Hey, I’m looking for something specific and long term not a hookup. I’m drawn to dynamics where I take full ownership of a couple. Both of them. Her completely body, submission, devotion, attention, loyalty. Him completely his role, his loyalty, his submission, his devotion, his acceptance and his place in the relationship. I want to be the one she chooses and the one he answers to. The bull who takes everything that matters from him while he no longer or little he has access to. psychological control, D/s dynamic, the slow shift where both of them orient their entire relationship around what I want that’s exactly the headspace I’m looking to build. I’m also drawn to subtle manipulation/blackmail style play making him more compliant, more obedient, more willing to give up control just to stay in the picture, as long as everyone involved genuinely wants to be there and is consent to all of this, consent and safewords are important because its no use to me if not everyone is willingly participating in it. If you’re a couple where she’s open to this kind of ownership and he’s ready to fully accept his place under both me and her, I’d love to talk. No rush, just genuine interest in building something real.
DMs open only for locals where i live, close by or if you are open to often travele to meet up with me as dom or bull depending on what dynamic you both want.

About me

• Male. 35 years old. Living in Austria.
  
• Calm, kind, caring, affectionate, cuddly, honest, respectful, emotionally grounded, open-minded, rather introverted (INFJ).
• I’m 172cm, 84kg, regular fit dad bod. Short dark blonde hair with blueish eyes. Please be willing to exchange a face photo; my photo.
• I don't smoke, do any drugs nor drink. Childfree and don’t want children. Not religious and apolitical. I speak English, German, Spanish and Polish fluently.
  

Kinky side

• Not experienced in BDSM but very intrigued by it, looking to find someone explore the scene with hand in hand with clear communication, affection, respect, defined limits and fun.
  
• Interested in any type of oral sex (giving and receiving: 69, rimming, deepthroating); feet play; sensual massages; toy play (butt plugs, rings, dildos); lingerie and all sorts of sets (fishnets, cute dresses, leather, chokers/collars); roleplay; BDSM (bondage, submission and domination, I prefer the latter but willing to try both); would like to try anal; and many other kinks. Open to almost anything as long as its hygienic and safe/not extreme.
  
• Offering a safe space to unravel your submissive side and deepest fantasies.
  

About you

• Looking for something long-term (a serious relationship with a kinky dynamic) but also open to something short/casual (FWB dynamic).
  
• Ideally in Austria or very close by and willing to meet-up regularly (Germany, Italy, Poland, Switzerland, Czech)
  
• Be a friendly, kind, emotionally mature and genuine woman who shares my desire for a strong and meaningful connection with an affectionate and kinky intimate side.
  
• Alt, goth, nerdy and unexperienced women are very welcome.

Hey y’all, looking for a hypnotist of any gender to take me under tonight! Would absolutely love voice or video chat, but text chat works too. I’ll list some of my interests down below; DM me if they sound interesting to you.

Kinks: Slaveplay, Degredation, Mantras, Submission, Brainwashing / Fractionation, Feet / Footplay, Triggers

I live in Southern California, so if any tists are looking to hypnotize someone in person, please lmk

I am a 48-year-old man into curvy girls who like to pee for me often! I like girls with thick legs, cellulite, big arealos, prefer shaved, likes to use toys! I’d like to get to know each other a little, play around, and see what else we can get up to!
Dm me your favorite color and what turns you on! Drink lots of water!

Hi you reading this personal,

I'm a 30M from France. Nerd, gamer, photographer, reader. Fully embracing my Dom side and looking for a submissive woman who actually wants to build something slow and real. Not into casual, not into one-night dynamics, not into “just give me orders and ghost”.

I’m respectful, I communicate, and I like when the dynamic means something. Rules, expectations, structure… that shit matters to me.

What I’m especially into: control, free use, CNC, oral, training/education of my sub and much more a more detailed list of kinks is at the bottom if you want the details. Cuddling, kissing and aftercare are important too. Intensity without care isn’t my thing.

I’m the kind of Dom who prefers to understand the person first instead of assuming everything. Patience and real conversation > jumping straight into protocol.

What I want is someone who enjoys being led and who’s actually willing to build a stable dynamic. Online is fine to start. In person would be a bonus if we click. And I’m not scared to relocate if it becomes something serious.

