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I am interested in tantric masturbation but I can't masturbate without some visual stimuli. Are there ways to use porn with tantric masturbation?

I am a 22M from the UK. I am a virgin since I haven't had much luck with women due to multiple reasons. I also have a very high sex drive and libido so I need a good way to meet my sexual needs as a bull. I am from an Indian Hindu background so I am familiar with generic Indic spirituality but I don't know much about sexual tantra.

I’m 22F my bf 27M wants me to learn more about tantric sex he says I’m not very good at oral or hand jobs and wants me to learn more about Tantric sex and I have no idea what that means or where to start

I went to a white tantra puja event recently. It reminded me most of various theatre games (trust falls, say) from when I was a teenager, except all the experiences were one-on-one with another participant and I wasn't 17 and playing with what human connection could possibly mean.

The partners kept changing. It was very intense; I felt like I made a deep emotional connection in the space of a few minutes with many if not all of my partners, and then it was over and on to the next. Like one might imagine speed dating. Overall it felt emotionally slutty (for lack of a better word), like I was edging close to cheating on my longtime partner, who didn't come. (No need to worry about my relationship; we'll be fine.)

Is that what they are always like? Do people typically not participate unless they're single or in open relationships? (It seems like I could have come with a partner and asked to practice only with them, but the one couple who was there didn't do this, and it seems like it would have been very disruptive to the group dynamic.)

What is a red tantra puja like? Pink tantra? To what extent is this something that one can practice with others?

I am a little confused about what just happened to me -- and it really wasn't much!

The problem of finding partners is a recurring theme on this sub. We made a decision at the beginning of the reboot of this sub to disallow "r4r" and "massage wanted" posts, because that just turns the sub into a typical r4r bulletin board filled with massage parlor ads. In the past, we've pointed people to /r/TantricMassage, /r/EroticMassage, or their local r4r sub. But there's clearly a demand for something more focused.

So we've been experimenting with having a single, stickied thread every month where readers can post what they're looking for. So far, it's been working well.

Here are the rules:

1. Reply to this post with your gender, sexual orientation, age, and general location, and describe who and what you are looking for. For example, short-term partner to learn with, possible long-term partner, paid massage, or whatever.
2. Keep it short and simple. E.g., "27M, London, UK, looking for skilled female massage therapist with authentic knowledge of tantra, for paid massage."
3. ONE listing per month! People who spam the thread will be banned.
4. If you want to respond to any of these listings, do it in DMs. Do NOT reply to any of the listings here.
5. Please remove your listing or add a note if you find what you're looking for.

Reminder: if you usually sort this sub on "New," you will need to switch it to "Hot" to keep this thread at the top. But you will need to *sort this thread* on "New" to see new listings. (Complicated, I know. Sorry!)

I'm aware that my empathic nature plays a significant part in sharing intense intimacy with my partner, so much so that the more she is aroused, the greater the sharing and pleasure that we both derive. It even goes to the point that sharing massages with other couples or person creates even more pleasure. I'd be interested to know how common this is and how others perceive this in other ways like affection or other emotions leading to arousal?

Hey everyone,
I’ve been looking into Tantric sex and the practice of delaying orgasm (edging) for extended periods. The goal often pushed in these spaces is to separate orgasm from ejaculation and potentially achieve multiple orgasms and there is topic of achieving tantricHigh. (I have not explored everything so forgive my ignorance)
Saw this recent post: https://www.reddit.com/r/PelvicFloor/s/lJ99Wmifun
then fell into another rabbit hole, FYI I am beginner in TantricSexEd.

