r/r4rMelbourne • • 5h ago

NSFW Casual Encounters 29M4F Looking for a snuggle buddy NSFW

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Currently looking for a snuggle buddy. Who would be consistent and would be down to snuggle.

About me: 29, asian, 175cm, slim but fit, brown eyes and black hair. I'm clean and tidy. I like to play golf and rugby, from SE suburbs. Im awkward on chat but when we talk physically im joy to be around with.

What I’m looking for: Want this to be more of a fwb situation. But happy to do a ONS. Also too busy for a relationship. I’m happy to travel so I don’t mind where you’re from.

What I offer: A good time and someone fun to try things out with (doesn’t have to be NSFW).

About you: Preferably someone asian and around 24 or over. No preference in size or height. Please be clean.

Happy to send a photo of myself if you ask.


r/r4rMelbourne • • 10h ago

NSFW Casual Encounters 26F42M looking for couple/girl

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We have experience in the lifestyle previously and as we are just getting back into it, we are wanting to meet more like-minded people again. Girl on girl is definitely a favourite of ours as well as swapping and we use protection for intercourse so if that matches with you, we would be keen to chat and see where things go from there. Happy to host, west side of Melbourne.


r/r4rMelbourne • • 9h ago

NSFW Casual Encounters 39 [M4F] Tattoos, banter & a little temptation | Discreet fun / FWB NSFW

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Maybe we haven't crossed paths yet. Maybe you've seen one of my posts and thought about saying hello but never quite got around to it. Either way, here's another opportunity 😉

About me -

39, 6ft, athletic, tanned, dark hair, brown eyes and sleeve tattoos. Career-focused during the day, but considerably less corporate once the laptop closes.

I'm just as happy dressing up for a great dinner as I am throwing a bag in the 4WD and disappearing for a weekend. The gym, live music, good food, fast cars, camping, fishing, kayaking, hiking and beach days all feature in my world. Bonus points if you know a hidden gem worth escaping to.

Personality-wise, I'm confident, easygoing, naturally dominant and a little cheeky. I enjoy good conversation, playful flirting and a woman who can give as good as she gets. A sharp wit, a mischievous smile and a little attitude go a long way with me.

What I offer -

Good banter, genuine effort, attraction, attentiveness and a confident presence. Someone who can make you laugh, hold an interesting conversation and build chemistry without forcing it.

I'm respectful, discreet and comfortable with clear boundaries. I appreciate that everyone has their own circumstances, priorities and expectations, and I believe the best connections happen when both people feel comfortable being themselves.

I'm flexible during the week, with some weekend availability. Happy to chat here first, see whether there's a spark and arrange a relaxed first meet if we're both keen. No pressure, no games and no unnecessary drama.

What I'm looking for -

I'm interested in meeting women who want a little excitement, a genuine connection and something that doesn't have to become a complicated relationship.

Whether you're a mature woman, MILF, hotwife, partnered woman or part of a couple, you're welcome to say hello. I'm open-minded about different dynamics, provided everyone's on the same page and any existing relationship agreements are respected.

Perhaps it's a spontaneous drink that turns into a memorable evening. Maybe it's a discreet connection with someone we both look forward to seeing again. Or perhaps we find a regular FWB arrangement that works beautifully for both of us.

I'm open to seeing where the chemistry takes us, without forcing a label or making promises before we've even met. Attraction, compatibility, honesty and mutual enthusiasm matter far more than a particular category.

If discretion matters to you, I understand. Privacy, trust and clear expectations are important to me, too.

Your turn 😉

Maybe life's become a little predictable. Maybe you're craving some flirtation, attention and excitement that's just for you. Or perhaps you're simply curious about meeting someone different.

Whatever brings you here, let's start with a conversation and see where it goes.

Skip the standard “hey, how are you?” and give me something to work with.

What's your most controversial opinion, your favourite guilty pleasure, or the one thing that instantly catches your attention in a man?

A little curiosity can be a dangerous thing. Let's see what happens 😏


r/r4rMelbourne • • 22h ago

NSFW Casual Encounters 18 [F4A] Looking to have some fun! NSFW

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I'm tired of all the dating apps, but I want to have some fun and figured what better place to do that than here! I've had good experiences in the past, and I'm willing to give things another shot.

I'm 18, curvy, blue eyes, brown hair. I'm a very outgoing and social person. I absolutely adore getting to meet and know new people. I enjoy watching movies, reading, going on hikes, and running. I'm located in the south east suburbs, however I can travel quite easily.

I'm looking for an ongoing FwBs dynamic. I don't particularly like OnS's, however I'm not able to fully commit to a relationship at the moment. That saying, I'm not against seeing where things may develop naturally.

I'm open to meeting anybody and everybody. Whether or dynamic be in person or based online, NSFW or not. I offer good company, a fun time, and someone to experiment with.

I don't particularly have a type looks wise, however I'd prefer you be around 18 - 35.

