Just for some context, I (19f) have not experienced penetrative sex before.

I can have an orgasm through clitoral stimulation and i absolutely love it. I have tried multiple times to enjoy fingering myself, but having an orgasm aside, i can't even enjoy the sensation.

It just feels like im touching my insides and i have seen a lot of women here complain about this in here.

I don't expect to have an orgasm through fingering, but just feels like im missing out by not enjoying it. It just feels like nothing before it starts to hurt.

And no, curling fingers doesnt do shit for me either. Is this a lost cause?

I think I cured my 4 year long primary anorgasmia with the satisfyer pro penguin. I believe I had a singular orgasm two weeks ago but ever since I’ve never experienced it again. It wasn’t very ‘earth shattering’ but I genuinely felt like I was floating for a couple of seconds and my hand didn’t jerk away involuntarily. I used the higher settings to orgasm without squirting. Ever since then, I keep on squirting solely from clitoral stimulation on the higher settings of my toy but idk why I can’t get to have an orgasm again. My towels keep getting soaked for nothing. idk what to do. Someone please help 😭

If I stimulate the ‘top part’ of my clit with my toy, I squirt so I try and lower the toy to avoid it. But I think my hips keep on moving so my toy ends up higher then I accidentally squirt. Mind you, prior to buying this toy I had never squirted in my life idk why my body keeps doing this shit instead of orgasming. I really want to get that floaty feeling again :(( I’m frustrated since I finally got to see what I was missing out on 💔

I’ve never orgasmed with my own hands and am completely reliant on my current toy. Sometimes I get really horny and want to masturbate every day of the week but like my clit is now ’perpetually swollen’. It doesn’t hurt but I have to take breaks from masturbating even when I really want to because my clit just becomes numb. Like I’ll have the satisfyer on a medium setting and literally feel nothing. Do air pulse toys do this to other people or…? I normally only use it for 30 mins at a time sporadically (in the morning, in the evening sometimes and before bed)