r/dirtyr4r • • 13d ago

October 2026 - Revised Dirty4r rules and posting requirements, FAQs and how to spot a catfish guide! NSFW

2 Upvotes

UPDATE - DO NOT POST, SHARE, OR EVEN HINT TO EMAIL ADDRESSES, KIK, SNAPCHAT, PHONE NUMBERS, etc.

Save them for PMs, not public posts or comments. If you see users sharing such information, please hit the report button so that a mod can review it.

Mention Your Location In The Post Title.

Please remember to include a physical location in your title. It shouldn't be your street address, but it also shouldn't span multiple time zones or languages.

What if I'm not looking for IRL play and want online partners?

Even if you aren't seeking IRL play, including your location helps add character and personality to your post, including hints about your accent, culture and availability (based on time zones)

I put in my city but it still got removed?

We monitor and update our location list frequently. If you used a location we don't recognize yet you can delete and resubmit with a more recognizable location (the 12-hour-rule-between-posts usually doesn't get auto-enforced in these cases) or leave your post up and send us a modmail about it.



The rest of the rules - please go through to refresh yourself. If you were directed here by a mod you should definitely go through this before sending us a reply.

RULES OF r/DIRTYR4R

SELLING

Selling posts are not allowed on r/dirtyr4r. If you want to sell, please head over to r/sexsells. Posts regarding selling will be removed.

If you do interact with an OP who tells you that he/she is selling, please screenshot it and send us a Mod Mail so that we may take action.

FREQUENCY OF POSTS

12 hours is the minimum amount of time between posts. Posting more often will result in your post being removed and subsequently may result in a ban. Deleting your posts and reposting will be considered as a violation of this rule. Furthermore, ban evaders will be reported to Reddit admins.

RESPECT THE PRIVACY OF OTHERS

From the sidebar

> Someone to trade kinky pics of yourself with

Do not ask for or share content of other people. This includes but not limited to rating/sharing/tributing content of SO's/family members/friends. All such posts will be removed and the OP banned right away. Users reported for doing so within personal PMs, alongside proof will be banned as well.

GENDER TAGS

Please remember to tag your post titles correctly so that it doesn't get user reports. M4F means that you are a Male who is looking for(4) a Female.

SAFETY FIRST!

Meeting someone IRL after you made a post? Remember to stay safe! Check out some match.com tips on how to have a successful date: https://www.match.com/help/safetytips.aspx

Not all dates happen in person, some can take place within PM's and/or other messaging services. Be smart and avoid sharing personal information right off the bat. Furthermore, check your profile history to ensure you have not shared any personal information in the past that may be traceable to your IRL self. Keep in mind that holds true for both parties; someone refusing to send a picture of themselves does not always mean they are catfishing.

If you do encounter a problematic PM hit that report button and block that user. Send the mods a PM with a screenshot so that we can take action against troublemakers.



JOIN THE DIRTYR4R CHAT!

As some of you may have realized, we quietly introduced a dirtyr4r chat a little while ago. This is a chat based system that allows users to cam up and interact with other dr4r's. It's a fantastic and dynamic way to meet new people! Too shy to cam? No worries, it's still as fun. Click here to check it out right away!

Please report violations to any of these rules either via Mod Mail or by hitting the report button underneath a post.

COMMENTING ETIQUITTE

There is absolutely no reason for you to comment things like "PM", "Check your Inbox", "PM me" on posts. If you've sent a message, great! Now just sit back, relax and enjoy because the other user has received a notification. In fact it is less likely that they will even talk to you now. "If I see that you are repeatedly spamming this I will be giving out temp bans with possibilities of perma bans as well" - u/ScrewYourDriver.



Are you active here and have suggestions or requests? Message the Mods!


r/dirtyr4r • • 7d ago

[/r/dirtyr4r live chat] 36 pervs, 4 on cam -- Welcome to dirtyr4r! Cam up, have fun, & be nice! NSFW

Thumbnail icanhazchat.com
2 Upvotes

r/dirtyr4r • • 3h ago

female 22 [F4M] #Online/Netherlands and #UK - White girl looking for well-hung guys with a different ethnic background (read first please) NSFW

21 Upvotes

Well hey there, I am a 22yo white British girl who currently lives in the Netherlands. I've got brownish hair, nice eyes and take care of my looks and body. I'm really attracted to guys with a different ethnic background, I just think interracial is hot haha. Please also be well-hung, that's a preference I got.

