Hii! I'm 22, from the US, and lately I've become really interested in exploring my Mommy Domme side. There's something about having a sweet, devoted boy who genuinely enjoys being guided, praised and cared for that I find incredibly appealing. I love the idea of being someone's affectionate but slightly demanding Mommy lol.

A little about me: I'm 5'3, slim, with brown hair, greenish-blue eyes and size 7.5/8 feet. I've already gained some experience exploring my dominant side, but the Mommy dynamic is something I'm still discovering and would love to explore further with someone patient.

I naturally lean toward gentle femdom. I enjoy being affectionate, playful and caring while still being the one in control. Praise and body worship are definitely things I enjoy, especially feet worship. There's something about having someone who genuinely loves being beneath me and showing their admiration that really appeals to me. I've also become curious about sissies, particularly the idea of someone wanting to dress up all cute and feminine just for me. I'm open to experimenting with a little humiliation or degradation too, although that's completely optional.

I'm pretty picky about who gets my attention. I appreciate maturity, patience, good communication and someone who genuinely enjoys the softer side of submission. I'm not expecting perfection, but I do want someone who's willing to communicate openly about their interests and boundaries. Ideally, I'd love to explore a Mommy/boy dynamic that could gradually develop into something meaningful and long term.

Outside of kink, I'm honestly pretty normal lol. I live with roommates, absolutely adore dogs and would love to have one of my own someday. I enjoy traveling, beaches, tanning and spending way too much time doom scrolling. I'd also love to explore more of Europe eventually.

For now, I'm only interested in something online. I prefer taking things slowly and seeing what develops naturally. I'm not promising anything IRL, although I wouldn't completely rule it out if we eventually built a genuinely meaningful connection.

I prefer someone who's 20+, but being quite a bit older than me doesn't bother me. Experience is appreciated, although personality and communication matter just as much.

If you're a sweet, devoted boy who enjoys affection, praise and letting Mommy take the lead, feel free to introduce yourself! Tell me your age, where you're from, what interests you about this dynamic and a little about yourself outside of kink. Just keep your first message relatively short please lol.

Hello!! I hope you are doing well today :3

I’m hoping to find a gentle Domme who would like a devoted and caring sub, if that is something you want then yay! Let me tell you a bit about myself and what I’m looking for :3

I can be a bit shy but I do like to open up fairly well once I get to know you. I like to help others and in a dynamic I see it as important that I be a soft place to land for my domme, I want to be their safe space, too take away the pain and stress of life from them. I believe communication is really important to both know how you feel as well as me, even if I feel a bit embarrassed about admitting it at times (blame a Scandinavian upbringing lol). I can be a bit of giggly person and like to make jokes and quips tho I don’t think it works too well over text cause loss of inflection and all. My personality type is INFP and my BDSM results are The Service Devotee. As for my build I am 6ft flat and have squared of shoulders, I have been described as a lumberjack looking person. I have short hair currently but tend to keep medium length hair and beard, also I have a good deal of body hair. I have brown hair and blue eyes. I am very much a nerd and love to info dump the random oddities I tend to find. My nerdy interests tend to include; pretty much all superheroes, a lot of different sci-fi(tho close personal favorite is Star Wars), tech and hardware, and weirdly logistical dealings of who owns what of the muppets lol

As far kinks go, they can be discussed later but I do enjoy cuddles and praise. And for a short list: JOI, Fantasy Play, Denial, Hypnosis, and Worship. I like having a gentle domme cause I do have a puppy like personality so I’m eager to please and take harshness hard (tho I can take a bit of it just let things ramp up a bit first lol). I do like to present vanilla while being a very kinky subby boy but thats just my preference tho.

Limits are a bit more important: I don’t like pee or poop play, I don’t do drugs and rarely drink (pretty much only during holidays or special events, and never if I am driving). Not into findom, or blackmail.

If you read this far, firstly thank you! Secondly tell me your favorite color if you want to message me! For me it’s red tho I tend to wear light blue more. It’s not a requirement but it will help and hopefully will keep bots away.

I am hoping to get to know you and hopefully you will want to know more about me too! I’m looking for something long term! I am the most free in the evenings during the week but I am usually available to message whenever.

I believe that’s all of it but I’m open to try new things and will communicate how I feel about them. I know I’m a bit newer to this but I hope I can be the best sub puppy for you.

Thank you for reading this long post I hope you enjoyed learning about me or at least it mildly interesting :)

Hello!

After a while of feeling content by myself I've found myself looking for companionship, and I am finding myself increasingly submissive leaning as well lmao. So to reddit I have come, hoping to find my person or a play partner.

About me:

As the title mentions I'm a fairly nerdy guy living in Arlington, Virginia. Some of my hobbies include video games (either alone or over with friends), reading, movies/anime, MTG, TTRPGs (been far too long), and do love board games but I'm not able to play them nearly enough. I love Tolkien, Dune, star wars, Stargate, and just all things sci fi and fantasy really. I am a metalhead/rocker when it comes to music though I can listen to almost anything, with Sabaton, Blind Guardian, and WindRose being my favorite bands and I have been commonly referred to as a paladin irl. I work in tech (go figure), and I do have a college degree in a STEM field. I'm 5'10 and chubby, heavier than I want to be but think I wear it well, with a nice full beard I keep trimmed and shaved head. Trying to slowly cut down but I don't think I ever want to be truly skinny, so dad bod is def apt to describe me. I do not smoke anything and drink socially. DDF and plan on keeping it that way.

My Ideal Domme:

I am looking for someone nearby within the general metro range of the DMV, but a bit farther out is ok. Ideal age range would be 21-32 for a romantic connection, though I could go older for something more casual connection/fwb. No exact requirements on body type, just be healthy or working towards it like I am, also I am more than fine with someone taller than I am, and I am more of a boobs guy but all bodies have beauty in them. I am also looking for a nerd like me, someone I can cuddle with and watch movies and shows, someone warm and kind. Play co-op games together (BG3 maybe) and maybe ren faire dates once that season arrives again. Someone I can just gush about whatever I'm playing and then listen to them gush about something along with lots and lots of cuddling. I think I would work best with a mommy dom/gentle dom, but I would be more than willing to experiment with all types of dommes. Please do not be a smoker and please be ddf. Liking cats is also a big plus!

My Femdom Preferences:

I want to preface and say I'm not looking for a strong dynamic outside of the bedroom, I want someone I can be a partner to and then have an amazing time in bed with, but a light dynamic would fit well. I know I am for sure looking for a gentle domme, someone more nurturing and sweet, maybe with the occasional harder domme tendencies to shake things up. My primary kinks as I know them now would be lingerie/stockings, boots, edging, joi, affection, praise, and anr/breast play. I do want to try pegging and face sitting but have no experience in either right now. This would be a monogamish at most(for a dating connection), I have no interest in going truly poly/enm and inviting any other women to play with us/you would be something we have to work towards and heavily discuss. For limits it would be the standard gambit of blood and bathroom stuff, along with choking and age regression included. While I was in one short lived relationship with a dynamic I am a newbie and I am interested in exploring more kinks with someone who could help nurture this sexual side of me.

Next steps:

If I have caught your interest at all, which I hope I have, shoot me a message! I will want to verify using a video call before anything nsfw happens or before we plan any physical dates.

Hope to be hearing from you!

Hello! I’m looking to develop a relationship with a woman who prefers to take a more dominant role. I prefer to keep my private life private, so I’m not a 24/7 kind of guy, nor am I looking for someone to “take care of me” or make life decisions for me. I’m an independent person looking to share my life with someone, so a dynamic and partnership built on mutual respect is very appealing to me (and hopefully you as well!)

Me: Single, monogamous, never married, and no children. Gainfully employed, living comfortably. No roommates or pets (more of a cat guy, though). Chill, nerdy, big personality and easy to get along with (former theater kid and it shows). Thin, but I take care of myself. 5’11, blue eyes, red hair and beard. No tattoos. Cutie patootie with a nice booty.

