r/askswitzerland • u/Wide-Recover-2107 • 2m ago
Relocation 22F Japanese dreaming of moving to Switzerland and starting a family. Is it realistic?
Hi everyone!
I’m a 22-year-old Japanese woman living in Japan. I have a high school diploma, my English is at a beginner level (currently learning with Duolingo), and I don’t speak German yet.
Last month, I finally visited Switzerland, a country I’d dreamed of visiting for years, and absolutely loved it!
I especially loved the beautiful nature, mountains, excellent public transportation, food, and high quality of life.
I’ve been concerned about Japan’s future, particularly its politics, economy, taxes, and living conditions, which has made me consider moving abroad.
I understand that Switzerland has its own challenges and that visiting as a tourist is very different from living there.
My dream is to meet a Swiss partner, get married, and build a family in Switzerland.
Ideally, I’d love to be a stay-at-home wife or mother, but I’m open to working if necessary.
As a non-EU/EFTA citizen with limited language skills and education, I know this won’t be easy.
I’d love to ask a few questions:
Is moving to Switzerland realistic for someone like me? What options do I have?
Where can I naturally meet Swiss men interested in serious relationships? How did you meet your partner?
Is being a stay-at-home wife or mother common in Switzerland, or do most couples both work?
Are there any language schools or universities you’d recommend for someone with a Japanese high school diploma?
What are the biggest downsides of living in Switzerland, especially during winter? Is public transportation reliable?
I’m only 22, so I’m willing to spend the next few years learning languages and preparing for the future.
I know my dream might sound unrealistic, but I’d really appreciate any honest advice or personal experiences!
Thank you! 🇨🇭