r/r4rMelbourne • • 53m ago

NSFW Casual Encounters 29M4F Looking for a snuggle buddy NSFW

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Currently looking for a snuggle buddy. Who would be consistent and would be down to snuggle.

About me: 29, asian, 175cm, slim but fit, brown eyes and black hair. I'm clean and tidy. I like to play golf and rugby, from SE suburbs. Im awkward on chat but when we talk physically im joy to be around with.

What I’m looking for: Want this to be more of a fwb situation. But happy to do a ONS. Also too busy for a relationship. I’m happy to travel so I don’t mind where you’re from.

What I offer: A good time and someone fun to try things out with (doesn’t have to be NSFW).

About you: Preferably someone asian and around 24 or over. No preference in size or height. Please be clean.

Happy to send a photo of myself if you ask.


r/r4rMelbourne • • 17h ago

NSFW Casual Encounters 18 [F4A] Looking to have some fun! NSFW

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I'm tired of all the dating apps, but I want to have some fun and figured what better place to do that than here! I've had good experiences in the past, and I'm willing to give things another shot.

I'm 18, curvy, blue eyes, brown hair. I'm a very outgoing and social person. I absolutely adore getting to meet and know new people. I enjoy watching movies, reading, going on hikes, and running. I'm located in the south east suburbs, however I can travel quite easily.

I'm looking for an ongoing FwBs dynamic. I don't particularly like OnS's, however I'm not able to fully commit to a relationship at the moment. That saying, I'm not against seeing where things may develop naturally.

I'm open to meeting anybody and everybody. Whether or dynamic be in person or based online, NSFW or not. I offer good company, a fun time, and someone to experiment with.

I don't particularly have a type looks wise, however I'd prefer you be around 18 - 35.

Feel free to send over a message including your age, some more information about you, and what exactly you're looking for. I can't wait to hear back from everybody!


r/r4rMelbourne • • 5h ago

Seeking Friends 41 [M4R] Coffee catch up or get active

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Canadian born in the Philippines fairly new to Australia. Looking to meet people to get active, coffee, or just chat and establish friendships here. From inner city south & finishing up the recruitment for the ADF, trying to get back to shape before initial training. Being new to Melbourne still settling in and would be great to meet locals who are also keen but eager as well to explore others’ interests or hobbies. Travel is no concern, can easily ride to any location otherwise happy to simply banter about anything.


r/r4rMelbourne • • 2h ago

Seeking Friends M4A - 33, looking for friends, inner north

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Hey everyone, I'm a 33y/o male, living in the inner north. I'm a big fan of bike riding, brewing beer and surfing. Looking to meet new people to get amongst some activities together and open to trying anything new. Flick me a DM and we'll go from there!


r/r4rMelbourne • • 6h ago

Seeking Friends 34M4A looking for ongoing connections

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34M living in inner SE. A few months ago I did the work to give up smoking weed after (too) many years as a raging stoner who would spend all my free time on the couch at home. This has meant that, despite having some beautiful close friendships from friends made earlier in life, I haven't made the effort to make or keep friends in recent years. I'm someone with a real love of life, open to all kinds of new experiences, but I'm finding myself getting to the weekends after a busy week at work and feeling resigned to spending it on my own again.

I'm naturally a bit of an introvert, sensitive type, too nice for my own good, but I don't think I come across like that, I'm fun, funny, talkative, deep. I love history, culture, nature, art, travel, good food, film. Music is a particular love of mine, on a very deep level, I listen to almost any genre. I can talk about anything really. I'm an artist and paint in my spare time, and work in menswear design for work. I've been trying to organise dates off dating apps (I'm a gay man) as my "weekend socialising" since sobering up, but that's not a very sustainable or even smart way of trying to build a social life.

I'd love to go to life drawing classes, gigs, art exhibitions, botanic gardens, day trips to the beach, small towns, etc. I spend my spare time drinking good coffee, op shopping, walking around markets, enjoying nature, or just at home painting with a good playlist on. If any of this resonates, reach out. I'd love to make some like minded connections for ongoing friendship, but I often feel frozen figuring out how to make the first steps towards it.


r/r4rMelbourne • • 5h ago

NSFW Casual Encounters 39 [M4F] Tattoos, banter & a little temptation | Discreet fun / FWB NSFW

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Maybe we haven't crossed paths yet. Maybe you've seen one of my posts and thought about saying hello but never quite got around to it. Either way, here's another opportunity 😉

About me -

39, 6ft, athletic, tanned, dark hair, brown eyes and sleeve tattoos. Career-focused during the day, but considerably less corporate once the laptop closes.

