I am in my early 20s and recently lost my mother. This made me aware of the lack of support in Sri Lanka regarding grief, especially for young adults. Since this is a very unique situation most people don’t understand it would be nice to have a community who meets up and just hangout, even something like going for a coffee or doing an activity. Please let me know if anyone is interested and we could organize something in Colombo.

Hi everyone! Has anyone here got married in Dubai/UAE and later registered their marriage in Sri Lanka?

Also, if both partners are Muslim but the girl recently converted from Catholicism to Islam, are there any additional documents or procedures required?

Would really appreciate hearing from anyone who has been through this process, especially regarding the required documents, attestations, and steps to follow.

Thanks in advance! 😊

TIA

Average income: LKR 100,000 – 150,000 per month. No savings currently, as I recently bought a bike for commuting. However, I can save/invest LKR 40,000 per month after all expenses and fees.

I ordered a controller from easysmx website. I would like to know how much I would be charged for customs clearance roughly. Got the controller for 25k.

Hi guys !I did my A/Ls in Commerce and got 3Bs. I had the opportunity to enter a government university but didn’t pursue a degree. Currently, I’m working as an intern at People’s Bank, and I want to build a long term career in banking and secure a permanent job.

I’d really appreciate advice from people working in the banking industry.

1. If I can’t get a permanent position at People’s Bank, is joining a private bank a good option?

2. Are banking exams the main way to get a permanent job, or are there other pathways?

3. Which is better in the long run: government or private banks, considering salary, job security, benefits, and promotions?

4. What are the starting salaries, and how much can I expect to earn after 5–10 years?

5. Without a degree, will my career growth be limited? Should I pursue a degree or professional banking qualifications while working?

I’d especially appreciate advice from those who started their careers after A/Ls or as interns. I want to make the right decisions for my future.

Thanks in advance !

Hey guys as the title says I’m looking for good hotel suggestions for my anniversary.

What are some of the most romantic stays with great views around the country preferably Colombo, Galle or kandy, but open to other suggestions aswell.

Budget can vary so do drop some good deals aswell.

TIA

Does anyone know a good waxing salon in Colombo for a Hollywood/Brazilian wax?

I was reading some reviews of some of the popular waxing salons and lately the reviews seem to be pretty bad.

Please suggest a good waxing salon and a go to therapist there as well. TIA!

I have been having hair fall since my 20s but now it's heavy.

I am in my 40s now and have PCOS since puberty, so that could also be contributing to the hair fall. As I have frizzy and course hair, still shows volume but worried on the long run.

I don't seem to find a Trichologist on channeling or doc.lk, so would a Dermatologist be the right person to consult?

Would likento your experience and what treatment worked for you and doctor recommendation..

Thanks..

Hi everyone! 👋

I’m looking for a reliable POS system for a restaurant. I’d appreciate recommendations based on your real-world experience.

What system do you use, and what are its pros and cons? I’m particularly interested in ease of use, inventory management, kitchen order management, reporting, and overall cost.

Thanks in advance! 🙏

Recently CEB migrated to EDL. They installed those smart meters and stuff to stop onsite consumption review.

2 months ago our place in Dehiwala stopped sending onsite for meter consumption billings and it was all automated which is all good.

But 1 thing I've noticed is that since then I have never received a bill for 30 days. Its always 25 to 27days.

This might look small but it may be a serious issue. They reduce the cycle days but their fixed fee is never pro-rated. If this continues for the entire year reducing 3 to 5 days every month they can pocket 1 or 2 extra months of fixed fee easily.

Imagine this happening to millions of people. That's a huge hefty amount.

The issue is I live abroad and my parents live in Dehiwala which I get the bill for and I am not in a situation to talk to electricity board. They never respond to emails either. Their in-app complaint just redirects to technical team and they say they only handle technical issue and we have raised a complaint via wrong category and we can only talk about billing issuers either by calling or visiting the local branch.

Anyone else facing this? Ive confirmed with my friends and they all had the same issue. They don't really care about going thru the hassle for just 2500 to 5000.

Its not a large amount for a single household but this silent scam practice just lets EDL pocket hefty amount without a reason.

Gold is one of the best investment options to start with. So, please do recommend some reputable places to buy gold coins or bars?

Found these in the back of the refrigerator. 2 months old yet doesn’t smell bad or visible mold. No way this is normal 🫪

I've been looking for this book but couldn't find anywhere, anyone know where can I get this? Thanks

Hi, we are a group of 4 people and 2 small kids.
We are confused btw these two itineraries-
Please help out in telling us which one would be better and if we should drop a couple of places considering we have two kids btw 5-7 years of age.

I'm planning a Sri Lanka trip for Dec 18-27 and would love opinions on the route and pacing. Here's the plan:
Dec 18: Colombo (arrival)
Dec 19: Colombo → Galle by train, stay in Ahangama or Galle Fort
Dec 20: Hikkaduwa (turtles), stay in Ahangama
Dec 21: Mirissa → Tissamaharama
Dec 22: Yala safari → Ella
Dec 23: Ella (full day)
Dec 24: Ella → Kandy by train
Dec 25: Kandy → Dambulla → Sigiriya
Dec 26: Sigiriya → Colombo
Dec 27: Colombo → flight home
A few questions:
Is the pacing too rushed, especially Dec 21-22 (Mirissa, Tissa, then a 4:45 am Yala jeep)?
Ahangama or Galle Fort for the night of the 19th?
Is it worth skipping Mirissa to stay longer elsewhere?
Any must-dos or things to skip?

