Alright guys this pertains to ED, I’m 31 and 5’8” and 170 pounds. Sometimes I suffer from going soft no matter how worked up I am. I’m wondering what’s going on? I take testosterone injections for low testosterone and that level is normal now and my sex drive never decreased but I’m wanting to know what could be going on? I’m into pegging and we tried it 1 time for a couple of minutes and I enjoyed it. Do I need to start wearing a plug or a cock ring to keep it up ? My wife is upset because she feels like she did something wrong but I was turned on as much as I could be but still couldn’t keep it up

My girlfriend keeps making jokes about putting her fingers or her “huge dick” in my ass. She often sticks a finger up my ass through my clothes, or even when we’re naked but doesn’t actually put it in when I am naked. She also sometimes dryhumps me as if shes fucking me (really turns me on, I can feel it in my prostate..). Moreover, she’s also mentioned a couple times how she’d like to “lock up” my dick and have full control over me. I’d love to be locked up by her, but not for weeks or longer, since I go out a lot (we’re stil students) and have to pee in urinoirs and have to be able to clean it up fast etc.
But; whenever I hint I’d actually be down to be pegged and/or caged, she doesn’t really bite. It’s as if my hint had just flown right over her or that she really doesn’t want to answer. I think of this as pretty frustrating, since I’d be down to try it.

This would be both our first time doing something such as pegging or chastity. We’ve done some type of non-vanilla sex, like tying each other up or choking or her making me eat my own cum, but nothing that extreme.
How do I bring it to her that I want to try pegging and chastity? I don’t want to tell her straight to the face. Something important is that we’re both 19 and that I’m her first boyfriend, so everything in the bedroom is kinda “new” to her and I don’t want to scare her away.

Willing to try receiving as a first timer. Any pointers or tips beside cleaning out. I think also having a clear liquid diet that will help with penetration. Any tips or advice is greatly appreciate it

My wife and I are older upper 40 early 50 been pegging before it had a name. My wife uses pegging as a frustration relief. When she has a bad day I will come home from work she will be in the living room harnessed up waiting. I’ll walk in get clothes ripped off or flog/whipped until clothes are off and bent over the table. There is no gentleness, 8 in getting shoved in right off the bat. nails digging in my hips nail marks down my back. almost like hate sex (I will admit I love it) While have sex she getting her frustration off her chest. Her boss and her had never gotten along, but this week is don’t know what the problem is.
It 8am I’ve already gotten 3 text 🤬 with this emoji so I already know what’s in store for me when I get home tonight.
some days i wonder if I got a great thing or bad thing going, I get pegged she gets her frustration off her chest I’m in my own world so I don’t here her and try and fix or help with her frustrations. What little in remember what she was talking about she has told me she don’t want my input

P.s I appreciate everybody’s concerns no, my wife and I have several safe words. About a yr and a half ago I had rectal survey from a fissure that did not heal multiple surgeries infection. No play for over a yr.
I say we play ruff but we do not play that ruff anymore we down size toys are go to back in the day vac-u-lock Kong about 7 3/4 long 2 1/4 circumference we use now 7/12 long 1 1/2 circumference. I can text my wife one word and that means absolutely nothing will be taking place for a while.

Alright so, to start off with- IVE ALWAYS WANTED TO PEG A GUY AS A FEMALE AND I FINALLY FOUND SOMEONE.

Thing is, I know the basics…preparation, hygiene, etc. but how do I know I’m hitting the right spots for this guy? He’s new to this as well. What are some techniques I can do? Foreplay?

I really want this to be pleasurable for him but I don’t even know where to start. 🥹

thinking of handing my husband the control for once. anyone tried a remote with a strap?

Me and my partner decided we were both ready to size up, so we bought a 10” dildo to share. Previously only used 7.5” but I find that very comfortable/easy to take now. It has arrived but I did some googling and am now apprehensive as the limited research I’ve managed to find says anymore than 8” is risky for injury/perforation of the intestines, is this right?
Thought it would be better to find out from people with real experience. Can all 10” be taken safely? Also any tips for taking this length?
Once comfortable, can the whole length be taken hard or long strokes or pounded or can that only be done up to the 8” mark?
To add, it’s a silicone dildo with a bit of flex/bend in it

I’m in a new relationship with a woman who enjoys pegging. We’ve done it once and I’m up for more, she clearly loves it and I’m open to learning and enjoying. One issue for me is that my prostate was removed about 6 years ago so I don’t have that aspect of it. Anyone familiar with this situation? Would love to hear thoughts / experience.

My girl brought home a new dildo for her strap on and it’s 12” long which if you seen my last post 12” made me cum hands free. Only difference is this one has the tube and can shoot cum lube in me as she’s pegging my guts. It leaks out and I feel so full it’s amazing. Has anyone else tried one?

How do yall find a pegging partner? Is it just shoot your shot and hope she’s into it kinda thing?

Getting pegged for the first time this Thursday. I’ve only used toys solo before. I’m excited but a bit nervous — any advice for making the first time comfortable and enjoyable?

Howard (of course, not his real name) and I have been working on pegging almost the whole time we've been together, and it has been slowly coming along. We've tried a couple of different dildos of different lengths and girths, and several positions, looking to what will work with his sensitive p-spot, but we've always had to go slowly and stop after a few minutes. He still enjoyed it, but both of us kept fantasizing about the time when I would be able to peg him vigourously.