I'm just as happy dressing up for a great dinner as I am throwing a bag in the 4WD and disappearing for a weekend. The gym, live music, good food, fast cars, camping, fishing, kayaking, hiking and beach days all feature in my world. Bonus points if you know a hidden gem worth escaping to.

Personality-wise, I'm confident, easygoing, naturally dominant and a little cheeky. I enjoy good conversation, playful flirting and a woman who can give as good as she gets. A sharp wit, a mischievous smile and a little attitude go a long way with me.

What I offer -

Good banter, genuine effort, attraction, attentiveness and a confident presence. Someone who can make you laugh, hold an interesting conversation and build chemistry without forcing it.

I'm respectful, discreet and comfortable with clear boundaries. I appreciate that everyone has their own circumstances, priorities and expectations, and I believe the best connections happen when both people feel comfortable being themselves.

I'm flexible during the week, with some weekend availability. Happy to chat here first, see whether there's a spark and arrange a relaxed first meet if we're both keen. No pressure, no games and no unnecessary drama.

What I'm looking for -

I'm interested in meeting women who want a little excitement, a genuine connection and something that doesn't have to become a complicated relationship.

Whether you're a mature woman, MILF, hotwife, partnered woman or part of a couple, you're welcome to say hello. I'm open-minded about different dynamics, provided everyone's on the same page and any existing relationship agreements are respected.

Perhaps it's a spontaneous drink that turns into a memorable evening. Maybe it's a discreet connection with someone we both look forward to seeing again. Or perhaps we find a regular FWB arrangement that works beautifully for both of us.

I'm open to seeing where the chemistry takes us, without forcing a label or making promises before we've even met. Attraction, compatibility, honesty and mutual enthusiasm matter far more than a particular category.

If discretion matters to you, I understand. Privacy, trust and clear expectations are important to me, too.

Your turn 😉

Maybe life's become a little predictable. Maybe you're craving some flirtation, attention and excitement that's just for you. Or perhaps you're simply curious about meeting someone different.

Whatever brings you here, let's start with a conversation and see where it goes.

Skip the standard “hey, how are you?” and give me something to work with.

What's your most controversial opinion, your favourite guilty pleasure, or the one thing that instantly catches your attention in a man?

A little curiosity can be a dangerous thing. Let's see what happens 😏


r/r4rMelbourne • • 5h ago

NSFW Casual Encounters 26F42M looking for couple/girl

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We have experience in the lifestyle previously and as we are just getting back into it, we are wanting to meet more like-minded people again. Girl on girl is definitely a favourite of ours as well as swapping and we use protection for intercourse so if that matches with you, we would be keen to chat and see where things go from there. Happy to host, west side of Melbourne.


r/r4rMelbourne • • 17h ago

Events/Parties M274A Clubbing this weekend?

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Looking for people to go clubbing with. Friends could be here for as long as me.looking for more Saturday but Friday or Sunday works. Kinda all 3 do haha. Dont really care who you are, its just awkward when you're on your own.


r/r4rMelbourne • • 1d ago

NSFW Casual Encounters 24 [F4A] - Looking for a cuddle buddy NSFW

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Dating apps just aren’t it but still want a fun cuddle buddy so I thought I’d give this a try again since it’s worked before!

About me: 23, asian, 175cm, slim but still fit, brown eyes and hair, very shy at first but really outgoing once I open up, I like to play tennis and go hiking, from SE suburbs (I don’t really know what else to add)

What I’m looking for: Want this to be more of a fwb situation. Not the type to do ONS but also too busy for a relationship. I’m happy to travel so I don’t mind where you’re from.

What I offer: A good time and someone fun to try things out with (doesn’t have to be NSFW).

About you: Preferably someone asian and around 25-32.

