r/R4R30Plus • • 4h ago

39 [F4M] #Online/Anywhere looking for friends

17 Upvotes

Hello!

Looking for someone 37+ to talk to about anything, would like to share laughs, thoughts, discussions, nothing super serious, just looking for friends.

*Must have a great sense of humor and not easily offended.

Would prefer to make this a long term thing as I do enjoy getting to know people.

Also please respect the fact that I might not respond in .2 seconds because I might be busy since I have a 9-5…however I’ll definitely respond!


r/R4R30Plus • • 51m ago

36 [F4M] #LosAngeles - Online Friendship or Occasional Coffee Dates

• Upvotes

Hi there! I’m 36F, based in Los Angeles. I work from home, which can get pretty isolating, especially when life has been a little heavy lately.

Just looking for someone to talk to, laugh with, and unwind with every now and then. Nothing complicated, just genuine conversations, a little humor, and a break from the everyday routine.

Would love to connect with someone around my age or older who’s easygoing, kind, and can hold a good conversation. Happy to chat online, or grab coffee occasionally if you’re nearby!

Sometimes it’s just nice to have someone to talk to.


r/R4R30Plus • • 4h ago

[F4M] 33F//anywhere

13 Upvotes

Hey everyone! This is super weird for me to be doing this but I’ve recently found myself feeling pretty lonely and in need of some new connections.

I’m a 33 y/o female with two small children. I work full time grave yard shifts so huge plus if you’re a night owl like me!

I’m really just looking for someone to connect with, friends, more? Who knows?! Possibilities are endless.

I enjoy reading, travel, music, movies all things nerdy and video games. I’ve been working out regularly which is new for me and it’s been great actually! I like to go out and do things but I’m also totally cool just chilling out playing games or hanging out.

Cheers!


r/R4R30Plus • • 9h ago

34 [F4M] #Thailand #Anywhere

14 Upvotes

Im here looking for good conversations, genuine connections, and hopefully a meaningful relationship.

If you are looking for the same things, feel free to DM me. Please be between 28 and 45 years old.


r/R4R30Plus • • 1h ago

[M4F].34FI'm looking for friends I can talk to openly. Anyone interested?

• Upvotes

I’m 34 years old and currently living a quiet, structured life on my own. I enjoy the peace and routine of everyday life, but life isn’t always perfect, and sometimes it would be nice to have a close friend to talk with and share the joys and experiences of life.I’m hoping to meet kind and genuine people who enjoy meaningful conversations. If you’re also looking for someone to talk to and share your thoughts with, feel free to send me a message.I’d be happy to get to know you and learn more about each other


r/R4R30Plus • • 10h ago

36 [F4R] FindingDory

9 Upvotes

Trying to find my online bestie whom I can talk to about literally anything. Someone who could be as clingy as me.

About me: asian, into fitness and gardening. Have two dog, 5 cats and a husband. I used to work in Customer Service then Pandemic happen, bought a land in the province and made it into a Campsite.

My time is flexible hence I started to watch those AI short dramas. I need somebody to save me before I think that could be a lost heir of a Mafia or Conglomerate family. 😅


r/R4R30Plus • • 8h ago

31 [M4F] UK/Online - Tall Man looking for nerd queen

5 Upvotes

Hello wonderful people!

Just as an aside, I have this as NSFW but I am happy with SFW chats! Happy with both.

About me:

Just moved to a new city and looking for penpals and friends to talk to online! I’m a big nerd, currently building my Ultramarines army (and painting it!) learning how to draw alongside reading and slowly finishing my large steam collection. I enjoy most nerd activities, and always wanting to learn about new things!

Appearance: I’m 6’5” and I’m an active individual. No six pack, but I do keep myself fit. Always happy to send pictures after we get to know each other, so don’t worry.

About you: honestly, just provide good conservation! Tell me about your hobbies, or your life. 18+ though please!

Speak soon, hopefully!


r/R4R30Plus • • 2h ago

38 [M4F] Phoenix, AZ. Moving to a new city, starting over

2 Upvotes

Hello there.

I'm moving to Arizona soon hoping for better things, or a change. Unfortunately life has just stagnated into the same rutt and routine. I'm deciding to start fresh in a new state, and see what life brings.

