r/SexToys • • 1d ago

Weekly Deals and Giveaways Thread NSFW

14 Upvotes

We welcome any and all deals here—retailers, affiliates, users, whatever. Any advertising outside of this thread will be removed by the moderators.

Please feel free to post your giveaways down below. Standalone giveaway posts will be deleted and directed towards this post.

As always, feel free to mod mail us with any feedback related to these threads or the subreddit in general.


r/SexToys • • Nov 09 '23

ATTENTION AFFILIATE LINK USERS NSFW

153 Upvotes

STORE OWNERS, WORKERS AND AFFILIATE LINK USERS

Here is some instructions for people with ALU-flair and for those who require one, which includes store owners and workers and anyone who gains something from linking to specific product or page.

Breaking given rules may cause you lose the flair and/or get banned from participating. We are subreddit meant for discussion about sextoys. Not advertising platform for them.

  1. Make sure you have read and follow our rules. As you have been given ALU - flair, general members of subreddit think you are endorsed by moderators. Your actions in subreddit will be followed more strictly and rule breaking will be punished.
  2. Request flair from moderators. Mods will keep right to refuse request if you have broken our rules in past or we think you may not upheld our standards.
  3. Participate in conversations. Flair does not give you special permission to advertise to everyone looking for a toy here. You are allowed to link toy with affiliate link if you think it fits in what user is requesting. Do not just use request for toy as an excuse to spam your own affiliate/store links.
  4. Link to only body safe toys. Do not link to store front page or blog post listing 10 different toys for sake of it (unless OP requests comparisons then you can link to blog post that has those.)

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If you see someone who does not follow these instructions after this post has been published PLEASE REPORT THEM TO MODS!

We cannot unfortunately deal with people that spam or misuse their ALU - flair if we do not know about them. Unfortunately moderators are not omnipotent and are not able to see every message in this subreddit and automoderator and moderating tools get us only so far. So click that report button if you feel that someone does not follow rules.


r/SexToys • • 8h ago

Discussion Are the steel jewel plugs really that harmful/unsafe? NSFW

32 Upvotes

Issue is, I cannot use amazon to order, cannot visit a real store. only option is quick commerce website. I have access to these two 1.3inch by 3.8inch and 1.3inch by 3.2inch [here are the respective pages: first and second]

I read online that these plugs slip in very easily so im a bit worried. Im also on a budget. first time doing anything like this so im 'tight' as they say lol. ill barely use 2-3 times a month for about 20 minutes each time


r/SexToys • • 1h ago

Request I need help finding a good dick gag NSFW

• Upvotes

ISO a dildo gag that is flexible/soft, with the tip angled down so it doesn’t hit the back of my mouth, and has a space in front to bite down so it fills my mouth without keeping my jaws wrenched open or putting too much pressure on my teeth. Also nontoxic materials. Any Recs?


r/SexToys • • 12h ago

Request Dildos that don't look like dildos NSFW

8 Upvotes

I happen to be in Egypt for now; and I can't seem to get my hands on one. Before I go about making one of my own. I thought of ordering something that doesn't look like one.

There are a couple of gradient pumpkins and bottles and corn dildos on Chinese websites that I was thinking of trying my luck with with customs. Any suggestions?


r/SexToys • • 17m ago

First Toy Dildo Care NSFW

• Upvotes

Got my first toy from Qutoys. Any tips on how to take care of my toy? Depending on how well I take care of it. The website recommends replacing it every 6-12 months. Are there any specific things I need to buy to store it in? Any help is appreciated


r/SexToys • • 19m ago

Request Dildo identification NSFW

• Upvotes

I need help identify where this dildo is from, I’d like to acquire another one. I have a hard time finding and reading the name. Does it sound familiar to someone? It’s supposed to be a real person.

https://ibb.co/yFS2zBwQ


r/SexToys • • 1h ago

Request Modify dildo for a strap harness NSFW

• Upvotes

I have a Nothosaur Graemen, which im quite fond of. However i want to use it with my strapon harness (Aslan Leather, Jaguar), but the balls are kinda (very) big and interfere with the O-ring and snaps. Is there a way I can modify the bottom (behind the balls) to be held by my strap


r/SexToys • • 9h ago

Discussion Best wand vibrators NSFW

5 Upvotes

Looking to get my gf a wand vibrator. Waterproof, budget, high quality, not huge size wise all are important (not all together)


r/SexToys • • 3h ago

Request Stroker/Sleeve for THICK penises NSFW

1 Upvotes

Hi there I was looking for a stroker for thick penises. I've bought about 10 so far and they are all completely unusable.

Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated. I bought a Fleshlight and I didn't like it. Thank you


r/SexToys • • 3h ago

First Toy First time couple use NSFW

1 Upvotes

Hello , my female partner and I (male) have talked about using toys on eachother before. However we (I) don’t know where to start looking into it or what toys to use for beginners. She of course has a few vibrstors of her own. But I was curious about what might be good , we’re both very open to trying new things and exploring and having fun with eachother. She does enjoy being restricted and we’re open to trying more eventually. But now just trying and staring with it.

Any recommendations for specific or types of toys in dms or comments is greatly appreciated


r/SexToys • • 16h ago

Discussion How big of a knot can/should I go for vaginal? NSFW

10 Upvotes

I don't do anal, first of all. So this is purely vaginal use.

I currently have a knotted dildo thats good, but not big enough for me. I want one with a decent sized shaft, but then they all seem to have MASSIVE knots (like, ~7cm diameter).

Anyway, I'm looking to see how big I could go? I'm worried about splurging on a toy only to find out its too small again, lol. But I'm also worried about getting one thats too big. I don't have a lot of money, which is why I'm so worried about getting the "perfect" size.

My current knot dildo is 4.4cm wide in the shaft and 5.4cm in the knot. The biggest regular dildo I have is about 6.7cm wide and is kind of hard to take for me (it's also really long and has the same girth throughout the entire thing, so that also may be why its so difficult).

The knotted dildos I'm looking at all have knots from about 6cm wide to 7.5cm wide. Would I really struggle to take the 7cm+ knots? I'm worried the 6cm knots would still be a bit too small for me, but then again I'm (k)not well versed in knots and how they feel/work...

Whats the best call for me to make here?


r/SexToys • • 4h ago

Request Hi i need help! NSFW

0 Upvotes

So im a trans dude and last night was the first time i ever put anything fully up inside u know, and it went right in with no problem it's just some random Amazon dildo about 5 inches long. But there was a problem! It felt good but not satisfying. I keep feeling like I could stretch more and go deeper but it was just to thin and small. I reslly liked the feeling of popping it out if that makes sense. So! I was thinking about getting a longer thicker one and maybe one with a knot, is this to much to start? I just really want more. I was also thinking about getting some sort of clit pump. Eventually I wanna try a machine but that sounds really expensive. What would u guys recommend? There's just so many different toys out there idk where to start ( i dont want to spend more then like 100 dollars if possible) thank u everyone!!!! <3


r/SexToys • • 5h ago

Discussion What to buy? NSFW

0 Upvotes

I just want my sub boy to feel good, we have a small plug, stroker toy, and leash+collar. Whats something that'll make him feel really good? I just want him to be happy and pleasured :)


r/SexToys • • 13h ago

Request where to start? NSFW

3 Upvotes

i'm seeing a lot of options for sex toys for guys and getting overwhelmed.

i’ve heard from here that the tenga spinner and fleshlights are good. additionally, the lovesense max 2 seems appealing.

both fleshlights and the lovesense are on the higher end for me, and i don’t want to buy a toy and be disappointed.

this would be my first toy. 18M and still lives at home so discreetness is a must. i don’t want any snooping siblings or parents to find out, and i know my parents don’t approve.

i have some questions that if answered should clear things up.

  • What are the different types of sex toys for guys?
  • What would you recommend from each main category?
  • How do I clean it?
  • What lube should I get?
  • Is ordering online or a sex shop better?

Budget for toy is around thirty bucks. Probably 50 if including lube.

Hope to get good recommendations!


r/SexToys • • 10h ago

Request Do you use fleshlight/fleshlight like sleeves out of their case? I’m not a huge fan of it inside the case.. NSFW

2 Upvotes

I tried a fleshlight for the first time last night inside the case and I gotta be honest I wasn’t impressed at all, all the while I was using it I was just like “so this is it??” There wasn’t that oooohlala sensation I was hoping for. I got the Sky Bri one. It took a while to get me to climax and couldn’t really bring myself to edge like other ways. After I was done I was speculating why it wasn’t good and I remembered I had some other off brand sleeve thing I got off Groupon and hated the way it felt in the case too. I eventually started using it outside of its case and it was soo much better.

