r/datalounge • u/Most-Faithlessness64 • 7h ago
r/datalounge • u/MysteriousGoldDuck • 2d ago
The Lanai - Week of October 12, 2026
It's time for another week on the lanai. Please upvote the thread when you get a chance.
Thank you for the feedback in recent weeks. Please continue to share feedback. We are always willing to make changes.
Reminder that the Lanai is a post/thread for random chitchat and talk about whatever mundane stuff you'd like. It's a chill space.
In general, please add new posts/threads to the actual subreddit when you want to talk about topics with the DL subreddit. That keeps everything fresh and interesting.
IOW, this is not intended as a substitute for "Eldergays,", question threads, TV/book discussions, and other lighter posts where we get to know each other. This is just a special little side addition to hang out and chat. Say whatever you'd like.
Thank you!
r/datalounge • u/mildlycustard • Aug 31 '26
DataLounge Backup
Hi all,
I've launched a read-only archive of DataLounge as it stood on 30 July 2026:
I kept seeing people ask for a viewable backup of DL, and with nothing in sight I decided to make one. It seemed a shame to lose that much gay history off the internet, and it was a fun thing to build.
It holds 858,150 threads and 30,395,499 posts, from 11 August 1998 through to the last post at 4:57pm on the final day.
I've had some fun with the look (including fake RealJock ads) If you'd rather read without the nostalgia, there's a reader link in the footer that turns the ads and the wallpaper off.
The site is pulled together by cross-referencing a few remaining sources. It's read-only (so no accounts or posting), but you can star posts to help surface them to the front-page.
I'm not at all affiliated with DataLounge, so we'll see how long this site survives. There's also an address on the About page I'll act on for any post removal request.
It's running on a small server, so it may groan a bit if everyone arrives at once. Let's pray it doesn't crash (although that might help with the nostalgic authenticity).
Would love any feedback, or feature requests.
EDIT:
Thank you for all of the kind words! I'm glad you all love it.
I've updated the site slightly to improve things like search and stars, and to add a donors section:
https://www.caftancloset.com/sponsors
Also, I for those at PB: I had no idea about Caftan Lounge, and I am in fact, not Mediapolis.
Lastly, I am open to feedback – I've a few requests about exportable threads, save lists, as well as being able claim old posts (with signatures) and even to enable posting. At this stage, I'm hesitant to do anything which could land me in trouble so this would require much more consideration, or a blessing from Muriel that I don't have.
r/datalounge • u/rossuccio • 51m ago
Emerald City TV - a 1970s NYC public access television show for and about gay men
I started a thread about this just as Datalounge was dying, and I’m sure many of you are aware of these already, but I wanted to share this here for those who are interested. I find it really cool.
Someone has uploaded to YouTube episodes of a TV series created in 1970s New York City all about gay men, with interviews and topics of discussion of interest to gay men. It’s a wonderful slice of history, with a big dose of nostalgia (can you still call it nostalgia when you weren’t born then and live on the other side of the world?).
It’s even got the adverts in there - everything from restaurants, piano bars, bathhouses, gyms, adult bookstores, Fire Island, the works of Wilhelm von Gloeden… (that last would not go down well today!)
This is one of my favourite eras to read about and watch things from, and there are some great interviews within. Everyone from John Waters, Divine, Andrew Holleran, Larry Kramer, Robert La Tourneaux, bathhouse proprietors, lounge singers… it’s really great. Frank O’Dowd (such a cutie) hosts and Vito Russo (I love his smile) does some of the interviewing.
I’ve included the John Waters one here, which I’ve watched a few times. Just click through to the uploader for more, if you like. The quality of some isn’t great, but it’s such a treasure trove. Even today I feel it’s rare to find things by us and for us in this way. Enjoy!
r/datalounge • u/Davis_Crawfish • 14h ago
For those of you who read Christina Crawford's MOMMIE DEAREST, the book, what did you think of it and how different it is from the film?
I didn't understand Christina Crawford's complaints about the film being campy, over the top, because the book is even more extreme. The Wire Hangers beatings weren't just one incident, it happened repeatedly. The film doesn't portray how Christina ended up having to do chores in the Academy because Joan sometimes didn't pay tuition.
One of the most extreme incidents is when Joan had Christina wear a ripped dress (her favorite) to school as punishment for removing a bit of wallpaper from the wall.
I thought the movie was fairly faithful to the book. I'd say the film was even much more generous in how it depicted Christina and Joan.
r/datalounge • u/Most-Faithlessness64 • 11h ago
Denise Nicholas who played Guidance Counselor Liz McIntyre on Rm 222 is guest on Steve Kmetko's podcast
youtube.comShe only has praise for Karen Valentine and Michael Constantine while avoiding discussing Lloyd Haynes when the interviewer brings him up.
