r/sexeducation • • Apr 15 '25

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r/sexeducation • • 3h ago

Squirting NSFW

3 Upvotes

Taking a poll. How many guys like for their girl to squirt on them while fucking the first time they have sex? Is it a turn off?


r/sexeducation • • 11h ago

Is it bad? NSFW

8 Upvotes

So always when a guy I’m going to have sex with etc ask me to take off my shirt and stuff I’m very insecure cause I feel like my boobs aren’t that big and I feel like if I show them and they aren’t big he isn’t going to like me


r/sexeducation • • 1h ago

28f finally relaxed in life, is this normal to happen now? NSFW

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I have been stressed out in life for approximately the past 4 years. I left an abusive partner, moved vloser to my job by about 55 min so now my commute is short, and I'm finally taking good care of myself. I thought for a long time that I just didn't have a big libido anymore, but now I'm not so certain. I feel like my skin is, metaphorically, on fire now. I'm constantly horny and feel like I need a partner for both sex and just general physical affection. Is it normal for it to be such a big night and day difference so fast? I've just never been like this, and it feels really annoying honestly, as I don't have a partner rn or anything close to it. Any insight or advice?


r/sexeducation • • 11h ago

Me (19m) and my girlfriend (19f) want to try creampies NSFW

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Me and my girlfriend have talked about this often and wanting to try creampies. she’s on birth control and she’d be on her period when we do it. Is it worth trying or is there too much risk?


r/sexeducation • • 11h ago

Pubes shaving NSFW

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Idk if anyone’s gonna answer this but I’ve been thinking of shaving my pubes for a while now. I have an electric razor but idk how to use it tbh. If there’s anyone here who can help me fr I’ll be grateful


r/sexeducation • • 11h ago

Omg so embarrassing NSFW

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I went to a swimming pool a public one and I was having fun with my friends some girls some
Guys and I jumped in the pool and my boob flashed and I didn’t notice anything before like 3 minutes and it was so many people there to and I think there was like people in the age of 16-17-18 and it was so embarrassing I didn’t go swimming there after that and I feel so embarrassed 🙈


r/sexeducation • • 19h ago

Can a dick cum soft? NSFW

9 Upvotes

I’ve always been wondering if guys can cum while they are soft


r/sexeducation • • 7h ago

Thoughts on how anal feels for a woman NSFW

1 Upvotes

So we been practicing with my wife I really been wanting to eat my wife’s ass because we talk about it all the time but I’m wanting to know how it feels on a women’s side is it pleasurable can she orgasm what does it feel like when a man goes down on your ass
Any pointers on how to go about it when I’m eating my wife’s ass when I do it really foward to going down on her asshole until she gets comfortable with me putting my cock in her ass


r/sexeducation • • 7h ago

can my gf get pregnant NSFW

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i 16 M and my gf 16 F got carried away yesterday and i inserted my penis inside her vagina but she said she had only 1/2 of the tip inside and i pretty sure i had pre cum but i dont really remember since everything went so fast. the whole ordeal happen between i think 2-5 second. it was both our first times. On her flo app it said she was on her last day of ovulation. i really messed up when i fingered her after with no ore cum on my finger or anything because i think i pushed it farther into the vagina. if you can help or reassure me it would be really nice


r/sexeducation • • 13h ago

Does pillow humping damage lace panties? NSFW

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I basically never wear lace but a got a few expensive ones and I don’t wanna damage them.


r/sexeducation • • 9h ago

What’s the best anal lube to use that won’t burn NSFW

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So me and my wife have been wanting to try anal but I keep seeing mix reviews on which one to try out we have tried this one called lube life from Amazon and she said it burned a bit when I applied it on her asshole and this other one of Walmart
So I’m wanting to see which one would be good I been looking at astroglide but I wonder if it’s any good


r/sexeducation • • 14h ago

How to dirty talk? NSFW

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Hi
I (F19) really like the dirty talk. My man (M21) can’t really do it. So I want to initiate it but I’m also bad at it. Any tips on how to start? I just want to start it so he will be more comfortable doing it himself.


r/sexeducation • • 11h ago

Me (19m) and my girlfriend (19f) want to try creampies NSFW

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Me and my girlfriend have talked about this often and wanting to try creampies. she’s on birth control and she’d be on her period when we do it. Is it worth trying or is there too much risk?


