r/Floridar4r • • Jul 06 '26

Updated Rules and moderation - July 2026 NSFW

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Mods have been working on updating the rules and trying to develop AI moderation that catches behaviors spam/scam bots often engage in. (mainly canvasing communities and trying to take you off reddit.) The current human friendly rules are always in the sidebar on a desktop or under "see more" on mobile. The current set is copied below for easy reading. Each rule has a link to a wiki page which should be easy to understand and be fully transparent on the prompting logic an AI is given to evaluative enforcement of that rule.

Spam is fundamentally a cost problem. Scam bots can scatter shot thousands of posts and if they get a few suckers that give up $5 to $20 they've made a day's wages in some parts of the world. These rules try to make posting in FloridaR4R more expensive if you're a scam bot.

This version of the rules is now giving 99% accuracy when compared with human reviews. For a long time we were getting about 95% AI to human alignment. That said I'm sure future posts will make mistakes and AI, and humans, make mistakes. If the mistake happens to you it will feel like a lot more than a rare mistake. Politely message the mods and we will try to fix it.

Reddit Mods don't get paid. Be kind. We want a healthy and functioning community.

While some of the rules mention temporary bans, the mod-bot isn't temp banning until more extensive testing.

FloridaR4R Rules

  1. Searchable Titles - Age + Gender Code + Location Start your title with age, an R4R gender code, and your Florida city or county, like "28 M4F Orlando". Anything after that is up to you. People search by these - a searchable title reaches the people near you. Titles missing a required part are removed so you can fix and repost - no ban, no strike. See Searchable Titles wiki for more
  2. Keep Contact on Reddit - No Off-Platform Handles All contact starts on Reddit. Do not post or request handles, phone numbers, or emails for Snapchat, Discord, Telegram, or any other platform. "DM me" is fine - it means Reddit. Profile bios and history are checked. Posts are removed; repeat or egregious violations, or a handle in your bio, earn a 3-day ban. See Keep Contact on Reddit wiki for more
  3. Personal Meetups Only - No Transactions This community is for free, real-life meetups only. No payment, gifts, sugar arrangements, OnlyFans/Fansly promotion, or content sales. Transactional history anywhere on Reddit earns a 3-day ban even when your post here is clean; blatant or repeated selling here earns a 7-day ban. See Personal Meetups Only wiki for more
  4. Post Where You Really Are - No Same-Day Distant-City Posting Post for the one area where you really are. Same-day posts targeting R4R regions more than ~1-2 hours' drive apart are removed - nobody can meet in two distant cities at once. FloridaR4R plus your nearby city sub is fine. Traveling? Include dates and post only for where you're headed. A sustained pattern earns a 7-day ban. See Post Where You Really Are wiki for more
  5. Wait 24 Hours Between Posts - No Delete-and-Repost Tricks One active post at a time; wait 24 hours between posts here. Fewer, better posts beat fleeting reposts. Posting again too soon removes the new post; under 12 hours it also earns a 1-day ban. To fix a mistake, delete and repost once within 20 minutes. Deleting to bump visibility is a violation. A removal under this rule does not extend your wait. See Wait 24 Hours wiki for more
  6. Account Authenticity - Your History Must Match Your Post Be who you say you are. Posts are checked against the account's own history - language, stated gender, location, and posting pattern. When two or more contradict the post (e.g. years of history as a man abroad, now posting as a local woman), the post is held for a human moderator. Never an automatic removal or ban. See Account Authenticity wiki for more

r/Floridar4r • • 1h ago

M4M - Celebration 30 [M4M] Celebration - looking to suck. NSFW

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Just looking to suck. No recip. In celebration. Straight / bi preferred. Open to fwb


r/Floridar4r • • 28m ago

M4F - Miami 42 [M4F] Miami - Laid Back Married Dad for Discreet Casual Fun NSFW

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42-year-old married guy in Miami looking for discreet, no-strings-attached fun. Mutual privacy and absolute discretion are non-negotiable top priorities for me.

