r/R4R30Plus • • Jun 24 '24

ANNOUNCEMENT: Technical Issues

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POSTING IS ONCE AGAIN OPEN.

The auto moderation system has been somewhat wonky the last few days. We think we have corrected the issue. It has been sending posts to the spam system incorrectly and en masse. That should no longer occur, or at the very least be infrequent. IF your post does not appear, do not delete it. Message us via the mod mail system and we can check on it. If you do delete it manually, we are unable to diagnose the problem. Hopefully this is the last fix we need to do, but we may have to suspend posting again if this happens so we can get it sorted. PLEASE do not message us asking for access during these times, as it bogs down our mail system and increases downtime. The requests will not be granted. We ask for patience while we work on these issues.

Thank you for your time and understanding. Have a good day.


r/R4R30Plus • • 5h ago

39 [F4M] #Online/Anywhere looking for friends

16 Upvotes

Hello!

Looking for someone 37+ to talk to about anything, would like to share laughs, thoughts, discussions, nothing super serious, just looking for friends.

*Must have a great sense of humor and not easily offended.

Would prefer to make this a long term thing as I do enjoy getting to know people.

Also please respect the fact that I might not respond in .2 seconds because I might be busy since I have a 9-5…however I’ll definitely respond!


r/R4R30Plus • • 1h ago

36 [F4M] #LosAngeles - Online Friendship or Occasional Coffee Dates

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Hi there! I’m 36F, based in Los Angeles. I work from home, which can get pretty isolating, especially when life has been a little heavy lately.

Just looking for someone to talk to, laugh with, and unwind with every now and then. Nothing complicated, just genuine conversations, a little humor, and a break from the everyday routine.

Would love to connect with someone around my age or older who’s easygoing, kind, and can hold a good conversation. Happy to chat online, or grab coffee occasionally if you’re nearby!

Sometimes it’s just nice to have someone to talk to.


r/R4R30Plus • • 4h ago

[F4M] 33F//anywhere

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Hey everyone! This is super weird for me to be doing this but I’ve recently found myself feeling pretty lonely and in need of some new connections.

I’m a 33 y/o female with two small children. I work full time grave yard shifts so huge plus if you’re a night owl like me!

I’m really just looking for someone to connect with, friends, more? Who knows?! Possibilities are endless.

I enjoy reading, travel, music, movies all things nerdy and video games. I’ve been working out regularly which is new for me and it’s been great actually! I like to go out and do things but I’m also totally cool just chilling out playing games or hanging out.

Cheers!


r/R4R30Plus • • 10h ago

34 [F4M] #Thailand #Anywhere

14 Upvotes

Im here looking for good conversations, genuine connections, and hopefully a meaningful relationship.

If you are looking for the same things, feel free to DM me. Please be between 28 and 45 years old.


r/R4R30Plus • • 1h ago

[M4F].34FI'm looking for friends I can talk to openly. Anyone interested?

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I’m 34 years old and currently living a quiet, structured life on my own. I enjoy the peace and routine of everyday life, but life isn’t always perfect, and sometimes it would be nice to have a close friend to talk with and share the joys and experiences of life.I’m hoping to meet kind and genuine people who enjoy meaningful conversations. If you’re also looking for someone to talk to and share your thoughts with, feel free to send me a message.I’d be happy to get to know you and learn more about each other


r/R4R30Plus • • 5h ago

35[F4M] Describe your most passionate hobby without using the actual word

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Looking for something different, an interesting conversation with quick banter and good back and forth. I have had some good conversations so far.

I leave you with this: I like looking at printed words on paper while my brain processes the information and vividly imagines scenarios based on said text.


r/R4R30Plus • • 1h ago

43 [F4M] West Coast/PST - Soft cryptid seeks other soft cryptid for scary movies and sarcasm

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I'm a little shy and super nerdy. I own my place, but my two dogs and elderly mom have acquired squatters rights (I love them all unreservedly.) Looking for eventual offline, but I'm stuck in Central CA for a good while (the woes of buying a house are many.)

