r/Christianr4r • • Nov 11 '17

Christian and Ready to Mingle??? Step up and Post!

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Welcome to Christian R4R, where your search for the perfect match for Mr./Ms. Right, or Mr./Ms. Right Now begins. Post your age, gender, and gender you're looking for, then tell us a little about yourself. Sit back and wait a couple moments, then hit refresh to see all those posts wanting to see your spiritual side.
Example Title 1: [25M] [M4F] Eastern US looking for my Cathodox wife
Example Title 2: [19F [F4R] UK looking for Christian fellowship, friendship, and good Apostle jokes.
In your post, tell us a little about yourself. No one likes a low-effort post; have some fun with it and show us what makes you special.
Example of Low-Effort Post: Hi
Don't be this person. You can do better.
Example of Good Post: Hey, thanks for wanting to get to know me! I'm a 6' hunk of muscular energy for God. Don't let the Holy fire scare you away though, I'm still a great cuddler and love to get out in God's creation, fish, hike, and sing around the campfire. My guitar is a good friend, but I'd like to add a special someone to the group.
Keep it clean, keep it Christian, and leave room for the Holy Spirit!


r/Christianr4r • • Nov 12 '17

[Discussion] What Issues Do You Face Dating, Either Secular or Christian Partners? Any Tips?

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Let's talk about relationships from a Christian perspective- how is it different, harder, easier? Is it easy to talk about in Church? Spill it all here.


r/Christianr4r • • 13d ago

21M [M4F] Illinois/USA-- Looking for a Christian woman who has room to build

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Hi :)

This is a slightly shameless post, but I've decided shamelessness, sometimes, is useful.

I'm Nate, 21, from the Midwest. I'm an English major currently taking some time away from school, a Protestant Christian, an incurable reader and writer, and the type of guy who can get far too emotionally invested in a football game, a good conversation, or a sentence that lands harder than it should have.

And I'm single. And looking. Like, actually.

I'm not looking to get engaged by next Tuesday. Not looking for some woman to instantly become the center of the universe, which would be miserable for both of us.

I'm looking to date intentionally, with joint tax forms a good bit further down the road, and that's only if the two of us click for real.

I think what I'm looking for the most is a woman who has room.

Room to get curious about somebody. Room to let a conversation become recurring instead of disappearing on a whim. Room to flirt a little, ask real questions, remember things, make each other laugh in at least one direction. Room to discover if there's something worth building here.

I'm not looking for constant messages. Not instant certainty that is made up because we're scared. What I do need is some basic level of reciprocity. If I'm interested in you, I'll make it obvious. I'd like to meet someone willing to make herself obvious too. Lord help me.

Faith matters a lot to me. I'm Protestant, broadly evangelical, and pretty conventionally Nicene/traditional. I'm looking for a woman who actually follows Christ. Not perfectly, because I can't claim that either. But sincerely. Serious, but not stodgy. Able to laugh with faith instead of at it.

I'm rather direct, and would appreciate a similar approach. Avoidants need not apply.

I love books, writing, movies, Chicago sports, long conversations, ordinary adventures, and people who have some interior life. I'm drawn to women who are kind, curious, funny, emotionally alive, and capable of making real choices rather than forever standing at the edge of possibility and claiming they don't know what's ahead. Only one way to find out.

Geography-wise, I'm in Illinois. I'm open to long-distance, but only within the Lower 48 if there's enough there to justify it. I've met several lovely international Christians, but I am trying to find women I can date without having to go through Customs. U.S. only, please. šŸ˜…

Ideally, you're somewhere around my age, roughly 19-23, but I care more about life stage and fit than math.

If you're reading this and you're thinking "I'd like to get to know this guy"? Shoot me a DM. Tell me a bit of who you are and what you want. And a name would be good, too.

If you're reading this and you're thinking "I know someone", tell them to shoot me a DM and, if you really like me, be utterly obnoxious about it.

