Hi. I know it’s after the convention, but I’m trying to figure out if there are any resources for how to report something that happened while at the convention.
What Happened:
In 2025, my boyfriend was pulled for a mini-shoot with a photographer at the con. He said it was really weird, the photographer kept touching his muscles and my boyfriend was gone for a long time. He gave the photographer his insta to get the photos and noticed he was getting lots of weird messages from him, nothing out right damning but very frequent and they felt sexual in nature.
I wasn’t there for the shoot, so I didn’t get all this info until some time later. When we talked about it, my boyfriend said afterward that he was so shocked by what was going on he that kinda just complied. He thought that maybe the guy had a learning disability or autism and didn’t want to make him uncomfortable, but that he felt groped and harassed. He ended up blocking the guy and it had been so long after the con, he decided to just let it go.
We went to the con this year. A photographer comes up to my boyfriend and immediately says “what happened to your instagram?” I didn’t recognize him but my boyfriend does. My boyfriend is clearly feeling uncomfortable and trying to cut the convo short while still being cordial. The photographer keeps trying to pull my boyfriend for a mini shoot, we decline and he grabs my boyfriends chest in front of me. Fully groped his pecs in front of me. Then, I realize who it is. Immediately, I tell the photographer we are leaving and remove my boyfriend from the situation. I ask him what he would like to do. He just wanted to avoid the guy and enjoy the rest of the convention, but now he realizes how weird it is and okayed me to report the photographer on his behalf. I still think my boyfriend doesn’t want to make a big deal out of it, but I hold that this IS something that is a big deal.
I don’t want my boyfriend to be worried about seeing him at the next con and I don’t want anyone else to feel cornered or groped by this guy. I tried the app and I can no longer find a report button. I can’t find any email addresses to send this info to either. I have the photographer’s instagram handle and full name. Please let me know if you have any information on how to report this to NYCC.
Thanks.