I'm soft in the ways that matter; heart, humor, hugs. I overthink, I cry at dog commercials, I love cozy things and I’m really good at turning a bookstore trip into a themed adventure. Also I'll talk about horror movies, k-pop, and cooking until actively told to stop, so there's that. I'm also plus-size, but working on it actively. If that's not your thing, no hard feelings, just don't be a dick about it.

I'm looking for something steady and safe. Painting dates, inside jokes, swimming and then napping in the sun. Someone who’s emotionally grounded but still silly sometimes. Someone who doesn't mind holding hands through a grocery store. Someone who feels like vulnerability can be strength and whose love language is hugs, a cup of tea, and a fuzzy blanket.

Things you can do to make me like you: talk about your passions, teach me your weird hobbies, talk about movies and books with me, or invite me to your DnD game. If you can do all of those, you're over 40, AND you're in PST, you jump to the front of the line!

Not into hustle culture, life is too short and you can't get the time back.

Super liberal. Feminist. Polyglot. Your kids are great, I don't want any. Ever. No, really.


r/R4R30Plus • • 1h ago

38 [F4M] The Battle of Boredom

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Hi internet strangers! I don't know about the rest of you guys but I'm absolutely exhausted and looking forward to the weekend. Now that I'm in my pajamas and relaxing I'm feeling much better, but I'm also bored out of my mind and would love some company this evening, so here I am again.

I'm a single mother and a huge dork. I enjoy movies, art, poetry, history, and writing most of all. I'll probably talk your ear off about my dumb characters haha. Maybe we could even write together! I also love cooking and reading when I'm not busy adulting.

If you've messaged me before, just give me a little poke. My apologies if I got super busy and it totally slipped my mind to reply haha. Looking forward to hearing from you! Have a lovely day.

P.S. PLEASE don't use AI to generate a message. It's painfully obvious when you do and it doesn't even make sense haha, just talk to me!! 😅


r/R4R30Plus • • 4h ago

32 [M4F] #MA #Eastcoast Looking for something genuine

3 Upvotes

About me: I work full time as a creative professional and have a huge passion for art and design. My love for art also extends to music, video games, and writing. I'm always down for a day at a museum, going to a concert, or watching a movie together that we pick out from the library.

More about me:

Dog dad

Sober

College educated

Leftist

Gamer

Enjoys heavy music (hardcore, metalcore, etc)

Always trying to make someone laugh.

If this interests you feel free to send me a DM! Happy to exchange a selfie.


r/R4R30Plus • • 10h ago

36 [F4R] FindingDory

8 Upvotes

Trying to find my online bestie whom I can talk to about literally anything. Someone who could be as clingy as me.

About me: asian, into fitness and gardening. Have two dog, 5 cats and a husband. I used to work in Customer Service then Pandemic happen, bought a land in the province and made it into a Campsite.

My time is flexible hence I started to watch those AI short dramas. I need somebody to save me before I think that could be a lost heir of a Mafia or Conglomerate family. 😅


r/R4R30Plus • • 9h ago

31 [M4F] UK/Online - Tall Man looking for nerd queen

6 Upvotes

Hello wonderful people!

Just as an aside, I have this as NSFW but I am happy with SFW chats! Happy with both.

About me:

Just moved to a new city and looking for penpals and friends to talk to online! I’m a big nerd, currently building my Ultramarines army (and painting it!) learning how to draw alongside reading and slowly finishing my large steam collection. I enjoy most nerd activities, and always wanting to learn about new things!

Appearance: I’m 6’5” and I’m an active individual. No six pack, but I do keep myself fit. Always happy to send pictures after we get to know each other, so don’t worry.

About you: honestly, just provide good conservation! Tell me about your hobbies, or your life. 18+ though please!