I know you're out there. And I know I'm right here. Let's see if we can't close the distance, yeah?


r/Christianr4r • • 20d ago

[M4F] Netherlands / Active Christian, World Traveler, Musician & Polyglot seeking Christ-Centered Life Partner for Marriage

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About Me & My Walk with God Hello! I’m a 38-year-old Dutch man (175 cm / 5'9", 63 kg, brown hair/eyes) living in the Netherlands (EU citizen). I’m non-smoking, non-drinking, and blessed with high, youthful energy. Faith is the anchor of my life; I actively serve at a local international church 2–3 times a week. I am a virgin, saving intimacy strictly for marriage, and striving daily to become the husband described in Scripture. My priorities are clear: God 1st, my wife & marriage 2nd, children 3rd.

Life, Work & Hobbies My life has been quite an adventure! Having traveled to 116 countries while working on cruise ships, I developed a deep international mindset and respect for traditional family values. Today, I run my own business in the event sector (backed by 3 degrees in Hospitality/Leisure Management). In my free time, I play multiple instruments, read, write poetry, hike in nature, practice martial arts, and am currently learning Tamil (ą®µą®£ą®•ąÆą®•ą®®ąÆ!).

Family is very important to me. My father is a retired radiologist, my mother a doctor's assistant, and I have one married sister (our family tree is actually recorded back to 1394!).

Who I Am Praying For I’m looking for a lifelong partner (age 23–38) who is never married, has no children, and is also saving intimacy for marriage. I hope to find a devout Christian woman who is sweet, soft-spoken, warm, playful, and eager to build a loving, biblically grounded home together.

While open to all backgrounds, I have a deep affinity for Sri Lankan, Indian, or Tamil Christian women who cherish strong family values. You must be open to moving to the Netherlands, I will fully handle and support the visa sponsorship and relocation process for you!

Contact If this resonates, please send a DM introducing yourself, your faith journey, a picture, and what you seek in a husband. Parents/family members reaching out on behalf of candidates are also warmly welcome!


r/Christianr4r • • 26d ago

20 [M4F] | Russia | Looking for a Christian wife

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Hi! My name is Roman. I'm 20 and I'm from Russia.

I am a Russian Orthodox Old Believer (Popovtsy). In 2024, I finished the Moscow Old Believer Theological School.

I also worked for about three years with the Education Department of the Russian Old Believer Church. I worked with Church Slavonic texts, znamenny singing materials, and video editing for online courses.

I'm a quiet and reserved person when I first meet someone. I usually need some time to get comfortable with new people, but after that I become much more open and talkative.

My faith is very important to me. I want a serious relationship and, hopefully, marriage in the future. I would like to meet a Christian woman who cares about faith, family and a serious relationship.

My hobbies are programming, data analysis, history, church music and technology. I also like learning new things.

I currently live in Russia, so I am open to starting with online communication. My English is still not perfect, but I'm learning and improving it. I haven't had any relationships yet.

I am open to long-distance if we both feel that the relationship is worth it.

God bless you!


r/Christianr4r • • Aug 17 '26

25F seeking Christ- entered relationship/ life long prayer partner

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Hello everyone.

About Myself:

I'm a believer in Jesus Christ, and a non denominational Christian. Sense of humor, empathy, kindness,confidence, boldness and good listening & communication, emotionally, spiritually and intellectually intelligence are some of my personality traits. I am 25F years old single, no kids, never married. I am open to both short and long distance depending on a number of factors. I am willing and flexible to travel in different parts of the World for good and healthy reasons. I speak English, French and Kiswahili. I am slender with an hourglass figure ( Flatt tummy , small waist and thick thighs ) , medium- tall and well proportioned feminine woman with melodious/ angelic voice and warm brown skin tone. My hair is long- medium size, and black naturally . Eye glasses are part of my everyday look. I don't drink, smoke nor am I addicted to unhealthy habits.

My Faith Journey:

I was born and raised in a Christian household and personally I encountered Jesus at the age of 12 years and accepted Him in my life as my personal savior and the Lordship of my life. The following year I got baptized through water immersion. My walk with the Lord has been wonderful, I learn about Him and draw closer to Him everyday and I just realized that without Him, I am nothing and I can do nothing. He is the center of my life and worthy of my worship and praise. He has come through for me in my darkest moments/ seasons in ways that only Him could and honestly I am in awe of His unconditional love. My Faith means a lot to me and my true identity is found in Christ alone. So far by the grace of God and through the help of the Holy spirit, I have grown and especially in the fruit and in some gifts of the Holy Spirit. I believe that my purpose here on earth is to pursue Him everyday and to make Him known.

