouverdating • • 10h ago

Age 30-39 39 M4F Korean guy looking for long term connection

1 Upvotes

Hello. I am 39M, 5'10". Giving this subreddit a try. I wasn't born in Canada but I grew up here for most of my life.

Here are some facts about me:

  • Currently working as an engineer
  • Enjoy running, tennis, cycling and circuit weight exercises
  • Enjoy outdoor hikes, events around the city, checking out new restaurants
  • Down time hobbies include reading (Currently reading The Miracles of the Namiya General Store), video games, anime, cooking, shows, board games, etc

Looking for someone around my age and don't mind older as well. Ideally looking for long term if there's good chemistry and we get along. Feel free to message me if you like!


r/vancouverdating • • 16h ago

Age 30-39 M4F - Looking for a situation to explore a unique kink

0 Upvotes

I have a rather different and unique kink that I would like to explore a bit more.. I've been hesitant to ask people about it though but am wondering how best to approach the conversation. 

Anyways, it's nothing bad, but I don't know that I want to write it here. If you're curious, feel free to DM me, and we can maybe talk about it. 


r/vancouverdating • • 16h ago

Age 22-25 M4F 25yo Kinky Middle Eastern Guy Looking for Vancouver/Surrey BC Sugar Babies / Doms / Sadists

0 Upvotes

Hey I’m just a chill kinky guy, looking for women who are down to kick my nuts hard. Older or younger is fine, I’m experienced with both. I’m 5’5” 165lb average fit build. It’s a ballbusting kink so I love the pain, ideally looking for something long term. Shoot me a dm and let’s get the ball rolling…. I mean kicking!


r/vancouverdating • • 9h ago

Age 30-39 37 year old unvaxxed looking for life partner best friend m4w

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17 years in my trade, 37 year old canadian, 7th generation, looking for some one to grow old with best friend , love cooking gardening art nature and trying new things, unvaxed for covid, vaxed for every thing else