A bit about me: I’m 5'11" with a classic dad-bod build, though I manage to hit the gym a few times a week. I’m easygoing, groomed (cut/shaved), clean, and strictly DDF.

I’m looking for a woman who wants a fun, confidential, and low-drama arrangement. I am also open to a hotwife dynamic or a couple setup where the guy just watches (strictly no M4M contact; open to a scenario where we meet up and hubby/partner drives around while we play in the backseat). Logistically, I can occasionally host, travel, or explore car and semi-public options if the situation and timing align. My interests and kinks include age gaps (18+), breeding/creampies, cheating, light CNC, freeuse, and public or semi-public play, among others.

If this sounds like what you're looking for, send a DM with a quick introduction, a photo if you're comfortable sharing and let’s see if we click!


r/Floridar4r • • 36m ago

M4F - Miami 33 [M4F] Miami - Make my last day in Florida amazing? NSFW

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I’m leaving the Keys shortly to catch my flight in Miami at 7:45PM. Would love to get laid before I head out, if anyone is feeling spontaneous?

I’m 6’1, blonde, blue eyes, muscular, handsome, outdoorsy, and outgoing. Would love to meet for a drink and then either take it back to my place or utilize the backseat of my rental. 😅

Let me know if you’re interested! Happy to swap pics first.

I can’t wait to hear from you.


r/Floridar4r • • 9h ago

TF4A - Sarasota 19 [TF4A] Sarasota - pre-hrt trans girl looking for something sexual and serious!! NSFW

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first off, i'm slightly chubby and a virgin. please dm me your age, and don't message unless you're interested in growing something together beyond sex :] i'd love to meet and do something ASAP though!


r/Floridar4r • • 7h ago

M4M - Oviedo 22 [M4M] Oviedo - and UCF area. Looking to suck BWC tonight NSFW

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I'm dying to suck someone's dick right now. Please be in the Oviedo/UCF area or nearby! I prefer 20-30, but i'm not picky. BWC gets priority. Can't host. Can travel or do carplay. Trans and femboys welcome, too. Hit me up <3


r/Floridar4r • • 11h ago

M4F - Kissimmee 37 [M4F] Kissimmee - Ghostface CNC fantasy NSFW

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Happy Spooky season!

I have had this Ghostface costume in my closet and I'd love to put it to some naughty use.

I'm clean, good looking and easy to get along with. I am into horror, nerd culture and having fun.

Let me know if you also have a Ghostface fantasy as well and we can plan something fun and pleasurable


r/Floridar4r • • 12h ago

M4F - Orlando 27 M4F Orlando - Zookeeper looking for something worth it. NSFW

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Hi all! I've tried this before, and it worked out okay- so I'm here to reach out again! I'm mostly up for anything- and just wanted to put some feelers out there. It gets a little lonely where I live, so meeting someone would be nice! Cute dates, phone calls, intimacy ..

I'm 6'1, big guy but still fit, and work with big cats primarily. I love video games, movies, books, comics... And pretty much anything horror!

I prefer people around my age, who are affectionate and a liiitttle bit whimsical, and liking cats is a must have lolol.

I'm an ass man, do with that what you will. I tend to like Alternative women and connect with them the best, but I'm open to any connection

I would like to build on something, have lots of fun while I'm down in Florida, entertain a D/S dynamic, or even have a pleasant connection regardless! I'm open to sharing face and voice!

If you want someone to go do fun things with, sit on my lap, or cuddle and watch bad horror movies, I'm your guy!

Well, not sure what else to add- but shoot me a message if you're interested!!!


r/Floridar4r • • 8h ago

M4F - Aventura 21 [M4F] Aventura -Looking for some late night fun NSFW

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Visiting and staying at a nearby hotel
I’m black, 5’10, and chubby
Will need to be discreet as there are others here(sorry can’t spend the night)


r/Floridar4r • • 13h ago

M4F - Orlando 20 [M4F] Orlando - BBC looking for LOCAL women in the Central Florida area NSFW

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Orlando BBC looking for women in my area.


