r/Married_R4R • • 28m ago

[M4F] 44 #LasVegas Will have some free time on 10/23 and looking for a playmate NSFW

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I will be visiting Las Vegas on the strip and have some free time during the day on 10/23 and would love to find someone to some time with and have some fun.

Married so discretion is obviously required and I am unable to host.

5’7”, blonde, blue eye, hairy chest—if you check my profile you will be able to see more (fair warning: adult profile).

Chat is open so feel free to toss a message if you’re interested or have questions.


r/Married_R4R • • 7h ago

37 [M4F] married country man needing a lady to talk to NSFW

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Not a bot) very real

37 married white male from Tennessee with a big heart looking for someone to talk to and get to know I’m 6’3 beard with a dad bod I have kids and dogs I want someone to chat with everyday I miss the daily conversations and flirting I like to enjoy the outdoors hunt,fish,ride back roads I’m not trying to change my situation or yours just looking for a fun friend that may turn into more 25+ age please doesn’t matter to me if your slim thick or a bbw I don’t I mind exchanging pictures comment or msg me hope to hear from you


r/Married_R4R • • 4h ago

[M4F]40 #LosAngeles CA discreet cuddles and chemistry NSFW

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Discreet (as I'm married), respectful, DDF. Big on hygiene and clear communication. Looking for a compatible woman for a relaxed, zero-pressure escape from the daily grind.

6'4, tall, average build, 205lbs, big hands and feet, keep active weekly. HWP. Brown hair, green eyes, white.

We can start with drinks or coffee to test the vibe, or skip straight to a comfortable private spot for long massages, unwinding, and letting chemistry take the lead.

Zero pressure, no games, no rushing, no drama. Attentive and unhurried. I'm 6'4" and active. Happy to swap pics early.

If you're local to Los Angeles, DM me with a bit about yourself and how you like to unwind.


r/Married_R4R • • 6h ago

[M4F] #Phoenix, Arizona Married Dad Searching for A Real Connection NSFW

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Hey! I'm a married dad of two little ones living in Arizona. I'm 5'10", green-eyed, brown-haired, athletic, and considered handsome. I'm a pretty curious person who enjoys learning about the world, having deep conversations, and exploring new places. I'm into history, mysteries, and anything that makes me question what I thought I knew about the world. I also love traveling, hitting the gym, and getting out on a jet ski whenever I get the chance.

I'm hoping to meet a woman and hopefully have something genuine. I'd love to connect with someone who enjoys talking about anything and everything, whether it's history, travel, random theories, life, or just joking around and being silly. I'm always up for discovering new interests and hearing different perspectives. Bonus points if you're into spontaneous adventures or can get lost in a good conversation for hours! 😊


r/Married_R4R • • 6h ago

33 [m4f] #FortWorth hoping to create an escape for someone feeling stuck & unappreciated NSFW

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r/Married_R4R • • 7h ago

[M4F] #TN 37 country man needing a lady to get lost in conversation with NSFW

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r/Married_R4R • • 8h ago

50 [M4F] #DC - Open letter to the moms at school drop off… NSFW

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I see you. Bleary eyed, exhausted, highly caffeinated and dressed up on office days, trying not to look like you’ve just rolled out of bed (or likely to roll back in) when you work from home. It doesn’t matter. You’re beautiful.

I see you in those shorts. Maybe you think they’re nothing, but I suspect you know exactly how beautifully they frame your hips, thighs and ass. Maybe you catch me looking, thinking about how good you’d look throwing it back on me, or riding my face.

Maybe you’ve had the same fleeting thoughts. Maybe we block our calendars til noon and find out. We can’t leave together though, everyone knows us. You go the front way, I’ll go the back. See you on the other side.

6’3”, math professor, tech bro, hiker, biker, gets lost in novels, poetry, and museums. Good luck out there, everybody. :)


r/Married_R4R • • 12h ago

33 [M4F] #Modesto CA - looking for someone local to area NSFW

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33M , 5'11", , 215lbs Hispanic, DDF in the Modesto area

Married 10+ years, and somewhere along the way the excitement just kind of disappeared. Nothing dramatic happened—we just got comfortable, life got busy, and eventually the relationship started feeling more like routine than anything else.

I miss that feeling of being wanted and trying new things that are not routine. Open to exploring with you.

If you just need someone to talk to or vent let me know.

I'm local to the area and in Modesto frequently, so I'm hoping to meet someone relatively nearby who's in a similar situation. Married, single, stay-at-home mom, single mom—it doesn't really matter to me. If you're looking for something discreet and aren't trying to turn someone's life upside down, we're probably on the same page.