Not to sound shallow but I think there needs to be some sort of physical attraction in order for this to work so if you could please send a photo once I accept/when you feel comfortable enough to and I’ll send one back.


r/r4rMelbourne • • 1d ago

NSFW Casual Encounters 39 [M4F] #Melbourne - Tall, baby-faced nerd with a soft spot for rainy afternoons NSFW

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Hey 👋😊

Before you read any further: I'm married and ethically non-monogamous. My partner is overseas for the next couple of years and supports me finding an intimate friend here. If that's a dealbreaker, I wish you well!

Still here? Haha, thanks for sticking around 😄

About me

I'm 39, though a stubborn baby face means most people guess 35, and I'm young at heart to match. I'm a quiet, nerdy artist living alone in Melbourne's west. Shy at first, but I can be a goofball once I warm up to the right person 😝.

- Gamer, cinephile and metalhead, and curious about board games and DnD

- Learning Mandarin: 我在学中文 (520 days on Duolingo, be patient with me 😅)

- Happiest walking or biking outdoors, or wandering shops and exhibitions

- My recent rabbit hole is software design, and I'm trying to get back into working out (sigh...the Tim Tams are winning)

6'1, Eurasian, black hair, brown eyes, caramel skin, glasses, average-slim. British and American schools growing up, so expect a lot of 90s pop-culture references.

What I'm looking for

A regular FWB here in Melbourne. A friend first, with a spark we're both happy to follow. Someone curious, feminine and kind, who enjoys being looked after and doesn't mind a guy who takes his time. We chat first, then grab a coffee somewhere cozy and see. Melbourne only please, as I'd love this to become something in real life.

What I offer

Long chats over wine, rain on the window, dappled light on a lazy afternoon, home-cooked meals, and mornings with no plan. I have a quiet, roomy place all to myself (honestly, more rooms than one guy needs), so I can host comfortably. Clean, discreet and patient.

If my post has resonated with you, I'd love to hear what your perfect rainy afternoon looks like 😊


r/r4rMelbourne • • 2d ago

NSFW Casual Encounters 28M4F - Seeking casual/ongoing fun with the right vibes NSFW

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When did life get so busy and stressful? Barely get the chance to go out and meet people nowadays. Been a while since I’ve met up with anyone so keen to get back out there and meet new and exciting people

About me: 28m, 6,1 and on the chunkier side and located in the SE suburbs. DDF and like to keep clean, able to drive and looking to meet someone to have some fun with. Interests include driving, walking, gaming, cooking and coffees.

Looking for: Someone ideally 25-35 but not a hard cut off (18+ obviously hate that I need to state) of any shape and size, who we click with and is looking for something casual/fwb type of arrangement.

What I offer: Casual with no strings attached expectations, with no judgement and a willingness to see where things go.

Happy to just chat and see where things go, dm me?


r/r4rMelbourne • • 2d ago

Casual Chit Chat 43 [M4A] - Looking for a fitness buddy to keep each other on track (running, home workouts)

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I've recently started taking my fitness semi seriously and I'm working on building habits that actually stick. Most of my training is home workouts plus regular runs, and I'm keen to get into swimming. Friendly, easygoing, and happy to chat about most things.

What I'm looking for
Someone at any fitness level who's on a similar journey and wants a bit of mutual accountability. Mainly sharing what we're each doing (workouts, runs, progress, what's working and what isn't) plus some general lifestyle chat on the side: food, sleep, juggling it all with work and life. Bonus points if you run or swim, or want to start. Any gender, any age roughly in the same ballpark.

What I offer
Consistent check-ins, honest encouragement (no judgement, off weeks are all good haha), and someone to swap tips and wins with. Down the track I'm happy to meet up for a run or a swim if we both feel like it.
If that sounds like you, send me a message with a bit about where you're at and what you're working towards.


r/r4rMelbourne • • 2d ago

Dating & Date Ideas 34M4F Getting back into it

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Hey there redit user base. Honestly I'm looking for a helping hand. On the other side of a... Long and staggered complicated relationship, where I'm comfortable to try new things. How ever. How TF do you flirt and woo?!? I'm mid 30s "hey gurll wanna see my well kept lawn and food prep?" Mint condition attraction. But on a serious note I'm trying to find my feet here.

I'm tall and scruffy glasses handsome (thanks mum for the compliment, she's a good lady) tattoos stretchers. My style is emo in remission.