Education and Work.

I hold BA in International Relations and Diplomacy and Diploma in biblical studies. Currently, I run a Christ centered Ministry where I make Jesus' Love known to economically and socially disadvantaged Girls through evangelism, discipleship, mentorship and meeting their practical needs. I also care and champion for causes that are close to my heart like mental health.

Hobbies & Interests.

Some of my hobbies are: Volunteering towards causes that are close to my heart, trying new things, learning new languages currently learning( French B2 level and basic Spanish), nature walks, work outs, both indoor and outdoor games , traveling, cooking , watching TV shows, listening to Christian podcasts and spending quality time with God , and the people close to me. I like pets , cats and dogs specifically but mostly I prefer dogs to cats.ā˜ŗļø

What I'm looking for in a Partner :

I am looking for a Christ centered man who has a personal relationship with Jesus, loves and worship the Lord. A man who understands salvation , lives it and portraits the fruit of the Holy Spirit.( Love, joy, peace, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self control and humility). A man whose identity is found in Christ alone, and wants to be the head of the family, a husband, a father and a lover of his wife. A man who can love a wife as Christ loves the church. A man who is ready to pursue a Christ- centred relationship that leads to marriage. He should be confident , a good communicator, wise physically fit, sense of humour, tall( normal tallness) , healthy, maintains good hygiene, a provider, and emotionally & intellectually intelligent. A man who does not abuse drugs and is not addicted to any unhealthy habits. ( Not a perfect man per say but a man who loves and respects himself) I am looking for an age range between 25-30 years old .

In a nutshell, I'm looking for a Christ centered man whom I can serve the Lord with, have a family with, do life with and grow old with.

AOB:

I strongly believe that God created intimacy for a purpose and it should only be done between two married people. I also believe that our bodies are the temples of the Holy Spirit and we should honor God with them.

Feel free to reach out to me if you hold similar faith, beliefs, values, and it will be a plus if we have similar hobbies that I have.


r/Christianr4r • • Aug 06 '26

23m looking for long term friends

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I'm a animator animating my own indie animation I also

Like music and cooking I would love to talk to yall 😁


r/Christianr4r • • Aug 02 '26

27 M4F - USA/Anywhere

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Greetings and salutations (you get a cookie if you understand the reference)! Y’all can call me Cy for now. I’m 5’10ā€, light blonde with a ginger mustache (genetics are funny), blue eyes, average build currently working on the belly. Happy to exchange more recent photos once we start talking — a few older ones are on my profile.

I’ve been a USPS rural carrier for about eight years. The job has taught me consistency, patience, and responsibility, but I’m actively working toward a career transition over the next year or so.

I grew up between Baptist and Pentecostal churches, which forced me early on to ask difficult questions and build a faith that was truly mine. Then, several years ago, I was baptized into the Orthodox Church. Not because of the traditions, but instead, for the reverence, mystery, and grace lived out in community (I could’ve just as easily become Anglican, Lutheran, Catholic, or Non-Denom, had the community I sought been there). It felt more real than the other churches I attended at the time. That said, it’s not perfect, nor do I expect it to be perfect. My Bible sometimes gathers dust, and prayer can feel like I’m whispering into the void. But I keep showing up, because He never promised it’d be easy.

I’m looking for a woman who’s deeply rooted in Christ, emotionally mature, adventurous, and intentional. Someone who laughs easily, loves faithfully, stands firm in her convictions, and wants to build a life marked by hospitality, prayer, and growth together.Ā 

Her past doesn’t define her; growth does. Tats or piercings? They’re just adornments; she shines regardless because her true beauty isn’t skin-deep (not that I don't find outer beauty as attractive as much as the next guy). I’d eventually like to settle in a city. Country life is slowly eroding my sanity. She wants to build a life steeped in prayer, worship, and real adventure: mountain hikes, road trips, and quiet nights in the garden or kitchen filled with friends and family. Kudos if she’s into motorcycling (or open to trying).