Occasionally switch-y (when requested), always silly, and secure in my sexuality/masculinity. Drug and disease-free (sometimes I’ll enjoy an edible). Not religious. Politically left (and you should be too). Big on communication, ethics, affection, smooching, and grammar. I currently have no health issues, but as I get older, I’m more health-conscious (physically and mentally).

I enjoy short walks and long talks. Definitely a movie guy, also enjoy television and I read most days. Enjoy video games, typically as an outlet to relax and unwind (not into online, competitive stuff). Also enjoy games that feature a dungeon and/or dragon. More indoorsy than outdoorsy, but I’m surrounded by nature, live by the water, and I do appreciate it.

Likes: Affection is massive for me. Kindness, humor, creativity, honesty and intelligence. Independence (I like strong women with lots of opinions). Soft touches, softer kisses. Worship, sensuality, and vulnerability. Long nights spent in each other’s arms. Slow dances. Feeling safe and cared for together. Your fingers through my hair (your fingers everywhere). Being the best boy I can be for you. More details can be shared privately and I’m pretty open-minded. If it’s not listed under my dislikes, I’m probably open to it.

Sex, for me, is an exploration and celebration of one another (physically and beyond). As a result, I don’t enjoy feeling hurt, disrespected, or “less-than” during sex. Just not my thing. Kiss me, don’t slap me.

Dislikes: Humiliation, pain, feminization, age play, blood/bathroom fluids. Meanness, apathy, political indifference are also major turn-offs for me.

You must be single and monogamous (non-negotiable) and I would prefer you to be between 28-45 years old. Outside of that range, I’m skeptical but feel free to shoot your shot if you feel so inclined. I’m not looking for long-distance, so please reside within a reasonable distance from Olympia, Washington or the South Puget Sound region. If you’re over an hour away, I’m sorry but we likely won’t see much of each other and consistency is very important to me.

If you’re interested, send me a message. Please include basic details about yourself as well as a general location. A picture is not immediately necessary, but a description of yourself and what kind of person you are is very appreciated.

Thank you for reading and take care.

First and foremost, I am currently in a romantic relationship with my partner whom I love very much. HOWEVER, due to their increased work hours and limited availability during the week, they have given me their blessing to look for an additional platonic dynamic to satisfy my need for the caregiving/momma role I have.

IMPORTANT

In your first message to me, please include what I should call you, your age, your location, what drew you in to respond to me, and a fun fact about yourself. Please feel free to make it as long or as short as you would like, just know that I appreciate and tend to respond to longer messages more.

Local preferred but open to long distance!

(If you've messaged me in the past, please feel free to message me again if I didnt reply to you or double message me if we havent chatted in a bit, my dms get really crazy lol.)

Hello! I'm Batty and I'm searching for a little:) I'm a soft caregiver all the way and I would describe myself as very compassionate and caring.

A little about me:

I am plus size but I am losing weight for my own health (50lbs down since January!), if plus size is not your thing, please do not message me! I present myself as alt/goth and have piercings and tattoos and split dyed hair. I am smart (ask about my degree if you'd like!) and have experience being a temporary mommy domme to a couple subs/littles in the past as well as being a momma to my current partner!

Some things I would expect of you is to follow rules set in place after vetting each other for quite some time. Vetting takes time and I am in no rush to get into a dynamic. I would have rules such as self care (showering, brushing teeth, etc), self improvement (gratitude journal, positive self talk, etc), and other things that are catered to your specific wants and needs.

I AM NOT JUST ABOUT SEXUAL PLEASURE AND WILL NOT BE GETTING SEXUAL IN THIS DYNAMIC, so if thats what you're after, please look somewhere else. I truly want to help you grow as a human being and take care of yourself. If you message me something sexual, I will be blocking you. Please do not send me any explicit photos either.

I am chronically ill and currently not working full time (just part time) due to my health. I have an autoimmune disease that makes me constantly sick and lethargic. I am working on getting into a new specialist that can help with a care plan but the health care in the states is difficult so its gonna take time. If this is a dealbreaker for you, that is fine. I realize that me not working full time poses challenges. Rest assured that I do have an income, it's just not a lot.

A little bit about you:

I have no height, weight, or looks preference for you. In fact I'd rather talk for a bit before sending any pictures. I wanna get to know you for you:) You Ideally will be 20- 40 years old although I'm not going to write you completely off if you're not in that range by a couple of years. I AM VERY VERY VERY INTERESTED IF YOU ARE LOCAL TO ME! If you are local to me, please say so! I love intelligence and being passionate about things. If you nerd out over things and yap about them, I wanna chat. Good hygiene is a must but if it's something you struggle with, we can always work on it together. I'm not looking to rush into anything, I want to take my time with this.

Some things about me now. I enjoy reading and writing (I recently wrote a book!) and try to take the time to do so everyday. I'd love an ear to listen to me ramble about plot points and/or characters. Or perhaps even better yet we can each do our own little activity while in the same room. I always love that. I play video games from time to time but I'm not too into them. If you're super into them I'll gladly watch you play. I'm getting back into fitness and health. For my own good. Hmmm what else about me. Ahhh my core values- empathy, knowledge, love, stability, growth, and happiness. I make decisions based on these 6 values. If my decision doesn't align with them, I make a new decision. I expect you to learn how to go through with this process as well:) It is very beneficial and life changing.

What I am NOT looking for. Please do not call me mommy right away. That takes time and I've been getting too many messages that start off with that. It's quite disrespectful to yourself honestly. You should be looking to call that title to someone who has earned it. I am not looking for someone across the world. I apologize, I know it's hard finding dommes but I am only open to those in the western hemisphere due to timezones.

What I AM looking for. I am looking for rules set in place. These aren't to upset you, but they're to push you to be a better human being. I am looking to get to know you on a deeper level. I want to know you inside and out. What makes you upset, what makes you happy, what makes you sad, and so on and so forth. I am looking for someone who has patience. I am still figuring this side of me out. I am a newer mommy domme and have limited experience. That being said, I do think I naturally give off mommy energy irl so it shouldn't be too hard haha:)

I want someone who will adore our dynamic and me. Post about us on social media. Put my selfies I send you as your wallpaper on your phone. Talk about me to your friends and family. Nonchalant people don't impress me. I want someone who is going to be desperate for my attention and needy. Obviously we both need our personal space but overall I want obsession (healthy obsession). I need to feel wanted.

Ideally if you're still reading this there's at least some interest, if you would like to message me, I ask that you message me with more than just a "hey, how are you?" Or "will you be my mommy?". Those will get ignored. Get deep and tell me a bit about yourself and what you're looking for. The longer the message, the more appreciative I am. Thank you for reading and I hope you have a lovely day/night♡

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I'm a genuinely sweet, soft-hearted boy who's looking for someone nurturing, patient, and caring, someone who can make me feel safe enough to show my sensitive side without feeling embarrassed about it. I'm naturally obedient, affectionate, and eager to make the people I care about happy. I love feeling appreciated, receiving gentle encouragement, and knowing that I matter to someone. Sometimes, I can be a little shy or clingy, especially when I start getting attached, but it's only because emotional connections mean a lot to me.

I think I have a bit of a soft spot when it comes to motherly affection. Maybe it's because there's a part of me that craves that comforting, nurturing presence, someone who can offer the reassurance and understanding I've sometimes wished for. I want someone I can open up to without worrying about being judged, someone who listens to my little problems even when they might seem insignificant and reminds me that my feelings are valid.

I'm definitely a bit of an overthinker. Sometimes, I need reassurance that I'm doing okay, that I'm appreciated, and that I'm not being a burden just because I need a little extra attention. Small gestures mean so much to me, whether it's asking how my day went, checking up on me, offering kind words when I'm feeling down, or simply making time for me. I can be sensitive to changes in people's moods, and sometimes I need a little patience while I work through my thoughts.

I'd love to find someone with a naturally nurturing personality, someone gentle but capable of giving me guidance when I need it. I appreciate kindness, emotional maturity, consistency, and someone who can encourage me to become more confident while still accepting my softer side. I want to feel comfortable being honest about my emotions instead of pretending to be tougher than I really am.