Kmetko also asks her about the murder of her sister in 1981, who was found shot to death in a car at LaGuardia Airport. Details at link- https://atqnews.com/news-the-unsolved-murder-of-african-american-michele-burgen-1954-80-one-of-ebony-magazines-youngest-editors/#google_vignette
r/datalounge • u/Davis_Crawfish • 15h ago
Remember "My Super Sweet 16" from MTV? Let's remember the infamous Sophie and her "invites"
youtube.comr/datalounge • u/bloodiermuder • 1d ago
Revenge of Kimberly Gargoyle
Is anyone else looking forward to seeing how she gets revenge? I can't wait for the stories about Don Junior she's about to leak to the Wall Street Journal!
r/datalounge • u/No-Advantage-579 • 1d ago
Collin Goslin explains how his narcissistic mother created a torture chamber in the basement for him, zipties and all
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For anyone unfamiliar: this behaviour is typical for narcissistic personality disorder - it's called "splitting".
ETA: Gosselin. Apologies, I misspelled their family name.
r/datalounge • u/Elizabitch_Taylor_ • 1d ago
Lisha Minnelli, Shenshational in shwhite shequinsh
r/datalounge • u/DuaLipasGlowUp • 21h ago
Do you think the FBI person assigned to you likes you?
I would hope that my FBI guy and I could have a good laugh over my stupid life
r/datalounge • u/PeneItaliano • 14h ago
Pop Culture CBS is using 'Tracker' Season 4 to “Repilot” the series and change the shows formula
movieweb.comr/datalounge • u/partyclams • 1d ago
NEWSWEEK (September 15, 1975) 'It Didn't Go Off!' 'Squeaky' Fromme After Capture
galleryThat outfit.
r/datalounge • u/TomJones998 • 1d ago
“Kelly Clarkson Put Us In Danger,” the title of an interview with the owner of Art of Play
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‘Kelly Clarkson Put Us in Danger’ should be all over T-Shirts, Banners and Bumper Stickers!!!
r/datalounge • u/TomJones998 • 1d ago
Here are the three celebrities Selma Blair admitted to biting years before biting a flight attendant yesterday
…To be fair, they each deserve it..🤭
r/datalounge • u/PeneItaliano • 1d ago
Pop Culture ‘Girls’ reboot is officially happening!
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r/datalounge • u/TomJones998 • 1d ago
I carry shelter dogs around NYC in a dog backpack to help them get adopted. Meet Moo Deng!
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r/datalounge • u/Beginning-Head-4006 • 1d ago
We need more officer like him
aintstraight.comWhy yes Officer , my welfare would be a whole lot better if I get to suck your dick . Win win
Can u imagine? Just disappear for a few days, then your neighbor call a welfare check on you. And this hunky cop just show up & let his cock make you feel better. I'm sure you old queens get a thrill out of this very possible fantasy
r/datalounge • u/PeneItaliano • 1d ago
Pop Culture Drake Bell Blasts SAG-AFTRA After Losing Health Insurance: ‘Do Not Become an Actor. Do Not Join SAG’
variety.comr/datalounge • u/Outrageous-Dark-1719 • 1d ago
Hassan Jihad Ibn Kariem, the man who was flung from a Six Flags rollercoaster in Georgia, survived a car fire just a few weeks ago. > Survived a car fire with his daughter. > Survived cancer twice. > Survived a difficult fight with Covid-19. > Died after being flung from a Six Flags rollercoaster.
This is extremely sad. The workers were probably afraid to tell him he was too fat for the ride. The bar couldn't completely latch over his belly. Son was next to him. Imagine living with that memory.
r/datalounge • u/PeneItaliano • 1d ago
Pop Culture Pasha Ebrahimi in ‘Sex & Violence’ (2013) NSFW
galleryr/datalounge • u/Elizabitch_Taylor_ • 1d ago
If you were a flight attendant would you rather have Cilla Black or Selma Blair on your flight?
linkto.runPlease have a look at my poll.
r/datalounge • u/yolatrendoid • 1d ago
Selma Blair goes full-tilt-Zsa Zsa on flight
nytimes.comKicking a cop in the face?? I’m assuming her “medical issue” is probably addiction, but this is unfortunate. I know she hasn’t had a fantastic career, but she seemed generally nice.
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The actress Selma Blair was arrested on Sunday night after the police responded to a call about a “physically abusive passenger” aboard a flight that had landed at New York’s Kennedy Airport, the Port Authority Police Department said.
The police said two flight attendants had reported injuries on a Delta Air Lines flight from Los Angeles to New York. One flight attendant was taken to a hospital for further evaluation.
Ms. Blair, 54, appeared on Monday in Queens Criminal Court, where she pleaded not guilty to two charges of assault, according to The Associated Press.
Ms. Blair was accused of kicking a police officer, who was on active duty, in the face, neck and chest and later kicking a nurse in the chest after being transported to the hospital, according to video footage from Ms. Blair’s court appearance.
Ms. Blair “experienced a medical emergency that led to the alleged conduct,” a representative for the actress said in a statement. “Upon landing, she received immediate medical attention and is currently in stable condition.”