Speak soon, hopefully!


r/R4R30Plus • • 3h ago

38 [M4F] Phoenix, AZ. Moving to a new city, starting over

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Hello there.

I'm moving to Arizona soon hoping for better things, or a change. Unfortunately life has just stagnated into the same rutt and routine. I'm deciding to start fresh in a new state, and see what life brings.

I work as a truck driver. I used to do long haul, over the road driving. But looking forward to what new opportunities Phoenix has to offer. It's a good living, and it's fun and enjoyable. I get to see the country and enjoy the things each state has to offer.

When I'm not driving I enjoy spending my time reading, fishing, camping, watching horror movies, playing the occasional game when I have time. I enjoy nature and like to spend time outside when I can, especially near bodies of water. Whether it be the ocean, lakes, or rivers, I'm happy. I tend to be a home body though more often these days, preferring to spend my nights in quietly relaxing.

I'm looking for someone that I can spend my days and evenings with. Someone I can connect to, and grow with over time. I love the constant messaging, sending memes and gifs to each other, good mornings, and good nights. Checking my phone just to see if they've replied yet. Perhaps one day getting to finally meet in person.

I'm not looking for anyone in particular. Looks, age, background don't really mean so much as long as we're able to connect. As long as we can hold a conversation and get to know each other. I love a good and sometimes dark sense of humor, and someone genuinely curious.

I look forward to hearing from you!


r/R4R30Plus • • 7h ago

33 [F4M] Northeast US - Giving this a try!

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Hey everyone,

I’m 33, never married, no kids, and live in the northeast US. I’ve been hesitant about dating apps after hearing some of my friends’ experiences, but I also know that if I want to meet someone, I have to put myself out there. This is that attempt.

I would say I’m more of a homebody and enjoy my own company. However, I do love the beach, trying new restaurants, and doing fun activities. I’m also open to learning about other people’s hobbies/passions.

Things I enjoy are cooking, baking, taking care of my houseplant collection, reading and watching documentaries. I also have a dog! Shes my little buddy. I take her for walks and make sure she’s living a good doggie life.

I’m naturally a caring person and enjoy doing thoughtful things for the people in my life. I’m big on making the little things feel special! I’d love to find someone who appreciates that and puts in the same effort.

I’m looking for a genuine connection that could lead to a long term relationship. Looking forward to how this goes.


r/R4R30Plus • • 11m ago

35 [M4F] UK based but open to all over.

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35M from the UK, but happy to chat with people from anywhere in the world. Currently working fulltime in healthcare whilst doing a degree for the job im in.

Looking for some fun conversations, good banter, and someone who appreciates a healthy amount of sarcasm. If you can take a joke and give as good as you get, we’ll probably get along 😂

Bonus points if you have a dog (I will absolutely ask for pictures ) or have some good TV/film recommendations. I need more things to watch and more reasons to ignore my responsibilities.

Come say hi!


r/R4R30Plus • • 16m ago

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r/R4R30Plus • • 7h ago

42 [M4F] east coast USA - let’s open each others baggage

4 Upvotes

-42 divorced dad of 2
-healthcare professional in stressful environment
-loves music, concerts, culture, travel
-iso friends and new experiences , different opinions and attitudes
-hobbies; animals, sports, golf, exercise, philosophy
-active and handsome
-will share pics
-in search of meeting new people, not necessarily love (does it exist?)


r/R4R30Plus • • 29m ago

34 [M4R] It's dangerous to go alone! Take this(me)!!

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Hey!

Hope you're having a good day so far! I miss having internet friends to chat with on a regular basis so I thought I'd try my luck.

I've always been the supportive friend, the shoulder to cry on friend and I'm happy to let you vent if need be!

I'm into the usual average nerd activities: reading, dungeons and dragons, magic the gathering, video games (Ff tactics and marvel rivals atm), writing when I get motivated, etc!

