I agree with the other guy. I did try to fight my ass out of this pit, but sometimes, it's useless and will only worsen the situation. Just a simple exemple : let's say you're locked into a room, with nothing. You can try to break the walls by repeatedly hitting them with your head, or just wait. Let's say you DID hit the wall repeatedly with your head, noticed it was painful and the wall didn't move. Would you still be trying ?
And you'd be in more pain, and still be locked in. But I read you were 20, so it's normal you think this way. I really hope you'll still think like this in a few years, but I doubt you will.
Except yourself, and if that's truly what you believe, then perhaps it is too late for you. Life throws all kinds of challenges at us, but it our strength and willpower that will carry us through it.
Like I said, nobody cares. I can't willpower my way out of being too dumb for a degree, or get my DUI removed. So why bother even crawling out of bed in the morning?
Nope, nobody truly helps you out of the hole you put yourself in. It's up to you to climb out of it. But hey, if my mindset is so damaging, I apologize, but you'll be alright :)
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u/Traditional-Bread678 1d ago
It won't get better unless you want it to get better. Nobody will help you. You must help yourself.