r/weddingshaming • u/fatpony57 • May 22 '26

Dressed like a Bride Guest in white lace with matching headress

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Grooms brothers GF Worn a white lace outfit with matching white lace head peice. Rude!!!!

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u/DecadentLife May 23 '26

I just had a maid of honor, my lifelong best friend. I had a credit at a big box bridal store, I told her to pick out any bridesmaid dress there, including whatever color she wanted, that I just wanted her to feel beautiful.

She showed up to my wedding wearing a deep red, very, very low-cut dress. She did pick one of the bridesmaid dresses, but then she sized down, by at least two sizes, to make it tighter and even lower cut. (it was also strapless).

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u/peachyspoons May 23 '26

Still best friends?

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u/DecadentLife May 23 '26

No ma’am. She did some things that were not kind and we drifted apart, to an extent. At 40, I found out I had cancer (stomach, I was very sick), I didn’t want to risk her finding out from someone else, if I didn’t make it. I called her and I told her I had cancer. One sentence. She SCREAMED at me, over and over, “FUCK YOU!”

That was the last time we spoke. I will always care for her, if she needs help, and I can provide it, I will. But I don’t want that energy in my life.

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u/effietea May 23 '26

what the hell? That's insane

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u/DecadentLife May 24 '26

It was odd, certainly. It made me sad, more than anything else.