I work as a truck driver. I used to do long haul, over the road driving. But looking forward to what new opportunities Phoenix has to offer. It's a good living, and it's fun and enjoyable. I get to see the country and enjoy the things each state has to offer.

When I'm not driving I enjoy spending my time reading, fishing, camping, watching horror movies, playing the occasional game when I have time. I enjoy nature and like to spend time outside when I can, especially near bodies of water. Whether it be the ocean, lakes, or rivers, I'm happy. I tend to be a home body though more often these days, preferring to spend my nights in quietly relaxing.

I'm looking for someone that I can spend my days and evenings with. Someone I can connect to, and grow with over time. I love the constant messaging, sending memes and gifs to each other, good mornings, and good nights. Checking my phone just to see if they've replied yet. Perhaps one day getting to finally meet in person.

I'm not looking for anyone in particular. Looks, age, background don't really mean so much as long as we're able to connect. As long as we can hold a conversation and get to know each other. I love a good and sometimes dark sense of humor, and someone genuinely curious.

I look forward to hearing from you!


r/R4R30Plus • • 5h ago

35[F4M] Describe your most passionate hobby without using the actual word

1 Upvotes

Looking for something different, an interesting conversation with quick banter and good back and forth. I have had some good conversations so far.

I leave you with this: I like looking at printed words on paper while my brain processes the information and vividly imagines scenarios based on said text.


r/R4R30Plus • • 7h ago

42 [M4F] east coast USA - let’s open each others baggage

3 Upvotes

-42 divorced dad of 2
-healthcare professional in stressful environment
-loves music, concerts, culture, travel
-iso friends and new experiences , different opinions and attitudes
-hobbies; animals, sports, golf, exercise, philosophy
-active and handsome
-will share pics
-in search of meeting new people, not necessarily love (does it exist?)


r/R4R30Plus • • 4m ago

34 [M4R] It's dangerous to go alone! Take this(me)!!

• Upvotes

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Hey!

Hope you're having a good day so far! I miss having internet friends to chat with on a regular basis so I thought I'd try my luck.

I've always been the supportive friend, the shoulder to cry on friend and I'm happy to let you vent if need be!

I'm into the usual average nerd activities: reading, dungeons and dragons, magic the gathering, video games (Ff tactics and marvel rivals atm), writing when I get motivated, etc!

I also love the outdoors and everything in it. I try to get to the gym 3-4 times a week, dabble in a few instruments and I love writing music. I'm awful at painting but I enjoy it.

Personality wise, I'm pretty introverted, sarcastic, people pleaser to a fault and I get lost in my daydreams more than I'd like to admit haha. I'm kind of a social chameleon so I find that I can get along with just about everyone!

Anywho, reach out if you think we'd get along or if you're looking for someone to talk to! I look forward to hearing from you!


r/R4R30Plus • • 3h ago

32 [M4F] #MA #Eastcoast Looking for something genuine

2 Upvotes

About me: I work full time as a creative professional and have a huge passion for art and design. My love for art also extends to music, video games, and writing. I'm always down for a day at a museum, going to a concert, or watching a movie together that we pick out from the library.

More about me:

Dog dad

Sober

College educated

Leftist

Gamer

Enjoys heavy music (hardcore, metalcore, etc)

Always trying to make someone laugh.

If this interests you feel free to send me a DM! Happy to exchange a selfie.


r/R4R30Plus • • 6h ago

33 [F4M] Northeast US - Giving this a try!

3 Upvotes

Hey everyone,

I’m 33, never married, no kids, and live in the northeast US. I’ve been hesitant about dating apps after hearing some of my friends’ experiences, but I also know that if I want to meet someone, I have to put myself out there. This is that attempt.

I would say I’m more of a homebody and enjoy my own company. However, I do love the beach, trying new restaurants, and doing fun activities. I’m also open to learning about other people’s hobbies/passions.

Things I enjoy are cooking, baking, taking care of my houseplant collection, reading and watching documentaries. I also have a dog! Shes my little buddy. I take her for walks and make sure she’s living a good doggie life.

I’m naturally a caring person and enjoy doing thoughtful things for the people in my life. I’m big on making the little things feel special! I’d love to find someone who appreciates that and puts in the same effort.