If interested drop me a note with your intro, background, and size and let's see where this goes.


r/dirtyr4r • • 1h ago

female 34 [F4M]PA - rate my nipples, reply for a shot NSFW

• Upvotes

italian, milfy, 36d saggy real tits, huge dark puffy nipples that get rock hard in two seconds... i want to know if they're the good kind of puffy or the weird kind. brutal is fine. send me a chat if you want it.


r/dirtyr4r • • 56m ago

female 25 [F4M] Fort Worth - shy about my body but need to be loved anyway NSFW

• Upvotes

not a model but i have so much to give. need a guy who makes me feel hot no matter what. say the right things and i will open up


r/dirtyr4r • • 3h ago

female 23 [F4M] Portland - shy girl wants a text bf, lonely nights ;; NSFW

13 Upvotes

hi... it's late and i've been staring at my ceiling for an hour lol. i'm 5'3, half filipina, softer body with thick thighs and small chest, glasses when i'm home. i'm the awkward type... rambles when nervous, sends too many emojis, gets flustered when someone actually flirts back >.<

i'm just tired of the apps. i want someone to text me every morning and complain about their day with me at night. slow build, no rush. gaming together open too if you play anything chill.

looking for a guy 25-40, warm, patient, kind of a dork like me. bonus if you're taller and give big hug energy. nsfw can happen once i actually feel safe with you.

dm me if you wanna see a pic of me, i'll send one back if you send yours first ok?


r/dirtyr4r • • 4h ago

female 28 [F4M] scandinavia/online - friends with benefits? NSFW

16 Upvotes

hello! i’m looking for someone to chat with, preferably long-term if we click, about everything and nothing, SFW and NSFW. ideally, you’re between 25–36.

when i'm free, you can usually find me in the kitchen, listening to music on my walks, reading, or just doing cute things while out and about.

on the NSFW side, i'm more on the submissive-leaning side, with quite a few kinks and plenty of fantasies, but i'd rather talk about those in conversation, so we can keep it fun.

soooo, if you’re interested, send me a PROPER message, and please, for the love of all things holy, say more than just “hi” or “hello.”

p.s. if you're australian, canadian or irish... see this as your sign to reach out!


r/dirtyr4r • • 2h ago

female 28[F4A] Adelaide/Online - Virgin dreaming of being bred NSFW

9 Upvotes

So as a horny as fuck virgin (yes for real, no I don’t want to explain why) - I’ve never been on birth control, nor do I ever want to be really. But eugh do I just want to get filled with cum. Sensual breeding is one of the hottest things ever - you inside me, getting ready to fill me up with your cum, hoping that you’re going to get me pregnant, all while you’re grunting and moaning in my ear. It turns me on endlessly the thought of a man claiming me and making me his by flooding me with his cum and getting me bred. And it could take first try with me never being on birth control? But I’d rather you keep trying. Can you tell me I’m a good girl while you keep fucking more and more loads into my tight pussy? Please? Bonus points if you want to stay inside me while you get hard again or you will hold me in a position where your cum won’t leak out! <3

Happy for a mix of roleplay, dirty talk, sexting, porn sharing etc. If you would like to send pictures that’s fine by me, but I won’t be reciprocating so please don’t ask if you expect pictures in return!

Not looking to take this off reddit - please don’t ask for in person or other apps!

Kinks: creampies/breeding, bondage, calling you daddy, anal, gangbangs, double penetration, toys, spanking, freeuse

Limits: Choking, throatfucking - not sure why so many of you lead with ‘I want to choke you’ when I’m asking for creampies….


r/dirtyr4r • • 2h ago

female 26[F4A] UK Dirty Slut, Just done the walk of shame after a filthy night haha let’s chat love your ratings and assumptions too!! NSFW

7 Upvotes

Send asl in first message or I won’t even respond to your message, uk girl I like to consider myself a dirty slut and proud of it, let’s chat ask anything you want can be whatever I will answer everything alternately love your honest ratings and assumptions of me just done the walk of shame again after a filthy night hahah let’s chat!!


r/dirtyr4r • • 7h ago

female 25 [F4M] Vancouver - looking for video chat fun before bed NSFW

21 Upvotes

25F, looking for a guy who’s up for some naughty video chat before bed 😈 I’m in the mood to make a big mess on my bed and could use some help. Let's see see where things go. Bonus points if you’re decently endowed but not necessary. I'm sure you can keep a girl entertained either way 🥇

My dm's were accidentally turned off. They're on now


r/dirtyr4r • • 5h ago

female 27[F4M]Salt Lake City - ex mormon wife on my knees pic NSFW

13 Upvotes

kneeling on the bedroom floor in a thong and nothing else, hair down, hands on my thighs. took the pic on a self timer.