Today, we tried a new dildo...the Blush Au Natural 5.5 inch "Mighty Mike", in missionary, with him on a liberator cushion. It worked perfectly! At one point, I was pegging him so deep and hard, the strap on my harness shifted into a sensitive spot, causing me to orgasm, which blew both our minds! Though it took more work to get it in compared to other dildos because of the pliancy of the outer layer, he liked the soft outer layer and the firmness of the toy. The length was good and can work in several positions. We will be looking for a longer one, as the shorter insertable length meant I came out a couple of times, but overall, it looks like we finally found our niche.

If you've struggled a little to hit your stride, keep your minds open and be willing to try a variety of toys until you find the good one(s)!

So yeah, i have this great chemistry with this woman. I somehow have a deep and meaningful connection with her. We were talking about our sexualities and she randomly goes if i would let her peg me?
I thought about it and said yes because im open to exploring. She got very excited and now she is doing all the preparations. Im still not sure how i feel about this because i have never been pegged and didn’t think of myself being pegged. So yeah, to the experienced people out there i might need your advice regarding how does it feel and how to do it.

I was just wondering if there were any guys out there that experience deep relaxing sleep after a good session? Is it just me? I sleep like a baby and wake up refreshed and I usually don't sleep well.

Hago este post porque mi novia y yo queremos probar el pegging , siempre he sido muy abierto sexualmente y sé bien que el punto P está atrás y que eso no me hace Gay, una vez dicho eso que consejos pueden darme para que no duela tanto y ambos lo podamos disfrutar, igual me gustaría saber cómo fue su experiencia y que sintieron antes y después de hacerlo, saludos y gracias por leer

So my wife and I have talked about pegging. She has agreed to try it out. We have the equipment but havent used it yet. I'm VERY open sexually and consider myself bi. She doesn't know but I'm worried that if she straps up and I start stroking her or start sucking her that she'll get weirded out.

Others..... If you were on the edge with the idea and you man got very turn on playing with the dildo, would it turn you off or make it hotter?

Now I recently posted about my first experience, which was both unexpected but a truly organic experience. That feeling of it being this natural progression in our sexual experience without feeling contrived or forced really resonated with me and made the moment feel truly special.

The challenge with that is how to replicate that feeling without making it feel forced. I have to admit after that first time I couldn’t stop thinking about it. I fantasized the moment in my head, I began watching porn of amateur, but experienced couples pegging, and I found myself taking mental notes. I started doing my research on how to make it feel even better. All the while I couldn’t get the thought of my wife’s voice whispering to me “next time I’ll bend you over and fuck you from behind.”

Flash forward to last night and once again I’ve prepared a lavish meal with paired cocktails. The evening was going off perfectly and as expected we end up starting off kissing deeply and completely enveloped in each other, touching our bodies and stripping ourselves down to the bedroom. Next thing I know we’re in bed ravishing each other. My fingers are in her mouth and moving down toward her pussy, she’s dripping wet as I finger her and next thing I know I’m kneeling over her hitting her g spot and she starts squirting. After she cums she begins to rub my cock, and then my balls. She starts sucking on them and her hands start rubbing around my ass and slowly toward my anus. She sticks her finger in her mouth and then slowly begins to rub it and gently slips it in. She sucks me harder and in rhythm she starts fingering me harder. We’re now fully immersed in this moment. She stops and looks up at me and asks “do you want me to get the dildo?” I tell her yes and she quickly grabs it from the bedside along with the lube.

She lives up the 6” realistic dildo perfectly and places it against my ass. I tell her to go slow and she starts to insert it perfectly, the pace and rhythm were spot on. As the head slips in she tells me “just breath and relax, let it slide in, don’t resist it…trust me.” Then I relax my legs and she slides it all the way in. She thrusts slowly as I start to masturbate. After a few minutes she asks me “do you want to bend over?” I say yes and move turn over. She reinserts it and I begin to feel her thrust her hips into me as she starts to fuck me from behind. I reach my arms behind me to grab her hips and her breasts. She tells me she wants to make me feel good and then pushes my back down and tells me to get lower. The next thing I know she is absolutely fucking me hard as I stroke my cock. I couldn’t hold up for long and end up cumming hard.

We played for another 30 minutes or so, but for it being the second time that absolutely felt like me wife fucked me and we both enjoyed it. It’s a difficult experience to contextualize because it does hurt to some extent and the pleasure isn’t pure centered around a good physical feeling, but the act of her doing this to me and the empowerment she gets from it along with my submission makes it that much more ecstatic. And incredible experience, I can still feel it this morning.

3 months ago if you remember i told my girlfriend i wanted to get pegged and said yes and the next week got fucked in the ass so here a update on my life so our relationship is going strong we do pegging full time now so i don't fuck her anymore which is great when ever she angry or stressed about work i let her take it all on me and go rough on me and last month got gangbang by 3 of her other mates which was amazing and gets to a point that i call her mummy because i love her that much and my birthday coming up and says i might have the best pegging i have ever had so yeah that all.

Please read this and add anything else that would be good to know :)

I’ve gone through quite a few posts and don’t know what to go with! Hubbies birthday is next weekend and we need a new harness so I can wreck him :)