r/TallMeetTall • u/SillyPuttyPurple • 1d ago
[F4M] 5'10 / F /Early 40's (Atlanta, GA) - Looking for her Big Bad Wolf
gallery'Allo Everyone!
I'm a single 5'10 Irish redhead (yes, I'm very pale) SAHM with Fibro/CFS which keeps me from getting out and about much... yet I'm about as much of a "people person" extrovert as you can get. I'm trying to push myself to change that, but it can be really difficult alone. Plus, making friends as an adult is shockingly difficult when you don't have coworkers/classmates/hobby clubs. 😔 Before then, I was a professional classically trained musician, then pivoted to IT as a Systems Engineer.
Personality wise, I am a very chill, easygoing person that loves adventure of all kinds. Difficult to anger, but quick to be affectionate and appreciative. I haaate drama and always prefer to talk through anything in a mature way. Communication is huge to me, and I can be very chatty, especially if it's a topic I'm enthusiastic about. I do have ADHD, and my love languages are Penguin Pebbling and Info Dumping. I'm a devout Wiccan, but don't care what you believe so long as you're not hurting yourself or anyone else, nor push your beliefs onto me. I don't need expensive gifts or grand gestures - just genuine ones from the heart.
I'm an engineer with the heart of an artist, built on a tomboy childhood, and deeply rooted in hopeless romance. Nerdy as all hell, I love to write (mostly erotica, but also fantasy/fiction), anything wolf/werewolves, cosplaying, gaming, crafting, sewing, camping, watching anime, and am a general "Jill-of-All-Trades" - other than sports, there's very little that I don't know at least a little about already - but I love learning new stuff! I adore ballroom dancing. I have an undying love of animals, and have owned/rescued all kinds of things, including 14+ foot reticulated pythons. My hair has been every color of the rainbow, and every length, and I love trying all kinds of clothing styles, but tend to gravitate towards more of a Boho look. I have 11 piercings and 5 tattoos, but plans to get more ink in the future. I only wear make-up for very special occasions.
My relationship status right now is... complicated... but completely ethical. It will become a lot less complicated if/once I find "Mr. Forever". I have a 10yr old that I co-parent with her dad, but there is zero drama. I'm moving away from Polyamory back to Monogamy - it just didn't work for me. I want to be someone's "one & only", and he, mine. I'm looking for my "forever-person", the one I'm meant to spend the rest of my days with. My best friend, my partner in crime, my lover. The Golden Retriever type in public, but a wolf in private. I am both a Noetisexual and Sapiosexual, so try seducing my mind first - because that is the gate through which you must pass before getting to my body.
Only catch - and here's where I usually have my biggest problem - ya gotta be taller/bigger than me (what can I say, I have a type - tall, strong, nerdy boys are yummy). I am not, nor ever will be, considered "petite", even if I were dangerously underweight, but I have always wanted to feel like it in comparison to my mate. Ideally, I'm looking for a tall, broad, strong man that would make me feel small by comparison. Someone into whose arms I could just disappear when the world gets too loud. Really, I just want to feel loved and valued. I guess it's more of a primal thing - wanting a gentleman who will make me feel safe and protected (though make no mistake, I am able to handle myself just fine on my own if needed - and I have a sword collection to back that up with).
No poly/ENM, no MAGA, no hard-core Christians. No cigarettes (they make me violently ill), but vapes are fine (I use one, but for CDB, not nicotine). I'm "420 Friendly" adjacent, but don't personally partake and drink very rarely. I am not here for casual/FWB/hook-ups. I cannot relocate.
PLEASE don't ghost me! if you're done with the conversation, that's completely fine - but act like an adult and just tell me. I won't get mad or anything, I just don't want to waste my time/energy/feelings on someone who doesn't want me just as much in return.
So, if any of that sounds like it might be interesting, shoot me a PM - but let me know you got my SN from this sub/post please. I have a FetLife account too, if you like spicy.
If you've gotten to the end of all that, you're awesome, deserve a cookie, and exactly the kind of person I want to talk to!