Basically what's on the title. I'm on my late teens and wanna start on T to look more like a man but I lowkey don't wanna become too unfeminine, as I feel comfortable having a questionable gender presentation. So be honest what's ur thoughts.

Does anyone else think about this? I know my gender identity would be the same, and my transition goal would’ve been the same. A smooth, V-shaped body with a penis and breasts.

Medical transition would’ve probably been “easier” by that I mean testosterone is very strictly controlled in my country, estrogen is much easier to access. If my body didn’t naturally make it, I would’ve gone on low-dose estrogen, just until I grew breasts, then probably come off HRT. Laser hair removal would be covered by my insurance. I would not have had to go through bottom surgery. Unless you count vasectomy as gender affirming care.

However I think my childhood would’ve been much more difficult and more traumatic. Where I live gender-nonconformity (in my case androgyny) in “girls” is more accepted compared to gender-nonconformity in “boys”. I would’ve faced a lot more bullying, harassment, homophobia growing up if I had been perceived as a “effeminate boy”.

I’m not saying it’s “easier” to be one AGAB over the other and I’m not playing oppression Olympics with trans women vs trans men. I’m specifically speaking for myself, about my own environment that I grew up in and my own medical transition goals.

Does this read masc, femme or something in-between?

I've been on a low dose of Tesoterone for almost 4 years, and almost a year post top surgery and flat as a board with a big belly . Tbh I really need to do before and after and see if I'm seen as a woman again or not. Tbh I'll probably be seen as woman when I go off T, due to not wanting to depend on a shot or gel for the rest of my life just so people can actually respect me which rarely happens .

Even with a deep voice , flat chest and facial hair being androgynous or perceived as neither a man or a woman is impossible tbh .

Sadly being Androgynous fully is really hard, people only see man or woman and there probably people on here who will say " I'll always be a woman" because what's between my legs . I gave up on the dream of pleasing other people and hoping others see me as androgynous or even as male long term because it probably will never happen , unless I stay on T and I personally don't want too for so many reasons even if that makes me less valid in people's eyes who never valued me as a human in the first place .

Not trying to yuck anyone's yum or say you can't be seen as androgynous. But it's either an Androgynous man or woman and the only way you can be seen as the opposite gender is if you take hormone replacement therapy for the rest of your life ( maybe it's the internal transphobia).

It sucks but it's a bitter truth I have to accept . But I love the permanent effects of T like my voice , facial hair , Adams apple and bottom area changes . It just sucks that there's no real way to look androgynous, or I'll be an Androgynous man or woman not fully nonbinary in the eyes of society .

What tips for acne and hair on the body and face? I’m doing laser hair removal right now and I am using tretinoin cream but should I also do hrt? I’m in tx and it’s dry so I put on some chap stick haha. What make up would suit my face aswell? I feel some more femme glasses would do well. I can’t shave that’s why I’m doing laser my hair gets ingrown and messes up my skin. It’s a pain. I also need a way to smooth my skin idk if it’s safe to exfoliate my sensitive skin rn.

Hi I am a 22 male from TX and I’m wondering if yall can help me out with finding my style. I’ve been experiencing acne and annoying face hair for a long time. I’ve been wanting to be a femboy for a while now and I am one now but I’m still bothered by my appearance. What should I do?

The coat had many rips and a few missing or dangling buttons, so I took a few hours to stitch the biggest rip on the front, and re-attached two buttons. I really love the andro vibe it gives. It makes me feel like a fox.

Playing with clothes, if I do a bit fem goes more towards fem and if a go masc turns boy

Do I really lean more feminine look??

Im just curious and want some thoughts.

Also feel free to gender me, im curious what people will say bc I often recieve a mix of sirs and ma'ams when I go out.