r/halloween • • 12h ago

Discussion Questions about morals of scaring children on Halloween

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I'm sure this question has been asked before, but I couldn't find anything here. Apologies if it's redundant.

I am an adult college student and I will be working on Halloween instead of participating. I usually visit my family, but they aren't celebrating since they are going on vacation instead this year.

But, I am still excited for Halloween! I am making my costume and I am planning a Halloween event for my campus.

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So, I saw many videos of parents condemning those who scare children on Halloween. For the record, yes, I would scare children on Halloween growing up, but I wouldn't really scare children who were literal toddlers/pre-school age. All I would do is wear a costume, hide behind a car and jump out when some 8-14 year old walked up to our house. Nothing serious ever happened, was all in good fun.

However, I see many parents condemning those who wear scary costumes (many of these parents equate the use of fake blood, knives and scary masks as "scary") as they are "too scary" for their children". And also, they do not like when their children get scared on Halloween....but I feel like that is kind of the point of Halloween?

I am out of the circle, so maybe many parents here can tell me if this is a new, common moral for Halloween? I thought it was normal, almost expected for children to be scared on Halloween; it was a risk they knew of before venturing out after dark and was all part of the fun. At least, when I was a child, part of the fun was going up to a house, not knowing if you would be scared or not.

Things like Trunk-or-Treat and Community Center events had trick or treating without the scare factor specifically for children who couldn't handle even a small scare.

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TLDR: Is it now normal for children to not dress scary on Halloween, and to not be scared? This seems different than when I was younger? But I could be looking through rose-tinted glasses. Also, this may not be a common thing I think it is, and just a social media thing.

I am just curious to know since I am an adult and I attend adult events instead of handing out candy (since I am a broke college student and can't really afford to do that)

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DISCLAIMER I am aware that being too scary, too realistic, scaring children to death can be too far. This is not what I am referring to.

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EDIT: After reading comments, I just now remembered; my house was in the neighbourhood that often spooked children. Meaning, when Halloween came by, everyone knew our neighbourhood spooked children, maybe that's why we didn't have any problems because when families came by, they knew what they were expecting.

Other neighbourhoods were known as trick-or-treating only, so they were safer for those who didn't want to be scared. I saw many younger children and toddlers over in those areas all the time, while I saw older elementary and up in my neighborhood.

I think it's great, lowkey, to have scare and non-scare areas on Halloween. Someone mentioned children with special needs and I think that's great to consider.


r/halloween • • 11h ago

Costume Can you say uncanny valley?

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Last picture is how it looked before i modded it.

I broke the ears off.

Redrilled strap holes and addes Hocky mask straps.

I painted the eyes and made them look like they were oozing black fluid.

Then I took a very thin most of black spray paint and sprayed it from 3 feet away. Until the facial features popped out more.


r/halloween • • 20h ago

Party Do adults have costume parties ?

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Honestly wanna know I’m 24 & love Halloween. Would hosting a Halloween event or get together be to cringe going forward ?


r/halloween • • 22h ago

Costume Halloween blood stained skin

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Please be careful don’t smother the kids in it. Iv scrubbed my hands and only had it on a few mins to make a costume 😕


r/halloween • • 22h ago

Discussion Maybe read the room NBC

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Spoiler/NSFW

Dressing up as an incel rapist is extremely gross and inappropriate in general. With the raping done by the Cornell 7 it is morose in despicable. Corporate greed truly has no conscience.


r/halloween • • 11h ago

Help! Purple and orange light?

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Dumb question where did purple come from for Halloween lights ive noticed its orange which makes sense pumpkin fall leaves etc but what about purple where did that come from


r/halloween • • 10h ago

Home Decor Halloween decorations up town 🍁🍂🎃🍁🍂🎃

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Older man, wife and Son put up Halloween decorations. They didn't mind me taking pics. Such nice people. We talked and they love Halloween like we do guys. Lovely people. 🎃🍁🍂🍁🎃🍂🍁🎃


r/halloween • • 7h ago

Costume Guess who I’m being for Halloween based on my costume progress! 🎃

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Currently in the raw cardboard and sculpting phase, but the silhouette is coming together! ​

Place your guesses in the comments, and pray for me, because I only have 15 days left to finish 🫠 ⏰


r/halloween • • 18m ago

Home Decor Oogie Boogie cat decor question?