Or

Dec 18: Colombo (arrival)
Dec 19: Colombo → Galle by train → Ahangama
Dec 20: Hikkaduwa (turtles), back to Ahangama
Dec 21: Ahangama → Weligama → Mirissa
Dec 22: Mirissa (whale watching) → Hiriketiya
Dec 23: Hiriketiya → Ella
Dec 24: Ella → Nuwara Eliya by train
Dec 25: Nuwara Eliya → Sigiriya
Dec 26: Sigiriya → Colombo
Dec 27: Colombo → flight home
A few questions:
Are Dec 23, 25 and 26 too much driving? Is Nuwara Eliya worth the detour, or should I go straight from Ella to Sigiriya?
Is the south coast (Ahangama, Mirissa, Hiriketiya) too much time on the beach for 10 days?
Worth skipping Kandy and Yala for this route?
Any must-dos or things to skip?

I am 22, unmarried, and sexually active. What reliable, long-acting contraceptive methods (such as implants or IUDs) are recommended for my age and profile, and are there any legal or medical restrictions for accessing them in Sri Lanka?

Looking for a quick reality check from anyone who graduated with a Data Science degree and is currently working in the field.
Satisfaction & WLB: How do you feel about your work environment? Is the workload manageable or high-stress?
Actual Day-to-Day: What are you actually doing most of the time (SQL/data cleaning, ML modeling, dashboards, meetings)?
Company & Pay: What industry/company type are you at, and what does the salary range look like for your location/YOE?
Would love to hear your honest take pros, cons, or regrets!

As a Sri Lankan, I've been thinking about what really makes our country special to foreign visitors.

Is it concrete buildings, shopping malls, and modern developments? Or is it our green paddy fields, natural waterfalls, winding countryside roads, traditional villages, and the everyday lives of our people?

Just look at Ella, one of Sri Lanka's famous tourist destinations. As development continues, buildings and commercial establishments are becoming an increasingly visible part of its landscape. Are we giving enough attention to protecting the natural beauty that made places like Ella attractive in the first place?

I have seen Ella change from my childhood to the present day. Back then, Ella was a place that left me mesmerised by its natural beauty. The landscapes, the greenery, and the feeling of being surrounded by nature made it truly special. But when I look at Ella today and think about what it used to be, my heart aches. Sometimes, tears naturally come to my eyes because I feel we are losing the very beauty that made Ella so extraordinary. 💔 I know development is necessary, but what is the point of development if we destroy the beauty that makes a place worth visiting in the first place? I wish future generations could experience the same Ella that captivated me in my childhood.

Tourists travel from across the world to experience something different from their own countries. They want to discover our natural landscapes, experience authentic village life, taste local food, meet our people, and understand our culture.

What we consider ordinary in our daily lives can be extraordinary to someone visiting from another country. 🌾💚

I'm not against development. Tourism creates jobs, supports local businesses, and brings income to communities. But development should be balanced with environmental protection and respect for our traditional way of life.

If every beautiful destination becomes dominated by concrete, what will make Sri Lanka different from everywhere else?

Sri Lanka's greatest attraction isn't what we build. It's what we already have. 🇱🇰

Shouldn't we focus on developing tourism that protects our natural environment, preserves our village culture, and benefits local communities?

I'd genuinely like to hear your thoughts. Are we developing tourism in the right direction, or do we need to rethink our priorities?

I also shared this thought on my Facebook page Ella ceylon srilanka

Hello, I am curious about inheritance culture among the sinhalese people. I am a Muslim and we have "laws" that we go by but as per my knowledge yall dont have strict laws, only cultural practises.

We have a very detailed system in Islam for example if a family has a son and a daughter, the daughter would get 1/3 and the son would get 2/3. The son gets a higher cut but when he gets married all the financial expenses of the household will be placed upon him as a husband as a religious obligation, therefore the imbalance is "kinda" justified.

I asked some of my sinhala friends about their inheritance, and I have a friend he has two sisters. Apparently he will get everything and the sisters nothing? This is what he said.

And another friend its three daughters. Apparently the father decided to write the inheritance to a male relative kid instead of his daughters.

And another friend of mine she has a brother, therefore she says her dream is to build a seperate house of her own in her name one day and leave the family inheritances to her brother.

I dont know anything about how it works or if there is any specificity, I am just curious why it would work that way.
Is it usually like that or just those people I met? Does it not seem unfair to the girls that way

So I'm doing A/L's in physical science stream. But I'm kinda scared right now because the engineering field in sl is sooo bad rn. It's fallen atp. Are there good jbs in sl for maths atp. I'm scared cause sometimes I feel like I chooses the wrong stream or smt

How successful is this. Too many scam artists?

brown parents be like : " Back then we walked to school for kms carrying heavy books ....

This might be a long shot, but I thought I'd give it a try!

Yesterday (14th October), between around 5:00 PM and 6:00 PM, I was at Nawaloka Hospital in Colombo, in the old building near Room No. 16.

There was a beautiful lady, around 30 - 35 years old, sitting outside the room waiting to see the doctor. She was wearing a sleeveless white gown with pink flowers.

I really wanted to approach her and start a conversation, but unfortunately, I missed my chance. I’ve been thinking about it since then and wish I had at least said hello.

I know this is a long shot, but are there any guys here who were at Nawaloka around that time? Or any Nawaloka hospital staff here to help me.

I'd love to get a chance to meet her and introduce myself properly, if she's interested.