Looking for some dates mostly. Would like to go get coffee, Lazer tag, a gentle explore, dog walking even if you have one too or we can walk mine together. Just after some chill no expectation times. If something forms hell yeah go us take it as it comes. Looking for like minded folk who can communicate and somewhat on-top of their shit. (None of us are perfect, I lied about my awesome food prep).

Offering some potentially fun times. Maybe some online blizzard games? (Forever cannot come soon enough) Motorbike rides if you're up for it. I absolutly can reach those top shelf cob webs for you. And I have some pretty top tier hand holding skills.

Communication, honesty, respect, empathy and a bit of mutual attraction is important to me.


r/r4rMelbourne • • 2d ago

Seeking Friends 26[M4A] looking for friends to yap, watch movies or play games with

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Heyyya! 26M from Melbourne looking to meet some new people and make some genuine friends.

I’m a big horror fan, i love creepy movies, scary stories, and anything that gives me a good scare. I’m also starting my fitness journey, so I’m trying to get in shape and be more active, explore healthier habits, and hopefully find some people who are keen to join me and keep each other honest.

I sorta realised the friends from high school and college i made have sorta drifted away from me and i feel more and more lonely at times, being agoraphobic really doesn’t help either 😩.

I would love to find people to have random conversations about anything and everything.
Watch Movies, play games and just having a good laugh. I’m pretty easygoing and happy to chat with anyone. Whether you’re looking for someone to yap with, play some games or talk about horror movies, or just make a new mate, feel free to message me!

Ps. I am Srilankan and have lived in Australia my whole life.

Doesn’t matter your gender,race or sexuality 🏳️‍🌈 come say hi!!!

Tell me your favourite horror movie (or the scariest one you’ve seen) 👀
Looking forward to meeting some new people! 🙂


r/r4rMelbourne • • 2d ago

NSFW Group Activities 34M30F 4 MF Couples (or M/F singles with consideration)

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Heyooo!!

My partner (30F) and myself (34M) are looking at making new connections with like minded couples (and individuals) for friendship, fun, and of course - the implied spicey shenanigans.

Ive got another post on r4rmelbxxx you can find on my profile with more information about ourselves, experience and body types!

Something I wish I put in that post though! Our hard limit on ages is minimum 25. - but more ideally couples and individuals between 28-44 is the sweet spot for us. (Older then 44 is still a potential interest!)

Also; for the ladies, if youre uncomfortable talking to me, the cis male, feel free to shoot me a message and ill hook you up with my partner so you can talk directly with her :) - I wont take any offence, a simple "hey could I connect with your partner about your post?" or otherwise is so fine.

Also Also; for the boys who read the above. My partner does not want to talk directly to you in DMs before meeting and establishing safety, chemistry and an interest for everyone involved (yourself included!!)

But for the r4rmelb post ill do the copy paste answers;

About us: Nerds and Alternative culture typicals, we have tattoos, piercings, we like video games, board games, etc. We're huge on animals! We have a horse, multiple goats, our beloved dogs and more :) (So horse girlies hit up my partner so yall can talk about horses!)

What were looking for: Friends, Community and Experiences that fit our interests, we're both hopeless vixen/stag/cuck types, we both like to watch the other, but we're also very keen for all sorts of group or kink related activities (MFM, FFM, MMMF, BDSM, Hypnokink, double date nights to events or venues, etc)

Sidenote* Hypnokink is something we would like to share with others we have good relations with in the future but currently thats just for us, as theres a lot to go over in regards to safety and consent.

What we offer: Shes fit, pretty and with cute bubbly mannerisms with the most perfect ass youll ever see, she works hard on the farm for our animals <3 Im a dad bod type with lots of tattoos and piercings, I'm confident and very secure in my relationships with other humans, which also means I won't waste your time or be vague just to get laid, what we both offer is solid emotional maturity and history in kink and ENM (I have more group / swinging experience, she has more kink experience.)

Please feel free to reach out to me on DMs! We will do our best to get back in a timely manner but we can be quite busy people, also I have a full time job - and I like to spend time with her going over all the messages when were both home and have time to do so together, so some days you might get a reply from me thats basically "will return when I have my wife with me for the chat :)"

Thanks again everyone!! Look forward to all the potential new connections and chats! :))


r/r4rMelbourne • • 3d ago

Seeking Friends 37 (M4A) Long term meaningful irl friendship

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Looking for bros and broettes seeking one or hopefully more of the following; irl hangouts, gaming or board game nights, a meme buddy, sports fan, fellow food connoisseur, tv and film buff or casual hiking bud.

