r/friendship • • 19h ago

looking for friendship 40M. We need more women and scientists in power. Don’t message if you disagree.

6 Upvotes

Good morning from the Midwest USA!

I’m home from my work at the zoo (I’m not a keeper but I have animal pictures!) for the next couple of days and working to get the house picked up. Seeing as I’m home all day, could use a great conversation throughout!

I’m married with an infant daughter! I love being a dad! Also have two sweet doodle dogs, as well!

As I mention I work at a zoo. I’m in guest experiences and services, which means I get paid to be friendly to our visitors. I love it. I’m a people-person. I can stroke up a conversation with anyone willing to chat, and I’m hoping that’s you!

I’m into nerdy things Kim D&D, DCC, and anything Tolkien. I’m 420 friendly (medical patient). And I dig the birds of the world.

No MAGA! I think we need more women and scientists/engineers in power. Not bigots.

I hope to hear from you! Please reach out and let me know what your favorite zoo animal is!


r/friendship • • 5h ago

looking for friendship 21m looking for new friends or people to talk with

0 Upvotes

Hello, my name is Alexander, I'm 21m, from South America. My hobbies are playing videogames, listening to music, working out, reading and watching series or movies. I have a cat. I speak English and Spanish. Comment or DM me if you want to be friends and chat. I also play on PS5 so DM me if you wanna be PSN friends too.


r/friendship • • 13h ago

looking for friendship f25- looking for someone to call with

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hii, i'd prefer someone from turkey as well but either way is fine. i am going through a phase where i like to be alone so it would be nice to get to know others

i'm into watching series/movies, dance, vedic astrology, history, skin, cultural, modern problems or just talking together in general about our days is also fine

anywayss message me if you're interested in talking and okay with calling (i get bored on text after a while)

shoot me a message if ur cool lol


r/friendship • • 7h ago

looking for friendship Hi my name is Angela! - Canada / Online

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Hey Reddit!

I’m 29, (AMAB) and in the process of questioning my gender, and trying to navigate all the goes along with that. I live in a smaller town that’s quite conservative leaning (not to mention my family is very conservative leaning) so coming out to my friends and family that I’m even questioning these things is a quite scary, or just not an option to maintain being a functioning adult. I’d love to find some friends that recognize me as the person I am.

With all that said, hi! I’m Angela! I’m 29, and live in a small ski town, and love the outdoors. I dabble in photography, hiking, biking, and a huge snowboarder! I’ve also gotten into CrossFit recently. I tend to click best with creative friends, people that are artists, or musicians, or fellow photographers even! I’m also ADHD, so the ideas are always flowing! Haha.

Just really looking to make some good friends and have some decent chats with people. Totally would be happy for this to be a long term friendship, but we’ll see where it goes. Also would be happy to meet in person, if we build some trust first of course.

Thanks for your time! Hopefully this caught your eye!
~Angela


r/friendship • • 23h ago

looking for friendship 29M- looking for friends who have good interests or a genuinely fun hobby (SUCKS being alone all the time)

0 Upvotes

I need to vent because I'm struggling badly it has hit me harder than almost anything I can remember.

I'm a 29 year old, For the last decade I was a NEET with no job experience and no formal studies beyond high school, spending most of my time in my room on the internet, and constantly immersed in gaming. The only upside is that during that time through years of playing video games, reading books, watching Youtube videos and livestreams, browsing forums, and talking to people online The downside is that I spent years barely talking to other people in real life, my real-world social muscles atrophied badly and my social life basically never developed.

For the past two weeks, I've been waking up every day with intense regret, anxiety, dread, and constant "what if" thoughts. What if I had handled that conversation differently? What if I had been warmer? What if I had communicated better? What if I hadn't let my anxiety get in the way? The hardest part is not just losing the business but also losing an unique friendship and opportunity. My mind keeps replaying memories and imagining alternate timelines where things worked out differently. I know its quite common for people who have ADHD and Autism to feel completely separated from the world. Like you're a monster or that you don't fit in.

I most likely have Autism, ADHD and social anxiety. I've felt out of place my entire life and I feel alone constantly.

The friends I used to have back when I was in school have mostly left. I had reunited with them at least two of those friends back in 2022, but after a falling out things, just felt kind of bleak, and nothing ever reconnected ever since, and I've tried coming on here to get friends. But most of them have really since fallen back, or just never really lasted more than 1 or 2 days, and it sucks, because I want to build longer friendships, but they just don't happen as much.

