Hi everyone! I will try to make this as clear as possible:
My husband and I have recently taken in this adorable girl. The short version of a long story is that a coworker is going through a messy divorce and they needed to rehome Ms. Sophia here. My husband and I are dog people, so this is not our first rodeo (all big dogs), but it is our first Great Dane.
The family we got her from said that she is crate trained and is use to going in when nobody is home. They gave us her crate, blankets, etc. My husband and I work opposite hours so four days a week there is about a 2 hour window where she has to go in her crate (which is very large, she has plenty of room to move around, etc) between him leaving for work and me getting home. The issue is that any time we put her in there, she starts whining and crying and can’t be settled down. Obviously we know dogs get upset and want to be with people, but it breaks our hearts to see her get this upset when we don’t have a choice but to leave.
We have only had her for a little over a week now, but we are wondering if anyone has suggestions on what we can do to help her have less, what we assume is separate anxiety. We fully get that this is a new and confusing situation for her. She is away from a family she has lived with since she was a puppy, in a new place, which is hard. We just want to make this transition easier for her if at all possible. Obviously if we could, we would let her stay out and not be in a crate when we aren’t home, but we tried that and came home to an absolute disaster (we do not blame her in the slightest. It’s a learning curve for all of us on how each other function). We want to keep working towards her having that freedom, but baby steps!