I also love the outdoors and everything in it. I try to get to the gym 3-4 times a week, dabble in a few instruments and I love writing music. I'm awful at painting but I enjoy it.

Personality wise, I'm pretty introverted, sarcastic, people pleaser to a fault and I get lost in my daydreams more than I'd like to admit haha. I'm kind of a social chameleon so I find that I can get along with just about everyone!

Anywho, reach out if you think we'd get along or if you're looking for someone to talk to! I look forward to hearing from you!


r/R4R30Plus • • 32m ago

43 [M4F] #Texas, Alpine - Seeking introverted friend for talk, stress-free companionship, and adventure. NSFW

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Hi. I'm Luke. I'm 43, divorced, I live in Alpine with my dog Elvis. We keep to ourselves mostly and go on adventures. Looking for someone to sit by the campfire with and stay up late with having meaningful conversations.

I don't drink, so hanging out in the bars isn't really my thing. I don't mind if you do, but if that's your primary passtime we probably won't have much in common. I find myself increasingly antisocial as the years go by and I'm not really sure why, but I'd like to have at least one real life friend within a couple hours drive. Benefits nice, but optional.

I do photography, particularly astrophotography, play music, and work on interesting tech projects. I like creating stuff and it would be cool to spend time with someone else that does too.

I'm looking for people that are within 200 miles of Alpine that I can actually sit across a table from and talk to in real life.

If you're alone out here in the desert and want someone to talk to, eat dinner, watch a movie, sing with, or go on an adventure - I'd love to hear from you.

Have a great weekend


r/R4R30Plus • • 36m ago

30 [M4F] Virginia/Anywhere — What have you been nerding out over lately?

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Hey, I’m Lazarus, 30, from Virginia. I’m looking for a serious, monogamous relationship with someone I can be affectionate with, joke around with, and share my life with.

I’m white, 5'11, with brown eyes and dark brown hair that’s almost black, with a bit of early grey that runs in the family. I’ve been getting into exercising lately.

I’m a homebody and pretty quiet at first, but once I’m comfortable, I get goofy. I like getting into character and making up stories when I’m gaming, which is probably why I enjoy D&D so much lol.

I’ve played WoW since I was a kid on my dad’s computer, and I also enjoy ESO, Final Fantasy, and Total War: Warhammer 3. I love survival and building games where you can start with almost nothing and end up with a home or an empire. I’m also into anime and manhwa, so I’d be happy to swap recommendations or watch something together.

I own my home, don’t drink or smoke, and love my doggies. One of them is a chiweenie named Taco. A quiet evening gaming or cuddling up watching something is very much my kind of thing, but I’d enjoy trying things you love too.

I’d like someone affectionate and honest, who enjoys a little teasing and wants to make time for each other. I want to hear about what you’re excited about, even if I know absolutely nothing about it yet. Being able to ramble about our interests, laugh at something stupid, or just enjoy each other’s company sounds good to me.

Long distance is fine to start. I prefer texting first, then voice once we’re comfortable. Webcam isn’t something I’m comfortable with right now, but I may be open to it later.

If we had an evening to spend together online, what would you want to do? Tell me a little about yourself and what you’ve been into lately.


r/R4R30Plus • • 5h ago

[M4F] 40 Ontario/Online - Looking for someone to chat with every day

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Good day! I am a 40 year old, plus sized Canadian man who is looking for someone to talk the day away with for the foreseeable future. Online friendship is the goal, but nothing is off the table. I'm looking for someone who enjoys long conversations, shares at least some interests, and has a curious mind.

The about me section: my top bringer of joy is media consumption. I have a Friday night movie club and always have a show running in the background while doing my day to day stuff at home. I listen to audio books while driving and read while traveling by bus/train/plane. Science fiction is always my top genre of choice.