The link between Tantric Edging and Pelvic floor Health needs to be discussed. Positive or Negative.
Practicing Tantric sex or edging or delaying orgasm for extended periods requires holding high levels of arousal, which naturally causes the pelvic floor muscles to contract and stay tense? does this leave any temporary or permanent damage/Issues? Yes, then what is considered safe edging limit?
I came across hypertonic pelvic floor dysfunction. This means the pelvic floor muscles become chronically tight, overworked, and lose their ability to fully relax. It can cause nerve entrapment or compression. 
Are Kegel exercises counter to this? will it make situation worse? A lot of men's sexual health advice pushes standard Kegel exercises to "last longer" or gain better control. But if edging causes a hypertonic state, wouldn't doing regular Kegels just act like doing bicep curls with a muscle that’s already severely cramped? Have Kegels made this issue worse for anyone here?

If you actively practice Tantric edging, how do you protect your pelvic floor from becoming overworked? Are counter-practices like Reverse Kegels (pelvic floor drops) and deep diaphragmatic breathing enough to release the built-up tension? Is there a "safe" time limit for edging before or after it becomes physically detrimental?
Would love to hear from anyone who has successfully balanced these practices safely, or anyone who learned the hard way and had to use PFPT to fix the damage. Thanks in advance!

I have find a lot of resources but most of them are paid.
Just wondering if anyone knows for free? At least one? I would love to try it tonight with my partner, hoping to kinda follow the video type of thing 😅

I’ve recently had my first experience with tantric massage and became very curious about the practice and the different approaches to tantra and energetic healing techniques.
During a lingam tantric massage, I experienced intense full-body sensations and spontaneous shaking. It was a surprisingly profound experience and changed the way I think about bodywork, intimacy, and bodily awareness.
Since then, I’ve been trying to understand the practice beyond just the massage itself.

My question is, is it how it supposed to feel like?

I’m based in Germany, so I’m also curious if people here in the same journey share what they’ve felt.
For those who practice or have experience with tantric massage: how did you first get into it, and what does the practice mean to you?

Hello,

As the title says we're looking for a book that could teach us the tantric way. We'd like to be able to read it as a couple, practice and learn at a slow pace.

Thank you

Supposedly, most women can't orgasm from penetration alone, and it's an anatomy issue, not a technique issue.

But I wonder if there is a chance that I could become capable of orgasm via penetration with the right mental and emotional changes​. Maybe it isn't entirely physical.

Any insight or advice?

Hey everyone.

I'm a single man who have just started learning about some massage techniques, and specifically tantric massages/sex.

I know that among therapists, at least where I'm from, it's not unusual to have tantric massage exchanges, mostly as a way to keep both people updated and practiced.

I'm not a massage therapist, and I've been taking part in some massage exchange groups, especially to learn.

Now, my question is: being a single man, I don't have anyone to practice and honestly to massage, but I also see that many therapists don't agree with exchanges, so, how am I supposed to practice, to get better?

By spending hundreds or even thousands and then forgetting?

Hello guys! I'm a Latina who's a beginner to tantric massage and I want to explore more on this. I just want to start by knowing what usually happens when go visit tantric massage from start until the end? How is it being performed? And what is the result after getting one? Please tell me the positive and negative outcome of this.

advice on getting started I’m 23F, not on any meds or birth control. I have a hard time feeling really turned on during solo time unless I watch something, and even then it’s not that intense. I can finish but it doesn’t feel as deep or full-body as I think it could. I’ve been reading a bit about tantra and wondering if the breathing and energy stuff could help me get more sensitive just with my mind. Don’t have a partner right now so I’m looking for solo exercises, books, or simple routines anyone recommends for beginners. Would really appreciate any advice.

We are Indian Couple and have keen interest to learn about Kamasutra. we are basically looking for a couple who are experienced in this field and can guide us.

Is there a big difference between tantric masseurs and sexworkers?

What's your opinion?

I've written and posted 2 new articles that unpack the importance of having a regulated nervous system as it pertains to not just your quest to reach transcending states of multi-orgasmic bliss, but also your overall health too.

It's part of the series I've been writing weekly, inspired by those that have been at this a long while and have very little to show for their efforts. While it's predominantly aimed at those that struggle, I think the info within can benefit anyone interested in the science behind pleasure, anyone just getting started, or even those that feel they've hit a plateau in their pleasure journey.