So I want to try to find some genuine friends (preferably female ones) who are out there and see if they're open-minded to wanting to talk about certain fun hobbies like video games, they play or maybe even an inside hobby that they like to do while they're in their room or something like that and hopefully we could be able to build some type of connection.


r/friendship • • 8h ago

looking for friendship If you're looking for a spooky friend this Halloween

7 Upvotes

Hi, I'm 30 f kinda introverted and looking for friends. I don't have a lot of hobbies but I do dabble in tarot cards and witch craft and love all things spooky. I love talking horror movies, video games, and I watch some anime. Oh also I will question you about astrology.


r/friendship • • 10h ago

looking for friendship 18M I'm kinda lonely looking for longterm genuine connection to chat with daily and please don't disappear after every few minutes be consistent while chatting :)

3 Upvotes

I have been looking for friends online but everyone just stops talking after sometime and they don't put any efforts except hey hru how was your day, I want yapper friends and please be clingy. :)

My inbox has been empty and phone is quiet i want some distraction so I want some friends who can talk all the time .

I like to joke about everything literally everything so if I'm gonna offend you I'm apologising in advance lol.

DM and tell me which song you were listening to recently


r/friendship • • 4h ago

looking for friendship 27M Drummer from PA looking to make long term friends

2 Upvotes

Hey what’s goin on! I’m Vinnie and I’m a working drummer who loves music, animals, cooking, movies and shows. I enjoy long conversations and am genuinely interested in finding and building new friendships.

Brief about me:
As I stated above I’m a working drummer and I perform in 2 bands, so fill in work, and host an open mic. I come from a very artistic family. My father is a Potter & my mother owns a flower shop. My sister is also an artist. I’ve been performing in bands for over 13 years. Music is my lifeblood so any conversation that involves music is like being a moth to a flame for me.

Music Examples; Depeche Mode, Alice In Chains, Type O Negative, The Cure, Pixies, Joy Division, (tons more)

Shows: Breaking Bad, Sopranos, Oz, The Office, Parks & Rec, Bobs Burgers, IASIP, Archer

Anyways, I’m a solid conversationalist and would love to connect with some new folks!


r/friendship • • 14h ago

looking for friendship M28 hey you, need a company? Just come over! I left you best seat.

2 Upvotes

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Hi all! Im not too sure what to write or say or expect messeges but im gonna try it out. Its thrusday night and hope to hear from someone

So about me; I'm 28 I live in Europe, I am just kinda lost in thoughts lately. Emotions kinda scattered, feel empty but yet I still strike open to continue building my path

I did pick up somthing cool. Poetry! Its not somthing I ever thought i would try but Im enjoying it, i am not good at it but explaining how I feel with Poetry has been very fun for me.

I also play magic the gathering! I can be causal or competive depending who I play against but it is a hobby im passionate about!

I play games time to time to pass time but nothing really peaked my intrest to degree

I'm quite anti social so I keep my circle small but I am hoping I can include one or two people in my life who I can click with!

In all honestly im not expecting you to be the best person ever. Just be yourself. Have conversation. Life is complicated but we can slow down and just let things breath. Nobody is expecting anything from you. I just want to find a bond to share time with

My mini poetry:

I am lost in this maze in hopes I'll find answers. Answers to my purpose to my existence. I would do anything to return back to the start and fix what was once broken. I am looking for answers, answers and questions. Whatever comes first. I am finding it.


r/friendship • • 16h ago

looking for friendship 20-25 girl vtuber and streamer needing people to play games with regularly

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I'mmmma the bestest streamer and vtuber and I plaaay lot of FPS shooter games, so I need people to play them with regularly. I also have a dark sense of humor and dont like Redditors in the traditional sense, if you dont know what that means its probably you. I also am a tarot reader and a psyhic. do often have dreams of future events. Did actually work as a psyhic in college

I did adopt a black cat I named Azaria cause all black cats must have super scarwy mystical names. He was a Warrior of Rome Cursed with immortality as a cat by a pagan shaman for his bloodlust, now he seeks vengence

Also, I own five guns in real-life and keep a fully loaded glock-19 on me everywhere I go

I beeen into anime and watching alot of it. I am catching up on Chitose in a Ramune bottle, tenken, and the detective is already dead

I did teach myself to program in 3 different languages and to play the piano and to edit videos and am I working teaching myself to draw now, would love it, if someone gave me pointers on drawing

🍪 my Timezones are US central or Chicago and Austin, Texas time, so Reddit DM if that is yours or similar


r/friendship • • 16h ago

looking for friendship 39 M UK looking for new online friends

2 Upvotes

Hey everyone, I’m a 39-year-old guy from the

UK looking to meet some new people and hopefully make some genuine online friends

I enjoy reading, watching TV shows and films (I’ve seen quite a few, so always happy to chat recommendations), going for walks, and spending time with my dogs.