r/sexeducation • • 18h ago

What happen when girls orgasm NSFW

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Like when boy orgasm them cum but what happen to girls. Do they also cum and shoot stuff.


r/sexeducation • • 16h ago

Women big O Is It or Not? NSFW

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Hello , everybody!
So lets ger straight to the question , Ive been haveing rough time with my partner at sex. We broke up and got back , we got drunk and had best sex in our journey she told me she finished and after i cleaned her up she went straight to peeing. And i got a question is it really orgasm , she cknstantlt tells me she gets feeling where ooo its good and then she feels like she wants to pee and either ir tickles her or just if we do it again ir hurts/tickles. And im wondering is that orgasm or am i doing smrh wrong? Because me as a man when i orgasm i cant pee i want but cant for like 5minutes , also last time we had sex i was abiut to nut and took out and cummed , she told me she almost cummed and she wants my dick back but i got scared because of after cum ( also can you tell me is there a high chance of pregnancy if i take out cum and then go in again after cleaning myself up and squeezing leftover cum ) , and i was thinking was she almost actually almost finished or is it because ive told her our sex life is kinda off . Thanks for everybody opinions


r/sexeducation • • 21h ago

is buying a sextoy worth it? NSFW

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for under $30 should i buy one? never bought cz my ex said no


r/sexeducation • • 23h ago

Title: First time having sex — looking for big-sister advice on everything I should know beforehand ❤️ NSFW

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Hi everyone! ❤️

I'm posting here for the first time, and I'm hoping some experienced women can give me some genuine big-sister advice.

I'm considering having sex for the first time, and before I do anything, I want to educate myself properly instead of going into it clueless or relying on random information from the internet.

I'd really appreciate advice on the following:

Before the first time: What are the things you wish someone had told you beforehand? What should I mentally and physically prepare myself for?

Menstrual cycle: Is there a particular time during the cycle when it's more comfortable to have sex? How many days before or after a period is considered lower risk for pregnancy? How does ovulation affect the chances of getting pregnant?

Protection and contraception: What type of condoms should we use? Should I consider another contraceptive method as well? What should I know about emergency contraception in case something goes wrong?

Pain, discomfort and bleeding: Is the first time always painful? Is bleeding normal or necessary? What can help make the experience more comfortable?

Lubrication and hygiene: Should I use a lubricant? What kind is safe? What should I do before and after sex in terms of hygiene, and what should I avoid?

Aftercare: What should I expect physically and emotionally afterwards? Are there any warning signs I shouldn't ignore?

Things to carry: What essentials should I keep with me so that I'm prepared and don't have to panic at the last minute?

Things to avoid: What are the common mistakes, myths or misconceptions about first-time sex that I should know about?

Body insecurities: I have some spots and marks on my butt, and I'm quite insecure about how they look. For those who felt similarly before their first time, did you discuss your insecurities with your partner beforehand, or just let things happen naturally? Is it something I don't need to bring up because it's normal, or am I overthinking it? ❤️

I'd especially love to hear from women who remember what it was like the first time and can share things they learned through experience. Advice from anyone knowledgeable about sexual health is welcome too!

Please be kind. I'm genuinely trying to be responsible and informed before making this decision. I'd rather ask questions now than regret not knowing something later.

Thank you to anyone who takes the time to help a girl out. 🥹❤️


r/sexeducation • • 17h ago

Do all women moan dependent on if it feels good, or are some women moaners and others not? NSFW

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Weird question, but just curious lol


r/sexeducation • • 1d ago

I can’t control my erections, but I’ve figured out how my dick works NSFW

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Hey everyone, I wanted to share a few things I’ve noticed about how my dick works, and I’m really curious whether yours works the same way.

My ability to get an erection depends on how stressed I am and how long it’s been since I last ejaculated.

When I’m alone or with a partner I feel really comfortable with, there’s no stress, and getting hard is easy—even if I’ve ejaculated recently.

With a new partner, I’m more stressed, so I need to have gone a little longer without ejaculating and feel a bit more sexually pent up.