I’m looking for a genuine connection that could lead to a long term relationship. Looking forward to how this goes.


r/R4R30Plus • • 4h ago

[M4F] 40 Ontario/Online - Looking for someone to chat with every day

2 Upvotes

Good day! I am a 40 year old, plus sized Canadian man who is looking for someone to talk the day away with for the foreseeable future. Online friendship is the goal, but nothing is off the table. I'm looking for someone who enjoys long conversations, shares at least some interests, and has a curious mind.

The about me section: my top bringer of joy is media consumption. I have a Friday night movie club and always have a show running in the background while doing my day to day stuff at home. I listen to audio books while driving and read while traveling by bus/train/plane. Science fiction is always my top genre of choice.

A lot of my happy fun times are nerd related. I enjoy trivia, sharing fun facts I learn and learning fun facts from people. I collect trading cards, Pokemon so I can share with my niece and MTG so I can trade and play with my friends. I build Legos and build/paint miniatures as a calming exercise. I have a high end computer (and a steam deck) that I game on, though lately I found I only really have been playing casual games. I have done a lap around the world, but haven't really traveled in a long while, though I'm hoping to start doing it again soon.

If any part of the blurb above sounds interesting, please feel free to send a message. Let me know your age, where you're from, what you're looking for and what you're up to right now.

Hope to hear from you soon!


r/R4R30Plus • • 1h ago

37 [M4F] #NYC - Who else loves autumn/spooky season and wants to grab seasonal pumpkin/apple hot drinks?

• Upvotes

Ok so I don't have anything specific in mind, but since you clicked on this post you were clearly thinking of something, too! I just want to check out a nice cozy cafe I haven't been to and even if we just both read a book or brought a sketch pad along to draw, that would be a good time for me. I'm also open to suggestions/plans if you think of something else autumn-y to do! Of course, let's definitely get to know one another a bit on here first :)

Just a little bit about me:

I bake! Cookies, brownies, pies, muffins, and cakes of varying sizes.

I draw stuff on my phone! Trying to get better at figure drawing mostly, humans and animals alike.

I usually eat very healthy, despite my love for baking sweets. I'm always in need of a taste- tester haha. I also work out to keep in shape.

I'm nerdy! I love things like Lord of the Rings, Dark Fantasy stuff like Dark Souls, and D&D.

Anyway, if you think we'd have fun conversation and possibly a meetup, shoot me a DM! Cheers!


r/R4R30Plus • • 5h ago

32years old [M4F] Don't mind anyone around the world but preferably Europe because of time difference !🫡

2 Upvotes

Hellou hellouuu!

Im 32 year old guy from Slovenia, super chill on earth guy, looking for consistent daily chat😁!

People describe me as a emotionally mature, highly emphatic and caring person 😄

Im a 186cm, stronger build, ex pro handball player and now youth coach for under 12 team! I have been vice champion with girls under12 team and now decided to swap to boys team and replicate the success!
Always been in sports even with my congenital heart defect (It has its own sad but happy end story which i dont mind telling).

Love to game on off nights, watch movies/animes (atm i don't have one to watch), take care of my family animals, go out on walks, i'm finding allot of interest in golf lately and my "childhood" love for Pokemon cards(freakin expensive hobby nowadays) 😂

I am really good cook, love to make all type of food especially Balkan and Italian food 😅 I do love too do BBQ outside with family and friends !

We got quite few animals, horses, cats,

Names of horses 🐎🐎 (Anika, Taivas).

Names of 🐈🐈🐈 🐈(Shadow, Fiona, Snowfie, Josie).

Plus i dont mind sending selfie later in chat ! 🫡

Dm's are open and i hope to find some meaningful people to chat with!🤗


r/R4R30Plus • • 8h ago

39 [M4F] #Kentucky looking for a new connection

3 Upvotes

39M looking for new friends in the Reddit-sphere

WANTED: Friends with humor & good music taste.

Southeastern US here, looking to meet some cool people & make genuine friendships.

I'm into punk rock, metal, working out, cooking, traveling, photography, true crime, cryptids, & comedy & horror movies.

Questions for the fellow weirdos out there:

What's your favorite music? Favorite bands or the album you could listen to on repeat.

What's your escape from reality? Music, traveling, gaming, getting lost in nature, cooking, or disappearing into the woods to avoid society for a bit? What's your refuge when life gets overwhelming?