In return, I would try my best to be respectful, considerate, attentive, and appreciative. I like making people smile, listening to them, and showing them that I care through little gestures. I want a connection where affection and understanding go both ways, where neither person has to pretend to be someone they're not.

Sometimes, I just want to let go of the pressure to have everything figured out and allow myself to be the sensitive boy I am. I want to be reminded that making mistakes is okay, that asking for comfort doesn't make me weak, and that I don't always have to earn affection by being perfect or pleasing everyone.

Ultimately, I'm looking for a warm, motherly kind of connection built on trust, kindness, and genuine care. Someone who can offer guidance without making me feel small, reassurance without making me feel guilty, and affection without making me feel like I have to prove my worth. I'm still learning to understand myself, and I'd love someone who encourages that growth while treating me with patience.

I'm simply a soft-hearted boy who wants to feel understood, cared for, and appreciated for who he is. A little reassurance, a lot of kindness, and someone who genuinely enjoys having me around would mean more to me than I could ever properly explain.

If u think u dit this u can hmu i really wanr a mommmyyy so baddddd arggnhhn please pleasee

Hello there! Little here looking for a mommy/mommy domme to help give me guidance, take care of me, and keep me in line! Ideally i'd like a long term mommy to get to know on a more intimate level. I want a mommy who can control me physically and break me down and control me mentally as well.

I love the idea of rules and tasks to help keep me busy and behaving through out the day! I think rules would help me feel more little and not in control. I like the idea of having certain privileges being taken away because I am not old enough, i think it would me into a stated of forced regression. I love the idea of being able to blindly trust my mommy, knowing that whatever she's doing is whats best for me, even if i'm too little to understand.

I am a sexual little and I think there can be a good mix of sfw and nsfw as a little, though I do have a high libito I enjoy the sfw discussions with my mommy too. I want to be able to come to you with issues I have during my day, ect.

Physically I'm 6'0 and lean with short hair. I am happy to send pics on snap :)

Kinkwise i'm curious about a lot, but haven't done much kinky stuff irl. some things i am curious about are, bondage, spanking, orgasm control, edging, exams, inspections, uhm maybe anal/anal training, medical play, ect! I can get needy if I edged and ill definitely behave in hopes of getting release.

This is uhm embarrassing but, I struggle with how long I can last and I would like someone who can train me to last longer so I can please my mommy and enjoy playtime more.

ok I wasnt gonna admit this but this word count is so much so idk what else to say and im just throwing this in here so sorry in advance. uhm when i play I wasn't kidding when I said I didn't last long... Sometimes its less than like five seconds.. I uhm dont play like most guys do so when I play my way its very quick and it feels incredible but I cant really enjoy it for long :/ I get super sensitive after so I cant really play much more after that. anyways I know that was way tmi but yeah.. maybe with training I could last longer? idk how to train myself to last longer though but I would love to! I uhm am gonna bury this here too so i doubt anyone will see this but I bought two plugs and some beads but ive been too scared to use them lol

Limits that I know of are, scat, blood, extreme cbt stuff, ect.

I am curious what you think makes a perfect little? like why do you like being a mommy and what do you get out of it?

I'm perfectly fine with online or chatting to curious mommys who have little to no experience with subs/littles! Hope to hear from you have a great day and thanks so much for reading!

Hello! I'm Joshua, 23 years old and living in Vancouver, British Columbia. I'm looking for a serious, long term relationship with someone who naturally enjoys leading. I'm open to starting things online if the connection feels right, but my hope is that it eventually turns into something in person. Local would be perfect, though I'd be willing to travel if we really click and things feel genuine.

A bit about me: I'm a very affectionate and touchy person. I thrive on closeness, whether that's long hugs, cuddling, holding hands while we walk, or just being skin to skin and feeling connected. I'd really enjoy making you feel special and cared for! That could mean giving you a massage after a long day, listening when you need to talk or vent about anything, cooking something simple together, or just being fully present with you. I'm a good listener, pretty emotionally aware, and I try to be consistent and reliable. Loyalty and consistency are really important to me!

Outside of relationships I listen to a lot of music, I really enjoy country, rap/hip hop, metal and rock. I enjoy playing video games, especially factory builders, RPG's and FPS games. On my days off I like going for long walks at night when the city feels quieter, or just hanging out with a couple close friends. I'm not someone who needs to be out every weekend. I prefer calmer, more meaningful time together.
What I'm really looking for is a connection where we can both feel safe being ourselves. I do best when I can relax and let someone I trust take the lead in a gentle, guiding way. It helps me shut my brain off and just be more present. I'm very cuddly and physically affectionate, so someone who also enjoys lots of closeness, hugs, kisses, and constant little touches would be amazing. I have a high sex drive and would love if that energy was mutual and active in the relationship. Mutual obsession, lots of praise, good aftercare, and feeling emotionally safe to be vulnerable are all really important to me.

I want to make my partner feel like a priority. I want to be a good boy, I try really hard to pay attention, I want to learn my partner inside and out, I want to be a person they can come to no matter what. I wanna tie your shoes before you leave and make you coffee, I wanna be able to just exist together in a safe space that's ours alone. Whether that's rubbing your shoulders when you're stressed, cooking for you, listening without judgment when you need to talk, or just being someone you can come home to and unwind with. I like the idea of being a safe, steady presence in your life. Someone who makes you feel desired, appreciated, and cared for.
I'm only interested in monogamy. I prefer women around my age or a bit older, but I'm open if the connection feels strong and natural. I'm not looking for anything casual or purely physical. I want to build something meaningful and long term.

Tell me about yourself, what you're looking for, what makes you feel good in a relationship, or even just what kind of music or hobbies you enjoy! I'm genuinely curious about the person behind the profile.

Hey, my name's Clark, I'm 28 and from Ireland. I'd really really appreciate if you'd read this whole thing before sending me a message, I'm sorry for how long this is btw. I will not reply if you're younger than 21, I would prefer someone either a little closer to my age or older, I don't care how much older, but younger I'm a little iffy on if it's too big a gap, but 21 is my absolute cutoff, so please let me know your age in the first message.

Also: Not a deal-breaker, but I love smokers (cigarettes) and/ or vapers, it's one of my biggest kinks, I don't smoke often, mainly only when tipsy, but I vape a lot when horny. If you smoke, either regularly or socially, you will go to the top of the list lol.

Location wise: While it would be nice to have someone in a similar time zone, I'm very used to talking to people on the other side of the world, so where you're from doesn't matter.

So, I'll tell you a little about me, a little about my experience, then my kinks, and then my absolute turn-offs. Like I said, I'm 28, from Ireland. Very nerdy, a huge movie and TV buff, most of my free time is spent watching movies or shows, the cinema is literally my favourite place on the planet, I try to watch hundreds of movies every year for the first time, I love going to film festivals, but I'm not as pretentious as I might seem because my absolute love has always been and will always be comicbook movies, comics, comic shows, Spider-Man Brand New Day has unfortunately altered my brain chemistry IRRECOVABLY. The Odyssey was also a recent film that floored me, and despite what the reviews may have you believe: I LOVED Supergirl. Workwise I'm involved in film and TV, screenwriting, video editing, photography and camerawork.

Looks wise, I'm more than willing to send a picture when we get to know eachother, and when we can verify the other is legit, but I'm pale white, skinny, hazel eyes, short brown hair, normally clean shaven, a little messy atm but I shave often.

Now on the fun stuff: Kinks. I have a lot of kinks, and none of them are dealbreakers if you're not into them, but some that I'll mention will be ones I love that they're pretty much tied to me sexually now and that if they're dealbreakers for you, maybe we're not a great fit. If a kink isn't mentioned here and isn't a hard no/ limit for me, then the likelihood is that I'm willing to try it. I'm pretty open-minded.

First up is the one I mentioned, probably my first kink/ Fetish: Smoking (Cigarettes) and Vaping. Women smoking was the first big turn on I knew I had and was kind of my first big "Oh this gets me" awakening I ever had. I vape quite a bit but only when horny, if you have a problem with me vaping or smoking then we're not a great fit, if you smoke or vape, you probably go right to the top of the list for me whether you match the rest of the list or not.