Any gender somewhat close to my age (26-45). If you're F, I'm not going to try and bang you. If you're M, please don't try and bang me. I just want some more friends. I've already met a couple of people off reddit, and they understood the assignment

If anything in this post resonates, send me a chat to see if we get along.

About me:

-I'm a pretty chill dude, very punctual, reliable and put in effort. I always reply and I don't ghost or leave people hanging.

-Ambivert depending on how comfortable I am.

-Clean and hygienic. A lot of people these days have become comfortable forgoing a daily shower and application of deodorant/antiperspirant. I am not one of them.

-I don't drink often. Alcohol that is, not liquids in general. Can assure you I'm not desiccated. No issue with those that imbibe and I can partake occasionally.

-Pretty open minded and able to have discussions without getting heated.

-Located in the south east.

Stuff I like:

-Big foodie, love trying out new restaurants and also hosting small groups for the few dishes I can cook

-I game a lot on PS5. All types of genres, and I have a decent collection of local and online coop games. Soulslikes are my favourite.

-My humour lines up with classic Simpsons, Sopranos, Seinfeld, Curb Your Enthusiasm and Always Sunny. I will quote the first three frequently when around similar people.

-Love watching and chatting about AFL, Test Cricket and MMA.

-Big fan of film and tv series. From 80's action movies to modern horror.

-Trivia and board games.

-Exchanging memes, jokes, banter

-Going on easy-moderate hikes

If the post is still up, I'm still up for a chat so send em through. I know some people might be great in person but dry in text, but please put a little effort in and not just 'dm me' or 'hey', or for the more eloquent 'hey dm me'. Send me a chat and tell me a bit about yourself and/or what resonated about my post, don't be the Sahara Desert. I will respond.


r/r4rMelbourne • • 2d ago

Seeking Relationship 31 [M4F] Looking for someone to annoy with memes and bad jokes 😂 NSFW

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About me
31, Indian, Burwood East.

Honestly, bit of a homebody. Usually gaming, smoking a bit, listening to music or watching some random shit on YouTube. Somehow always end up watching videos at 2am about things I couldn’t care less about five minutes earlier.

Big into Deftones, Korn, Slipknot and all that good stuff. And yes, I’m a Man United fan. Life wasn’t already difficult enough apparently 💀 GGMU.

I’m pretty quiet when you first meet me but once I’m comfortable, good luck getting me to shut up lmao. Sarcasm is pretty much my default setting. My jokes are either hilarious or so bad you just stare at me wondering why you agreed to talk to me in the first place.

Got a Golden Lab back home in India who I miss heaps. He’s a good boy. Unlike my football club.

What I’m looking for

Honestly, just keen to meet someone I click with. Have a chat, see if we get along, maybe flirt a little and go from there.

Would be nice to have someone to share random shit with throughout the day. Memes, music, stupid thoughts that probably didn’t need to be said out loud. Someone I can have a laugh with but also talk to when things aren’t going so great.

I’m 31, so ideally somewhere around 28–32. Melbourne is home, and I’d prefer someone local. I’m hoping to find something long term eventually, but obviously we’ve gotta get past the awkward Reddit introductions first 😂

What I offer

A guy who’ll probably send you a meme with absolutely no context and then disappear for 20 minutes because he’s making coffee.

I’m not particularly smooth, so if you’re expecting some guy with insane rizz, I’m probably not your man. I’m just pretty chill, care about the people close to me and try not to be an absolute menace.

I do like putting effort into someone when the feeling’s mutual. Also happy to listen to you rant about your day, even if you need to explain the entire backstory first.

Anyway, if you reckon we’d get along, drop me a message. Doesn’t have to be some clever opening line. Tell me what you’re listening to lately or send me the dumbest meme you’ve got saved on your phone.

Bonus points if you can explain why we still support Man United. I clearly need help.


r/r4rMelbourne • • 3d ago

Exercise Buddy Hiking Buddy at Werribee Gorge - 32[M4A] NSFW

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Hey all,

I'm heading out to the Werribee Gorge today and again later this week and need a hiking buddy to keep me company. Planning to do the 10k which takes roughly 2ish hours.