A lot of my happy fun times are nerd related. I enjoy trivia, sharing fun facts I learn and learning fun facts from people. I collect trading cards, Pokemon so I can share with my niece and MTG so I can trade and play with my friends. I build Legos and build/paint miniatures as a calming exercise. I have a high end computer (and a steam deck) that I game on, though lately I found I only really have been playing casual games. I have done a lap around the world, but haven't really traveled in a long while, though I'm hoping to start doing it again soon.

If any part of the blurb above sounds interesting, please feel free to send a message. Let me know your age, where you're from, what you're looking for and what you're up to right now.

Hope to hear from you soon!


r/R4R30Plus • • 1h ago

37 [M4F] #NYC - Who else loves autumn/spooky season and wants to grab seasonal pumpkin/apple hot drinks?

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Ok so I don't have anything specific in mind, but since you clicked on this post you were clearly thinking of something, too! I just want to check out a nice cozy cafe I haven't been to and even if we just both read a book or brought a sketch pad along to draw, that would be a good time for me. I'm also open to suggestions/plans if you think of something else autumn-y to do! Of course, let's definitely get to know one another a bit on here first :)

Just a little bit about me:

I bake! Cookies, brownies, pies, muffins, and cakes of varying sizes.

I draw stuff on my phone! Trying to get better at figure drawing mostly, humans and animals alike.

I usually eat very healthy, despite my love for baking sweets. I'm always in need of a taste- tester haha. I also work out to keep in shape.

I'm nerdy! I love things like Lord of the Rings, Dark Fantasy stuff like Dark Souls, and D&D.

Anyway, if you think we'd have fun conversation and possibly a meetup, shoot me a DM! Cheers!


r/R4R30Plus • • 5h ago

32years old [M4F] Don't mind anyone around the world but preferably Europe because of time difference !🫡

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Hellou hellouuu!

Im 32 year old guy from Slovenia, super chill on earth guy, looking for consistent daily chat😁!

People describe me as a emotionally mature, highly emphatic and caring person 😄

Im a 186cm, stronger build, ex pro handball player and now youth coach for under 12 team! I have been vice champion with girls under12 team and now decided to swap to boys team and replicate the success!
Always been in sports even with my congenital heart defect (It has its own sad but happy end story which i dont mind telling).

Love to game on off nights, watch movies/animes (atm i don't have one to watch), take care of my family animals, go out on walks, i'm finding allot of interest in golf lately and my "childhood" love for Pokemon cards(freakin expensive hobby nowadays) 😂

I am really good cook, love to make all type of food especially Balkan and Italian food 😅 I do love too do BBQ outside with family and friends !

We got quite few animals, horses, cats,

Names of horses 🐎🐎 (Anika, Taivas).

Names of 🐈🐈🐈 🐈(Shadow, Fiona, Snowfie, Josie).

Plus i dont mind sending selfie later in chat ! 🫡

Dm's are open and i hope to find some meaningful people to chat with!🤗


r/R4R30Plus • • 8h ago

39 [M4F] #Kentucky looking for a new connection

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39M looking for new friends in the Reddit-sphere

WANTED: Friends with humor & good music taste.

Southeastern US here, looking to meet some cool people & make genuine friendships.

I'm into punk rock, metal, working out, cooking, traveling, photography, true crime, cryptids, & comedy & horror movies.

Questions for the fellow weirdos out there:

What's your favorite music? Favorite bands or the album you could listen to on repeat.

What's your escape from reality? Music, traveling, gaming, getting lost in nature, cooking, or disappearing into the woods to avoid society for a bit? What's your refuge when life gets overwhelming?

Pretend that you wake up tomorrow & find out you're living in a horror movie. Are you choosing a slasher, a haunted house, a zombie apocalypse, or something supernatural?

What's your favorite snacks?

Pick any of the questions above.

Come say hey!


r/R4R30Plus • • 6h ago

31 [M4F]

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Hey recently divorced caught her cheating after being tg for 12 years. Haven’t been with anyone else but her since I was 19. Just looking to see what’s out there dm me if you’re interested in chatting.