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Hi I went to Oogie Boogie tonight with gf. It’s not really my thing. One thing caught my eye that I wanted. It was part of the decor in a shop. It’s one of these chinese lanterns but with cats. Bad pic I know. Anyone happen to know where I get one?


r/halloween • • 10h ago

Humor How It Feels to watch The Adventures of Ichabod and Mr. Toad every year:

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r/halloween • • 3h ago

Home Decor Halloween Patio Esthetic

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Am I understanding the assignment?


r/halloween • • 16h ago

Discussion Non-candy gifts ideas

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I already got some candy to hand out to the kids but was thinking of getting a non-candy option too to let them choose. I want to stay away from cheap plastic things that will just get thrown away. I do like the idea of giving juice boxes out. Any other ideas?


r/halloween • • 11h ago

Party Halloween party games for adults

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What are some actually fun games to play that are simple enough to learn, ideally easy to opt in/out of (not lasting super long, but has rounds so you can join in or pass), suitable for 30 somethings?


r/halloween • • 8h ago

Costume Which Halloween costume should I wear this year?

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Hi guys! I'm stuck between Wanda, Cheshire Cat, and the White Rabbit! I put together these three costume ideas myself. Which one do you think is the cutest/sexiest? 💗

The first photo is of me for reference. The second one is Wanda from Marvel, the third is the Cheshire cat from Alice in Wonderland, and the forth is the White rabbit also from Alice in Wonderland. I really appreciate the help!


r/halloween • • 18h ago

Pumpkin pumpkin gang

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made these guys a few years back working a stand at a pumpkin patch


r/halloween • • 12h ago

Clothing (non-costume) Bat wing make-up design with cozy sweater 🧡

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Any suggestions for black lipstick that doesn't crack while wearing it???


r/halloween • • 16h ago

✨Nostalgia✨ I found my old Halloween themed website on an old HDD, it's back online!

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Terminally Odd Halloween Attraction

I started making this in the late 90s and originally published it in the early 2000s, the original host went out of business and I thought this was lost forever but I found all the files on an old HDD. I cleaned up some of the spelling mistakes and added a new landing page but it's basically as it was back in 2004.

I designed it to be a virtual haunted house that you 'walk' through. It's a series of scenes with some secrets to find.


r/halloween • • 16h ago

Discussion October 15th - What Halloween Thing Did You Do Today?

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The 15th already! October is flying by! What Halloween thing did you do today?

As always, you don't have to share the spotlight, if you want to make your own post about your art/craft/etc... definitely don't let me cramp your style!


r/halloween • • 22h ago

Crafts My pet ghosts!

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I made some lil pet ghosts!


r/halloween • • 19h ago

Humor Ghost Poop Tic Tacs- Free Halloween Template

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I made these free Ghost Poop Tic Tac labels that turn jumbo white Tic Tacs into tiny containers of minty ghost poop. Because apparently ghosts yell “BOO,” take a loop, and leave behind fresh little mints ;) Great for Halloween party favors, boo baskets, or just a little trick that’s also a treat! Hope you enjoy making them as much as I did- would love to see pictures of your handiwork if you do!


r/halloween • • 18h ago

OC A few of my costumes from around 1990

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r/halloween • • 7h ago

Props Setup nearly complete.. Smoke and lasers to come..

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r/halloween • • 16h ago

Food my fav thing about spooky season is the baking sugar cookies with cute things on them🖤

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r/halloween • • 19h ago

Props Jeepers Creepers theme we did this year

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His wings are motorized and open/close. The truck lights flicker and the horn will blare every few minutes


r/halloween • • 10h ago

✨Inspiration✨ Roof Skeletons

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Hey all,
People were asking me how I secured the skeletons on my roof last year. Since we have the crazy winds here in LA I had to pull down all the decor early this morning. While I was up there I took a few pictures.