We can meet up for lunch and see how things go from there.I'm open-minded when it comes to age and body type. Older women are absolutely welcome, from petite to mom bods are appreciated.


r/Married_R4R • • 13h ago

42 [M4F] #Houston HSV Friendly NSFW

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WM, 6’0”, 200 lbs, clean-cut with brown hair and blue eyes. Masters-educated working professional. Experienced, respectful, and focused on mutual pleasure.
I’m looking for one married woman for an ongoing, discreet connection. Passion and excitement have faded at home, and I’m seeking that spark with a like-minded partner who values privacy, honesty, and chemistry as much as I do. Not interested in multiple partners or drama—just one solid, ongoing arrangement built on mutual respect.
Well-endowed (8”), hygienic, and attentive.
If this resonates and you’re in a similar situation, message me. Discretion is non-negotiable on both sides.


r/Married_R4R • • 22h ago

40 (F4M) #cincinnati Looking for friends first, and more later NSFW

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I have looked before and found on Reddit. Man it’s difficult. I’m just not brave enough to try a new platform.

What I want is simple. A really good friend. Someone I can laugh with, work out with, share recipes with, vent to, and of course hear all about their world too. I know why we are all here, and yes I want those parts too, just with someone I know and trust, something long term. Eventually I want to be cuddled against you doing all those things too. But let’s try and get to know each other first…..

I’m 5’5” white female. Yes I’ve had two kids, so I’ve got work to do on my stomach. I’ve got long hair and lots of curves. You’ll love my blue eyes and my smile. On your end, I just ask that you take care of yourself, I’m not judgmental, but you should be able to keep your hair cut, beard trimmed, clothes nice, stuff like that.

I’m only interested in people who ARE READY TO MEET. Yeah I know what we do here. Yes I want to keep it discreet. But I want a physical relationship. So please only send me a message if you are willing to meet in person.


r/Married_R4R • • 20h ago

42 [M4F] #Boston - Kinky tall, good looking, and high sex drive seeking kinky, beautiful, and high sex drive NSFW

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I'm married, you're married. We're both unsatisfied with our sex lives. You look great and want to explore every bit of pleasure your body can produce.

I'm a very experienced Dominant that is tall, in good shape, thick cock, and STI free. I can take control or even set up various roleplays and show you everything in kink you want to explore or have fantasized about.

I'm located on the south shore but I'm happy to drive within a reasonable distance. If you're seeking something regular I'd prefer either closer to me or we'd all meet half-way.

About me:

  • 6'3"
  • 195lb
  • good looking
  • well hung & thick cock
  • very high sex drive, quick recovery, can go multiple rounds
  • white

I do have a type for the woman:

  • younger than me
  • CIS female
  • in good shape, I'm not into curvy, bbw types
  • fun and open minded

When you reach out include which town you all are in and your stats (age, height, weight, cup size).

I'm only interested in APs that are in the Boston area, have flexible schedules (late morning, daytime meets on weekdays), and are ready to meet someone in person.


r/Married_R4R • • 1d ago

45 [M4F] Citrus Heights NSFW

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I’m here looking for a FWB. I am married and discretion is a must. I have become very unhappy in my marriage but for certain reasons I can’t leave, it’s just not an option. I probably wouldn’t want to meet right away, I would rather chat a bit first and get to know each other and make sure we click. Anyway, I’m 45 years old, white, 5’9” 170lbs, in good shape and drug and disease free. I can sometimes host in Citrus Heights most week day mornings and early afternoons until around 3. I’m usually not available nights and weekends. If this sounds like the sort of thing you are looking for then message me and we can see where things go.


r/Married_R4R • • 2d ago

34 [M4F] #Raleigh, NC - Nerdy, cross between a metalhead and elder emo guy looking for his best friend and a spark for some new missed experiences. NSFW