The second one kind of comes easy to talk about after the first: Forced Intox/ Smoking, like you wanna force me to smoke? Yes please, Force me to Vape tons? Absolutely, even force me to get drunk? Sure! I'm not a drug user at all, never even had weed, but there's also something kind of hot about being forced to do that.

Some easy ones next: CNC, Bondage, Rope play, Roleplay (I LOVE roleplay), Cum play, Orgasm control and denial, Edging/ Gooning, Wearing what you want me to wear. Light pain can be fun, but I'm not into serious pain or blood or anything like that, it's also fun to mark my body with whatever you want, like a marker or a little bite.

Hypnosis/ Brainwashing/ Mind Control is also a big kink for me, I love love love hypnosis, the idea of being in such an obedient and submissive state that literally your thoughts become my thoughts, that you could just wipe me away and replace me with what you want. Or using things to condition and train me, pavlov style, Love it.

I love titles, I love calling a dominant: Master, Mommy, Mistress, Domina, Goddess etc, and I also love being called pet names.

I love Mommy stuff, not diapers or age regression, that's a limit for me, but like, milk from your breast, being called a good boy, being all cuddled up and nice and warm and yours. Ownership in general is something I love, being owned by someone completely, like I'm all their's, even like a Slave or a Pet.

Something that I know is a major turn off for people but I may as well mention it is that I do really enjoy the more sissification, feminization stuff as a sub, but more kinda like femboy related, dressing like one for the right person, bimbofied, cocknotized, dickmatized, I love the idea of worshiping a cock. Forced Bi, or Forced Gay is also something I really like.

In terms of turn-offs, I've already mentioned a few: Age regression, diaper play, Hard pain, Blood. Then there's also pee, poop, scat, vore, vomit, furry stuff, animal play (Although being a cute pet like a cat or dog is kind of hot), anything illegal.

Anyway, that's everything, if you've read all this and you still wanna message me, let me know your preferred gender, age, and your location.

Thank you so much for reading, hope to hear from you soon, and maybe belong to you.

I’m a married, busy lawyer based in Australia. My life is constantly full of high-stakes decisions, heavy responsibilities, and the pressure that comes with a demanding career. On the surface I appear controlled and composed, but underneath I have a strong, largely unfulfilled sex drive and a deep kinky side that rarely gets the chance to breathe. What I’m really dreaming of is finding a mommy dom I can submit to completely — someone I can hand control over to so that I can step out of the constant decision-making and simply focus on obedience for her pleasure. The opportunity to give up control and allow myself to be vulnerable is rare in my day-to-day life, and I hope I can find that safe space with you. I crave the feeling of sinking into your embrace and falling under a spell of submission, where my usual need to stay in charge quietly dissolves.

I want to reach the point where I’m constantly thinking of you throughout the day and get genuinely excited when you give me attention. I want the knowledge that the more carefully and fully I obey, the more enjoyment and pleasure I’ll be allowed to experience.

I’m 5’11 with a slim-to-athletic build, short brown hair, and a 7-inch cock. Personality-wise I’m calm, analytical, reserved, and stoic. I rarely let myself show vulnerability, emotional intensity, or any real loss of control. Most people who know me would describe me as steady and self-contained. I want you to be the person with whom that carefully maintained exterior can crumble — the one who gets to see and guide the more open, responsive side of me that I keep tightly locked away.

I’m particularly interested in mommy-led edging. I want you controlling how and when I edge, how I pleasure myself, what I edge to, and ultimately whether or when I get to cum. The idea of you being in charge of my body and cock, and by extension my mind and focus, is deeply appealing. I like the thought of being kept on the edge, teased, and directed rather than just chasing release on my own terms.

I’m also really drawn to a mommy dom who actively guides me into exploring new kinks and who enjoys shaping me into more of a perverted, devoted deviant for her. I’m open to whatever interests you and I’m comfortable being taught. Some things that already appeal to me include pussy worshipping, anal play, ball play, extended teasing, choking, borderline public play, voyeurism, exhibitionism, and maybe feet. I haven’t had the chance to explore as much as I’d like, so the idea of you leading me into new territory and helping me discover what else I respond to is exciting. I think my only real limits are blood, scat, age play involving minors, criminal activities, exposure or things that would negatively impact on my day to day life.

I want to be able to be vulnerable with you, to trust you, and to genuinely admire you. I’m also open to getting to know each other beyond the dynamic if that appeals to you. Outside of this, I enjoy travelling, good food, TV and movies, video games (mostly single-player titles and roguelikes), and I have fairly eclectic musical tastes — I’ll admit I’m a bit of an Iron Maiden fan, which might make me sound slightly lame. I also follow world affairs and I’m working toward FIRE (Financial Independence, Retire Early); one day I’d like to be free of the constant work pressure.

In terms of what I’m looking for in you, I’m quite open as long as you’re kinky and have a real desire for dominance and control over me. I’m interested in both soft and hard mommy dommes. I have no strong preferences when it comes to looks. If you’re already in a relationship or marriage, that would be great — but it isn’t essential. Age-wise I’m open, though more mature women appeal more; 30+ is preferred, and I’d only consider someone younger if they’re clearly very mentally and emotionally mature and confident in their dominance.

If any of this resonates with you, let’s chat and see whether we click.

Hi Reddit,

I’m a 26 year-old submissive male (5’10”, lean build, soft features) searching for a loving and firm Mommy Domme to connect with on a deep emotional, mental, and physical level. I’m based in the U.S. (central), open to online or long-distance at first, with the goal of building something lasting and real—ideally in person one day if the connection grows.

I’m emotionally available, stable, and have done the inner work to know what I want: a nurturing but assertive woman who enjoys being in charge and having a loyal, affectionate, obedient submissive all to herself.

What I’m looking for is more than just play. I want a relationship built on trust, power exchange, care, and chemistry. A slow burn is fine. I’m not here to rush into anything—I’m here for something genuine, whether it starts as casual chats, consistent D/s sessions, or something more structured from the start.

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What I Crave in a Dynamic:

I’m naturally obedient and thrive in a relationship where my submission is welcomed, valued, and guided. I love routines, rules, rituals, and thoughtful discipline. Whether that means a bedtime you set, tasks or behavior guidelines, a ritual for kneeling, or even just accountability for how I treat you—I’m eager to be molded into your good boy.

My ideal Mommy is someone who balances dominance with warmth: someone who wants to correct and reward me, but also cuddle, nurture, and protect. I love structure, but also softness. I want to be able to rest in your authority—to feel safe in your control, and devoted to your pleasure and satisfaction.

I’m open to a range of dynamics: from light, sensual D/s to deeper layers of control (behavior modification, rules, chastity, pet names, etc.). Whether you’re into teasing, training, or emotional domination, I’m here to explore that with you—always with communication, safety, and trust at the core.

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A Bit About Me:

• 24, male, white, 5’10”, lean with a soft, boyish look

• Located in the U.S. (willing to travel for the right person)

• Emotionally intelligent, stable career, open-hearted

• Into music, cooking, gaming, cuddling, reading, and service

• Very submissive mindset—not just in bed, but in daily life

• Not a brat, not into topping from the bottom—I respond best to clear expectations and firm, loving dominance

• Open to mild to moderate age play or caregiving dynamics (not into regression, but I like being your good boy, your soft one, the one you take care of and control)

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What I’m Hoping You Bring:

• A loving but firm presence—a woman who enjoys taking control and being the center of attention in her submissive’s world

• Confidence in your dominance (or curiosity and willingness to explore it)

• Desire for consistency, rituals, structure, and affection

• Bonus if you’re into pet names, collaring, behavior rules, praise/punishment dynamics, or emotional ownership

• Age 25+ preferred, but I’m open if there’s mutual interest and connection

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Next Steps:

If any of this resonates with you, I’d love to hear from you. Feel free to message me and tell me about yourself—what kind of dynamic you’re looking for, what makes you feel powerful and connected, and what you want from your submissive.

