If you love Jesus/your pastor and you don’t want to stress your mind today, just skip this post. Let’s go.

Not all men of God are narcissists.

But positions of power and influence in various areas tend to attract people of a narcissistic disposition.

I met one prominent pastor-musician during some church fundraising ceremony he had organized, and it was evident that the guy was there on business while people were busy falling about all over him in Jesus’s name.

You just gotta respect the hustle, man.

I grew up around narcissistic people and I’ve studied them since childhood.
When you’ve interacted with as many narcissists as I have, and if you have ever confronted a narcissist, you start to identify their manipulation tactics pretty easily.

So this Gashumba guy went out and challenged pastors who claim to heal diseases like cancer and AIDS, to take the healing to hospitals, much like modern-day Jesus might have done, in order to demonstrate God’s power to the people and erase all doubt.

This video is an excerpt from Pr Kayanja’s response.

Manipulation comes naturally to narcissists, which is why they can easily influence masses of people to believe and do anything they say.
Look at our politics for example. Look within your families. You can tell who is a narcissist, and having an audience or position of influence really increases their power and sense of superiority.

The most straightforward way to identify a narcissist is by watching how they respond to confrontation. Narcissists are ultimately afraid of being exposed or seen as less than they portray themselves to be.

When someone challenges or even merely questions their authority or legitimacy, they see it as an attack or an attempt to expose them and they start to scramble about, trying to restore their “image” through various manipulation tactics and even threats.

There’s this one technique narcissists like to use called DARVO - Deny the existence of the problem or Deflect attention from the issue at hand, Attack the character of the person who has confronted them, and Reverse Victim and Offender ie turn themselves into the victim to gain sympathy from anyone who can listen.
And obviously, pastors already have a ready audience and platform which gives them a safe space to influence the minds of unsuspecting people.

So let’s watch this video together and break it down. This is just a case study, so feel free to let us know if it was taken out of context.

Deny/Deflect:
At no point during this video does our pastor address the actual issue at hand.
Some guy is here challenging pastors who claim to heal serious illnesses to go do it in hospitals so that people can believe and come to their churches.

Despite not having been targeted outright by the statement, the pastor has chosen to take this as an attack on his business ministry and has instead framed the topic as a warning against “young people attacking elders”, using “young people” as the easiest scapegoat in this situation.
He mentions that it’s not even in African culture for young people to “mock” and “ridicule elders”. He even mentions the Ugandan constitution to emphasize the gravity of the matter.

In all these many words, he still does not address the actual statement, why he is offended by it, or what might be the thought process/ motivations behind it.
It would be easier for him to say “God is working through me, I have nothing to prove.”
Or even not to say anything at all, since he’s innocent and apparently not concerned with Gashumba’s claims.

But the pastor can’t allow his sheep to feel safe having any small doubt about his seniority, so he frames it as the “spirit of mocking in Uganda” and condemns it ASAP.

Attack:
The pastor goes ahead to attack Gashumba’s character, claiming him to be a liar who attacks everybody including the Katikkiro, the president, and even the Catholic Church.
Yet again, a lot of words unrelated to the actual topic at hand. He has successfully distracted his followers.

Since he already has the sympathy of the church in his defamation sexual assault case, he sacrifices it and brings it up here, but still framing Gashumba as the main offender behind the case and glazing over the actual incident.

Suddenly Gashumba is a horrible man. He abuses people and calls them foolish and stupid, so he is positioned as having no credibility. Gashumba is now a liar and a horrible person who tried to frame our pastor for a horrible thing. The actual victims or details of the case are not addressed. It is merely a distraction. Are you following?

Reverse Victim and Offender:
When someone says “enough is enough, you have crossed the line”, you instantly imagine that this person has undergone so much injustice and they are now ready to stand up for themselves. It is a statement that immediately evokes sympathy.

Kayanja has already listed a number of fellow “victims” of Gashumba’s evil mouth, as proof that he is a bad man who should not be emulated by Kayanja’s good followers of Christ.

He launches into a recollection of some bomb incident that happened at his church, and equates Gashumba’s statements to an actual bomb threat. He implies that Gashumba is no different from the terrorist as he has also threatened to bring “a bomb” to the church to “finish them”, and resorts to threatening him with the same “bomb” to “finish him” instead.

Meanwhile I’m pretty sure there are people who say much worse things about pastors and the church, but Gashumba poses a bigger threat, having the platform and influence that he has.

Bonus tactic - Extremist language
If you listen carefully, you will find that narcissists when confronted tend to use extremist language to make a point and stir people’s emotions.
“Waging war against the church”
“Destroying people”
“Attacking elders”
“Enemies of the church”
“Beware”
“Terrorist”
“Finish him”

This is not to derail Christians or their beliefs, or to say that Kayanja is a narcissist/fake pastor or Gashumba is totally innocent, or whatever whosoever said was right or wrong.

This is intended to identify the ways in which narcissists hide behind positions of power and influence, and also the ways they react to confrontation/being exposed. Fortunately or unfortunately, this video demonstrates a typical narcissist’s reaction accurately.

Go home and listen to your leaders. Think about the interactions you’ve had with family members/friends. See if you can identify anyone with these characters from the signs we have discussed above. (100 marks)

And it is possible that you yourself might be the narcissist so don’t just go pointing fingers. They love to do that too.