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Hello there ! 34 Married, White, 5'6, On the heavier side (dad bod around 250lbs), and bald, bearded male here looking for someone to talk to and get to know and see where things go. So far I haven't had much luck because I'm either looking for something not serious enough for someone (meaning that I don't want to completely upend anyone's life) or they seem to be intimidated by the situation which i totally get. I'm looking for someone that is a best friend that can turn into new experiences and more. Someone I can confide in and vent to, and talk to on a daily basis. You could say that I'm introvertedly extroverted, because once I get to know someone and there's a connection there I absolutely love talking to them. A lot of my issues stems from how I grew up and how it forced me to "grow up" at a young age just to survive. I walled myself up hard when I was younger so nowadays I crave the attention and connection I never let myself have outside of normal friends, I never let myself open up or be vulnerable to someone that I thought was attractive because of that. I always thought I'd either be too much of a burden or scare people off 😅 . I guess you can say I like trauma bonding in a sense because I can usually have great talks with people that have been through life like I have. A little bit about myself is I love to cook, I'm a huge music person, I love true crime podcasts and I love just learning about people and where they come from. I'm looking for a distraction from day to day life and would really like a new friend :) I'm a transplant to my state so I don't really have friends here and I get lonely very easily 😭. So If you like a bearded husky metalhead who has a dark sense of humor and loves to cook and nerd out to music and games we may be a match!


r/Married_R4R • • 2d ago

53 [M4F] #LosAngeles - married older daddy looking for young, fit, insatiable play toy NSFW

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Hi! I’m 53 from the San Fernando Valley in Los Angeles looking to meet a fit, insatiable young woman interested in a casual fwb scenario. I’m fit, athletic, kinky, and love to pleasure. If this resonates with you, and you’re interested in meeting and having a great time together regularly, I’d love to hear from you!!


r/Married_R4R • • 2d ago

46 [M4F] #Toronto: looking for the one who lives rent-free in my head NSFW

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Fair warning..I hope that I get stuck in your brain too!

I'm 6'2" and around 230lbs. Clean-cut, married and in my mid-40s. Mixed European background, lightly olive skin, a sleeve tattoo on my arm with more to come eventually, short brown hair, green eyes, and a mostly silver beard. People have called me attractive and while of course I’m a little biased, you can be the judge.

I’m a pretty active guy. I’ve played hockey year round for years now, I love to ski out west, hike, and take long walks. I’ve got no problem chasing the good food and drinks. No interest in getting abs or being a gym rat though.

I work a hybrid role in a client facing position in the banking world, which allows me flexibility and to travel around pretty freely. Pretty settled life with a good home, teen, and wife who I get a long with really well. Great team really. Intimacy and passion left a loooong time ago and we’re more like roommates at this point. Very familiar story for anyone reading this I’m sure.

I’m definitely not looking to blow up my marriage or yours. I just want intimacy back in my life and maybe some excitement and if I can have both that's even better.

I know what it’s like to have a connection like this, and it worked really well. We both were discreet and sensible about practical stuff, very low drama, and I appreciate that while being sensible about this stuff, we kept our lives separate. It was a long term thing and worked really well.

Chemistry is important to me, and if we jive, I can be playful and flirty, and will usually take the lead. I'm not a dom, and BDSM is not for me. I'm typically in the minority on that, according to Reddit.

I’m looking for someone who is confident, funny, smart, emotionally mature and has her own life going on. Feminine and active is a big plus. Smaller or athletic build tends to be my preference, although I like curves too. I’m not expecting perfection, and I'm not pretending to be perfect myself.

Discretion is important. I’m not looking for dates at restaurants, shows, or anything else where we’re regularly out together in public. That doesn’t mean I want this to be purely physical...quite the opposite...but I’d rather keep the two worlds separate.

Daytime is usually easiest for me, although I wouldn’t call that a hard rule. We can figure out the logistics if we get that far.

If any of this sounds familiar and you’re looking for something fun, uncomplicated and genuine, say hello. We can see if there’s any chemistry before worrying about the rest! 


r/Married_R4R • • 2d ago

38 [M4F] #Clearwater Let's keep it simple. Seeking long term NSFW

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Married Life is hard enough these days so let's make this easy. I'm looking for someone to talk in our spare time, crack jokes, flirt, send spicy pics and meet up for fun when no one else is looking. Drug and disease free, 420 friendly. I'm a bit of a nerd too so any common ground there is always a plus but not required. Just good chemistry and a genuine desire to make a connection with someone who can maintain an ongoing situation. Please include age in your chat invite and since I'm married I do require discretion. 5' 9", 166 pounds, in good shape, long dark brown hair, and I'm of Italian and Irish decent. I'm told I look like Aragorn from Lord of the Rings if that helps paint a visual. I'm a sucker for some good audio books. I've been diving back into HP Lovecraft stories to get into the spooky season.


r/Married_R4R • • 2d ago

36 [M4F] #Nottingham - cuffing season is here again NSFW

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And I'm ready to tie someone down. 🔗

I'm at the point in my life where all I want is someone who's just as enthusiastic and passionate about their interests as I am. Nothing is more endearing to me than unabashedly loving something. If you're that kind of person, you're probably my kind of person.