I'm 32 years old and male, trying to use hikes to get healthy.

I make good conversation in general but moreso if you like:

- Talking about unique life experiences

- Board Games

- Nerdy shit (computer games, comic book hero shows and movies)

- Science (Space, AI, Biology)

- Pets

I've lived all over Melbourne so I have met people from all different walks of life, you won't scare me if you are different from me hahaha

I'll post an update after the hike to hopefully help this sub stay active.


r/r4rMelbourne • • 3d ago

NSFW Casual Encounters [30M4F] West Melbourne – Looking for an affectionate FWB, not just the benefits NSFW

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Hey!

I'm 30M, based in Melbourne's west, and I'm hoping to find someone who's looking for a FWB arrangement with a little more affection and connection involved.

I'm not looking for a serious relationship at the moment (got a lot going on in my personal life), but I'm also not looking for something that's purely about sex.

Honestly, I just miss physical intimacy. The cuddling, making out, holding each other, playful teasing, and just lying in someone's arms talking about the most random things 😭

I want the friends part of friends with benefits too. Someone I can laugh with, grab food with, have deep conversations with, and genuinely enjoy spending time with, even when we're not doing anything sexual.

A little about me:

- Appearance: 5'3 (160cm), Viet, light skin, black hair, brown eyes. Athletic-ish build with a little tummy

- Location: Based in the west near Footscray. Happy to travel or arrange somewhere comfortable for us

- Food lover: I love food and always have a restaurant or two up my sleeve. Would absolutely love little food dates together

- Golden retriever energy: Affectionate, goofy, playful, and probably a little too enthusiastic sometimes 😂

- Big yapper and listener: I love deep conversations and getting to know people. Whether you need someone to listen, or just want a distraction from a rough day, I've got you

- Not a small-talk person: Tell me about your weird interests, your dreams, your random 3am thoughts. I love that stuff

When it comes to intimacy...

- I'm naturally a gentle, sensual and affectionate person.

- I enjoy taking the lead, but your comfort and pleasure are just as important as mine

- I'm a big fan of foreplay, teasing and taking things slowly. The buildup is half the fun!

- Very much a giver, especially when it comes to oral

- I love knowing my partner is enjoying herself. Mutual pleasure is a massive turn-on for me

- I have a pretty high sex drive, but I value chemistry and connection just as much

- Aftercare is a must. Cuddling, kissing, holding each other, playing with your hair, and enjoying that post-intimacy bliss together. No rushing to get dressed and leave!

What I'm hoping to find:

Ideally, something ongoing with someone I genuinely vibe with. No pressure to turn it into a relationship, but also no expectation that we have to keep everything cold or detached

Anyways, that's a little about me before I turn this into a whole essay 😭

I'm happy to exchange pictures, chat and meet up somewhere public first to see if we vibe. No expectations of anything happening straight away

Your comfort, boundaries and consent are important to me. I'd want us both to feel safe and comfortable going at a pace that works for us

If this sounds like your kind of arrangement, come say hi!


r/r4rMelbourne • • 2d ago

Seeking Relationship 19M4F I've been single for 19 years, I don't really want to make it the full 2 decades

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Ik the title is blunt but I wasn't sure how else to word it

About me: 19, 6'1 (185cm), 120kg, white/european descent, a little chubby, quite broad, introverted (INTP-T), nerd, atheist but I don't mind if you're religious (as long as you're not religious in a hateful way), I'm egalitarian (I believe everyone deserves to be treated equally as a baseline) and socialist (I believe in free healthcare, affordable or free childcare, affordable or free tertiary education, affordable housing, high minimum wage, 4-day work week, etc.), I have really bad social anxiety so sorry if I'm awkward at first, but it doesn't take long once I get to know someone for me to become more comfortable, and I'm a switch

Interests: Cars, lego, videogames, music, movies & TV, photography, science, politics, internet piracy, cooking (when I can be bothered), pokemon, collecting trinkets, collecting stuff in general

What I'm looking for:

*Lives on the east side of the city, or at least no more than about 30 minutes west of the city

*Woman or feminine-presenting 3rd gender (3rd gender is anything other than the binary man or woman, I'm a straight man so I'm attracted to femininity and female parts, but I'm not going to exclude 1-2% of the population simply because they prefer "they" over "she"),

