If you're someone who is a little bit (a lot is fine too) of a mess and looking for someone similar you've clicked on the right post. I'll be honest, I struggle to relate to people who aren't at least a little bit weird and messy more and more lately. So I'm just saying upfront that if you're just a regular, well adjusted person who's simply bored (like most of the people on reddit seem to be)...hey, feel free to try to message if you want but it's unlikely we'll get along, sorry. Nothing personal at all. Not that the people this is meant to detract will even read the post before blindly messaging anyway but hey, it was worth a try.

Anyway, hi there, as you can probably tell I'm looking for friends. I don't have too many of those for various reasons and I could use one or two more. I'm dealing with all kinds of mental health issues and in many ways I could probably be described as a bit of a girlfailure. I spend most of my life indoors playing videogames or enjoying other nerdy stuff like anime, tabletop games or horror movies. I'm into all kinds of other random things too, benefits of being very ADHD and randomly hyperfocusing on something different every few weeks.

I'm also a deeply emotional person, and I'm hoping to befriend people who are similar in that way as well. Some of it is because of the issues I deal with, some of it is just because I have a lot of empathy, some of it is trauma, some of it is just strongly appreciating things I find beautiful or meaningful. I can be "a little" bitter and jaded at times, but I promise I'm not someone who's constantly negative. Quite the opposite, I can be very silly when I feel comfortable around someone. I just have bad days and some things are very sore subjects. I can also get slightly clingy if I really take a liking to someone but I'm pretty good about staying healthy and having boundaries nowadays. Mostly.

It would be nice to befriend someone who's awake during PDT timezone hours, but if you're not you can still message. It's not that big of a deal, just would be nice to have someone who's around a lot is all.

hii!! I post in here every so often trying to meet ppl so sorry if you've seen me before 😭

my name's sophie, im a 26 year old college student studying pharmacy in Ohio and id really like to meet more ppl online or irl to talk to!! I'm an intj capricorn, i love movies and games (right now it's pathfinder wrath of the righteous and rogue trader!), cooking lots, going on hikes and to museums :) im just looking for other women to talk with, no men please. i mainly use discord but I have other socials! I love yapping, asking for advice, sharing selfies etc :) dm me on here if you want my discord!

Now that I have successfully hooked you, maybe you'd like to know a little more about me!

I just turned 28, I live in the Southwest United States, I'm an artist and nature enthusiast. I'm working toward a career in conservation. I've been described as intelligent, funny, sweet, caring, and hot as hell. I've been on HRT for almost 8 years. I have a bachelor's degree and am working on getting my private pilot's license (though that will take a few years). I have a special love for foxes, airplanes, history, and music.

I've mostly dated cis people in the past but now I'm looking for a real connection with another trans person who understands firsthand what it can be like. I'm bisexual and sexually open-minded, but I'm only interested in monogamy. I want to build a real relationship and future with someone special. I want to be a devoted, faithful partner and I want the same from you. A perfect day might involve morning snuggles, a hike in the woods, going to the cinema, and grabbing some vegan burgers for dinner.

Interested? Send me a message!

Heya,

Figured I would give this sort of thing a shot. Been feeling a bit lonesome lately and thought I might seek out some company and see if I can establish some sort of long term bond with someone. A few things about me:

-Non-binary, I use they/them. AMAB if the particulars matter to you.

-Bisexual.

-Pursuing HRT (estrogen).

-Avowed leftist, though I would wager most folks here are some flavor of that. Deep running humanitarian views.

-Deep into nerd shit. Love video games (I play on PC and play a lot of Deadlock these days, so if you're into that, I'd love to play!), love tabletop games, and I love to read and write. I do some light roleplay as well.

-Kind of a blooming movie buff? I'm not sure, very much into films and analysis of them lately.

-I've got cats. Three actually!

-I do archery and I'm pretty okay at it.

-From the "great" state of Ohio. Funny meme state.

What I'm looking for: I suppose it's hard to say. I would like some friends, I'm open to something romantic if the vibe is right. I'd really like to meet folks with similar interests, maybe play some games together or watch a movie or something. Open to FWB arrangements too, if the energy is good.

Hi! My name is Nora and it's nice to meet you! I'm just a lonely trans girl from Austin looking for friends and possibly more if we really hit it off! I'd ideally like to be able to meet up in person with trans girlies my age, but online is fine too! I'd really like to stress that I am looking for people my age. As much as I appreciate the older trans ladies who've reached out(and I really do), I'd *really* like to connect with someone of the same generation! My key interests are mathematics, video games, and movies, but I'm happy to talk about pretty much anything and everything! I'm open to NSFW discussions once I get to know you, and have an extensive list of personal kinks. I would consider myself to be very affectionate and somewhat clingy at times, not to mention really easy to tease. Really just looking for something long-term and substantive, chasers need not apply. DM me if you're interested!

