I saw one of Phoebe’s fan accounts this morning talking about how someone recently posted a (now deleted) photo of Phoebe, saying that they learned their lesson not to take pictures of her in public. But it looked like the photo was taken in a public restroom?!?! Like come on, guys. She had to comment on the photo and say she didn’t like it for you to know that?! I don’t care how young of a fan you are, you should know it’s completely inappropriate to snap photos of ANYONE in a bathroom. Can we just collectively agree to be cooler fans than that? Especially toward an artist who has gone to great lengths to gain control of the photos and videos that are publicly posted of her. But also, anyone in a bathroom is off limits, celebrity or not. 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️

It has been on loop for me for the past 2 months since lost weekend came out. I had a traumatizing but formative relationship with someone who recently got deported as a result of what they did to me. I have been mourning like this person died. the conflicting feelings eat me alive but this song put words to so much of what I feel about all of it even when it’s very much about something very different. I love you phoebe thank you for your art, thank you for giving it to us and letting us cry to it and mold it to apply to our own hearts and experiences

I’m mom of a 4 year old boy and I SOB every time I hear this song. I do NOT understand interpretations of the song where she’s singing about a romantic partner or friend. To me I can only hear it as being about a child. Am I wrong? Other parents do you feel this way?

Holler if you got any of these I made 💖 I traded lost boys for a lost boys and just handed the rest out 🥺

Forbes confirms that Phoebe has submitted to 8 Grammy's categories, including AOTY. In my opinion...all nominations deserved. And AOTY? Maybe I'm biased...but LW deserves.

State farm arena forced us to throw away our lighters and wouldn’t let us put them in the yondr pouches. Rip to the product of an entire nights work 💔

i worked on this one for a long time! pls be nice i am self taught lol

I started by listening to the entirety of Lost Weekend on a long walk. Holy shit. I went back thru Punisher and other collabs. I read the Fader profile on her. Now I will find myself listening to As Above on repeat and getting super emotional each and every time. The melody is so haunting, and the lyrics!

I am very happy (but a bit jealous if I'm being honest) they got to see her in Philly a couple weeks back. (not my pic, obvi) Both daughters reported the show was an amazing experience.

I did get to see her on the big screen in Primetime, and I thought her performance was very solid. New Phoebe fan here, checking in!

ok so phoebe looked like a goddess (as always) in Venice for Primetime promo. makeup artist Kabuki did her makeup. can't find any deets on the products he used tho!!! absolutely need to know what was used, especially on her lips!!!! anyone has any ideas?

thx xox

I’ve been super into lost weekend and opted to listen to it while getting an mri a few weeks ago. BAD DECISION.

Being in a coffin sized tube that screams at you while Phoebe is singing “this machine is killing me” was terrifying.

Spoiler here is my view from Atlanta now written in memory. Brilliant show!

I feel like if she released it as a single alongside Lost Boys, it would’ve been a big hit. Catchy as hell, but the lyrics are totally Phoebe’s distinct songwriting voice. Isaac Woods’ feature is great and it’s as atmospheric and unique as the rest of the record.

DISCLAIMER: I am not epileptic, but I have POTS and am sensitive to flashing/strobing lights and get headaches/dizziness from too much exposure.

I did a lot of reading on this sub before going to the Lost Weekend tour and combined everyone’s advice to maximize my chances of making it through the shows without an issue. I’ve now been to both the Charlotte and Atlanta shows, sitting in lower bowl for one and upper bowl for the other, so I feel qualified to share the exact precautions I took and what to do during certain portions of the set.

General Tips:
- Get extra dark polarized sunglasses! These almost completely blocked out all ambient light during some of the more minor uses of flashing lights. Mine had shades on the sides and top for the fullest possible coverage.
- Wear a hat! When I was in the lower bowl, this blocked out any lights above me. At both shows, I was able to put my head down and block out the worst of the lights with the brim.
- The lower bowl may be a slightly better time for those with photosensitivity. I sat in a section almost parallel to the stage, so I almost completely missed out on the lights flashing on the base of the dome and behind the curtain. The orb thing above the B stage was also a bit easier to block out with just my hat.