I have many hobbies and interests, but here are the main five:

⁠Motorcycling: there’s nothing quite like riding on two wheels, with wide open roads, and the mechanical simplicity compared to cars. I ride for that raw sense of focus you only get when it’s just you, the wind, and the engine purring. Nothing beats riding across the country or carving through the Rockies at sunset, chasing an escape from daily life and basking in the wonder of God's vast creation.

⁠Gardening: I relish the gardening season when I can put my hands into the dirt, plant my seedlings, and watch as life grows throughout summer; building something that takes patience and consistency. There’s something about planting, tending, harvesting, and sharing meals from what you’ve grown that just feels fulfilling.

⁠Hiking: I grew up near the mountains, pine forests, and quiet trails. I like earning the summit views; pushing uphill, breathing deep in the crisp mountain air, foraging for wild berries, and taking in creation without distractions.

⁠Writing: pouring thoughts onto the page; stories, ideas, lyrics, and reflections. I enjoy building worlds, exploring faith and meaning, and shaping thoughts into something lasting. It's how I process life, and sometimes craft tales worth retelling.

⁠Cooking: I feel like I pray and chat with God most when I’m turning basic ingredients into something nourishing in the kitchen. Whether it’s grilling, sautĆ©ing, or experimenting with flavors. I love making hearty meals for friends/family, sharing laughs over the stove, and creating moments around the table that feel like home and hospitality. I like feeding people well; good food, good conversation, and I’m always sad when everyone has to go home.

Anyway, a little about me:Ā 

By day, I serve my community by delivering mail down quiet neighborhood roads; steady, patient (yet high-paced and demanding) work that’s shaped my character. Off the clock, I chase the extraordinary: motorcycles, mountain air, open sky (or lately at the gym with my friend). I’m wired for adventure but grounded enough to love quiet evenings, good books, and cooking for the people I care about.

Friends call me humble and grounded (or an eldritch being). My godfather likens me to a fall wind or a speeding bike’s blur, pulling leaves in its wake. Family? ā€œCharming idiot.ā€ I’ll take it… minus the charming part.

As I mentioned before, I’m not perfect. I have my faults and issues, there are days where I’ll just rot in bed because plans fell through as an example. But every day I try to improve, even when it just looks like standing against the winds of life, and not moving forward. I’d be more than happy to discuss some of that in DMs.

I tend to geek out over Spider-Man stuff, games, and cutting edge (and experimental) tech.
I travel when I can (saving up currently to visit Japan by the end of this year, even if I have to starve myself to do so), read (audiobooks mostly, so I guess listening) constantly, and am training my body to be stronger than it was the day before (can barely walk some days from forgetting to stretch after a long workout…). I value becoming sharper, steadier, and more capable with time.

I'm open to relocation if it makes sense. I go where God leads; helmet in one hand, backpack in the other.Ā  As for long distance, I’ve prayed and thought long and hard on this. I’d say North and South America, Europe, and Asia I’d be okay with. I don't consider most of the US/Canada/Mexico as long distance per se, because usually a 3-day weekend drive gets me to both coasts and back.

As for age range, 20-34 +/- a couple of years. It's more about maturity/self-discipline than anything else.Ā 

If any of this piqued your interest, I’d love to hear your story. What’s something God has been teaching you lately, or what’s an adventure you’ve always wanted to take?

P.S. Fun fact of the month, August has no US federal holidays, but August first is Colorado's birthday.


r/Christianr4r • • Jul 29 '26

32 [F4M] short/possibly long term prayer partner

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About me, 5’6 145lbs pretty enough just. Busy. And very very tired of tending to irl connections that ultimately can’t meet me at the level I need. The world is a self-seeking place (honestly when in history has it not been) and I’m burned out trying to connect with people looking to optimize every detail instead of just connecting. Engaging. Contributing. You know? If you’ve never done a fast, an isolation period, a prayer journal/war room, we don’t share the same faith. Looking for someone Gods reshaped a lil bit.

I’m a creative, building a business, big into karaoke and fashion and reading and banter. Also, balance. My relationship with God is the most important thing in my life. I still enjoy a drunk cigarette. Lil bit of the deep stuff, but still a lil bit of dumb humor. Not expecting a miracle (though ironic on a faith-based post) but if you resonate, and maybe need a boost in this season and someone to pray over you, too, I’m pretty good at it


r/Christianr4r • • Jul 27 '26

40 [M4F] #Iowa... Artist Musician Homesteader Wannabe Seeking Spouse

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Here I am, again... middle of the night - Why not?