Apps have been killllling me lately after I got out of a very short lasted relationship and I'm heavily t4t so I love talking to trans women soooo much its like my favorite thing. I love games, books, animanga, art, etc. We can get a bit more flirty and possibly even NSFW if the vibes there but either way I just love cute and or pretty ladies, as one myself, so HMU!

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hello, hey, hi. i'm morgan, i'm from latin america.

looking for people to conversate, talk and/or game with occasionally. all platonic. just chilling.

i am a metalhead that loves psychology, gaming and i am in an ongoing quest to become a better person. i find shitposts and the occasional brainrot funny. i like poetry, singing and discussing random topics or politics. also autistic and bisexual.

my current gaming rotation has been fortnite, for honor, black ops 7 (zombies)) nd blood of the dawnwalker which is offline but i would love to talk about it. i have a lot on my backlog tho, just ask and i can send!

Hi my name is Magdalena! I'm a trans woman from South Dakota. I'm looking for my other half! Someone to be happy to see everyday. Someone I can, well just be me with. I'm very loving and kind. And there isn't much I wouldn't do for the person I love

A bit about me. I'm a 5'10 brunette with gray eyes. I'm almost 5 months on HRT and think I'm looking pretty good. I thoroughly enjoy nature and bird watching. I love horror and creature features. I also game a little bit and even made my own computer. I like to travel and see new things, and I'm quite inquisitive.

I'm fairly friendly to everyone and everything. I do have a daughter that I love. Which I know can be tough for some people. All and all, I just want to meet my one. Someone to be happy with and just live happily with. Don't be afraid to DM me. And hopefully I'll here back from you lovely people! 😊

Hello people my name's Jana I'm a 19 yo transfem from Macedonia!! I have a ton of interests but in particular I love sports especially Arsenal love collecting cute things love watching/reading animanga my favs are Witch Hat Atelier Yotsuba Monster Dungeon Meshi Frieren Chiikawa and a bunch more!! Also listen to a shit ton of music but especially adore Magdalena Bay and BC,NR! I have a so many more interests but don't wanna make this too long so if you're around my age and find similar interests to mine or just wanna have fun feel free to dm I'd love a chat :3

Hey y’all 👋🏻I’m Spenser, but you can call me Spense, I’m a transmasc non binary human(I use He/they pronouns and started using testosterone on 9/7/26), neurospicy, a born and raised West Coast native but im a level 2000 night owl/insomniac so any and all time zones are welcome, but please be 25+ (im 29)

These days, I’d say my main hobby/special interest is knitting, a close second is listening to music, and also listening to podcasts and watching tv, I’m slowly becoming more of a gamer boy, mostly just playing through the kingdom hearts series for the first time, but I can appreciate that it’s something that brings people joy so please feel free to talk about whatever game you’re currently interested in, I’m always down to listen to you info-dump on your favorite special interest or honestly whatever

In terms of the sfw vs nsfw subject matter, I’m always open to talking about both, but I will say I’m very much leaning more towards looking for more nsfw conversations today though, and I will admit that I’m very much a kink friendly person and definitely wired to be a subby af bottom, possibly a power bottom but more on that later, and so do with that information as you wish😅

If you’ve made it this far, and you’re interested in sending a message, please include your current band or artist obsession or your current hyper-fixation 🎶Thanks for reading 📖

Hai I’m 19 years old I weight 110 pounds and I’m around 180cm starting hrt next month. I’m looking for a longterm relationship but obviously we will have to talk first and see if we’re a vibe :> I’m a rly kinky person so that’s something that is rly important to me. My hobby’s are gaming and watching shows and be a lil nerdy about them

NO CIS MEN

im a 20 year old genderfluid who likes to game, draw, and make lyrics sometimes. Another hobby i forgot to mention is making lore for this big video game i wanna make one day :3. In terms of horny I am a submissive TOP, so like being ridden by a femdom, i like cnc and freeuse, down to try most things that donf involve pee, poop, vomit, or blood. ONLY INTERESTED IN BI/PAN PEOPLE. also trading nudes is a deal breaker, i cant off on text alone im sorry :(

Hi! My name is Nora and it's nice to meet you! I'm just a lonely trans girl from Austin looking for friends and possibly more if we really hit it off! I'd ideally like to be able to meet up in person with trans girlies my age, but online is fine too! I'd really like to stress that I am looking for people my age. As much as I appreciate the older trans ladies who've reached out(and I really do), I'd *really* like to connect with someone of the same generation! My key interests are mathematics, video games, and movies, but I'm happy to talk about pretty much anything and everything! I'm open to NSFW discussions once I get to know you, and have an extensive list of personal kinks. I would consider myself to be very affectionate and somewhat clingy at times, not to mention really easy to tease. Really just looking for something long-term and substantive, chasers need not apply. DM me if you're interested!

hey, i’m a transmasc enby switch who’s on T and my sex drive has been so insatiable lately so I’m looking for (maybe long term) friends who would enjoy getting each other off or keeping each other company while we do ;3

open to any genders, age 18-20, and bonus points for anyone who likes bears/chubby guys <3

Hello! Somewhat sheltered transwoman here trying to get past the social anxiety and maybe meet some new people! In the process of getting E hopefully sooner than later. 4/20 and alcohol friendly, but don't really drink myself.