r/Floridar4r • • 11h ago

M4M - St. Cloud 35 [M4M] St. Cloud - Looking for str8 guys who enjoy no recip. long, slow service NSFW

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Here to service straight, married, ddf guys who need no recip. discreet drainings. Feed me all your cum and piss. Unshaved, uncut, sweaty/musk, verbal all pluses. Looking for long sessions. I host, kick back on the couch smoking 420, watching porn or a game and get worshiped.


r/Floridar4r • • 11h ago

M4A - Lakeland 23 [M4A] Lakeland - Looking for some intimacy (NO MASC) NSFW

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NO MASCULINE MEN PLEASE

Hello everyone! I'm a bit lonely and bored lately, so I thought I would look for something on here. I'm hoping to find someone in central florida, but I'm not against fun chats online either. I'm really hoping to find someone I can be physically intimate with. I'm not very interested in anything too sexual right now, maybe if we know each other better, but I'm mainly looking for kissing, hugging, cuddling, and getting very handsy with each other. I might be willing to make it long term, but I'm very much looking for some physical contact right now. As for what I want from you, I'm not terribly picky about what you look like, but NO MASCULINE MEN PLEASE. Appearance wise, I'm 6'1, white, average weight, and have long-ish brown hair. Anyway, if you're looking for some random fun, please reach out! I live at both Lakeland and Spring Hill, so if you're from either of those places, please reach out!

Please include your age/gender/location and preferably a physical description/picture of yourself.


r/Floridar4r • • 11h ago

M4F - Boca Raton 25 [M4F] Boca Raton any ladies looking for pleasure? Wanting to eat some pussy and fuck NSFW

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Dm if interested


r/Floridar4r • • 11h ago

M4F - Orlando 30 [M4F] Orlando - Big and Tall seeking FWB or more! NSFW

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Hey! My name is Andrew, I’m 30, and I’m from Kissimmee, but like 20ish minutes from Orlando so it still counts, right? I’m looking to meet someone that I can get to know and hangout with in person and see where things go! I’m open to casual or something serious, I would want to get to know someone before putting a label on anything but going on some dates and hanging out sounds lovely! I’m into video games, movies, music, tv shows, I’m 4/20 friendly and hope you are too, or atleast okay with me smoking! Please be okay with swapping pics and verifying!I hope to hear from you!!


r/Floridar4r • • 12h ago

MF4F - Orlando 47/29 [MF4F] Orlando Let me watch him fuck you… please? NSFW

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We are a fun age-gap couple indulging in our ever-growing BDSM bucket list, and I desperately need to watch him fuck another woman.

He's attractive, dominant, will make you cum multiple times, and a great listener. I’ve shared him before, but I’ve just never been present for the event. I'm petite, adorable, and will be completely hands-off, just rubbing myself in the little cuck chair in the corner of the hotel room while he plays with you.

The ideal candidate would be at least somewhat kinky (we enjoy a great deal of fetishes so feel free to bring some creativity… and we'll bring the lube) and willing to show off a bit to make me jealous. Having a sense of humor is critical; we’re constitutionally incapable of taking anything too seriously. Bonus points if your tits are bigger than mine (they probably are) and if you can confidently rock lingerie.

Likes: anal, impact play, breast play, bondage

Dislikes: peanut butter


r/Floridar4r • • 16h ago

M4F - Tampa 22 [M4F] Tampa Just shaved and I'm horny out of my mind NSFW

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Who wants to be a victim of it? 🙏


r/Floridar4r • • 12h ago

M4F - Spring Hill 42 [M4F] Spring Hill – Single Dad, Educator, Guitarist & Puppy Parent Looking for a Genuine Connection NSFW