Pretend that you wake up tomorrow & find out you're living in a horror movie. Are you choosing a slasher, a haunted house, a zombie apocalypse, or something supernatural?

What's your favorite snacks?

Pick any of the questions above.

Come say hey!


r/R4R30Plus • • 6h ago

31 [M4F]

2 Upvotes

Hey recently divorced caught her cheating after being tg for 12 years. Haven’t been with anyone else but her since I was 19. Just looking to see what’s out there dm me if you’re interested in chatting.


r/R4R30Plus • • 2h ago

49[m4f] Ontario Canada

1 Upvotes

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I'm looking for people to chat with. I hope to find a best friend that can lead to a future together.

I'm divorced and have 26 year old son. I got divorced about 20 years ago.( This seems to matter to alot of people)

I spent the early part of my life being completely focused on work. Long hours. I let my friends slip away over the years. I've learned from this experience. Work is just something that pays the bills now.

My hobbies include pc gaming, watching movies, and occasionally reading. I do enjoy camping in the summer months.

I'm very introverted and prefer to just stay home. I hate writing things like this about myself. But hey if you read this far send me a message and include the word purple. Good luck.


r/R4R30Plus • • 15h ago

35 [M4F] Sydney,Australia — Looking for besties, not ghosties 😂

11 Upvotes

Going through a bit of a rough patch, have way too much free time on my hands, and my brain has decided to be an absolute pest. So I’m looking for someone to yap with regularly and distract me from my own thoughts for a bit. A win-win, really.

I’m after the kind of friendship where we can talk pretty much every day, share absolutely random nonsense, rant about our lives, overshare without filing a formal apology, and be completely unfiltered without wondering if we’ve said too much. Basically, someone I can call a bestie without having to check if they’re still alive every three business days. 😂

I’ve got mates already, but there’s something nice about connecting with someone new, having a laugh, and building a friendship where things just feel easy. No need to make everything a complicated situation. Sometimes a good conversation and a bit of harmless chaos are all you need.

A bit about me: I work in tech, go to the gym, play cricket, occasionally swim, and enjoy F1, gaming, travelling, scenic drives, beaches, mountains, and the outdoors. I’m into thrillers, mysteries, horror and action, and I’m always up for random questions and unnecessarily passionate debates.

Also, I’m a dad to a sassy daughter who seems to have been born with the authority of a Supreme Court judge and the attitude of someone who pays the mortgage. I’m basically middle management in my own household. 😂

One flaw : I barely listen to music unless I’m driving, so if you’ve got a playlist for every emotion known to humanity, I’m clearly a lost cause.

Ideally, I’m looking for that something happened and you’re the first person I want to tell kind of friendship. Good banter, mutual effort, the occasional deep chat, and absolutely no need to pretend to be a well-adjusted adult 24/7.

If you can hold a conversation, match a bit of chaos, and don’t disappear after two decent chats, come say hi.

Besties, not ghosties. I’m begging the universe to get this one right. 😂


r/R4R30Plus • • 7h ago

39 [M4F] Houston TX lawyer seeks new partner!

2 Upvotes

Where to begin?

I'm not someone who has been in a tremendous number of long-term relationships. My most recent relationship lasted about 15 years. The last time I actively dated social media was just being born and there was no such thing as dating apps. I am thus a little overwhelmed of where to even begin.

Whats Most Important:

Right now the most important thing in my life are my kids. If that would present a problem for you, I suggest swiping left (or up or down, or whatever the saying goes [see how out of touch I am?]). With that being said, I love kids and am open to having more kids with the right person. :)

My Career:

I'm a lawyer but not your traditional lawyer. I have my own hybrid law-firm and consulting practice. While I do practice traditional 'law', the biggest part of my work is providing consulting services to large fortune 500 companies and other entities. This means most of my work is done remotely, which means................ I can work anywhere in the world, which means...........

My Hobbies:

I love to travel. Traveling is probably my favorite thing to do in the world. Fortunately, I am not limited by time or availability to travel because my work allows me to do so. I'm open to visiting anywhere in the world, especially spontaneous travel decisions. :) My favorite places right now is anything tropical, especially anything to do with beaches, water, or boats!

My newest hobby is cooking. I scrapped junk food and soda a few years ago. I have been getting better and better at cooking as the years have gone by. I enjoy trying to learn new recipes, especially those from other countries.

