Personally I would argue that malicious compliance is also an option in this case. You want me to wear male clothes? Sure, I'll wear a fitted shirt and no bra that will be obscene because of my new breasts.
You want me to wear female clothes, sure, let me pick this shorter skirt that will show off my hairy thighs and a low cut shirt that will show off my chest hair and lack of breasts. Hell, if your top surgery scars can be visible all the better.
If you feel comfortable doing so, do what they say but pick clothes that make it as obscene and uncomfortable for everyone else as possible.
Yeah I know a trans dude who looks and sounds exactly like a cis dude and his parents still pretend he’s a girl. It circles back to being hilarious because they’ll do it in front of strangers and they’re just like huh? Where’s the girl?
It could not be more forced and insane. If you’re comfortable doing it it’s arguably the one of best ways to shut down transphobia because it’s obviously so forced and being done for blatantly bigoted and personal reasons.
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u/MaddMax92 17h ago
The word this entire comment section is looking for is "no."