r/calmhands • u/Used-Gap-7538 • 22h ago
r/calmhands • u/Common-Association80 • 9h ago
Need Advice How to get rid of hand picking/dermatillomania?
galleryHow have you managed to stop picking or tearing at the skin on your fingers? I also have OCD and a fear of serious illnesses. I was in Crete, Greece, with my family from October 6th to 13th, and I’m a huge animal lover. As is well known, there are many stray cats on the island; one day, I used my fingers to move a metal food can—bought from a store—from which two stray cats had been eating less than a minute earlier. I’m terrified that some of their saliva got onto my fingers and that I might contract rabies—EVEN THOUGH Greece is officially a rabies-free country. The mother cat hissed and spat when I approached, but that was likely just because her kitten was nearby and she was protecting it. In any case, this habit of picking at my skin causes a lot of stress—even while traveling—and it is EXTREMELY difficult to stop. Any tips would be greatly appreciated! My thumb was probably not that bad looking when I were in Crete, now I have eaten it even more, maybe due to stress etc. For my own peace of mind, I left a callback request to my local healthcare emergency service regarding the risk of rabies, even though there should be none. Thanks for the help!!
r/calmhands • u/SubNodex • 10h ago
10 months without picking! Left picture is when I first got it under control, right picture is now :)
i.imgur.comr/calmhands • u/Snuffvieh • 19h ago
Progression Not the first time I’m back to solid nails, but it always feels rewarding to get to this point :)
After exams and lots of nervous picking and biting I once again made it to this point.
I find using fidgets, keeping a nail set with sharps nail/skin cutters and using hand/nail lotion at least 3-6 times per day helpful. But of course there are time where even that won’t work.
Been a biter for almost 30 years so believe me, I know the struggle is real, just a reminder that it can get better <3
r/calmhands • u/SecondMaleLead • 19h ago
Day 1 I am dedicated to kick the habit!
Yesterday I applied transparent nail polish on my nails and I am not going to bite them from here on I've had ENOUGH.
I want pretty nails I want to do nail art , I want to have clean nails . I want to click mirror selfie without hiding my nails .
My nails make me underconfident and ashamed of my self but no more.
Since my trigger is anxiety and stress it's gonna be tough it's gonna be a long process ,but who cares now that I've put my mind to it I've gotta this ✌🏿