reply here and i'll send it over. want a man who will absolutely not be nice about it.


r/dirtyr4r • • 4h ago

female 33 [F4M] Chicago suburbs - rate my slut face NSFW

9 Upvotes

mascara running a little, mouth open, tongue out, eyes looking up like I'm mid-blowjob. wearing just a choker. black hair, olive skin, freckled chest. tell me if my face is slutty enough to fuck or if I need more practice. reply here and I'll send it over


r/dirtyr4r • • 5h ago

female 24 [F4M] #Online or #Netherlands - looking for a hung exhibitionist guy for online fun/JOI, read post..!:) NSFW

10 Upvotes

Please read my post entirely and check if you’re comfortable with what I'm looking for!
feel free to message if we used to play a while ago:) I use telegrm mostly.
Warning; if you message me without actually being able to cam/call on a short term, i’ll likely stop the chat. When messaging, I appreciate if you show me that you’ve read my post!:)

In short, I'm looking to watch a guy on cam and do JOI and edging, roleplay.
Don’t offer or send pics: I’m looking to watch on cam, not on a pic.

I can verify picture and a piece of paper, *when I see you on cam*. I will not require you to show your full face, out of respect for your privacy; for example with no eyes (or sunglasses/cap/hat) works too. Don’t message me with “I don’t do face”, i’d never ask for full face. If you are not comfortable with “just-no-eyes” then it’s a pass for me.
Yes! this means I prefer to start with you not-nude. I also prefer that you do not hold the cam/phone.
In a while or before meeting in real life I might want to cam too (but not at first):)

Most of the times, I can use my mic quietly:).

Let me know your age when messaging me. Generally, I prefer guys below my age, if you're feeling very confident, don't hesitate if you're a bit older than me:)

Needless to say, i like it, if you enjoy being observed, by me. If you message me, be prepared to go on cam for a little bit so I know/see that you're being serious (even if we're not doing a full "session" at that point yet).
If you are not comfortable to be on cam, I completely respect that, but this might not be for you.

If you want more details (and want to know the apps I use) send me a message!

If you message me, be prepared to go on cam at least for a little bit so I know it’s a matc…!


r/dirtyr4r • • 2h ago

female 23 [F4M] Texas - lonely af in my room wanna sext anyone hard rn and drain your balls NSFW

6 Upvotes

literally just lying here scrolling lol super bored and honestly kinda horny ngl... looking for someone to chat with and maybe get off together


r/dirtyr4r • • 1h ago

female 23 [F4M] California- looking to show off my wet pussy and sext today NSFW

• Upvotes

Im so dam wet I've been lonely for some months now and lately nothing in the bedroom and nothing kinky for a couple months

I want someone that either has done a lot of kinky stuff or someone that knows if I say something kinky as hell you won't freak out

Im also looking for only males NO Female don't try to pretend to be a male either I will ask to prove you're male


r/dirtyr4r • • 6h ago

female [ Removed by Reddit ] NSFW

12 Upvotes

[ Removed by Reddit on account of violating the content policy. ]


r/dirtyr4r • • 13h ago

female 27 [F4M] Cali -I'm married but love to flirt with my fellow married horny strangers since my hubby won't NSFW

41 Upvotes

I don't care if you have a wife, I have a husband too, let flirt together


r/dirtyr4r • • 4h ago

female 26 [F4M] NY-Online I wanna watch someone cum to only my voice while I dirty talk (read full post) NSFW

6 Upvotes

Update: Now there is an audio sample on my account if you want to check it out :) -after reading this full post ofc. Also, if see this post elsewhere or even edited, I’ve been plagiarized 😭

This is for someone into audio voices and also into being watched. Im a switch so, either I can tell you what to do while I watch and instruct you. Or you can dirty talk me while you hear me moan and get off too. Also make sure you can have small convos and a bit of a personality (it just makes it more fun for both of us lol).

I've been described to have a cute, soft, soothing, sexy voice. Some would say the girl next door vibe. Others say I should do asmr videos lol.
There's a lot of you guys, so l've been selective lately.

Things I usually look for in the guys I choose:
Visually muscular, fit, or athletic. Or just a cute face with abs. Generally, just someone who takes care of themselves and/or cares about their appearance.
Can hold conversations, banter and just have fun. Don’t be quiet or mute. This is supposed to be like a friendship. If you give off good energy, you’ll get good energy back from me. Be your regular self before you are your sexual self!
No hiding any part of your body. Make sure you’re comfy with everything and just being yourself around me. Might take a bit of time, but that’s what conversations are for!

