r/casualiama • u/J2Hoe • 11d ago
I’m so stressed I might start hyperventilating. Ask me anything
Currently sitting in my bathroom on a break. It’s my birthday party today (my bday is on Monday), and my friend pulled out of making my cake, so I made it myself last night whilst also trying to hand in an overdue assignment, tidy, do my washing, and eat. I only got home at 8pm, so it was a long night. I didn’t finish the assignment. I’ve been up all day finishing the cake, tidying the house, buying food (I don’t have enough so will need to order a dominoes), and figuring out who’s coming. I’m hardly getting any responses so I don’t even know who’s coming to my party. It’s in 2 hours. Im so stressed. I’m hoping my lecturer doesn’t mark my assignment until Monday so I can try and get it done tomorrow. My actual birthday is on Monday. I don’t have any food for my family coming over then either. Going to shower now and then get back to it.
Ask me anything.
Preferably to to my mind off stuff
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u/LisunaLefti 11d ago
Would you like to go somewhere else instead of being at your party since it's so stressful?
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u/OnlyAnotherEmily 11d ago
Friend, happy birthday. Second- please think about your priorities. A cheap grocery store cake and finishing the assignment would have been the way to go.
You don't get a second chance at school- please prioritize it.
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u/egasz 11d ago
Relax dude... It's your birthday, you should be enjoying yourself, not stressing! If this is causing you distress, then cancel it. And I know it's still early but "Happy Birthday" , and call your mother... No one remembers your birthday as well as her!