Also, fair warning: I’m dangerously weak for redheads. Like “I could probably marry one on the spot” weak. So if you’re a ginger… you’re already halfway there.

If what I wrote resonates, message me. Tell me a bit about yourself, what you’re looking for, and why you decided to write. I voluntarily kept a lot out my personal as I much rather get to know each other further through conversation or a question game !

Hey Cutie, thanks for checking out my post. I hope you’re having a really good day. I’ve been looking for you for a long time and I know you’ve been looking for me too. Maybe now we can both stop looking, so let’s get into it.

40 male latino in decent shape, work with my hands, have a beard and medium length hair. I’ve been around and into kink for fifteen years or more at this point so I have a pretty good idea what I’m doing but I’m always trying to learn more so I can grow and get even better.

I’m looking for a sweet, caring, curious girl to get to know. Someone that wants to learn and grow with me, someone that likes to cuddle, appreciates praise, and is comfortable expressing their emotions or is at least willing to try.

These days I suppose I’d be called a soft dom. I love being the quiet in charge type, I’m more about a stern look than a firm spank but I do love the shade of red that a cute little butt gets under my hand. I find myself drawn to situations that allow me to take on a caregiver type role in a mentor/coach/father figure type way.

Hopefully you can share my love of quiet time shared together, the outdoors, and long rambling conversations about anything and everything. Saturday bookshelves, good music, and something to do with my hands are all I really need.

Thanks for sticking through to the end of all that, I really appreciate it, and if you did maybe drop me a note? Who knows, maybe we’ll fall in love and happily ever after.

I'm a mature clean cut down to earth retired medical professional that seeks ladies that love kinky role play fun. I have lots of experience and love to fulfill ladies fantasies. I have done lots of age play and CNC to name a few. For me it’s all about your fantasy and trying to make it a reality.

I’m open to all types of ladies so if you enjoy mature men than let’s chat😉

About Me:

Hey! I am a 22-year-old dominant man. If you were to pass me on the street, you would definitely not think of me as a Dom cause I don't care about flashy aesthetics, status symbols, or playing a character. I am real, and looking for a genuine mental and emotional connection first and foremost.

What I'm Looking For:

I am seeking an older, submissive woman for a long-term, total power exchange dynamic.

The Dynamic can be described as Authority and Submission that extends far beyond the bedroom and blends naturally into our day-to-day lives. Ideally, you hold a strong, demanding, or dominant role in your professional or daily life, and you are looking for a trusted space to embrace your submissive side. I am very attracted to a mature physique but a deep mental connection is more important.

What to Expect:

A balanced connection is key, a mix of a deeply kinky, intimate dynamic and genuine daily companionship which involves routine check-ins, talking about our days, and mutual guidance. This will also be a completely private and discreet relationship given our personal and professional lives. We will initially start online to build deep trust, with the mutual goal of meeting and getting more serious once we click.

If you've read this far and if this resonates with you, send me a message introducing yourself. Please include the word "Go" in your opening and tell me what specifically made you reach out after seeing my post.

Im a sadist, lot of people claim to be one but I truly am one, I can turn my empathy off and deeply enjoy every variety of suffering and pain both sexual and non-sexual possible, and my kink list is a mile long.

What im looking for is a sub who's just as kinky as I am, who will take whatever abuse I can dish out and love every moment of it.

Yes I want to be mean and hateful and awful to you, but I also want you to feel safe and comfortable enough to let go and let my hands guide you into the depths of depravity without being afraid or ashamed.

Naturally this requires trust and communication, the more intense the experience, the more trust and communication is required.

If you get scared, uncomfortable, or don't like something a lot of subs react by ghosting, that won't work here, if you can't communicate clearly and honestly it's not possible to have a functional dynamic with intense play.

At the end of the day when the safeword is said I become my normal self again like flipping a light switch, at a minimum its a quick break to discuss what's wrong so I can fix it, and a maximum the session can end, but I need to be able to trust you to use it.

Im open to any kink and fetish, the worst I will say is no, I dont judge, but more than likely ill be into it.

As far as dommes go ive had good chemistry with them in the past and one of my favorites in the past was a dominatrix, so if you are just curious im more than happy to talk about it.

I also do not demand pics and videos unless you have a kink for that.

I want to be clear though, once my empathy turns off I am mean, abusive, evil, and controlling. Thats what you are signing up for.