I personally love competitive games even though I'm terrible at them. I play overwatch on my PlayStation and a little bit of league of legends. I love to read and go back and fourth between audiobooks and physicals among other geeky stuff.

Pretty strictly sub if things get to that point and melt to praise, open to whatever and new experiences as a whole

Don't really have expectations and I'm pretty sure im starting to ramble, so just happy to talk to new people and see where things go, thanks for reading!

Alright, I apologize for the mess that this post is about to me as I haven't slept in a couple days and I am currently very out of it lmao. My name is Kaidan and I'm a 32 year old trans dude from the midwest of the usa. I do not care how old you are as long as you're not a minor, obviously and honestly i don't care where you're from.. it lowkey kinda sucks where I'm at so I'd be down to move eventually anyways. I have not had any surgeries or started hormones, if that matters. I've been told my voice already passes though.

A little bit about me: I'm a huge gamer. I play on ps5 as my pc is not great to say the least lmao. I LOVE cats more than anything in life and I'm AuDHD and my current rotating hyper fixation is ASOIAF... i can and will talk to you about the Targaryen Dynasty for hours on end.

Personality wise: I am a himbo. I'm not very smart but I try my best lmao. I also just got out of a very long (and toxic) relationship so I'm rusty on the whole flirting thing 😭 I'm sorry in advance lmao

Appearance wise: I don't go anywhere but work and lately, doctor's appointments, so my wardrobe is literally just my uniform as of right now as I've had MASSIVE weight loss over the last year (hell yeah!!) and my old clothes do not fit at all anymore lol so all I wear is black scrub pants and a green shirt. I used to have a few piercings and my ears stretched but I was hospitalized about a month ago and had to remove all of them for an MRI and just didn't feel like putting them back in and then I lost the jewelry in the hospital. 😭 I'm going to at least get my eyebrow and my septum redone I just dont know when..

Gaming: i LOVE RPGS with a passion. A good RPG is amazing and I can get so lost in the world, atmosphere and story telling. I adore games like mass effect, dragon age, the elder scrolls, fallout, the witcher, etc etc. I enjoy multiplayer games too. As for shooters, I prefer 3rd person shooters.. idk why but I'm actual dog water at 1st person shooters. I'm not great at 3rd person but any and all senses I had during 3rd person is completely gone when I play 1st lol that being said, I will still play 1st person BUT it will not go well lmao. At the end of the day, I am not a competitive gamer and I just play to have fun and goof around so it doesn't really bother me to lose 🤷‍♂️ but anyways, I will play nearly anything!!

Goals of this post: i just want to find my person. Whether thats platonically or romantically. I'm cool with just friends or more. I just want to be happy and surround myself with good people and good vibes!

PS: If you know about ASOIAF, Please tell me who your favorite Targaryen is in all of ASOIAF canon. Doesn't have to be a ruler, can be a bastard as well, any Targaryen will do!

OH AND TELL ME WHO YOUR FAVORITE HOUSE IN GENERAL PLEASE!!

PSx2: if you own a cat, please pay the cat tax. This isn't a request, this is a demand and failure to comply with this WILL result in me escalating this matter to the IFS (internal Feline Services). Thank you for your understanding on this matter. 🐈🫴😤

I’m looking for someone to have some fun with and start a long-term relationship. I’m swich, so I can adapt to you, and I’m open to new things. I’m looking mainly in Europe, but if we’re on the same page, I can be flexible. I’m into pretty much every fetish, but I’d like to focus on breeding, frotting, tenderness, and lots of kissing, etc.

DM me your favorite adult toy—one you have or would like to have 😘

I'm a nb (amab) nerd as well and my opinion is yes, but I’d like to have data to back up that theory. That means I might have to sacrifice myself by engaging in spicy and hot conversations with kinky nerds.

My kink list is on my profile, but I’m open to discovering yours and gathering data for this all-important social research project*

\this message does not guarantee the success of said research, nor does it guarantee future publications (though it doesn't rule out the possibility, either)*

I’m a trans man who is a homebody. Plays guitar, does diamond art and puzzles! Let me cook for you and play guitar for you! I have been on T for 15 months. Comment play for me if interested in being serenaded! NOT 420 friendly! I’m sober! NC

Looking primarily for T4T connections. No cis men, please. I’m especially open to trans men and other trans/queer people I click with. A big part of the appeal of T4T for me is being with someone who may understand some of the complicated feelings around gender, bodies, transition, and identity without everything needing to be explained.

