User: @outsideisfun
Found in subreddit: r/betawomen
This guys name is Logan. He claims he is 28 years old living in San Francisco, California. He claims he has an undergrad psychology degree and has stated he is currently a clinical psychologist graduate student. He did send me a picture of his face (not sure if I can post that here but let me know because if so, I will update and put it**)** and I tried to find where he went to school online to report him there, but came up on a dead end.
The fantasy / problem: I made a post mentioning some of my kinks, and he hopped into my DM to let me know that he ultimately craves to control someone mentally by way of hypnosis and denial. Says he wants his sub to be completely, needy, feel the extremes of all emotions, reliant and obsessed with him. Then once he fully takes over someone’s mind, they will do anything he says, and be so broken that they would not even consider leaving when they wanted to. That is his ultimate fantasy kink relationship. When I told him I was not seeking those same things, he told me he was “not a good guy to get involved with.” If his credentials are real I wonder what his professors and the board of education at his program would think of this? 🤔🤔
The reality / danger: He has basically stated his intentions to MENTALLY ABUSE WOMEN via way of mental games, grooming, and manipulation. He is actively leveraging, narcissistic abuse tactics to create harmful trauma bonds.
He openly admitted to wanting to induce a state of codependency and psychological addiction (by triggering the pleasure reward system, and using hot and cold tactics) so that subs "crave and obey" him.
This could break down vulnerable subs/ones that share these kinks/ or anyone who may have some self-esteem and addiction issues themselves.
This guy is not nearly as smart as he thinks he is and is highly easy to see through. I wouldn’t be surprised if he was lying about his education. But, Whether his professional credentials are real or a catfish persona, this behavior is a severe threat to this space. Do not engage with this user in private messages, and block them immediately. If they have messaged you or you see them posting, report their content directly to Reddit Admins at reddit.com for targeted harassment and predatory behavior.