Happy to send a photo or verify. I believe in building trust and keeping things real from the start. I want us to talk openly, laugh, explore, and build something meaningful together.

Thanks for reading, and I hope to kneel for you soon, Mommy 💙

—Your future good boy

Every castle needs its devoted servants. Mine is hiring.

You will address me as Your Grace, Your Highness, or Princess. Choose what comes naturally.

about me

I'm 5'2 with light honey eyes that everyone calls innocent. They're wrong, but I let them think it. I am short, but I have an athletic curvy build.

I work from home so I'm around all day. I'm busy, but I always make time for the ones who earn it. i do have a partner, they are aware i am seeking. they do not care.

i love the beach. i cannot express this enough. that is my happy place. anywhere on or near the water. i also love paddle boarding and swimming. i go to the gym around 4 times a week and recently hit a new PR of 210lbs leg press & 70lb seated rows. I enjoy running, but I grew up sprinting. you can imagine i don’t like long distance as much as i would love. i adore baking and cooking. i’m a writer, which subs have told me makes speaking to me feel like they’re in a different world. hmm.. autumn is my favorite season. i enjoy self care: massages mostly, nails second. i don’t watch much tv. i do enjoy anime though. the occasional movie here and there. i am a hopeless romantic, funny enough. i am also a switch.

who I'm looking for
You're confident, secure, grounded. Your life is together and you know exactly what you want: to hand the reins to me. i’m not here to fill a missing piece, im here to add to the life you already have. there is a difference.

i do love an alt boy. a gym rat. not required, but appreciated.

I do best with older men and women, 35 and up, but maturity matters more than a number. I don't mind femboys, but I like you confident and masculine leaning in your personality i suppose.

You're a cuck at heart. Hearing my stories doesn't make you jealous, it makes you ache in the best way.

You're obedient, devoted, and you crave psychological domination above everything else.

Bonus points if you can step into my fantasy. Picture it: my castle, my throne, me ruling from it while your whole existence is serving me within these walls. If you ever watched House of the Dragon and thought "I was born to kneel," you'll fit right in.

what it means to be mine
I don't rush. i have a system that works. you either respect it or you don’t. I learn how you're built, what makes you go quiet, what you need, what undoes you.

The rules, the rituals, the control: all tailored, all intentional.

We'll talk often. Real conversation, not just kink, though there will be plenty of that. I want devotion woven through your day, not performed for an hour and forgotten. connection matters to me. if you’re a boring conversationalist then don’t message me. if you’re only looking for sexual connection, don’t message me. i am not a kink dispenser.

I'm nurturing and I'm cruel and I won't apologize for either. You'll be adored and unmade in the same breath.

what I'm into
Psychological domination, first and always. Cucking: I'll tell you everything and love watching you squirm. Obedience, rituals, tasks, rules. Praise and humiliation, teasing and denial, worship. erotic writing, pegging, dildos, collars, pet play, anal plugs, foot worship, meditation worship, shrines.

ask me, i might be missing some.

hard limits
blood, knife, bathroom, no face, no videos.

come find me
Tell me who you are: your age, what you do, what you're looking for. Low effort gets scrolled past without a second thought.

If something in you went oh reading this, introduce yourself like you mean it.

I'm not hard to find. I'm just selective about who finds me.

I’m a 39 year old married mum, and what really sets my world on fire these days is younger, athletic guys who will do absolutely everything I want online, through video, exactly as I direct them. The thought of watching a fit, eager guy in his twenties or early thirties on my screen, obeying my every command in real time, gets me incredibly worked up. No physical meetups, just pure, intense, remote control. That distance only makes the power exchange hotter.

I crave total surrender over video. You strip when I say strip. You stroke exactly how I describe, at the pace I set. You edge for as long as I demand, holding back until I give permission to finish, or perhaps not at all if I feel like teasing. You position the camera where I want it, show me every angle, every detail, and respond instantly to my instructions. The screen becomes my playground, and your body is the toy I get to play with however I please. Knowing you are alone, hard, desperate, and completely focused on my voice or my typed commands is intoxicating.

I have a whole lineup of games built for video sessions. One classic is the strip tease guessing challenge. You start fully clothed in front of your camera. I ask questions about your age, your body count, your cock size, your dirtiest secret. Every wrong guess means you remove something slowly while I watch and comment. Shirt off for missing your age. Pants down after a bad guess on body count. By the time we get to size, you are usually naked, throbbing, and begging for the next round. The build up, the exposure, the way your breathing changes when you realise I can see everything, it all drives me wild.

Role play takes on a whole new level online. You can be my naughty stepson sneaking video calls when the house is quiet, whispering how badly you need your stepmum’s approval. Or my son’s best friend who has been fantasising about me for years and finally gets caught on camera doing exactly what I tell him. Maybe you are my daughter’s boyfriend, the cocky one who thinks he is in control until I make you prove otherwise, all while your girlfriend is in the next room. The risk, the taboo, the way you have to stay quiet or risk getting caught, adds such a delicious edge.

Of course I love an athletic build. Tight abs, strong arms, powerful legs that flex when you move for me. But looks are just the icing. What matters far more is your attitude: how eagerly you follow directions, how quickly you respond, how much you enjoy being told what to do. I want genuine enthusiasm for submission, creativity in performing for me, and the ability to stay locked in no matter how filthy or drawn out the session gets. Bonus points if you are vocal, descriptive, and love hearing me praise you with a simple “good boy” when you get it right.

If you are young, fit, open minded, and genuinely turned on by the idea of being my online plaything, message me. Tell me which game sounds hottest to you or which role you would love to play on camera. Show me you get that this is all about my pleasure, my rules, my timing. The right guy will be teased, commanded, praised, edged, and left trembling long after the call ends. Prove to me you can handle being mine completely through the screen.

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30-year-old married woman seeking to nurture an online connection with the perfect submissive boy. One who craves my firm yet caring control.I’m not interested in any money exchanges, in either direction. This is purely a dynamic where you surrender to my guidance for real fulfillment. No transactions, just genuine submission and growth. Your sole focus is on what Mommy wants, what mommy needs. You take your pleasure from being a good and obedient boy. Mommy asks and you do.

A bit about me: I work in advertising handling timelines, motivating teams, and ensuring everything runs smoothly. It’s a role that feeds my love for structure and direction, much like the way I’ll shape your days with tasks and routines. It leaves me plenty of energy to pour into someone who needs a Mommy’s steady hand: someone to encourage their best self while holding them accountable with loving discipline.

Evenings are for recharge, relaxation or curling up with a steamy romance novel that sparks my dominant side. I thrive on balance: soft words of praise when you’ve earned them, and a sharp reminder when you stray. I’m patient but expectant, always prioritizing your emotional safety as we explore the thrill of control. There’s nothing quite like watching a good boy bloom under my instructions, feeling that rush of pride when he edges just right for me.

What I’m seeking: A submissive boy, ideally of a young age (18+) ready and willing to learn. Or mature age perhaps a married father who is already neglected by his own wife and ready to be taken control of. I love the contrast of my maturity guiding a man who’s strong on the outside but melts into obedience for me, think married muscular dads with that hidden high sex drive and desperation to be sneaky at home and edge or dedicated gym boys eager to trade their reps for my rules.

Physical preferences? I’m drawn to well-built bodies that show discipline in the gym, cut or uncut with average-to-larger size. You can be thin and toned as much as large and muscular. Its about that visual spark of power when you present yourself. But truly, it’s the mindset that seals it:

You understand submission as a daily devotion, not just fantasy. The thought of being told to stand back and show Mommy what you're up to at any given point in time excites you to no end.

You yearn for Mommy to overhaul your routines, quizzing you on your play spots, toys, and porn triggers, then assigning edging tasks that build unbearable tension until release feels like a gift. Obeying my text or otherwise, while demonstrating your progress. Obedience is a must. You are focused more on doing what Mommy wants and needs than asking of Mommy. That’s the intimacy I crave. Short-term play can evolve into deeper connection if the chemistry flows, but always with clear limits: no disobedience, no fakes, and full commitment to being real and fit for this.