Keeping that in mind, I’ve been able to make sure I’m ready whenever I need to be. I don’t have any physical issues in that department.


r/sexeducation • • 22h ago

19F when do i know im mentally ready to have sex? NSFW

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ive been talking with my bf a lot whenever we are intimate that I love all the foreplay stuff but the actual act of sex scares me and we both agreed we just do the foreplay until im ready.

however in the past month ive noticed a shift in me, or at least my body. the idea of sex doesnt fill me with fear anymore, although there is a lot to be scared of in terms of pregnancy etc, had an almost pregnancy scare 2 months ago (if you could even call it that bc we are both virgins and I was very paranoid over getting fingered with leftover dried cum on his hand), and that was a very anxious time

we have both moved to our respective unis and we call a lot and our calls have gotten really horny, ive never been so wet in my life on those calls lmao just to cut a long story short. but ive been thinking about it and fantasising about it, and about the fact of is it really that scary? I intend to get on birth control soon and he will obv use a condom so that eliminates ~99.9% of the risk, and there isnt much fear in my mind left

this is my ovulation week so it makes sense ive been feeling insanely horny when we call, but im not sure how a lot of the fear I had regarding sex has just disappeared lol. is there a button in my head that is supposed to flip when im ready (lol)? am I ready rn? im confused as to how and when I would know. because physically my body wants it NOW loolllll but obviously dont wanna do something id regret if its too soon

I dont intend to do it before December... hes got a birthday that month so if I was gonna do it at any time id do it then. but yeah tldr how do i know at that point if I am mentally ready


r/sexeducation • • 1d ago

Trying Anal NSFW

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So we are pretty much at the beginning stages of trying anal i don’t really have to much experience with I’ve seen porn and try and replicate it but just doesn’t work
Looking for advice on how to start any toys or what kind of lube I should use
How can I have her have to best time of her life doing anal with it hurting her and her enjoying the time
We talk about it a lot about we are having sex or having a a talk and she gets sexually around I feel in her pussy just the thought of it really turns her on so looking for some pointers out would be appreciated


r/sexeducation • • 1d ago

Partner says that sex feels like nothing to her, and that she’d rather I just finger her. NSFW

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hi, basically what the title says. (F18) & (M18)

my current partner and I have been together for about 3 months. we had some really bad tensions rise throughout this past September, and our sex life got significantly worse.

shed basically just only focus on me and never on herself for that month, and she didn’t orgasm at all. only recently when we’ve started working things out in terms of our emotional side of stuff was she able to orgasm when I used my fingers.

Ive made her cum during penetration before, and she told me that time felt exceptionally good for her! we haven’t had a nice sexual experience in a while in which theres been good buildup and it hasn’t just felt like a “get it out of the way” thing or even a “chore”.

regardless, she’s said recently she doesn’t feel anything from penetration. honestly, as expected, all of her compliments dont feel as impactful anymore. but anyways, she said that one time it DID feel very good and she’d like that again. when i said we should spend time figuring out what “that” was, she said: “But that requires effort and I don’t want to have to figure things out rn. Just use your fingers.”

I personally don’t feel satisfied now in this dynamic! I feel like I can’t exactly make an ultimatum since the “scales” of orgasm now tip in her favor, which I always told her I wanted things to feel equal and fair but she “didn’t care about any of that.”

shes now expressed to me she feels like she can’t orgasm from sex as well. I was the first to make her orgasm from oral, penetrative, and via my fingers: the first two of those she thought were impossible. Now she feels like they’re impossible again.

i feel discouraged, and im looking for help.

i cant figure out or remember what we did that one time. I remember there was clitoral stimulation involved, a decent chunk of buildup (10-15?) along with excitement since it was early on and we were both consistently orgasming, and also we had a pillow under her hips. If it helps, I have a down curve penis (which normally would make orgasms hard in that position, but somehow it worked? I think I had a pillow under her hips and her legs were on my shoulders? Not sure.)

please help!


r/sexeducation • • 1d ago

Why are the hymen and virginity myths still strong? NSFW

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Why so many people still say the hymen usually bleeds during first intercourse? The truth is that it shouldn't. Is it because many people forfait foreplay completely? Sexual stimulation should start externally, and penetration should start only when lubrication is enough, very slowly with one finger and then gradually build up to it. It could take more than one session as well to achieve full intercourse. Unless people are just ramming it in dry, true pain and blood are basically impossible. That's why sexual education is so important.


r/sexeducation • • 2d ago

Where should he cum NSFW

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Ladies I need your opinion. Where is your favourite place for a guy to leave his load.