*Between 18-21 years old

*Woke

*Doesn't want to have kids (imo it's selfish to bring new life into such a cruel world and just take up more resources, especially when there's so almost 50k kids in foster care in Australia as well as kids in other countries who could be given better lives, also for a more selfish reason pregnancy looks distressing and I don't really want to watch a partner go through that),

*Smart - I don't mean necessarily book smart, "intelligence" in my opinion is incredibly relative, it's not just about book smarts, if there's something you're particularly passionate about, or even if you have high emotional intelligence then you're smart imo

*nerdy/geeky - I need someone to go to comic con and PAX with

*Loyal - self explanatory

*Also a switch

*Someone kind

*Likes animals

*This is kind of antithetical to all the woke stuff but I would prefer my partner not have a high "body count" (for lack of a better word) as I am unexperienced and don't really want my partner to be my first pretty much everything while being their first nothing

Physical attraction stuff:

*No shorter than about 5'1, I don't mind if a woman is taller than me but preferably within a reasonable amount

*Idrc about race, ethnicity, skin colour, but thick accents are kind of an ick to me

*With boobs and butts my opinion is that shape matters more than size

*Body type does matter, and it's kind of hard to describe my type but ig the easiest way to describe it is just average, as long as you're not too overweight or underweight then it should be fine (ik this is a little shallow but seeing other people's posts here it feels mild in comparison)

What I offer: attention, thoughtful dates and gifts, personal photographer (if you like posting on social media, or keeping photos to remember stuff), access to pretty much any show or movie you want to watch, compliments, affection (I'm not afraid to be chalant), and people say chubby guys are good for cuddles so ¯\(ツ)/¯

Immediate NOs:

Drugs, vaping and smoking, alcoholism (drinking socially is finesupporting anyone further right than the labor party (supporting Labor is iffy but means there's possibility for change), slurs (including the R slur and the F slur), bigotry of any kind (racism, sexism (misogyny and misandry), homophobia, transphobia, antisemitism, islamophobia), antivaxxers, flat-earthers, trump/pauline supporters, nazis, capitalists, billionaire bootlickers, police bootlickers, anyone who says "israel has a right to defend itself", and nothing too freaky kink-wise (e.g. anything that involves any bodily fluid beside saliva or semen, electricity, sharp objects, etc.)


r/r4rMelbourne • • 3d ago

NSFW Casual Encounters 26 [M4F] In a newly ENM dynamic and looking for people that have a lack of attention in their everyday life and a desire for it to increase (details in post!)

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Hi everyone!

Me and my partner have just recently become ENM (her idea) due to her lack of motivation for going on dates or anything of a sexual nature (due to her busy work schedule as well as personal reasons). I’ve had one good experience so far but since then I’ve really been struggling on the apps to find someone interested in our specific scenario.

A little about me: I’m 26 male, Italian/Australian with a decent slim build (that’s improving (muscle wise) due to gym 4 days a week). I am into all things video games and pop culture (so your typical movies and tv shows that goes along with all that), I love my sports (AFL and Formula one my two standouts but I have a team in basically all AU and US sports) and just in general love spending the plethora of free time I have either with my friends getting dinner/lunch/coffee or going out drinking, or having nights in with the cats and watching movies (hopefully with a new cuddle buddy in one of you soon haha).

I Just thought I’d make this post to see if their are any women that would love a higher level of attention, messages, sexting, dates or basically any form of attention they would want. I am full time work from home and my job isn’t really that busy so I have so much free time I could devote directly to you.

I'm basically looking for someone that is okay that I have a primary partner and very willing to receive more attention. I am also super flexible regarding what this 'attention' can look like, so whether that's daily chats and fun (both in person and online) or once a week/fortnight. Whatever 'attention' means to you in regards to what you're lacking and would love in your life I'm fairly certain I can fill that role.

Not being interested in in-person meetups is not a deal breaker either! But ideally i'd like to have a minimum of an online dynamic that also has a sexual component (due to my high sex drive). But happy to define this a little more once we connect!

If any of this sounds interesting to you please feel free to send me a DM! we can just chat to start with some pic exchanges to see if we’re interested in one another and I can give you more specific info on the dynamic and we can take it from there?