The messages I receive from people after I post these links indicate there are some that are finding value and resonating with what I write about. So I will keep posting here every now and then with links to the latest articles in an effort to help others achieve the same levels of success I have. While both links are meant to be read in order, read the 2nd article below as a bare minimum as it will certainly provide you food for thought. Much love to you all!

https://quest4bliss.substack.com/p/the-instrument-is-out-of-tune?r=8mrvv7

https://quest4bliss.substack.com/p/the-path-to-orgasmic-bliss-runs-through?r=8mrvv7

I’m 20F, not on birth control or any meds. I have trouble getting turned on. My body gets really sensitive when I watch something (I don’t do it very often, not more than once a month), but not when having sex. I can finish when I touch myself without watching anything, but I still don’t get as sensitive.
I want to be able to enjoy what my body can do without having to watch anything, just with my mind, but I don’t know how to get there. It’s not that I don’t enjoy it right now, it’s just I know it could be better.
I thought tantra could maybe help? I’m not sure, I would like to read opinions and to get advice on how to get started (books, excersices or whatever you think might help). I don’t have a partner right now so I can’t do couple excersises.

The problem of finding partners is a recurring theme on this sub. We made a decision at the beginning of the reboot of this sub to disallow "r4r" and "massage wanted" posts, because that just turns the sub into a typical r4r bulletin board filled with massage parlor ads. In the past, we've pointed people to /r/TantricMassage, /r/EroticMassage, or their local r4r sub. But there's clearly a demand for something more focused.

So we've been experimenting with having a single, stickied thread every month where readers can post what they're looking for. So far, it's been working well.

Here are the rules:

1. Reply to this post with your gender, sexual orientation, age, and location (city or county, plus country or US state), and describe who and what you are looking for. For example, short-term partner to learn with, possible long-term partner, paid massage, or whatever.
2. Keep it short and simple. E.g., "27M, London, UK, looking for skilled female massage therapist with authentic knowledge of tantra, for paid massage."
3. ONE listing per month! People who spam the thread will be banned.
4. If you want to respond to any of these listings, do it in DMs. Do NOT reply to any of the listings here.
5. Please remove your listing or add a note if you find what you're looking for.

Reminder: if you usually sort this sub on "New," you will need to switch it to "Hot" to keep this thread at the top. But you will need to *sort this thread* on "New" to see new listings. (Complicated, I know. Sorry!)

Have any seasoned tantric practitioners here had a profound emotional and/or spiritual experience during tantric sex?

If so, how would you describe it and what do you think contributed to it?

I am not interested in the crazy orgasm side of your experience, although I know the deep, intense, intimate emotional and spiritual side can coincide with orgasm. I want to know about the emotional and spiritual aspects regardless of orgasm and physical pleasure.

Is there any tutorial video for tantric sex that I can follow?

Eu (22H) e minha esposa (22M) estamos juntos há 3 anos. Recentemente tivemos uma conversa bem aberta sobre nossas vontades, curiosidades e coisas que gostaríamos de experimentar juntos. Uma das ideias que surgiu foi fazer uma massagem tântrica.

Nenhum de nós tem experiência com isso, então antes de tomar qualquer decisão gostaríamos de ouvir pessoas que já passaram por essa experiência, principalmente outros casais.

Valeu a pena? Vocês sentiram que aproximou mais o relacionamento ou acabou sendo diferente do que imaginavam? Existe algo que vocês gostariam de ter sabido antes de fazer?

Também aceito dicas sobre como escolher um profissional sério, quais sinais de alerta observar e qualquer conselho para quem está pensando em fazer isso pela primeira vez.

A ideia é que seja uma experiência positiva para nós dois, baseada em confiança, respeito e consentimento. Obrigado a quem puder compartilhar a experiência, seja ela positiva ou negativa.