How's the weather over there in your neck of the woods? We hit 90 something here in Iowa today. It's been super-hot lately. The heat isn't so bad, but MAN it gets humid here. Ever been to Iowa? I guess there's not much reason to come here, but... I'm here.

That's right, I said it - I'm here. The one you've been waiting for, hoping for, praying for, wondering about, dreaming about... That's right - I'm here...

Wishing I had a garden, honestly. I haven't grown one for the past few summers. It always feels kind of like a waste when a summer goes by and I haven't made anything of it. Do you garden at all? Have any interest in the homesteading stuff?

I'm an artist and musician and I cook a lot. Do you do any of that? How's your summer so far? - Tell me about your travel plans?


r/Christianr4r • • May 21 '26

[21m] (USA)

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Hey. I figured I would attempt this. 21 Male in need of friends. A little about me, I am married with 2 kids. A preacher (not ordained) but preacher I do play games Xbox mostly. I am a factory worker (for now) and baptist. There’s still a lot about me that I can’t put in this mostly bc my lunch is almost over lol. So just text me I’ll either respond at 7 or 9. Can’t wait to hear from you.


r/Christianr4r • • May 17 '26

27M - Colorado (USA).

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Another day, another try. Also, can you believe we’re over halfway through May?! It’s like, where did the time go?Ā 

I'd be willing to share photos of myself later on (mainly because I'm lazy and don't wanna download the app to upload photos), and there's a few on my profile from years past (and a few more on the Discord). For now here's a physical description: I'm 5' 10", 180lbs (so average build with a belly that I'm working on slimming back down), very light blonde hair (and a light ginger mustache... gotta love genetics), blue eyes, and type 1-2 skin.
I have been working for the USPS as a rural regular letter carrier for the last 8 or so years (5 years as a career carrier, and 3 as a sub). That said, God willing, I may be transitioning to a different career by next year if everything lines up.

I grew up between Baptist and Pentecostal churches, which forced me early on to ask difficult questions and build a faith that was truly mine. Then, several years ago, I was baptized into the Orthodox Church. Not because of the traditions, but instead, for the reverence, mystery, and grace lived out in community (I could’ve just as easily become Anglican, Lutheran, Catholic, or Non-Denom, had the community I sought been there). It felt more real than the other churches I attended at the time. That said, it’s not perfect, nor do I expect it to be perfect. My Bible sometimes gathers dust, and prayer can feel like I’m whispering into the void. But I keep showing up, because He never promised it’d be easy.

I’m looking for a woman whose soul is on fire: honest, grounded, a little wild, and fiercely devoted to Christ. She laughs easily, prays boldly, loves deeply, lives with purpose, and wears her scars as victories. Strong without being cruel, tender without fear, and just dangerous enough when it really counts.

Her past doesn’t define her; growth does. Tats or piercings? They’re just adornments; she shines regardless because her true beauty isn’t skin-deep (not that I don't find outer beauty as attractive as much as the next guy). Preferably someone who’d want to live in the city, as country life is slowly driving me up a wall. She wants to build a life steeped in prayer, worship, and real adventure: mountain hikes, road trips, and quiet nights in the garden or kitchen filled with friends and family. Kudos if she’s into motorcycling (or open to trying).

She stewards her mind, body, and spirit well and wants to grow side-by-side, rooted in her faith.

I have many hobbies and interests, but here are the main five:

  1. ⁠Motorcycling: there’s nothing quite like riding on two wheels, with wide open roads, and the mechanical simplicity compared to cars. I ride for that raw sense of focus you only get when it’s just you, the wind, and the engine purring. Nothing beats riding across the country or carving through the Rockies at sunset, chasing an escape from daily life and basking in the wonder of God's vast creation.
  2. ⁠Gardening: I relish the gardening season when I can put my hands into the dirt, plant my seedlings,Ā  and watch as life grows throughout summer; building something that takes patience and consistency. There’s something about planting, tending, harvesting, and sharing meals from what you’ve stewarded that just feels fulfilling.
  3. ⁠Hiking: I grew up near the mountains, pine forests, and quiet trails. I like earning the summit views; pushing uphill, breathing deep in the crisp mountain air, foraging for wild berries, and taking in creation without distractions.
  4. ⁠Writing: pouring thoughts onto the page; stories, ideas, lyrics, and reflections. I enjoy building worlds, exploring faith and meaning, and shaping thoughts into something lasting. It's how I process life, and sometimes craft tales worth retelling.
  5. ⁠Cooking: I feel like I pray and chat with God most when I’m turning fresh ingredients into something nourishing in the kitchen. Whether it’s grilling, sautĆ©ing, or experimenting with flavors. I love making hearty meals for friends/family, sharing laughs over the stove, and creating moments around the table that feel like home and hospitality. I like feeding people well; good food, good conversation, and I’m always sad when everyone has to go home.

Anyway, a little about me, Christ comes first. Everything else follows after.

By day, I serve my community by delivering mail down quiet neighborhood roads; steady, patient (yet high-paced and demanding) work that’s shaped my character. Off the clock, I chase the extraordinary: motorcycles, mountain air, open sky. I’m wired for adventure but grounded enough to love quiet evenings, good books, and cooking for the people I care about.

Friends call me humble and grounded (or an eldritch being on weird days). My godfather likens me to a fall wind or a speeding bike’s blur, pulling leaves in its wake. Family? ā€œCharming idiot.ā€ I’ll take it… minus the charming part.

As I mentioned before, I’m not perfect. I have my faults and issues, but every day I try to improve, even when it just looks like standing against the winds of life, and not moving forward. I’d be more than happy to discuss some of that in DMs.

I tend to geek out over Spider-Man stuff, games, and cutting edge (and experimental) tech.
I travel when I can (saving up currently to visit Japan by the end of this year, even if I have to starve myself to do so), read (audiobooks mostly, so I guess listening) constantly, and am training my body to be stronger than it was the day before (can barely walk some days from forgetting to stretch). I value becoming sharper, steadier, and more capable with time.

I’ve walked through enough storms to know this: when everything else falls away, faith remains. I go where God leads; helmet in one hand, backpack in the other.

I'm open to relocation if it makes sense. Just know I can’t travel internationally frequently right now, but I’m willing to at least try that long of a distance. I don't consider most of the US/Canada/Mexico as long distance per se, because usually a 3-day weekend drive gets me to both coasts and back.

20-34 +/- a couple of years. It's more about maturity/self-discipline than anything else.

I look forward to chatting with y'all!

P.S. Fun fact (about me) of the month, I actually have love-hate relationship with phone/audio calls because either my mic or the other person’s is never working as it should be, yet I love talking to people over the phone when it does work.


r/Christianr4r • • Apr 20 '26

40 [M4F] #North Bend WA, shy mormon geek/nerd/gamer guy, interested in finding my geeky or nerdy woman partner

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Am a high functioning autistic man. I'm going to be up front about this, because you will notice that right away in person. I also have ADD (Attention Deficit Disorder) and ADHD (Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder) and I have an auditory processing delay in hearing you talk. Sometimes, I get confused on what you have said, so I will ask you to know what you correctly said.

I have taken a few tests and I have found that I am an INTP on myers-briggs. This means I am introverted.

I am sharing this because I feel like you need to know it you are going to want to spend time with me.

Love Star Wars; love pineapple on pizza; love listening to music and National Public Radio. Love RPGs, Books, and other things.

I Love: Cats, Star Wars, Anime, Science Ficiton, Fantasy, History, Swimming, Reading, watching tvshows/movies on Amazonprime/Netflix/Hulu/disney+/Funimation, listening to music on radio, listening to National Public Radio news and podcasts. writing, drawing, painting, cuddling, walking outdoors some, playing computer games, doing LEGOs, doing board games, doing card games, magic the gathering, doing RPGs, doing exploring of new areas, Pizza, Pineapple on Pizza; Women; I Like: Star Trek.

If you want to know anything more, you could ask me, I am pretty open - the shyness is more in person, until I get to know you. Please be a little patient, and I will be patient with you as well.