I’d love to meet people with similar interests, but I’m open to talking about pretty much anything — hobbies, life, random topics, or just having a good chat.


r/friendship • • 16h ago

looking for friendship 30M - Looking for somthing long term hopefully!

2 Upvotes

Ive had some luck in the past with these posts so I figured id throw another one out there. My day is shaping up to be slow so maybe making a new friend or two will help!

Im 30, from the state of Ohio, and i have a wide variety of hobbies and interests. I try and keep it balanced between my nerdy guilty pleasures like DnD and Magic the Gathering and my more active hobbies like trail running and hiking. I enjoy going to concerts and definitely miss warped tour. I listen to a pretty wide variety of music but i definitely love some emo/punk/metal. I usually love spending time outdoors and really love gardening and plants. At home I have a vegetable garden and in my office at work i have 5 different variety of pothos, a ficus, and a jade plant! Im not half bad at propagating plants myself and have been splitting my pothos lately to share with people.

As for work im in Medical Administration with a focus on nuclear medicine and radiology. Im also an Air Force veteran and was in the command support field. I have a soft spot for healthcare workers and veterans considering I work for the VA. I love taking care of people and my job let's me take care of the people which enables them to take better care of our patients.

If you think we could get along id love to hear from you! Shoot me a message and bonus points if you work in healthcare or are a vet as well!


r/friendship • • 19h ago

looking for friendship 18M hey I'm looking for a genuine friend or bestfriend bcz i don't have one 😭 I'm looking for someone who'd not disappear after 2 days

3 Upvotes

I never had any real friends in real life I have always felt lonely.

In school I had some so called friends, have you listened that everyone's friend is no one's friend just like that I talk to people but i don't have anyone to get things off from my chest

When i was a kid my parents used to live in rented houses and they used to move a lot and the more a grew up the hard it became to make friends in new societies

Now after turning 18 it feels impossible to make friends everyone has a friend they have since a decade but i don't have anyone 😞.

Would anyone like to be my friend please be around


r/friendship • • 19h ago

looking for friendship I'm looking for friends who are good conversationalists :)

5 Upvotes

Hi, I'm Michelle! I live in New Jersey, it's fun but very crowded and living here is expensive.

I'm pretty introverted really. I don't spend a lot of time out socializing with others, but I do it by choice. I'm more of a thinker than a doer, which is something I wish I could change.

I love getting to know people and having deep introspective conversations is my favorite pastime. I think a lot and find so many things fascinating! Especially things related to psychology and fantasy.

I'm also happy talking about shared hobbies and interests. I like writing, gaming, singing and watching movies with deep plots. I also love animals. Feel free to message me!


r/friendship • • 22h ago

looking for friendship May i interest you of lifetime supply of weird humor and subpar emotional support and whole alot of tea

6 Upvotes

Now that i have your attention and i know most people here have the attention span of a drunk pigeon ill try to somewhat make it quick and straight to the point here are some points on why you should Slide in my Dms Or maybe points on why you shouldnt? your choice really

* i am 26, i am soon not gonna be in my early 20s and that is... shocking, like where tf did the 18-26 years gone to, i have no idea, prob have memory loss :D

* cats i love those mf's, those evil bastards have a choke hold on me, no wonder they tricked the Egyptians into making them their gods

* my attention span is that of a flat earther brain, aka it does not exist. tiktok ruined me send help

* i have few hobbies but u can always use that to progress the convo later so need to mention them now

* i dont get offended at all so try your luck at roasting me.

i have no issues assuming the dad position in the friendship and show u the care u never had

now to why you MIGHT not want to be my bestie

* random bursts of roastness/flirtatiousness take that how you would. i will roast you like a bully and compliment you like we've been married for decades

* high maintenance so i expect to text frequently but i dont mind if you disappear during the day


r/friendship • • 13h ago

looking for friendship 28M | A little antisocial, a little chaotic, just looking for someone to vibe with

3 Upvotes

Hey everyone! I'm 28 and looking for some good company. 😊

Honestly, I'm just hoping to meet someone I can share quality time with, have a laugh, and hopefully build a connection with that could last long-term. I'm not expecting anyone to be perfect, and I'm not trying to force anything. I'd just like to meet someone I genuinely vibe with and see where things go.

I'm looking for someone who matches my energy, someone I can goof around with, share memes, talk about the most random things imaginable, and jump from one topic to another without even realising how much time has passed. I love those conversations where you start talking about one thing and somehow end up discussing something completely different an hour later.

A little bit about me!