Feel free to send over a message including your age, some more information about you, and what exactly you're looking for. I can't wait to hear back from everybody!


r/r4rMelbourne • • 7h ago

Seeking Friends M4A - 33, looking for friends, inner north

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Hey everyone, I'm a 33y/o male, living in the inner north. I'm a big fan of bike riding, brewing beer and surfing. Looking to meet new people to get amongst some activities together and open to trying anything new. Flick me a DM and we'll go from there!


r/r4rMelbourne • • 10h ago

Seeking Friends 41 [M4R] Coffee catch up or get active

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Canadian born in the Philippines fairly new to Australia. Looking to meet people to get active, coffee, or just chat and establish friendships here. From inner city south & finishing up the recruitment for the ADF, trying to get back to shape before initial training. Being new to Melbourne still settling in and would be great to meet locals who are also keen but eager as well to explore others’ interests or hobbies. Travel is no concern, can easily ride to any location otherwise happy to simply banter about anything.


r/r4rMelbourne • • 2h ago

NSFW Casual Encounters 23 [M4F] - younger guy searching for someone older! NSFW

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hello everyone, i’ve been fortunate enough to meet someone older and have a pretty cool experience with them from here a while ago and i was hoping to try my luck once again, i know it’s a long shot but thought i’d give it another go!

i’m a 23m who’s on the search for someone who’s into younger guys or someone who’s been thinking about potentially doing something with a younger guy! or basically just looking for someone who’s down for a good time and some fun! could be a one time thing or something long term i’m easy going with either one :)

About me: 23M, tall and have a skinny/slim build. I enjoy going out and exploring nature, I also love playing games and watching sports. I can say im pretty easygoing, super chill and always respectful of people’s boundaries!

What I’m looking for: as the title mentions someone older. i have no preference with body size or shape, ethnicity or background, im open to anything really! Someone who is down to explore and have fun and find connections important.

What I offer: A fun and laid back good time. I’m super chill, non-judgemental and also respect your boundaries and wishes at all time. unable to host but can travel around. can split a room if you’re interested in that.

thank you if you’ve read this and if you may have any interest please DM i’d love to chat!


r/r4rMelbourne • • 11h ago

Seeking Friends 34M4A looking for ongoing connections

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34M living in inner SE. A few months ago I did the work to give up smoking weed after (too) many years as a raging stoner who would spend all my free time on the couch at home. This has meant that, despite having some beautiful close friendships from friends made earlier in life, I haven't made the effort to make or keep friends in recent years. I'm someone with a real love of life, open to all kinds of new experiences, but I'm finding myself getting to the weekends after a busy week at work and feeling resigned to spending it on my own again.

I'm naturally a bit of an introvert, sensitive type, too nice for my own good, but I don't think I come across like that, I'm fun, funny, talkative, deep. I love history, culture, nature, art, travel, good food, film. Music is a particular love of mine, on a very deep level, I listen to almost any genre. I can talk about anything really. I'm an artist and paint in my spare time, and work in menswear design for work. I've been trying to organise dates off dating apps (I'm a gay man) as my "weekend socialising" since sobering up, but that's not a very sustainable or even smart way of trying to build a social life.

I'd love to go to life drawing classes, gigs, art exhibitions, botanic gardens, day trips to the beach, small towns, etc. I spend my spare time drinking good coffee, op shopping, walking around markets, enjoying nature, or just at home painting with a good playlist on. If any of this resonates, reach out. I'd love to make some like minded connections for ongoing friendship, but I often feel frozen figuring out how to make the first steps towards it.


r/r4rMelbourne • • 1h ago

NSFW Casual Encounters [19 M4F] Melbourne — Looking to Meet Someone and See Where It Goes

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Heyy, I'm 19 and from Melbourne, thought I'd give this a shot lol.

About me:

Im a pretty chill guy who's looking to meet someone I can genuinely connect with. I'm a lean build and around average height, and I'd describe myself as someone who's more interested in getting to know a person properly aswell

I'm a little inexperienced when it comes to relationships, but I'm open-minded and happy to take the time to build something real with someone. I'd like to meet someone I can be comfortable around, joke with, talk about random things with, and just enjoy spending time together.

In my spare time, I enjoy working out/calisthenics, swimming (about 14 years now), watching any sort of movie and any type of music.

what I'm looking for:

Ideally, a girl around my age who's also from Melbourne and interested in getting to know someone without putting too much pressure on where things have to go.

I'm open to something casual if that's what we both want, but I'd also be happy if it developed into a relationship. I'd love to have someone to message throughout the day, check in on each other, go on dates, watch movies, cuddle, and enjoy the little things together.

I'd prefer to start with a chat, see if we get along, and potentially meet up somewhere in Melbourne if we're both comfortable.

what I offer:

I'm someone who's willing to put effort into getting to know you. I'd like to be someone you can talk to about your day, laugh with, feel comfortable around, and count on to show genuine interest. I'm not expecting instant chemistry or anything to happen overnight; I'd rather let things develop naturally if we click.

Physically, I'm an average/smaller height (over 5'6) and build lean. I can consider sharing g pictures privately once we've had a chance to chat.

If any of this sounds like your kind of thing, feel free to send me a message. Tell me a little about yourself and let's see how we get along