The Setlist:
- The Outside: I wore my sunglasses, just to block some of the bright light. Looking at the effect around the dome at the beginning for too long made me slightly dizzy.
- Motion Sickness: No issues!
- Kill Me: I left, based on Reddit recommendations. My friends told me that I might’ve been fine, but it was fair that I erred on the side of caution.
- The Governor’s Waltz: No issues!
- Lost Boys: Some quick flashing during the end of each chorus, I just ducked my head down to use the hat to block it out.
- DVD Menu/Garden Song/Moon Song: No issues!
- Liberty Tree: Some rapid flashing near the beginning of the song in time with the instrumental, I also just ducked my head down to cover this with the hat.
- Panorama/Lost Weekend: I left once she wrapped up Liberty Tree, based on the recommendation of Reddit. I was told by my friends at both shows that this was a great decision.
- Funeral/Graceland Too: No issues!
- Haunted: Flashing during the second and third choruses. I put on my sunglasses, ducked my head down to block it out with the hat, and covered the sunglasses with my hand.
- Still Standing/As Above: No issues for me, but some people might be sensitive to the sparkly light effect that shows up during the second half of As Above.
- Bobby: The only song that gave me more trouble sitting beside the stage, only because half of the main flashing lights were pointed right at us. This one was okay with the sunglasses though, it was only in short bursts with the instrumental.
- On Video: I left the arena both times, also based on Reddit recommendations.
- Georgia/I Can’t Wait/surprise song: No issues!
- Kyoto: No issues for me, but there could be if you're sensitive to blue/red lights. They don't flash, but they do move around the stage and dome.
- I Know the End: Mostly fine until the very end. I noticed there were some rapid changing projections on the inside of the dome for the second half of the song, but I couldn't really see these in either of my seats. At the end during the screaming, I put my sunglasses on, ducked my head down to block it with the hat, put my hand over the sunglasses, and squeezed my eyes shut. Even though I know the lights were going crazy, I was basically in complete darkness by doing all of these things.
- Lost Weekend Reprise/Scott Street/Never Going Back!: No issues!

I wanted to share my complete guide because knowing this template for my second show gave me a lot of peace of mind. Again, this does not necessarily apply to people with epilepsy, but I had been a bit scared into thinking that the whole show was full of awful strobing lights, and I was pleasantly surprised that many songs were lit only by static or slow moving lights. Feel free to add any other tips or observations I might have missed!

What are the chances of Cameron Winter joining Phoebe for her show in Vancouver on the 24th? Geese plays a show in Seattle the day prior and aren't playing any shows on the 24th, which means they're less than a 3 hour drive from Rogers Arena. Obviously major copium, but it would be so rad if this happened!

I never thought the day would come but Manchester Orchestra is from Atlanta and their drummer passed away earlier this year. Beautiful way to honor them and I’m so blessed I could see that live. Been one of my favorites for years and never thought I’d see the day :”)

I’ve been listening to Phoebe since 2018 and I used to be a massive Sun Kil Moon fan then too. She used to post a lot of his songs on her IG stories. Phoebe has covered Sun Kil Moon songs and referenced him in her work before. The line “Ohio carried me away” has always felt like a nod to “Carry Me Ohio.” But I was listening to Best Dressed and couldn’t stop feeling like something stuck out to me.

I know the lyric is very personal, but I suddenly remembered a Sun Kil Moon song with a super similar same lyric in it.

In Best Dressed she says “What if we had been ready for the kid, sorry.” And in the Sun Kill Moon song Natural Light he reminisces on an old love and one of the lines is “I’ve thought on things that we said
What if we’d had the kid” and it just immediately stuck out to me! She also says “we could’ve been anyone” and in the Sun Kill Moon song there’s a line about going by a different name and changing their appearance.

I’m sure it’s a coincidence, but since Phoebe always liked Sun Kil Moon deep cuts I just thought it was an interesting parallel!

I’m going to the Vancouver show on the 24th.

So with the whole phone-free thing, I figured, cool, I’ll just leave my phone at home and then I won’t have to wait in line for the Yondr pouch and I’ll be able to get in/get out faster.

However I just noticed that Ticketmaster for this show lists the tickets as “Digital Only.” So I guess I have to bring my phone?

Does anyone know if there’s a way around the digital ticket or some other option (like will call) that will allow me to get into the venue without a phone?

Thanks!

Could have swore I heard some of the soundtrack mixed in, specifically “carpathian ridge”

Hii!! Does anyone know if radio stations are still doing soundcheck giveaway for the fort worth show?!

Security at the front were absolutely crap, rudest folks I have ever met in my life. With the show being no phones, they give you the thinnest and smallest receipt with your seat on it (hope you don’t lose it) and my wife did not even bring her phone to not have to deal with it, we grab food, go to the only place that has tables which happens to be in the phone zone, my wife without a phone goes to grab a drink and gets cursed out and called a liar for trying to sneak her phone (that she never brought) out of the phone zone, 2 guys in security keep calling her a liar, I walk over and they let her through. Just a night ruining moment. Hire better people and treat people with basic respect State Farm.

After the concert at the main State Farm gate…I was wondering if anyone saw the guy near the pickup lanes with the little lemur on a leash? Or pictures? Nobody believes me.