I’ve been feeling pretty lonely lately, and honestly a little sexually frustrated too. I’d love to meet someone where there’s genuine friendship and comfort alongside mutual sexual attraction — someone I can talk with, joke around with, check in on, and also have that feeling of being wanted by each other.

I’m not looking for someone to be constantly available or for us to become each other’s entire lives. I’d rather have something relaxed, affectionate, respectful, and mutually supportive, where we can enjoy each other sexually while also being actual friends and respecting that we both have our own schedules, responsibilities, and boundaries.

Chemistry and mutual desire matter to me, but so do kindness, communication, consent, and feeling comfortable around each other.

Thanks for reading. If this sounds like something you’re looking for too, I’d love to hear from you.

Hello,
I’m not very great at meeting people, but I would like to start dating and meeting people. Im6’4” tall. I’m an artsy person, have a BA degree in animation. I love cosplay.

I’m in the western washington coastal area. If I had to give a description of sexual positioning I think I’m a switch, but lean more to the sub side.

Please mention in any message you came from t4t if yo would like to talk!

ABSOLUTELY NO CIS PEOPLE. CIS PEOPLE GET ADDED TO THE LIST AT THE BOTTOM OF THIS POST

hey there! i'm a trans girl in the philly/south jersey area who wants to meet other trans and non-binary people for hookups.

a bit about me: i'm 5'8, white, and 165 lbs. i'm pretty skinny but i'm super fit so most of my weight is muscle. i'm an endurance athlete so i can go for a long time! i have B cups-ish and breast-length hair. i've been on HRT for 23 months and i'm pretty androgynous. i pass like 75% of the time. i shave almost all of my body hair and i'll wear whatever clothes and perfume you want (within reason)!

i'm super into oral, gentle domination, free use, and sexual service. push me around, make me get on my knees, boss me around, pull my hair, call me names! and then praise me when i'm doing a good job :3 i will also gladly switch if you're a sub!

can't really host but can drive far and i'm free almost every day of the week past about 9 pm. must be willing to prove you are who you say you are. let's be friends, chat, cuddle, make out, get drunk and/or high (optional), and use me until you're satisfied!

ongoing list of chasers who have messaged me responding to this post: u/ManufacturerDry7036

Hi. I’m looking for people to talk to and hopefully form a relationship with. I really want to find “my person” someday but I’d be happy to form other relationships, whether romantic, sexual, or platonic, in the meantime. I want something where we both feel close and like we can be ourselves. I‘m bad at transitioning from polite conversation to more personal stuff and deeper conversation so feel free to start off with something personal/deeper or to move to that later in the conversation once you get bored of me trying to small talk.

About me: I’m in Missouri. My interests are mainly psychology, philosophy, and sociology. I’m trying to expand into some less academic interests/hobbies so I’ve been getting back into creative writing recently. Horror’s my favorite genre. I want a somewhat traditional relationship someday. Not in a wife-beating way, just that I want marriage, monogamy at least romantically, probably kids eventually. (If my partner wanted to be a stay-at-home parent for a while that would be awesome, but it’s not a deal-breaker if not.) All that’s far off though; living together would be years from now as I have to finish college before I can move and asking a trans person to move to where I am probably counts as attempted murder. (If you’re cis you’d just be bored.)

Hello!

For brevity, as the title suggests, I am not here to have some sexting fling or hookup.

For expectations, to start, I'd just like to chat with someone likeminded and similar in my interests. You can be near or far, too! While I do eventually want to develop into something deeper if we really connect, I'm also open to just having more friends if we don't.

I'm monogamous, I live in Maine, I love the arts (all kinds - movies, books, video games, music, etc, any and all genres and cultures), cooking, and pretending that I can hold conversations! I've been on HRT for 9 months, and while I'm typically closeted with my presentation outside of explicitly gay events, I do still get clocked as a woman by strangers when I'm in my casual/boyish wear, so that's nice!

I'm very prone to being clingy with those that I can resonate with, so if that's a problem, consider it my red flag.

Oh gosh honestly really nervous about this post but hey! Worth a shot, i guess.

Call me Azure for now. FTM 22. looking for someone to be friends with- potentially more.

Big nerd. Love Kingdom Hearts, Persona 5, Roblox (cringe i know) Slay the Spire 2, Kirby and a lot more nerdy video game stuff.

Ideally someone 21-24. Also FTM. Please be a nerd too- love gaming, art, writing, DnD. PLEASE BE BASED IN TRISTATE AREA (NY/NJ PREFERRED!).

Dont know if anyone fits this but hey. Why not. If you do, drop a comment! Maybe we can be friends! Thats ideal for me first.