What id like up front: age, location, limits, description of yourself, and any favorite kinks if you are comfortable sharing.

If you are new to this be sure to let me know.

I have a stomach disorder (ulcerative colitis) and can't really do anything outside of my house because of it; it's pretty much made my life a trapped one. I'm married, my wife is a lifestyle submissive and enjoys if I have other partners.

What I'm looking for is someone that has some dominant energy (or is curious about exploring that side of themselves) that likes the idea of having a captive audience that is infirm. That is to say, I have no real outlet into the world, no social circle to turn to, I exist in a gilded cage; that can have a certain appeal, an opportunity to make me dependent on you in a certain sense (in that you'd be a unique, important element of my world).

I'm looking for someone that likes attention and adoration, who enjoys being wanted. As for kinks, I like being sat on, facesitting, ass eating, pussy eating, being peed on, some forms of humiliation, and am willing to experiment with other kinks, especially those in the same orbit as what is listed. My limits are bondage, choking, pegging, and public play.

I'd like to develop an actual connection. I'm open to various types of dynamics, you don't have to be severe or fit in a certain type of box, I like when things are unique, personal, and unconventional. As alluded, you don't need any prior experience; I've been a dom for twenty years, but enjoy the other side at times and would like to explore that, so, in that sense, this will be somewhat new for me as well, so I'm open to a wide variety of things, means, or modes of doing things.

We are a fun age-gap couple indulging in our ever-growing BDSM bucket list, and I desperately need to watch him fuck another woman.

He's attractive, dominant, will make you cum multiple times, and a great listener. I'm petite, adorable, and will be completely hands-off, just rubbing myself in the little cuck chair in the corner of the hotel room while he plays with you.

The ideal candidate would be at least somewhat kinky (we enjoy a great deal of fetishes so feel free to bring some creativity… and we'll bring the lube) and willing to show off a bit to make me jealous. Having a sense of humor is critical; we’re constitutionally incapable of taking anything too seriously. Bonus points if your tits are bigger than mine (they probably are) and if you can confidently rock lingerie.

Likes: anal, impact play, breast play, bondage

Dislikes: peanut butter

Hello everyone, am black African man from sudan, and am looking to be dominated by a white woman .

Am interested to be enslaved by a white woman.

Feel free to message

I’m a mature, patient Dom looking for a willing female submissive. Someone that I can be friends with and get to know personally, but who is also willing to be my submissive and serve me as such. I’m open to anything between online and IRL, but not interested in one time or short-term play.

I’m into bondage, spanking, plugs, TPE, rules, tasks, orgasm denial, and maybe pet play. I’m only interested if I'd be your only Dom, and you are open to something that will be ongoing. Good chemistry is a must. I don’t have much patience for flakes, so please only message me if you can communicate reasonably well and take your submission seriously.

If interested reply with your age, what you are seeking, a description of your physical appearance, and anything else you would like to mention.

Hi, so I’m looking for women to play out a fetish. Basically I have a huge tickling fetish, so I want to play that out. Open you your fetishes as well. I’m only looking for women (no men or trans please, just not my thing), but open to more than one woman, or a couple where we or I tickle your wife/gf.

Please reach out if you’re interested and let me know if you have any questions, thanks!

Like everyone else here I am looking for passion, I'm looking for joy, and I am looking for acceptance. That is the thing people on here don't just want or need one thing, we each have various needs, and various desires.

The problem is we come here each of us with our own baggage, from skewed expectations, to previous interactions with people. It all changes us, so here we come expectant, hopeful, and damaged. Trying to find someone that you can share happiness with, find a moment of acceptance or passion.

But all our gestures vaguely bullshit gets in the way. So I'm going to do my best to help minimize that by being honest and upfront about who I'm looking to share an experience with.

I'm looking for someone late 20's to 30's, I prefer someone who works from home (I like a lot of interaction, and having one conversation per week for 10 minutes as you drive home from work doesn't suffice for me) I'd like someone compassionate, kind, funny and intelligent. I'm not perfect and I don't expect you to be either so if I've given you that impression I'm sorry.

In regards to what I offer, I will always listen to you, I will support you, I will encourage you. Your happiness, and well being will become my focus. Furthermore I will not immediately jump into sexual conversation, I want to get to know you and about your passions. I want to learn about you, and come to understand you.

