Fair warning..I hope that I get stuck in your brain too!
I'm 6'2" and around 230lbs. Clean-cut, married and in my mid-40s. Mixed European background, lightly olive skin, a sleeve tattoo on my arm with more to come eventually, short brown hair, green eyes, and a mostly silver beard. People have called me attractive and while of course I’m a little biased, you can be the judge.
I’m a pretty active guy. I’ve played hockey year round for years now, I love to ski out west, hike, and take long walks. I’ve got no problem chasing the good food and drinks. No interest in getting abs or being a gym rat though.
I work a hybrid role in a client facing position in the banking world, which allows me flexibility and to travel around pretty freely. Pretty settled life with a good home, teen, and wife who I get a long with really well. Great team really. Intimacy and passion left a loooong time ago and we’re more like roommates at this point. Very familiar story for anyone reading this I’m sure.
I’m definitely not looking to blow up my marriage or yours. I just want intimacy back in my life and maybe some excitement and if I can have both that's even better.
I know what it’s like to have a connection like this, and it worked really well. We both were discreet and sensible about practical stuff, very low drama, and I appreciate that while being sensible about this stuff, we kept our lives separate. It was a long term thing and worked really well.
Chemistry is important to me, and if we jive, I can be playful and flirty, and will usually take the lead. I'm not a dom, and BDSM is not for me. I'm typically in the minority on that, according to Reddit.
I’m looking for someone who is confident, funny, smart, emotionally mature and has her own life going on. Feminine and active is a big plus. Smaller or athletic build tends to be my preference, although I like curves too. I’m not expecting perfection, and I'm not pretending to be perfect myself.
Discretion is important. I’m not looking for dates at restaurants, shows, or anything else where we’re regularly out together in public. That doesn’t mean I want this to be purely physical...quite the opposite...but I’d rather keep the two worlds separate.
Daytime is usually easiest for me, although I wouldn’t call that a hard rule. We can figure out the logistics if we get that far.
If any of this sounds familiar and you’re looking for something fun, uncomplicated and genuine, say hello. We can see if there’s any chemistry before worrying about the rest!