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Hey there, thanks for stopping by!
I’m 42, recently divorced, and stepping into a fresh chapter of life with a positive outlook, a clear head, and a full heart. I work as a high school educator and administrator, which basically means my days are filled with solving problems, staying patient, and finding humor in the everyday chaos. Lately, I’ve been focusing heavily on my health, fitness, and overall well-being—taking care of myself and making sure I feel as good as I look.
When I’m off the clock, music is a central part of my life. I play both acoustic and electric guitar, love discovering new tracks, and always enjoy catching live shows or swapping playlists. I’m also a big sports fan, whether that means keeping up with college football and basketball, watching pro games, or grabbing a bite to catch a matchup. Home life stays lively as a single dad, especially now that I’ve added a goofy, adorable 6-month-old Golden Retriever puppy to the household. He will definitely try to steal your heart, and I’m not above using his charm to land a second date.
By nature, I’m easygoing, witty, and grounded. I appreciate clever banter, quick humor, and having a good laugh with someone who doesn't take life too seriously.
I’m looking to meet a woman who is warm, confident, and genuine—someone who enjoys great conversation and creating genuine memories together. Whether that’s exploring a local spot, relaxing with a drink and live music, getting outside for a change of scenery, or just enjoying a cozy night in where chemistry takes over, I’m ready to share quality time with someone who makes life feel just a little sweeter.
If you appreciate a guy who is secure, funny, knows how to play a few chords, and respects your time, send me a message. Tell me a bit about yourself, your favorite artist or band, or what your ideal weekend looks like.
Looking forward to hearing from you. 😉


r/Floridar4r • • 15h ago

M4F - Fort Lauderdale 29 M4F Fort Lauderdale - Handsome BWC looking to meet a kinky lady. Longer term preferred. Pics on my profile :) NSFW

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Title says it all! Open minded and laid back, kinda nerdy, kinda gym rat. Happy to share more pics, DMs open :) please include ASL in your DM


r/Floridar4r • • 15h ago

M4F - Lake Worth Beach 31 M4F Lake Worth Beach Hosting or Traveling NSFW

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Need ass and pussy to worship orally


r/Floridar4r • • 15h ago

M4F - Orlando 18 [M4F] Orlando - Women only, looking for something casual or possible fwb NSFW

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6.3 inches dm me


r/Floridar4r • • 16h ago

M4F - Boca Raton 42 M4F Boca Raton - Insatiable South Florida Daddy Looking for a Good Girl to Match My Vibe... NSFW

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Handsome professional divorced DILF (shared custody) looking for my forever babygirl who can keep up with me in and out of the bedroom...

I just KNOW my needle in the haystack is out there, she's local (seriously, not into LDRs), funny, smart, feral, and not into playing games...

Would love to find my face-sitting, lap-riding, passenger/pillow-princess to make memories with and soak my sheets...

I have a lot of vanilla interests, and you should, too... Love women who are passionate and fun...

420-friendly, VERY kink-friendly, with my own place where we can get loud and breathless...

Don't be shy, slide in my DMs with your stats and location, let's swap pics and see where it goes... Not into endless messaging, so please be available to meet sooner than later...


r/Floridar4r • • 19h ago

MF4F - Orlando 30 [MF4F] Orlando - 🔥 fun, flirty couple looking for out missing +1 🦄 or right couple! 😈 must be hygienic, must verify! NSFW

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30 [MF4F] Orlando - 🔥 fun, flirty couple looking for out missing +1 🦄 or right couple! 😈 must be hygienic, must verify!


r/Floridar4r • • 19h ago

M4F - Orlando 38 [M4F] Orlando - Disney Seeking curvy girl or tourist to get railed this afternoon NSFW

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Are you visiting the theme parks or maybe here for a convention? Maybe you’re working from home and just have an itch. I’m looking for a tourist or a curvy woman who wants to get railed this afternoon. Let me know if you’re interested. Ddf, discrete, and safe play


r/Floridar4r • • 22h ago

M4F - Destin 52 [M4F] Destin Last Few Hours Here. NSFW

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Traveling down I10 from the panhandle today to the east coast St Augustine area.
Looking for maybe a quick stop somewhere.
DDF, NSA.


r/Floridar4r • • 23h ago

M4F - Jacksonville 32 M4F Jacksonville for carplay or public fun NSFW

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Hey how ya doing looking like minded ddfree F or couple who like car play or public/voyeur/exhibition. I'm 5'6 average good shape. Just trying to keep it simple for now