That's it, if you have any questions, or would like to have a conversation I'd like that. If not I genuinely wish you well, and hope you all find some measure of happiness.

I'm a 42 year old pleasure dom who loves making others feel good. I'm 6'2, 155lbs, brown eyes and hair and I love to take charge. I have a good job, dress well and can hold a conversation easily whether it's sexual or not. I'm looking for someone to chat with during the day but also mainly to have fun with as well. I like being called daddy and would love for you to be my good girl.

I'm looking for a professional, smart, fit woman who yearns to be told what to do and when to do it. Open to anyone 18 or older as long as you're comfortable being submissive. I'm looking for a woman who's wanting to give up control to me, allow me to tell you when to drink water, what color panties you're wearing to work, what nail color you're putting on and show me choices of dresses or pantsuits to pick from for your work attire.

If you read this and message me, I hope you want to be told what to do and how to do it, how to touch yourself, how to spank yourself and how to use your toys and where and when. I will 100% respect your boundaries but once those are set, I want to be in control of many moments in your life. I want to be someone you get excited to message and for whom you love dressing up and sending a picture. I also want to get to know you, what makes you laugh, smile, what makes you upset so I can better tailor this experience to what you like. After all, this won't work unless we both get something out of it and my main goal is to make sure you're having a great time.

Message me with your name, age/sex and what you're looking for and let's get started.

I'm 33, based in NYC, and at a point in life where I'm looking to build something real with the right person. I'm easygoing, loyal, and enjoy good conversations as much as spontaneous adventures. Whether it's trying a new restaurant, exploring the city, catching a movie, or staying in for a cozy night with a great show, I'm happiest sharing experiences with someone I care about.
I value honesty, kindness, communication, and a sense of humor. I'm looking for someone who wants a genuine, long-term relationship and believes that the best partnerships are built on trust, mutual respect, and making each other laugh.
If you're looking for something meaningful and think we'd get along, I'd love to hear from you.

… you love being “put in your place” by an older, dominant man…

Every day’s very similar to the day before in your normal, vanilla world. You’re respected, responsible, seen as a woman who can get things done. Maybe you’re even in a position of authority over others. Sometimes your life gets very stressful, sometimes you might even be a little over aggressive with others (have some guilt feelings), not because you’re mean, you just have to get things accomplished and that’s important to you, that’s who you are, your reputation.

And nobody would ever guess that you have an opposite side… a submissive side that loves being “put in your place” by an older, dominant man. But that’s how you release stress, reset and balance your life.

You prefer a mature man because we have more patience, experience and more understanding. We don’t just focus on the physical things, we know the emotional aspects are at least as important and maybe even more, you need that mental side to be there to fully release.

You need to feel a bit of emotional embarrassment, maybe some light humiliation to go with your spanking… you realize it helps your mind let go… you don’t want to have to think or make decisions, just be told what to do for a change… you just need a break, something totally different.

Of course we’ll chat first about things like expectations, what your hard limits are, set clear boundaries. It’s important to have open communication, build at least a basic level of trust before anything happens. Make sure we’re compatible and connect, that we’re both looking for similar things.

If you’ve read this whole post, maybe take the time to read the whole thing again once or twice. If it resonates with you, if it makes sense, if you really think it might be for you, or if you’re curious and want to know more, then contact me. DM is best, or message me and ask me to DM you (sometimes my DM doesn’t seem to work). I’m easy to talk to, not pushy or expecting anything other than communication at this point.

In the United Kingdom - Wrexham area Clwyd-Wales not far from Chester and Liverpool...

56 Dom man in shape 182 lbs thin fit 6`0" Dad bod type looking to meet younger than me female Seeking someone fun, open, submissive, can be inexperienced, but eager to learn to please..

Up for meeting anyone genuine and up for discreet mutual fun; maybe a student or older who secretly or otherwise, enjoys the company of an older man with the opportunity for some discreet fun

I enjoy Giving the ladies oral play :) and Forced orgasms , orgasm control ,spanking, pain and pleasure ,TPE, CNC, Degradation, Humiliation, Body writing, Overstimulation, Sensory deprivation, Pet play, Behavioural restriction, Wax play, Slavery, Oral, Training, Praise, Public play, Piss play, patriarchy, Corruption, Objectification, Exhibitionism, Spitting, Face slapping, all types of role play fun

i use Toys and other items to bring pleasure to the woman i`m with safe sex and after care is always given..

or maybe wanting to work towards something more FWB or Relationship..