I do ask for a face picture early, it’s how I connect, seeing the vulnerability in your eyes that tells me you’re ready to kneel. No perfection required; just authenticity to build that trust.

If this resonates, reach out in DMs. Share about your day-to-day, what draws you to Mommy-led edging and control, and why you’re ready to be my obedient boy. Include that face pic so I can sense the potential right away. I'd also like to know your nationality/background. Your length, girth and if you're cut or uncut.

If you need inspiration on how to show yourself to your new Mommy Domme take a look at this example

https://www.reddit.com/r/faceandcock/comments/1v049v8/did_you_expect_that/

I’m thoughtful, direct, and excited to find someone who’ll make me proud. Let’s create something electric and real.

Intro

Hi! I'll start off with the fact I usually go by GenderPuddle or just Puddle until I'm comfortable and things are verified for safety :). TLDR in bold but pretty please read. I'm located in sunny Southern California (PST) and would love to get to know you if you're sweet but firm, so usually a best fit with soft and mommydoms. I'm not a brat whatsoever and I don't like humiliation or degredation, just two cute people adoring each other!

Preferences:

I do need someone who is a little more mature and older so I would love if you were 24-50! I have a definite preference for established, successful women with strong career aspirations and full lives. Give me those hot lawyers and businesswomen, BUT as long as you're empathetic and a good communicator, we'll hit it off beautifully. Closer time zones preferred but not a deal breaker.

Experience:

I've had a domme before for about a year and a half, which ended amicably and we've since talked, despite not rekindling what we had. It was amazing, providing a way to support them through bad days, make her smile when coworkers were annoying, to be a place to come home and just relax to, and a little respite during the day. NSFW Previous experience was providing live or custom porn (being directed to use toys/recite scripts/watch specific videos), sending pictures and videos, writing fantasies, completing tasks. I've subbed briefly in person as well.

I miss that in my life and want to share it with you!

Goals:

My personal goal is to ruin submissives for you forever. By that I mean to be such a good sub that everything after will make you think of me. I want to be the best you've ever had, and I'm willing to work and learn towards that goal. I need a long-term dynamic, although I'm absolutely willing to show off and things like that sooner. I'm not looking for a relationship at all.

Being a good submissive is about more than your dick length, which is why I am a huge advocate for open, honest, and meaningful communication outside of kink. Talking about your day, your interests, sharing hobbies, and talking like real people is the only way I accept a dynamic, as I need to be able to see the person behind the screen emotionally to connect and feel comfortable giving up my time, energy, and many aspects of control in life. I won't call you mistress right away, so please don't DM me random insults and pet names expecting a response It's like snapping at customer service people to get their attention...it's weird.

We're both real people with real lives and responsibilities, and that's incredibly important to remember, I'll never ghost you, demand time and energy you don't have, etc., and any needs are always open to discuss. I am a full-time college student and part-time worker. It gets busy; I get it!

About Me

If you made it through that, thank you!

The stats, I suppose, are 5'6, with a slim/fit twinkish body with an athletic twist. I'm also working out to get my 6 pack back after a lazy summer. Nonbinary, which means I like occassional makeup and a different wardrobe. I've done some posting here before but I mostly just use twitter now, under the same username if you want to peek. I've got dark, fluffy black hair dyed vibrant purple right now, Hispanic caramel skin, and an adorable smile if I do say so. Check out my thrifted cunty pirate fit at the ren faire

I am very passionate about animals, nature, and wildlife, and am going to school for that sort of thing where I am in the last year of my bachelor's. I will gladly bug you with animal facts and puns. I do some amateur gardening in little planter boxes, volunteer at animal shelters, and love gaming. I will gladly watch movies with you or play games for you to watch if you'll let me. I've got a love for books, especially fantasy and sci-fi. I'm definitely more of an introvert, but I'm working to make friends who will open opportunities to get out more, and I go out to try new restaurants, see movies, etc. very regularly.

NSFW
I'm a big service sub; I love showing off and fulfilling orders and overall learning about who I'm serving and having a fun time chatting, both sexy and not. My big kinks are anal of which I have WAY too many toys, orgasm control, light CBT, petplay (call me a good pup, and I'll bark), mild public stuff, joi, clothing control, free use, and the occasional chastity. I kind of have a try-anything-once policy. My hard limits are scat, blood, and ballbusting/hard pain. I enjoy wearing panties under my normal clothes to express myself and embrace my inner femininity in addition to trying out gender neutral clothes. I am not a sissy or CD. I'll gladly wear a plug to errands and send you pics from the bathroom in college classes in my panties, or take videos of myself to satisfy your kinks.

Thanks for your time and if I interest you don't be shy!

Let Mommy take over. Don't you crave being a good boy? It feels so good to give in, doesn't it?

35 from Australia here looking for eager boytoys who like to be played with by a micmommy. I love to give JOI. Having you follow my instructions, having you doing exactly what I want to please me makes Mommy so horny. I also enjoy anal play, pegging/assplay, light impact and CBT, humiliation, degradation, giving tasks and praising you for doing a good job. I can also enjoy CEI. I would definitely describe myself as a soft domme. I'm much more into praise when you do something right, but will happily punish you if you step out of line. It just makes me so much happier when you're obedient for me. I do enjoy calling you names. When you're engaging in such dirty behaviour, it's only appropriate to acknowledge that.

My limits are illegal things, permanent damage, feet, denying/chastity and animals. I can have fun with edging but usually like to keep that within the session. I've had too many experiences with subs where I've edged them, they agree not to cum and then when I talk to them next, it's revealed they have with someone else. It can be something to work towards if it is a big interest of yours, but it's a no from me at the start at least.

I also am very respectful of your limits/boundaries, but do like to push where there is wiggle room. In this, I believe communication needs to be open where if I'm going too far with something, let me know and I will back down. While I'm in charge, I still like to be respectful.

While I don't mind femboys/sissys, they're not my preference.

The ultimate goal would be to have you on cam obeying my orders, while I instruct you on what to do and how to serve me, with me ultimately draining you of your cum, mind and willpower.

I am looking for someone to talk to outside of kink as well as having fun within it. In my spare time I enjoy music, video games, reality TV (if you've got the stomach for it, I'd love to make you watch a trashy reality tv show with me while your ass is stuffed, or you're made to stroke x amount of times for however long the show is) and some anime.

I'm also looking for a more 1 on 1 type of deal. It doesn't have to be this way starting out (as we get to know each other) but I would definitely prefer if it ends up between us

When you message me, please include some basic details about yourself. Your age, where you are from and what you are looking for. I'd prefer less of the mass generic messages, but I understand it can be a bit of a grind on here, so just try to make sure it's somewhat aligned with what I'm saying here.

No findom here either

No one over 40. It can very difficult to call someone significantly older than me a “good boy” so I’d rather stick to someone younger.

Hey everyone. 40 year old guy here, finally putting myself out there. I’m 5’7”, 165 lbs, brown hair and eyes. Happy to share more pictures after we verify — too many scammers out there and I want to make sure we’re both comfortable.

Outside of Kink - Me!

I’m currently studying cybersecurity, which keeps my brain pretty occupied — I’m also neurodivergent with ADHD so it keeps things interesting. When I’m off the clock I like to relax, watch movies or shows, or do something fun. Snowboarding is my winter obsession, and when there’s no snow on the ground you’ll find me outdoors, gaming, or hunting down live music. I’m learning guitar right now — always learning something. I’d describe myself as boisterous and outgoing in most situations, but put me in front of a woman I’m genuinely attracted to and I get completely flustered. I have a pretty playful sense of humor and love joking around — life’s too short to take everything seriously. I like to unwind with a few drinks and I’m 420 friendly. One thing that’s always been true about me — I’m genuinely interested in my partner’s hobbies and passions, and I love finding ways to share in those things with them.

