r/TopsAndBottoms • • 20h ago

Question for limp dick/caged bottoms: Castration? (Fantasy/Kink/Reality??) NSFW

9 Upvotes

Okay So this question is obviously meant for bottoms who are like me, chasity cage or staying limp during Sex. (which I sadly can‘t do but I‘m confident I‘ll be trained for it) Since our Tops Cock isn‘t the only one that matters but literally the only one and we focus on pleasing him.

I know it‘s a bit crazy to think about, but I‘ve been having this fantasy lately where I wish I had a top/Owner who isn‘t okay with me being in a chasity cage, even if it‘s the smallest one possible. He wants total removal of whatevers left of my „manhood“ and it turns me on soooo much. The thought of being so deeply emasculated that I don‘t even have a clit anymore just a mound or healed flat skin… never being able to cum again and truly only be a hole for him. I know there‘s multiple problems that occur like peeing but I‘m sure with todays science and all that it couid be possible. Now obviously the dream would be to enlargen the prostate or somehow operate on it that it can actually completely cause anal orgasms so you still have some, but in the most humiliating way. Could you imagine literally cumming from your boypussy???

Think I should clarify: Not just talking about balls removed or inability to impregnate, I mean ALL of it.

Anyways I‘d just love to hear your thoughts on it and of course Tops are wanted to comment too, if you‘ve ever thought about doing it to your bottom. Just an intrusive thought.


r/TopsAndBottoms • • 19h ago

Tops and bottoms: how do you let each other know that you’re interested when your partner is with you NSFW

0 Upvotes

Sometimes I see someone who I think is interested but I don’t know how to signal it and certainly when your partner is with you


r/TopsAndBottoms • • 14h ago

How to dominate an older guy NSFW

5 Upvotes

So, I'm going to meet this really hot guy from grindr. He's a couple of years older than me, and we're going to hook up today. The thing is, he's submissive, and I'm going to be the dom top. The problem is that not only have I never dominated anyone before, but this is also only my second time topping someone. How do I do it? Any tips on how to be a good dom and top?

He asked me how I'd like him to look when he opens the door, since he's hosting and I told him to keep his clothes on because I'm going to strip him naked. He also said, “Bend me as you please in any part of the house” and “I'm free use.”

I did ask him about his boundaries and he said no restraining, no spitting. (He said he's okay with me pushing these boundaries, but only in future if we end up having some connection)

Please give me tips and tricks on how to approach this whole situation. What should I do? How should I greet him? How and where should I start? What should I do next? And what should I do after we both cum?

Honestly, any tips would help. I should also mention that he said he's interested in making this a regular, ongoing FWB situation, like sleepovers and everything.


r/TopsAndBottoms • • 16h ago

How do yall link up with randoms? NSFW

20 Upvotes

Like seriously how do you invite some random guy over or go to some random house after the smallest conversation? Let me know i am curious


r/TopsAndBottoms • • 5h ago

What's on your mind when it first slides all the way in? NSFW

14 Upvotes

Once my bf is relaxed enough to take it all the way to the hilt, I feel a wave of relief and familiar comfort, his hole molded over the years to the shape of my cock. It feels like I'm home, where my dick is in its rightful sheathe.


r/TopsAndBottoms • • 22h ago

Does anyone else stare at straight guys with nice fat asses and wonder how much of a waste it is? NSFW

44 Upvotes

Like, I know damn well their girlfriends/wives ain’t giving them the pounding that those asses deserve. Wish guys like that were more “hetero-flexible” to put bodies like theirs to good use.


r/TopsAndBottoms • • 3h ago

Deep-throating help NSFW

3 Upvotes

Does anyone have experience using p0ppers when deepthroating? Does it help with gagging?


r/TopsAndBottoms • • 1h ago

Blowjob question NSFW

• Upvotes

I am curious what guys (especially tops) like when getting head. I was under the impression that the tip/head and also frenulum are the most sensitive parts to suck on, which I had success to this day getting my partners off pretty quickly. But someone told me the other day that what they liked the most is the head hitting the back of my throat with the full shaft in my mouth. So which one’s actually giving you more pleasure? Tongue massaging the head and frenulum or full shaft in throat fucking?