r/NursingStudents • u/AndyJasmine22 • 2h ago
Need advice
I’ve been currently dealing with the aftermath of finding out my girlfriend of 5 years cheated on me. It’s been 3 weeks since she told me. She told me 4 days before my exams. I missed 2 of my 5 tests but I handed in a sick note for the missed ones. I had clinical placements this week at the hospital but didn’t attend not even one day this week.
I’ve been struggling a lot with the breakup. I’ve been struggling to take care of myself, crying every single day, having nightmares every night when I do find it in me to sleep. I’ve been a real mess. I don’t even care about anything anymore which is worrying me.
My educators has been reaching out to me to ask me why I haven’t been attending this week. I’ve been struggling to find it in me to tell her. Not because I’m ashamed but more so the will to even care to use my phone. To get out of bed. To sleep. Today my other educator reached out and asked if I’m available for a phone call today. What could this mean? Does it mean they’re kicking me out of the program for missing this entire week at the hospital? I can accept any punishment that comes. I don’t even care anymore tbh.
I just wanted to ask what should I tell her? Do I tell her that my girlfriend cheated on me and I’ve been struggling considerably the last 3 weeks? It’s the truth. Will they even believe me? Will they think I’m making up some excuse? Is telling them even the right move? Need advice