Anyway don’t come at me but I feel like anyone whose entire career and wealth is built on “spreading the word of God” is an automatic red flag. Otherwise everyone is welcome to believe what they want.
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I wasn't happy with the course all along, plus despite the struggles I faced while at campus, missing lectures and tests doing odd jobs to survive.

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I'm not against people who actually fought. Luweero happened, people died, nobody serious denies that. My problem is how it's used as a trump card in every single conversation. Question the budget, "we went to the bush." Ask why your cousin with a first class degree is jobless, "we went to the bush."

It's not even just us complaining on Reddit. Col (rtd) James Mwesigye, a commissioner for RDCs, said last November that the "we went to the bush" chapter is nearing its end, and admitted the liberation identity has at times created a sense of superiority among some officials. When someone inside the system admits that, kati what are we even arguing about. This is the same man who encouraged civil servants to openly support the President, which is not exactly what the public service code says.

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And the real ordinary veterans? More than 5,000 of them have been camping at a primary school in Kiboga since 2017, waiting on compensation they say they were promised. So it's not even the guys who fought who are eating. It's the ones who talk loudest about it. Govt keeps saying Shs230 billion has been paid out, so where is it going?

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big question: Have you ever witnessed a miracle that you believe was real, or should claims of miraculous healing be backed by evidence?

Can faith and modern medicine work together, or do you think some religious leaders make promises they cannot prove?

A heated debate has emerged in Uganda over faith, miracles, and the role of pastors in healing.

Frank Gashumba has challenged claims about miraculous healing, arguing that people who are seriously ill should seek proper medical treatment. Pastor Robert Kayanja and other religious leaders have become part of the wider discussion about faith and miracles.

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The XR channel has a mix of enthusiasts, entrepreneurs/creators interested in using the tech, and people learning how to work with it.

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I asked my personal AI agent

"I want you to go window shopping for cooking ware with an 80,000 to 200,000 price range. Consider power consumption and best specs."

"Do a charcoal comparison"

It's a good start. The graphs on pricing and comparison with charcoal are attached.

The analysis by Eskai:

ERA/UEDCL announced Q4 2026 tariffs on 5 October, and the domestic rate is now UGX 779.4/kWh. The 756.2 figure I gave you earlier was the Q1 2026 base; it's superseded. That's a ~3% increase, and it matters because the whole verdict on charcoal hinges on it.

The Q4 domestic structure is tiered:

• First 15 kWh/month: UGX 250 (lifeline)

• 16–80 kWh: UGX 779.4

• 81–150 kWh: UGX 412

• Above 150 kWh: back to UGX 779.4

Updated list at 779.4

Every row roughly 3% dearer than before, but the ranking is unchanged. The one that jumps out is the Hoffmans infrared single hob: UGX 1,169 per use — the most expensive thing on the sheet to actually run.

The charcoal comparison — and it's closer than I'd have guessed

Charcoal in Kampala is UGX 2,000/kg (a 50 kg bag runs 98,000–120,000; bought in small tins it's more like 2,500–3,000). Charcoal carries ~30 MJ/kg, so 8.33 kWh/kg — but a typical Ugandan metal stove only delivers 15–25% of that into the pot.

Cost per useful kWh of heat actually delivered to the pot:

• Charcoal @ 20% stove efficiency: UGX 1,200

• Infrared hob @ 779.4: UGX 1,199 — dead level

• Hot plate coil: UGX 1,113

• Rice cooker: UGX 974

• Air fryer: UGX 917

• Pressure cooker: UGX 866

So at the full domestic rate, buying an infrared hob to replace charcoal saves you essentially nothing. It's a cleanliness, smoke and convenience purchase, not an energy one. The saving comes from the efficient appliances — the pressure cooker above all.

Head to head on the same tasks: rice UGX 360 charcoal vs 273 electric; a fried batch 660 vs 491; a long bean stew 1,440 vs 522 on the pressure cooker. Monthly, at 2.75 kg/day: charcoal UGX 165,000 vs electric UGX 135,655 — an 18% saving, with payback on any of these units in 4–5.5 months.

The catch you need to see before deciding

That rosy "57% cheaper" figure on the chart holds only if the household stays inside the 81–150 kWh band. Full electric cooking needs about 174 kWh/month, which on its own blows past the 150 cap — and every unit above 150 reverts to 779.4. So a household that switches everything to electricity gets the 18% saving, not the 57%.

The winning move is therefore partial substitution: cook rice, frying and pressure-cooker dishes electrically — the three things that genuinely beat charcoal — and leave the long, low-value simmering on charcoal. That keeps total consumption under 150 units, lands you in the 412 band, and captures the large saving. If you electrify everything, you price yourself back out of the cheap tier.

Revised recommendation

• Buy the Pixel 7L EPC (160,000) — it's the only appliance that beats charcoal decisively on running cost (866 vs 1,200 per useful kWh), and it's the one that displaces the most expensive charcoal task.

• Then the Sonashi SRC-318 (160,000, 273/use) or the Globalstar 7L air fryer (139,999, 491/use).

• Skip the hob as an energy play. At parity with charcoal it buys you no savings — only if you want the smoke and soot gone is it worth the 115,000.

Two caveats worth holding: the charcoal price is the softest number here, and if you're buying in small tins at 2,500–3,000/kg rather than by the sack, electricity wins by a much wider margin. And my per-use figures assume typical duty cycles, so treat them as comparative rather than as a prediction of your bill.

Shifting to electricity only if it were reliable makes perfect sense.

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