Please dm your age and what you're into. I'll accept the message and then you must send a pic (selfie, gym pic, etc- doesn't have to be nude but could be) and I'll consider from there.

Please don't ask for any visual aid from my end. If this isn't your kink or you need visuals then don't message (this isn't for you, I'm not for you and you're wasting your time). If you look through my profile l've done this many times. It's a really fun experience with the right few people. Just gotta have good energy and chemistry lol.

If you want to show off and have fun to a mysterious girl on the internet while she dirty talks then shoot your shot!


r/dirtyr4r • • 3h ago

female 25 [F4M] Michigan - Drunk, nervous and looking for someone to show off with NSFW

6 Upvotes

Just got home from a party and im drunk, Im insanely horny, looking for older guys married or single who’s down, show off while we jerk, and rate each other until we both finish.


r/dirtyr4r • • 8h ago

female 18 [F4M] - England - Online - Tipsy British uni student wants to suck a bunch of big cocks! NSFW

14 Upvotes

Hey there, so I haven’t really planned how I’m gonna write this out so I apologise if this comes across as a little bit of a ramble but try and go with it haha. Anyway, I’m an 18 year old British girl called Emily who goes to university, and I’m a little bit (a lot) tipsy. Anyway, this is the last thing I would normally post as I can be quite reserved and a good girl most of the time, but the drink kinda changes that.

As for my appearance, I’m a pale blonde girl, long blonde hair most of the way down my back. I have blue eyes, a few freckles on my face, soft lips, sorry now I probably sound weird. I keep myself in good shape but am very naturally busty with a big round arse. I guess you could call me a pawg. God it’s embarrassing describing myself like that haha. I’m shaved, I have a navel piercing and I think that’s about it.

Sorry I know this probably doesn’t make a lot of sense but as you can probably tell from the title of the post, when I’ve had a few drinks I have a big thing for sucking on cocks. Well at least fantasising about it. Big, fat, juicy cocks, big balls. I sound like such a slut, shit haha but I can’t help it. It’s not something my friends know I keep it to myself but this is a bit more anonymous I guess. Older men too, like I know it sounds bad but guys like twice my age are really, really hot. I’d love to suck a bunch of big, juicy older dicks at once. Milk them all dry, have them all cum for me. On my face… in my mouth, on my tits… I’ve watched a bunch of porn of it too. Blowbangs I think it’s called. Only when I’m kinda drunk but yeah haha. I am now so you guys are in luck.

I’m not in the right headspace to roleplay as I’d probably lose track haha so I’d rather keep it to more of a conversation, so if that’s good with you feel free to message me. Tell me your age, and put a little effort in. I don’t expect an essay but a little effort goes a long way. Sorry if I don’t reply as I know I’ll probably get swamped with messages but I’ll do my best.

My limits are scat, gore, death, blood, animals and underage.

😘


r/dirtyr4r • • 8h ago

female 25 [F4M] Portland - rate my body vs your ex NSFW

14 Upvotes

5'2 redhead, freckled everywhere, small b cups, wide hips, cute round butt. standing sideways in a mirror in just white socks. wanna know how I stack up... send me a description of your ex's body and I'll send my pic and you tell me who wins. send me a chat if you want it


r/dirtyr4r • • 3h ago

female 34 [F4M]Denver - post gym sweaty in the locker room NSFW

6 Upvotes

just finished lifting, sports bra still stuck to me, leggings soaked at the crotch. took a bathroom stall selfie with them pulled down.

milf energy, big natural tits, ass you can grip. message me for the pic if you're into gym sluts.


r/dirtyr4r • • 6h ago

female 36 [F4M] Charlotte - horny mom needs a stranger tonight NSFW

9 Upvotes

haven't been fucked properly in months and my body is starting to riot. took a shower vid on the glass door, soap running down my tits.

message me for the pic. thick southern woman, freckled chest, quiet mouth but only in public.


r/dirtyr4r • • 6h ago

female 33 [F4M]London - british milf can't sleep NSFW

9 Upvotes

3am here, been rubbing myself through my knickers for an hour and it's not enough. dropped them, took a wet clit close up.

send me a chat if you want it. accent obvious in dms if you're into that.


r/dirtyr4r • • 5h ago

female (20F4A) college girl from fl looking to chat NSFW

8 Upvotes

I Love receiving pics off the bat(it’s the best way to get my attention) and am super open to nearly any kink. I’m generally submissive and love being objectified. Into age gaps, cnc, etc. Message me w ur age and what ur looking for/what ur kinks are :3