One thing worth knowing about me is that I experience rejection sensitivity pretty strongly. It comes with the territory of being neurodivergent. I tend to overthink things that most people wouldn’t think twice about — my brain just runs with it and assumes the worst sometimes. I feel like this is important to mention because it has affected relationships in the past. I tend to be extremely passionate about the people I’m into. I’m self aware enough to know it’s there and I’d rather be upfront about it. I try to be deeply communicative and tell a partner if something feels off rather than shutting down or disappearing.

A clear dynamic actually helps with this a lot. Having someone who is direct with me helps with confusion. So in a way this side of me is part of what draws me to this dynamic in the first place.

What I’m looking for

Primarily online to start, but open to something in person if we genuinely connect. I’m looking for a lasting dynamic, not a one-time thing. There is something about a confident, dominant woman that I’m drawn to on a level I can’t fully explain — it’s less about the acts themselves and more about the energy and the dynamic. I’m fairly new to the scene but I know what I want, and I’m always open to evolving and exploring. The connection and trust come first for me.

Kink interests

I lean toward the softer psychological side of submission — humiliation, orgasm control, and power exchange are where my head is at. I have a growing list of interests and I’m always open to exploring new things with the right person. Happy to get into specifics once we’ve actually talked.

Hard limits

I do have a few hard limits but they’re fairly typical requests that most people would understand — happy to share them privately so we’re on the same page before things go anywhere.
Drop a message if any of this clicks with you — tell me a little about yourself and let’s talk!​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​

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Hello!

A bit about me: I am white, 6 feet tall with dirty blonde hair, and green eyed with an average build. Graduated college (yay!!) I love sports (especially soccer). Soccer is a huge part of my life and a lot of my hobbies reflect my love for the sport. In my free time, l play video games, and enjoy spending time with my family and going on trips occasionally. The types of video games I play varies, but usually I play fc, fall guys, Fortnite, etc, but I’m open to trying other games for sure. I just finished silent hill 2 remake, such a good game. I plan to travel in the future once I'm more financially stable now that I am fully done with school. I consider myself a picky eater which I know can be a dealbreaker for some so I’d just list that here to be as transparent as I can. I am really into watching horror stuff: shows, movies, YouTube. Going for walks in nature is something that I enjoy dearly and is something I’d love to do with a domme that I could get close with. I am shy, but I can get more comfortable with you once I get to know you better. I can speak 2 languages and in the process of learning a third. I consider myself to be ambitious. I am a cybersecurity major who is really passionate about tech and I’m hoping to land a job really soon (hopefully something remote).

What I'm looking for:

Hopefully a future partner (if we click), if not, a good friend at least. Someone that is honest, and takes good care of themselves. Someone who is passionate and caring, and knows what they they’re after and does not wanna waste each other’s time. Someone that can text often and is over the age of 19, but nobody older than 35. I want someone who is also average or slim build as attraction matters a lot for me. Someone from the US or Europe. I'm looking for a real connection, we can talk about kinks and all that with time, but would like to build up to that. I want to establish a long term relationship, not on here to for short term or casual flings. I want someone who wants to eventually meet and establish an IRL connection, not just an online one. I am a switch who leans more towards the submissive side. However I am newer to the femdom scene and am open to exploring aspects of it once I get more comfortable with you. Very open to trying things like pegging, I am only interested in a monogamous relationship, and that’s not negotiable. Do not be afraid to shoot me a message, my DM’s are always open and I'm interested to hear back from yall!

(Pictures of what I look like)

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I’m Katie—a 27-year-old, pocket-sized Asian powerhouse who loves being the absolute boss every single day. They say the best things come in small packages, and when it comes to psychological and physical control, I pack a massive punch. I might be tiny, but my presence is huge, and my expectations are even bigger.

I’ve been an active, highly experienced Domme for over three years now, and I’ve learned exactly how to get what I want. There is absolutely nothing better in this world than taking a big, strong, intimidating guy and bringing him completely under my thumb. In fact, I have a massive soft spot for huge daddies. I love the sheer visual contrast of a tiny girl taking absolute control over a massive, muscular frame. If you think your size or your muscles protect you from being bent to my will, think again. In my world, the bigger you are, the harder you fall for your tiny mistress. 😉
Today, I’m looking for a specific type of man to step up to the plate and keep me thoroughly entertained. I want a goodboy who understands the privilege of being pushed to his limits by someone who knows exactly how to pull the strings.

\\\*\\\*What I’m bringing to the table for you today:\\\*\\\*
\\\*\\\*Absolute Mind & Body Control:\\\*\\\* I know how to occupy your thoughts until you can't focus on anything but my next command.

\\\*\\\*Fierce, Teasing JOI:\\\*\\\* I love using my voice to guide you, tease you, and keep you hanging on my every single word.

\\\*\\\*Strict Edging & Cum Control:\\\*\\\* Your release belongs to me. I will take you right to the brink, hold you there, and make you beg before I even consider giving you permission.

\\\*\\\*A Demanding But Highly Rewarding Dynamic:\\\*\\\* I am a strict boss, but I know exactly how to praise a boy who does exactly what he's told.

My only goal today is to be completely pampered, obeyed, and entertained by someone who lives to please. But I don't just let anyone into my inbox. I have a very specific wishlist, and I need you to hit these boxes before you even think about messaging me.

\\\*\\\*My Ultimate Wishlist:\\\*\\\*
\\\*\\\*The Physical:\\\*\\\* I want you tall, handsome, fit, and muscular. As I mentioned, I love huge daddies—so if you have a broad chest, strong shoulders, and abs that you’re proud of, you’re already at the top of my list.

\\\*\\\*The Mindset:\\\*\\\* You must be highly verbal, deeply respectful, kind, and a true gentleman outside of the dynamic. I demand obedience, but it must come from a place of genuine respect.

\\\*\\\*The Execution:\\\*\\\* A true goodboy who understands that my happiness is the only priority today.

If you think you have what it takes to be my boy today, do not just send a lazy "hi" or a generic one-liner. Show me you know how to take direction right from the start. \\\*\\\*Send me a high-effort introduction telling me all about yourself: include your age, your current location, and a clear body picture so I can see exactly what I'm working with.\\\*\\\* Let me see those muscles and that physique.

\\\*A quick, final warning: This post is strictly for the serious guys who are ready to serve, submit, and be a goodboy today. If that’s not you, or if you can't handle a tiny boss, do us both a favor and keep scrolling.\\\*

Let’s see which huge daddy is ready to drop to his knees for me today. My inbox is open—make your impression count.

Hello there! My name is Michael, and I am a 21-year-old male with curly brown hair, blue eyes, white skin, and I'm a bit on the chubby side. I am very much an introvert and a nerd. I love to play video games and watch YouTube. I have a PS5 and recently bought a Switch 2! I play Minecraft, Terraria, and Nintendo games.

Some other information about me is that I have ADHD. So, sometimes it feels like I have twenty tabs open in my head, three are glitching and I can't figure out where that music is coming from. I can hyperfocus on things I find fun or interesting, or I can ramble on and on about Zelda lore or Minecraft mods. Get me talking about something I'm very interested in and your ear will have fallen off by the time I'm done.

What am I looking for? Personality-wise, someone kind, caring, loyal, affectionate, and sweet. Physically, I am very much attracted to curvy and busty women, but I hold personality to a much higher standard than looks. I also look for confidence, someone who takes charge because they like to, or because they notice when I'm not feeling well and decide “I'm taking care of you, and you will not argue with me about it.” I also don't care if you're an introvert or an extrovert. I'll gladly stay home with you and play games or watch TV, or we can go for a walk in the park and sit on a bench.

My love language is physical affection. Cuddles, kisses, hugs, even little things like holding hands are a must for me. But, and this might sound crazy, I am also open to long-distance relationships. They are very difficult, and I am willing to do what it takes to make them work. Preferably, you're in Oregon, but if you're not, don't let that deter you from messaging me. As long as you're in the US or Canada, I am willing to get to know you. Lastly, I am only looking to date cis women.

I don't really care how old you are, just as long as you're over eighteen. I am kind, caring, loyal, and affectionate. I prefer to text at first, but I would also like to move over to calling whenever possible after a bit of chatting. Also, I am not really a fan of slow burn. I like it when attraction is evident from the beginning, and people don't beat around the bush around romance. If you like me, say so. Obviously you're not going to immediately like me enough to jump into a relationship, but I hope this personal ad has shown you enough about me for you to think that you'd want to get to know me.