That's enough about me.

I'm interested in meeting a woman who shares some of my interests, who is somewhat nerdy or geeky or a gamer.

Like to get to talking some before doing some kind of dates.


r/Christianr4r • • Mar 16 '26

29 [m4f] soon to be lawyer looking for devoted flr

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r/Christianr4r • • Mar 13 '26

Prayer request

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Can U please pray for my Grandad, he's septic with an inflamed gallbladder and is too weak to have the surgery to take it out. Thank you šŸ™


r/Christianr4r • • Mar 13 '26

Prayer request

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Can U please pray for my Grandad, he's septic with an inflamed gallbladder and is too weak to have the surgery to take it out. Thank you šŸ™


r/Christianr4r • • Jan 19 '26

28 [M4A] Let's talk.

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Hi. Currently working in the mean time, but most of my work are almost done so I am free to talk. If you want to talk about your day or anything, feel free to hit me up.

About me:

- I'm from the Philippines.
- I think it's obvious and very common for this type of community, that I love Jesus! Haha.
- Coffee!
- Dog dad.
- I run a lot.
- Retro games and films.
- Good music.

I'm one of those people who cherish my friends so much and I don't believe that life is just about the romantic part of it. I'm open to relationship and building a family in the near future, but I also believe that there are parts of our lives that God continually bless and also desires for us to steward!

Anyway, introduce yourself if you may!


r/Christianr4r • • Dec 02 '25

29 [M4F] Eastern US looking to finally settle down with a good woman

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If you are looking for someone who is down to earth and easy to get along with, then I’m your guy! I’m from small town Pennsylvania so I’m looking on the east coast. As far as what I like, I like movies, reading, writing, photography, and spending time with my family. I’m also very into traveling and looking to try new things.

Physically speaking, I’m pretty big, chubby but muscular. I’m around 6’0ā€ but I’m strong so I’ll be able to protect you hehe. I’m always down to chat but I do work nights so some nights I’ll be slow on replies. I’m looking for someone who would love me for who I am and want to have a family at some point in the future. I would also like a woman who has a strong faith in god like I do.

Feel free to message me if you are interested in getting to know me more.


r/Christianr4r • • Nov 21 '25

34[F4R] upstate NY

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Afro-Latina šŸ‡­šŸ‡³ ISO conversation and human connection. I love Jesus Christ and I talk about him a lot , I'm not looking for love right now so we can talk about anything, no filter, but please be respectful. I love animals, vegan sometimes, I have PTSD, I love talking about healing, and plans of recovery , I love Spanish food and my culture and I love mi Gente! I have a racially mixed family, I speak a basic Spanish, not fluent but always wanna practice, I love close contact sports and always down to go to a game. I'm beautiful and tall but really shouldn't matter in a friend search . If you're easy to connect with, I'll definitely send lots of pics. You , must have good intentions.... I don't play any video games and not interested in talking about that. I am kind, patient, and love meeting people, no matter your age or race , or gender, let's chat !


r/Christianr4r • • Nov 08 '25

[22M] [M4F] Socal/Hemet Area looking for Long Term, God centered, relationship - Ideally with ANR.

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Howdy! Like the title says, I'm looking for a Long Term relationship, ideally one that will lead to a Christ centered marriage. I'm a Christian, Protestant in leaning (though I do respect the Fathers and the Ancient Churches, don't mistake me), and have been for about 2 or so years. New in spirit, but, one of my favorite things to do has been studying theology and the Bible.

To tell you a bit about me, I'm a Nerdy sort - I really enjoy creative writing, gaming, and you can't go wrong with some good Sci-Fi like Dr.Who, or Star Wars. Or Fantasy - The Elder Scrolls in particular is a favorite. I don't tend to like to talk about myself in terms of traits, but, people have described me as smart - and at times sarcastic. And one thing I can say about myself is I am deeply honest. I will never lie - so if you ask me a question, you'll get the truth as best as I can give it. Honesty is deeply important to me.

I'm 5'9, Dark tight curly hair, tan skin, bit of muscle and a bit of meat on my bones, baby-ish face, and dark brown eyes.

I live down in SoCal, work down at a local CEC, and attend one of our local churches weekly (specifically Bible Study Men's night due to my schedule).