Happy to chat here or on some other socials.

Are you ready to indulge in a world of sensual delight? A place where your breasts crave the gentle touch of a master, followed by the teasing bite of pleasure and pain? 😈

I'm a 39-year-old married man, playing single here, with a heart full of kinks and a mind that thrives on domination.

I'm seeking a like-minded partner who shares my passion for breast play, ANR, and the art of intimate foreplay.

Whether you prefer a soft caress or a firm squeeze, I promise to explore every inch of your desires with precision and pleasure. 🧛

If you're a woman in Pune who's curious, adventurous, and ready to dive into a world of kinky exploration, I'm your perfect match.

Privacy and secrecy are paramount, and I assure you of both.

Let's create a bond that transcends the ordinary and delves into the extraordinary.

Are you ready to take this journey with me.?

I’m 60, single & appreciate the value of real & loving companionship in a kinky realm. I also think humor matters. I love women who appreciate conversation, adventure and honesty. I'm in Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania & looking for eventual real time commitment. I’m a retired attorney, so relocation (yours or mine) is on the table. Physically, I’m 6’1”, 300#, black to silver hair, some grey facial hair. Pictures here on my profile.

I’ve been a masochistic, submissive lifestyle cuckold since 2004, after a previous life as a vanilla head of household and top. Cuckolding aligns with my philosophy on loving a woman while letting her be sexually free and expressive, and I’ve found I enjoy women who can be strict or cruel when in relationships.

I’m seeking a younger sadistic woman interested in cultivating a female led relationship with me, one with elements of BDSM (severe degradation & humiliation, verbal denigration, some bondage, beatings, face slapping, spitting, golden showers, CBT, etc.) and cuckolding (potentially with forced bi, at your option) where I remain 100% monogamous and supportive, but you cheat.

If you’re looking for an older man to be deeply committed, loving & obedient, to do your cleaning, laundry, cooking & driving, to give you massages, to help you find dates and prepare for them, to go down on you after creampies from other men, and to be loving, fun company in general, all while you can berate, degrade and be mean to me, then let’s chat and see if we get along.

If you write, in your first message, please include your gender, age, location and a picture or two, since I reveal myself in my profile. Thank you.

If you're reading, you probably already know your place:kneeling, submissive, and ready to do anything for me,"your catechist"

I'm looking for a young mind (18+) to raise, indoctrinate, and use to fulfill my every need, from the moment you wake up until you fall asleep. Among your first duties, if not your first, will always be to please me; it will be your only creed. If that's not clear to you yet, I want your complete devotion.

I have no prejudice against girls from ethnic minorities, as long as it's clear in your DNA that you were conceived exclusively to serve, without deserving any reward.

Brooklyn based transman seeking creative dom for short or long term. Would love to be someone's slave/pet/toy.
Love the loss of agency/control. Would love for someone to come along and empty my head and put their own programming in instead.
Also into restraints, bondage, gags, blindfolds. Would love to be tied up on your bed, naked, blindfolded, gagged, with headphones playing hypno while you use me. 
Kinks: Bondage, toys, anal training, hypnosis, training/conditioning, dollification, pet play, D/s, TPE, power exchange, praise, objectification
Limits: Piss, Scat, Blood, bodily harm beyond bruises. Soft limit on feminization/misgendering (let's talk about it first). Not really into hard degradation (objectification/the occasional thing is alright).
Love trying new kinks as well, so if whatever you're into isn't listed here please ask me!

Two professionals that want to enjoy some kinky fun during the pregnancy. We both want to meet a regular that wants to indulge in our many threesome fantasies and wants to spend time getting to know us. She is aching to keep exploring her bi side. I'm aching to be a participant in that again.

We're both bi, kinky, and open minded.

We both very much have a breeding fetish. She loves being filled

I'm into lactation and Hucows. I'm obsessed with boobs. She will be getting milked regularly very soon.

We're in average shape and stay fairly active normally since we're outdoorsy. We're open to all body types. We both like our women a bit curvy. Chill, a little nerdy, and fun is our vibe. Friends or more, we're open to anything. Cozy weekends full of debauchery sound fun? Let's chat!