I'm looking for a long-term thing. Someone to spend my days and nights chatting away with when real life isn't intervening. If you like attention, affection, compliments, deeply unserious conversation (except for when it matters), and that feeling where you can't wait to pick up your phone to talk to each other again, then guess what? You're probably my kind of person.

Me: great hair, blue eyes, a well-kept beard and a few tattoos. Short king at 5'4", around 76kg. Deeply unserious (except when it matters), good at remembering those little details. Musician and creative type with an IT-adjacent day job, with an array of hobbies, interests and kinks you'll just have to ask about. I take care of myself and hopefully you do too.

Obligatory: married, here in secret. Not here to change anyone's situation, just to find another attached/married person. Open talking to people from other countries as long as the time difference is manageable. Same with meeting IRL — if the logistics aren't difficult or stressful to arrange, I could be open to it. I don't have kids but don't mind if you do.

If you've read this far and you're picking up when I'm putting down, tell me what song you can't get out of your head or the last thing you watched/played/read that stuck with you.


r/Married_R4R • • 3d ago

47 [M4F] #Germany #Leipzig - Discretion is key, sensual connection is a desire, regardless where you are from . . . . NSFW

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I’m 1.78 m tall, with a lean, athletic build, broad shoulders, a trim waist, short dark hair, dark eyes, strong eyebrows, a defined jaw, straight nose, and neatly trimmed dark facial hair. I tend to look serious until I smile, which happens fairly easily around the right person.

I’m rather fond of the parts of life that are better kept between two people. Discretion matters to me because I value privacy, and because anticipation is far more enjoyable when it belongs to the people actually involved. I have a calm life, a curious mind, and a sensual side that appears naturally when I’m comfortable with someone.

I’m drawn to women with depth—quietly confident, mischievous, reserved at first, or capable of turning an ordinary conversation into two hours without either of us noticing. I enjoy good conversation, subtle flirting, lingering looks, and the tension that develops when two people are both aware of it and neither needs to announce it.

Where you come from matters less to me than maturity, curiosity, attraction, and the way we fit together when the outside world becomes pleasantly irrelevant.

Tell me what caught your attention in the headline, and one thing about you that might make me want to keep talking.


r/Married_R4R • • 3d ago

[M4F] 36 #Richmond high EQ seeks married f for friendship and fulfillment NSFW

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Let’s give each other a gift of friendship, connection, and when things feel right electric desire.

Richmond, RVA

6’2”, 180lbs, size 32 waist, size 12 shoe, $275k, high EQ, dark twisted humor, generous, puts safety first, and likes to eat ass.

DM to trade pics


r/Married_R4R • • 3d ago

58 [M4F] #Online No clever title needed … Simple as taking time to build something beautiful, unique and real NSFW

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Thanks for stopping by and spending a second with me.

My marriage is a best-friend/roommate dynamic (not quite a dead bedroom, but more like hospice, lol). We've always had "gaps" but they were easier to ignore before the kids started leaving.

WHAT I’M LOOKING FOR:
Online only - I want the laughs, the deep conversations, the late-night early-morning chats, the memes and the silly TikToks. I want the surprise message that turns my whole day around and I want to be the one sending you that message right when you need it most.

To me it's all about taking this feeling and allowing the time to build a connection. The flirting, teasing, laughing, getting to know each other. This is the raw intimacy I crave. This is what raises everything to a whole new level.

Yes, the sexual side matters to me. A lot. I'm very sexual and need that outlet. I want us to be comfortable enough to talk about whatever we need, desire, crave sexually as build something special when we’re ready

A LITTLE ABOUT ME:
- MST timezone
- I tend to lean to the left of issues
- Obsessed with true crime and making sourdough bread
- Hopeless romantic and natural flirt
- Degrees in sarcasm and try not to take life too seriously
- Love to laugh and make you laugh
- I’m active and work hard to stay fit
- 5'8", I'm bald with a goatee and mustache @ 185
- Love being a dad and trying to adjust to an empty nest
- Passionate about music especially classic rock & jazz
- Self proclaimed foodie who loves to cook, bake and BBQ

A LITTLE ABOUT YOU:
- You’re 35 + and live in North America
- You’re active, take care of yourself and comfortable in you’re own skin
- You’re intelligent + confidence = sexy
- You can carry & contribute to conversation about anything and everything
- You stand up for what you believe in
- Sarcastic, fun and can dish it back

Once we're both comfortable, I love moving to a different app for voice notes and audio/video calls whenever we get the chance in our crazy lives.