Some dealbreakers I have are cheating, obviously, but also drugs. I am fine with weed and cigarettes, but hard drugs I am not okay with. Alcohol is also fine as long as it's within reason. I am not interested in having my own biological kids. If I do decide to have kids, I would like to adopt or foster them. And finally, I am not interested if you have kids. I am not looking to be a stepfather.

In a long-distance relationship, I love to play video games or watch YouTube or TV with my partner, as well as calling and texting.

Well, I think that's it. If you're interested, message me with your favorite movie or video game. Thanks! Hope you all have a great day!

Hello! I realize this is a slightly unusual ask for this subreddit, but I believe that total honesty from the start is the best way to find a genuine connection. I am a 30-year-old cis male looking for a caring, dominant woman to build a unique, supportive friendship with. Right now, I am not in a position or headspace for a traditional romantic or sexual relationship, but I am deeply seeking a dedicated, platonic Mommydom dynamic built on consistency, mutual encouragement, warmth, and gentle authority.

I have a physical disability and am paralyzed from the waist down, using a manual wheelchair to get around. I’m the type of person who firmly believes that vulnerability begets vulnerability, so I consider myself an open book. You can ask me pretty much anything without fear of stepping on toes. I always try my best to be nice, but I never fail to be kind.

Because of my paralysis, I wear diapers for medical necessity, and over the years I have explored the ABDL space online. For me, leaning into ABDL has been a meaningful way to transform past childhood insecurities and worries about being "found out" into gentle, loving acceptance. I thoroughly enjoy the softer side of kink. This includes playful teasing about being a grown adult who wears diapers, affectionate tickling and sensory roleplay, being read to, and being sung to. I’m looking for a Mommy Domme who genuinely enjoys guiding, nurturing, and encouraging someone through life’s small, daily moments.

When it comes to what I bring to the table, I am an attentive, patient listener who will happily celebrate your wins, support you through tough days, and offer consistent, reliable communication. All I ask in return is that you offer the same level of care and presence.

I value clear boundaries, open dialogue, and a respectful connection with zero pressure. I want to be someone you look forward to talking to like any other close friend, just with that unique added layer of gentle structure, caretaking, and guidance.

As far as preferences go, I have always been drawn to the type of Domme who is firm about what she wants but leads primarily with gentleness. I have never been into the high-protocol, stiletto-wearing seductress archetype. Truthfully, nothing makes my heart beat faster than a Domme sitting in a comfortable sweatshirt and jeans who can effortlessly turn on her authority when needed. Above all, you need to be comfortable talking casually about the less glorious, everyday aspects of my disability, as well as my ABDL side, diapers and all.

If you are looking for a loyal, appreciative, and affectionate platonic submissive to guide, I would love to hear from you. Please send me a message introducing yourself and sharing a bit about what draws you to this kind of dynamic!

Hi, I’m 32, 188cm (6'2"), based in Copenhagen, Denmark. I’m loyal to a fault, I love deeply, and I’m a bit silly, with a dark, dry sense of humor that tends to sneak up on people when you least expect it.

For me, Femdom isn’t something I’m trying out or playing with occasionally. Femdom dynamics are part of who I am, not a costume I put on and take off. I’ve known what I want for a long time, and I’m not looking for a phase or a fantasy that fades. I’m looking for something that fits into real life.

What I bring

Devotion that lasts. When I commit, I mean it. I’m attentive, consistent, and I remember the small things that matter to the person I’m with. I don’t do things halfway, and I don’t disappear when it gets difficult. I’d rather show up quietly a hundred times than make one big gesture and vanish.

Good food. I cook well, whether it’s a proper Tuesday dinner or something worth dressing up for. Feeding the people I care about is one of my favorite ways to show it, and I take genuine pride in getting a dish right. Cooking is how I slow down, and sharing a table is one of my favorite ways to be close to someone.

Energy. I do CrossFit, ski, hike, and travel every chance I get. I’m happiest when I’m moving, whether that’s a hard workout, a mountain trail, or exploring somewhere new. I plan trips well, so I’m easy company on the road. I like a partner who has her own passions too, and I’m just as happy cheering from the side as joining in.

Discipline. Structure and showing up when it’s hard are second nature to me, both in training and in life. I take direction well, and I put in real effort, not just talk. I like having a purpose and a standard to live up to, and I find real satisfaction in doing things well for someone I respect.

What I’m looking for

A Domme who values loyalty and honest communication, and who can enjoy both the serious side and the silly side of a dynamic. Being in or near Copenhagen would make things easier, but I’m genuinely open to long-distance if there’s a real connection worth building. I believe good dynamics are built slowly, with trust earned rather than assumed. I’m happy to talk through expectations and limits openly before anything else, and I’d rather build something real than rush into something shallow. I’m drawn to a woman who knows what she wants, is confident in leading, and is just as comfortable laughing as she is being serious. Chemistry and conversation matter to me as much as anything else.

Fair warning

I attach quickly and feel things fully. It’s a trait I’m still learning to appreciate rather than second-guess, and I’d rather be upfront about it from the start than have it surprise you later.

If that sounds like what you’re looking for, I’d love to hear from you. Tell me a little about yourself, what you enjoy, and what kind of dynamic you have in mind, and we can take it from there.

hii there :3

I’m here hoping to meet someone special — someone who’s genuinely interested in building a deep, meaningful connection that could grow into a lifelong partnership. I’m not into playing games or casual flings — I’m searching for something real, grounded in shared values, mutual respect, and emotional intimacy. c:

A little about me: I’m a medical student with a passion for living life fully and purposefully. I’d describe myself as someone who tries to stay positive, engaged, and open-minded. I really enjoy the balance between being active and spending time with things I love, whether it’s studying hard, hitting the gym, or just enjoying some well-deserved downtime.

I’m a big nerd at heart. I love tech, gaming, photography, and movies (feel free to ask me for my Letterboxd if you’re into cinema too — I love connecting over favorite films!). I also enjoy the outdoors and being in nature — whether it’s hiking, exploring a new trail, or just appreciating a peaceful view. Cooking is another hobby I take pleasure in; there’s something special about preparing meals and sharing them with people you care about.

Sports and fitness are an important part of my life. Staying active helps me keep a clear mind and a healthy body, and I’d love to find someone who shares that passion or is open to exploring it. Whether it's a workout session, a weekend hike, or a pickup game of something fun, I’d love to have a partner who enjoys moving together through life — literally and figuratively!

I strive to be mindful, compassionate, and grounded, and I really appreciate those qualities in others too. I value emotional intelligence, kindness, honesty, patience, and empathy. I believe a great relationship is built on trust, communication, and a shared sense of purpose. Bonus points if you love deep conversations, late-night talks, and aren’t afraid to be a little goofy at times!

I don’t put too much weight on looks — for me, connection and character matter most — but if you’re curious, I’m around 172cm tall, weigh about 65kg, with fair skin, green eyes, and dark brown hair (which I recently cut short after having it long for a while). I’m happy to exchange photos once we get to know each other better and build a bit of trust.

Although I'm a switch, I have a VERY strong sub lean, and am very much into femdom, from soft n gentle, to rough, mean, sadistic kinks. Respect, trust, and consent are non-negotiables for me in everything. I'm also open to exploring other kinks and dynamics.

Some of my favorite kinks:

femdom, praise, worship, service, teasing, overstimulation, shibari (rope play), denial/edging, ruined orgasms, breeding, degradation, humiliation, cnc, corruption, petplay, BDSM, nipple play, ball/scrotum, play, pegging, feminization, cross-dressing, SPH, hands-free orgasms, chastity cage, light CBT, spanking, feet, cunnilingus , chocking.

Ultimately, I’m looking for a genuine, passionate person I can grow with — a partner in crime, a best friend, and a soulmate. If you feel we might vibe or want to chat, don’t hesitate to reach out ! ♡