Now I mentioned ANR above - for those who know... Definitely message me! For those who don't, it's "Adult Nursing". It's something I have experienced in my one past relationship, and the nurturing aspect and intimacy are really something I can't imagine myself not having in a future relationship/marriage - both wet and dry - and I would love to try wet. I also, to be up front, have a Mommy Kink and particularly do enjoy rather well endowed women. I say all of this to simply be open - as they are things I do want in a relationship along with a Godly relationship. I'm open to ages anywhere from 18 to about 37/38 and care more about a connection, attraction, and finding the right person than age, overall.

If you're interested, I'd really love to hear from you and get to know you. Heck! If you know someone who might be interested, I'd love to hear from you. Finding the person whom the Lord has for me really is one of those things that would mean the world to me. God bless you and may he aid you on your search.


r/Christianr4r • • Oct 08 '25

Seeking Genuine, Like Minded Friends

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I’m a Christian guy who enjoys good conversation and connecting with people who are thoughtful and down-to-earth. I love chatting about faith, culture, politics, geography, and what’s happening in the world. I’m just looking to meet others who are curious, open-minded, and enjoy sharing ideas in a friendly, genuine way.


r/Christianr4r • • Sep 19 '25

30F looking for friends!!!!

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i used to be a part of this relatively big server on discord & it fell a part. so i started my own, if you’re interested in joining, lmk! so far its a group of 40 christian’s. only about 10 of them are active, id say.

personally, im a married woman, have a 7 mo old, recently became a sahm so im having more time to keep up with my server. we’re looking to relocate to our nearest city soon & becoming more involved with our church.


r/Christianr4r • • Sep 10 '25

39 [M4F] #Iowa #California #Midwest... Christian Oriented Conservative Traditional Yet Artistic Man Seeks Spouse...

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I'm just looking for a simple woman who is sound morally and doesn't see it above herself to take care of the needs of her husband and family. I'd prefer you had no sexual experiences before marriage but am willing to accept up till a certain point. You don't have to be the prettiest. You don't have to be the smartest. Can be BBW within reason.

There's plenty about me on my page.

Artist, musician, chef, 5' 9", bald (alopecia), 210lbs, very light olive-caucasian-ish skin tone, green/blue eyes

Thanks


r/Christianr4r • • Jul 11 '25

27M - Florida/USA -- Looking for A Partner in Faith And Life

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Hey there! Been some time since I posted before, and with today being my birthday, I thought I'd try reaching out once again.

About me: 5'11, 197lb, broad shoulders, see picture for more. I'm open to sending more, if you want! Law school grad working as a tax professional.

Picture: https://imgur.com/a/AFL06Lm

I'm open to someone anywhere in the US, though someone in Florida or the south would be nice. But if God calls me to someone across the country, than that's who I am meant for. So feel free to reach out!

About my faith: I grew up in the church, and really got "serious" around 7th grade. My view is closest to Baptist, but my beliefs on the faith come from studying His word and learning from others over sticking to what's popular with any denomination. I really like the quote from Rupertus Meldenius: "In essentials Unity, In non-essentials Liberty, In all things Charity."

Some things I like: -History -Reading -Building and Painting plastic minatures -Learning to Bake -Games (Video and board, tell me your favorite board game!) -Music -Working out -Swimming -Laughter

I don't drink (Though I believe alcohol in moderation is fine. I just hate the taste haha) or smoke.

What I'm looking for: A woman between 22-28. Someone nice who seeks to grow every day. Someone who values kindness and promoting peace, and wants to create a family in the somewhat near future. Someone who looks for the good in life. And someone willing to meet in person within a month or two, if long distance

If I sound interesting at all and you'd like to chat, feel free to chat/message me. Have a Blessed Day!


r/Christianr4r • • May 28 '25

37 [M4F] Christian seeking his virgin.

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Hello I’m a 37M active in my church and I would like to meet a woman who did not have a promiscuous past, who is virtuous and has the fruits of the spirit active in her life. I would like a woman who enjoys exploring and has a sense of adventure. If this sounds like you then I would enjoy getting to know you. I value honesty, femininity and shared vision. I am established in my career. I’m very traditional in my views.