If you’re still reading, send me a DM with a short intro about yourself. Please don't just say "hey", take a minute, make it fun, and see if you can put a smile on my face. :)


r/Married_R4R • • 4d ago

[F4M] 36 #Jönköping Sweden | Married, looking for a connection worth getting excited about NSFW

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I’m 36, married and living in Sweden. I miss the flirting, the chemistry and having someone who makes me silly smile when their name pops up on my phone 🤭

I love sarcasm, playful teasing and conversations that just flow. Someone I can talk to about absolutely anything, laugh with and naturally slip into flirting with when the mood is right

I’m 170 cm, curvy, with thick wavy brown hair and blue eyes and a more innocent look than you might expect 😇

I’d love something discreet and potentially long-term. Online first, but preferably someone in Sweden so meeting in person could be an option
And please, have a personality.
Your penis shouldn’t be your opening argument 🤭


r/Married_R4R • • 3d ago

55 [M4F] #Denver, Co - Searching for a Fall fling NSFW

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Hi!

Fall is here and I’d love to find someone to have some hot fun with.

I'm looking for a lady, 40+, married or otherwise, smart, funny, cute, can hold a conversation and communicate, looking for an emotional and sexual connection, enjoys outdoor activities, someone who has time to build something and may have done this before. Location and scheduling are always big factors so someone in the Denver, south Denver burbs or North Colorado Springs and who actually has time to break away to meet.

Key traits…

Willing to do this..

Able to do this..

No cold feet

Can make time to get away

I'm 55, married, professional, respectful, good communicator, funny and may be one of the nicest guys meet. Physically, I'm 6'4", 225, gray hair with some brown, brown eyes and strong hands.

I'm a runner, love to exercise and love to fill gaps in someone’s life. I enjoy trying new things and being outside. Having a connection is big item for\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\*notabot

Life's an adventure, let's have some fun together and create some sparks.


r/Married_R4R • • 3d ago

[M4F] 52 #Boston Looking for my energetic match NSFW

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Hi. I am from the greater Boston area southern New Hampshire and looking to find a fun female to create some fun encounters. I am white 5ft8 brown hair hazel eyes 160lbs so average to slender. Think soccer player type body.

I work for myself so I have a lot of flexibility for day time meets and planned overnights as I am married. My other half has an injury which is really impacting the sex life. It just really sucks.

Please reach out if you are looking for a normal overall good guy. I am open to ages and different dynamics. Hope to hear from someone.


r/Married_R4R • • 4d ago

[M4F] 50 #online #GMT Looking for my partner in crime NSFW

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Hi
50, married French guy living in the west coast, 1,85m 70kg, hair shaved, 2 days beard, brown eyes.
Rather Athletic body type as i run 5 to 6 hours a week

As many married people in there, I'm missing a
"something", that spice that makes you wait for the next notification, or next encounter.
I'm told to be a nice fellow friend. I am good at listening.
I'd like to have someone to share day to day events, thoughts and whatever. So im looking for discussions on a daily basis, obviously.
Also, flirting and more is an important part of this journey to come.
l've always had a huge sex drive and want the conversations to get this road when we both will be comfortable.
In the bedroom I'm directive, straight forward and dominant. I like it rough and imaginative, although I can also be tender and sweet if u need it sometime.
Feel free to message me if you wanna give it a try.
I don't bite... if not wanted


r/Married_R4R • • 5d ago

[M4F] 55 #Toronto Looking for an ongoing lover who actually wants a connection NSFW

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Physically: I’m 55, 5'11¾", about 245 lbs, brown hair, brown eyes, glasses, and a mostly-grey goatee. I’m naturally broad through the shoulders and currently getting leaner. I’m looking for something discreet, ongoing, and genuinely two-way. Not a second marriage, and not endless online flirting that never becomes real. I’d like to find one woman I can have dinner with, laugh with, flirt with, sleep with regularly, and actually give a damn about.

I’m professional, sarcastic, curious, and very hands-on. I design computer networks for work; outside work I build furniture, work on my house, cook, play music, and acquire hobbies faster than is sensible. Conversation matters enormously to me. I like quick minds, weird tangents, dry humour, curiosity, and people who have actual interests. Hot + willing + boring does not work for me.

I’m looking for warmth, chemistry, affection, honesty, initiative, and someone who actually wants an ongoing connection between dates rather than disappearing until the next meetup. I don’t require exclusivity. I’m comfortable with unconventional relationships. I do require honesty and discretion.

I’m in Toronto and around the GTA regularly and can often make weekdays, daytime, or evenings work.