I'm really into Magic: The Gathering, particularly Commander. It's one of my main hobbies, and I could probably talk about it for hours if you let me. I've also recently started getting into poetry. I'm still very new to it, and I wouldn't exactly call myself a poet just yet, but I've been enjoying experimenting with words and expressing myself creatively. It's something I'd like to explore more.

I've been playing games here and there, too, although I haven't really found anything that's completely grabbed my attention lately. I'm always open to trying new things, though!

Personality-wise, I'm quite an antisocial person at times, and I tend to keep to myself and not always open up easily. But underneath that, I really do appreciate genuine connections and having someone I can feel comfortable being myself around. Someone I can be silly with one minute and have a genuinely deep, meaningful conversation with the next.

Ultimately, I'm hoping to find someone who understands me emotionally, someone I can connect with on a deeper level, and hopefully someone I can feel close to both emotionally and physically, if we develop that kind of connection.

I'm not expecting instant chemistry or some perfect fairytale. I'd just love to meet someone who's on a similar wavelength, shares a few interests, has a good sense of humour, and is willing to see where things go.

So, if you're someone who enjoys good conversations, random tangents, memes, a bit of chaos, and the occasional deep conversation at ridiculous hours, feel free to reach out!

Let's see if we click. 😊


r/friendship • • 6h ago

looking for friendship Hoping to find people who actually talk🫪

3 Upvotes

Hey! I’m a 25-year-old guy working remotely as a research analyst, which basically means I spend most of my day glued to my laptop, bouncing between spreadsheets, endless browser tabs, and pretending I know exactly what I’m doing 😭

Outside of work, music is probably my favorite thing. I sing, play guitar, and whenever I get the chance, I disappear on a hike to escape the city for a bit. I also have an unhealthy obsession with buying graphic tees with the most random things printed on them🫪

Just hoping to meet some chill people and have conversations that don’t feel like job interviews. Please don’t hit me with just a “hey”, PLEASEE put a little effort 😭

Hoping to meet some nice people and please be over 21 :)


r/friendship • • 7h ago

looking for friendship 20F looking for friends in Louisiana, Texas, Arkansas or any other surrounding states

2 Upvotes

Hey :D So Im into video games, music, and movies.

For movies it can be any genre, but I like the love genre, crime/suspense movies.

As for video games, I only have a Ps5, its never treated me bad😂 Dont care for pc. I mainly play warframe its been my favorite game ever sincd I was younger. I main gauss, xaku, and getting into uriel. My current goal is to get to MR30. I also play dying light 2, dead island 2, resident evil 7, little nightmares. Yes those are all played solo as I game by myself majority of the time. I also play a few mobile games like cod, last day on earth, township, grim soul.

Music wise im mainly into rnb, rap, pop, and dislike metal/hardcore and kpop. I like drake, lil baby, nba, hurricane wisdom, gunna, and a bunch more. Cant forget the weeknd.

I am a big homebody and huge loner so theres that. I am in college for software development and work part time. I just want to have a fun convo and spend some time with someone🙂‍↕️. Dms are open feel free to hmu. Include the word blue so I know you’ve atleast read some of the post. I also dont mind to vc. Again, any weird dms youll be meeting casper👻

If you far from the states ive mentioned but you open to traveling it may can work. I just really need some friends and to be off my phone so that I can socialize in the real world😂 Like I want a gym partner or biking partner, or someone to go to the movies with anything for that matter, and this cant be happening if im only meeting people that just wanna chat online all the time, which is fine but that doesnt work for me. So yeah it would be cool to meet people even locally!

Or if it has to be online we can call and play some games together that way it doesnt have to be endless texting


r/friendship • • 8h ago

looking for friendship 29M, living in seoul. Looking for an online friend

2 Upvotes

Hi!
I am looking for an online friend, to text daily and share each other’s lives. I am a Software test engineer. I like to read, watch movies, cook, skii and sometimes like to capture photos. I am also into PC games, but I play COD MW3, battlefield 6 mostly.
Would not mind a gaming buddy either!

Please hit me up, and let’s see if we can vibe together!

Please don’t text me if you going to ghost after sometime. If you’re not serious, or looking for a company to fill up your emptiness from your occasional mood swings, I’m definitely not the right guy!
Peace~


r/friendship • • 8h ago

looking for friendship 17M, looking for friends.

2 Upvotes

Hi, I've been trying to make friends for a while now, but i can't find anybody. I only have one friend and hes purely online. I stay inside most of the time and its all just incredibly lonely and im just tired of having nobody to talk to. I like making art, writing and sometimes i play the guitar. I spend most of my time playing video games. I'm not much to talk about so I guess I'll just end it here lol. This isn't eye catching at all. I'll be surprised if someone reads this