Hope to hear from some of you!


r/r4rMelbourne • • 3d ago

NSFW Casual Encounters 31 [M4F] Western Suburbs - Are you looking for a domestic slave or gimp?

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I am seeking a woman or couple to serve and perform household chores and services without a cost, expectation or any other requirements.

I take pride and pleasure in assisting others to live a simpler life and focus on other hobbies or activities they may be struggling to find time for. As well as I love to dress up in skimpy outfits, latex hood, heels and wear a chastity 🥰

Services can include and aren’t limited to:
- Cleaning House
- Mopping
- Vacuuming
- Laundry
- Folding Clothes
- Rearranging or organising
- Mowing Lawns
- Watering Plants and Gardening

If there’s some which are missing that you require or need, please feel free to message me, and I’ll inform you if I’m qualified to complete such a task.

Looking forward to hearing from you beautiful people 😘


r/r4rMelbourne • • 4d ago

NSFW Casual Encounters 30M4F Seeking a female companion, fun time and genuine connection NSFW

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About me: after having doing meet ups in the past I've been wanting to try it out again. Im looking for FWB, maybe more if we really connect. Im a nsfw poster so i think it would be exciting to meet someone from here. It really changes the dynamic and makes it so much more exciting.

30 | M | 5’10” | Hung guy| Muscular/fit build | Caucasian with tan skin | Green/hazel eyes .

Pics on profile if you want a preview 😉

Personality: more of an introvert at first but Chill, confident, and a little playful once we’re comfortable.

Hobbies: Passionate about training martial arts, nature hikes, trying new spots/foods, active lifestyle, and deep and meaningful conversations, mental health

What I’m Looking For

I am looking for a FWB. But i am also open to more if we click

F with age range of 35 and under preferably

Free some Weekdays and afternoons and weekend

I would love to get to know someone online first, but we can start with a low stress public meet, Grab coffee or a quick bite in public first, place see how we vibe and if we click then, go from there. Start casual, get to know eachother laughs & chemistry check FWB with potential for more if the spark is real

What I Offer

-its on my profile, 😉 but also long passionate sex

but also A relaxed, judgment-free vibe where you can be 100% yourself, i love to have deep and meaningful conversations

Ready to please and have a fun time

-spontaneous dates and booty calls

-always happy to laugh and have fun, memes are my love language

-respect and safety and comfort

Im trying my best to meet post requirements, so sorry if this is poorly written

Send me a DM with your age, and pics if interested 😁


r/r4rMelbourne • • 4d ago

Seeking Relationship 36 - F4M/F4A - Outer Sth East - chats, cookies and companionship NSFW

13 Upvotes

Hey there,

Hoping the reddit gods shine on me (again).

About me:

- Beach days and movie nights fuel my soul

- 36, tall and plus sized

- Manager by day, cat lady by night

- Bit of a nerd - history and myth

- Bakes amazing cookies

- Quality time and physical touch are my love languages

What I'm looking for:

*To connect with those also seeking to develop a monogamous relationship if the vibe is right*

- 28 - 43 (wriggle room at the latter)

- Has kids or is open to having them

- Tells a good Dad joke 🥰

- Perference for 5ft 8 and taller

- Employed

- Emotionally available or working on it

- Left leaning views accepted or promoted

What I offer:

- Good conversation and listening skills

- Amazing baked goods

- Sense of adventure

- Someone to laugh at your bad puns and a loyal advocate

Tell me a bit about you and your inner nerd and I'll tell you about mine 🥸

Looking forward to chatting!


r/r4rMelbourne • • 5d ago

Seeking Friends 26F4A Looking for friends to enjoy Melbourne night life

10 Upvotes

Hey everyone,

I am 26F eastern suburbs (you can be from anywhere in Melbourne though). Looking for anyone who is wanting a friend to go out with - especially to enjoy Melbourne night life. Would probably be a better fit if we’re within 10 years of age to each other but open to anyone.

I have not had a friend/group of friends to go out with since becoming an adult, so I would love to experience night life in Melbourne with a friend/group of friends. Maybe bars (even though I don’t drink, but just for the vibes) or even clubbing. Could be other activities like pool, movies, games nights.

I also really love trivia and board games so if you’re into that maybe we could bond over a common interest!

Only platonic please. If you’re creepy, you will be reported. I am open to male friends but I would really appreciate a female friend to feel safe with going out :)