r/ireland • u/jmcbuzz • 11h ago
Health Appreciation for our nurses
As it turns out, today is a significant date in my life. On the 14th of October, 13 years ago my only son was born.
There were some issues during the pregnancy so we knew that he may have some problems after birth.
The section was scheduled for 9am. My wife went in and I thought it would be the same as my daughter's birth, with 10 minutes wait, baby born... Done.
But it wasn't. An hour passed and I was climbing the walls. A doctor opens the door and explains to me that everything is not good. My son is critical and my wife has had to have blood transfusions. My world was crashing around me.
I was brought to see my son and knew straight away from seeing him it was bad. I was then given the choice to go to crumlin or staying with my wife who I hadn't even seen yet. I choose my wife.
Long story short, my son passed 11 days later.
Jump to today, it's a very difficult day for my family when we should be celebrating him becoming a teenager but it's just a difficult memory. AND, Our nurses have felt the need to strike. The nurses over those 11 days kept myself and my wife going. We all knew that it wouldn't be a happy ending but the nurses lightened the room when they came in. The job that they do is sooo important!!
I think back and am thankful for them, but thinking further I realise that my son was not the first or last child that they cared for that passed. It's part of their job! They deserve so much more for what they do!!