I try to keep active. I like to go to the gym, rock climbing, and nature walks / hikes. At my age, fitness and keeping on top of your health is really important to me.

Since I have kids (and because im a kid at heart), you will find me playing PS5 with my kids (or sometimes without them) or giving my son a video game walkthrough on how to get through his game over Facetime.

My Personality:

While I am introverted, most people don't expect it. Because of my job/career, I'm a tremendously outgoing person when the time calls for it. I'm often the last person who wants to leave a get-together or party. I enjoy socializing with new people.

A huge part of my personality is making other people laugh. Some of my efforts may fail epically but I live for the challenge. You can think of me as the lawyer Michael Scott...

I am very wide and flexible with interests. I LOVE to learn about new things and subjects. I'm probably the most well-rounded person in this aspect. For example, at a party I may be talking to one person about last night's sports stats, another person about the Roman Empire, another person with stock news, and another person on who got voted off the island last night. So I won't pigeon hole (is that a word?) myself as a 'sports guy' or a 'movie buff' or a 'fantasy nerd' etc, because I'm a little of everything I find interesting. :). I like meeting new people that have interests I haven't been exposed to yet!

What am I looking for:

I'm looking for someone to partner with. In a perfect world, I am looking for the following traits:

Has a good sense of humor and like to laugh.

Has the travel bug and likes to visit new places (lets go to every continent in 2 years!)

Is willing to try my cooking (even if you have to be honest if my latest creation is terrible hah!) or even better cook with me....

The more versatile your interests, the better! For example, this might be someone who is down to go an art museum 1 day, a sports-game on another day, and to see a dumb horror movie on another day!

Is independent and career focused. This isn't a deal killer for me but I would enjoy learning about my partner's career and goals. if you are a working professional, it would be the icing on the cake, but again not an absolute requirement.

Enjoys their feminine side.

Someone who values fitness. You don't have to run an ironman or anything. However, I would like someone who would enjoy going to the gym with me or doing runs with me.

On the same token as above, someone who values nutrition. I ended my junk food phase a few years ago. This doesn't mean I don't like to go out to eat (i do so several times a week). It is just that I would rather prefer removing myself from the temptations of fast food drive-throughs and a fridge stocked with soda bottles.

Lastly, I'm looking for someone who values touch, intimacy, and has a great heart. Where to begin? Maybe I should have began with these points because that forms the bedrock of a relationship with me.


r/R4R30Plus • • 7h ago

38 [M4F] Ohio/Anywhere - Bearded, tattooed elder emo looking to meet someone similar and interesting.

2 Upvotes

Dating around NE Ohio is a nightmare. At least for me. I have tried the apps, and the bar scene and I really haven’t found anyone that seems to be for me long term.

I figured I’d try out Reddit and see if someone cool would want to chat ! Super into music, stand up comedy, gaming, and most other nerdy things. Definitely feel free to say hey in my DMs. As long as this post is up I am still looking! Hope to chat with someone soon.


r/R4R30Plus • • 3h ago

52M [M4F] - looking for online relationship - preferable NA/EST

1 Upvotes

Interested in finding my person either online or in person. Can be casual but I'd like something long-term in future. Pretty simple guy interested in music, outdoors, reading, gaming and cooking. Not opposed to age gaps if values and goals align.


r/R4R30Plus • • 5h ago

39 M UK [M4F]

1 Upvotes

I’m a 39-year-old guy from the uk looking to make some new online friends

I enjoy reading, watching TV shows and films,going for walks, and spending time with my dogs, I'm hoping to find some people with similar interests but am open to talk about most things feel free to drop me a message


r/R4R30Plus • • 5h ago

39 [M4F] East Coast/Canada - Having a quiet day, would enjoy to connect with someone new

1 Upvotes

Hope you are having a great day, Here is a little bit about myself. When it comes to activities outside work, I enjoy spending time on my boat the most in the summer months. If not doing that, I like keeping active while playing sports, hiking or having a good time with friends.

During the week, I’m busy in with work, which includes travel and long days and some nights on occasion. I speak a couple languages also

Physically im medium built, 6’2” with blue eyes. Im hoping to meet someone who enjoys life as much as I do, Which has a big heart, is caring and fun to be around. Im not the best to describe myself, but at least you get somewhat the picture before reaching out.