I think the case constricts my penetration and makes it too tight and doesn’t allow much room for the lube to do its magic. I’m not gonna tell you I’m massive but definitely above average. So this brings me back to my question, do any of you use sleeves outside of its case? Do you find the same issues i mentioned? One thing i did with my other case is put some saran wrap or a sandwich bag around the base where the whole is for containing lube and sperm and then fold a towel in half longways and wrap the towel around it going up like youd roll a rug making a cylindrical shape. It gives me something rigid to hold on to while also keeping the sleeve from collapsing due to its floppiness and use it that way. With my other one doing it it was soooo much better. Also with the saran wrap you can get a nice suction and no air farts lol.

I’m also curious if you’ve done that too or what other ways I can use the sleeve with no hard plastic case.


r/SexToys • • 13h ago

Discussion Wedge pillow for reverse with vibrator NSFW

3 Upvotes

Are there any wedge pillows that are notched out to allow vibrator to be used when having sex doggy style/from behind, seems like no room to get a vibrator in there, be nice if a pillow with missing center would be great


r/SexToys • • 9h ago

Request Domi 2 and setting levels help NSFW

1 Upvotes

EDIT: problem solved!

I've seen a fair few people have a Domi 2 in this sub and I'm hoping for some advice? I'm having real problems with the app.

Unboxed and charged and oh my god is it a powerful vibrator. The first setting alone is so much stronger than most wands I've used including some corded. I went to the app, and when I change the toy strength slider, it doesn't save? The wand is on, I press and change the slider setting, I feel the power decrease and then when i let go the wand stops. I press it onto the first setting and the setting has changed to something in between where I set it, and where it was for some reason?

I've made sure I'm saving the setting and not getting disconnected. The strength slider only seems to change the first setting and all other settings are still going off like a theragun. In the program section I found a level setting option that seemed like it was for putting a ceiling on the higher settings but no changes I made translated to differences on the button settings.

Also I tried making a pattern that loops on a lower setting, but it loops like a CD when you get a gap between songs.

A bit frustrated and heartbroken that this is so hard to set up? Is this just me?


r/SexToys • • 22h ago

Request Need help selecting a male stroker NSFW

8 Upvotes

Having analysis paralysis selecting my first male toy. I'm getting one to assist edging and training stamina for PIV sex. Looking for something that is kind of realistic feeling, but will not desensitize the sensation of actual PIV sex (Like a super intense toy).

Looking for something with the additional following parameters:

-Quality build/materials that will not break/get ruined quickly (Ex: I read that the Tenga flip zero has cheap clips)

-Not difficult to keep clean

-Not too bulky, could be traveled with (Don't need something super compact, but is still easy to throw in a luggage)

-Ideally $50-$75, but flexible if it really makes sense.

Please help me make a decision and end this decision paralysis!


r/SexToys • • 13h ago

Discussion Are penis stretchers a novelty, or legit? NSFW

1 Upvotes

I was recently thinking of getting one since they are fairly inexpensive. I see several different types. One that is a strap you use over your shoulders and it pulls your penis up. Another is a strap you use around your thigh and it pulls it downward. And then there is this other contraption where it uses rods to push up against your body to stretch it outwards.

It’s not so much a toy, but this is the only place where I can make a thread since my I can’t is too new to post anywhere else


r/SexToys • • 16h ago

Request Eddie ED Device Questions? NSFW

1 Upvotes

I noticed this add while scanning Reddit a few days ago. Did a little research and it seems like it may be somewhat legitimate. I was curious if anybody has tried it?


r/SexToys • • 17h ago

Request Rotating toy? NSFW

1 Upvotes

My partner gets satisfaction from her clitoris and from a ring around an inch or two inside her body. I have been with some women before where you can just rub this section and they get a lot of enjoyment, However, my partner likes to have a finger traced around this ring inside that area while having her clit licked.

I am looking for a toy that can be used while licking her clit. The old rampant rabbits used to have a section to stimulate this area that rotated but I'm wondering if anyone can recommend something better, new or different?


r/SexToys • • 1d ago

Discussion Did the design of the Zen Rose by Viben change slightly? NSFW

3 Upvotes

EDIT: Went back to the shop and they were just as surprised as me. We opened 3 more and they all have the god awful plastic piece in them. Went from the best rose toy ever to one of the worst. What a waste. I will not ever be buying a Viben product after this and I absolutely DO NOT recommend the Viben Zen Rose anymore. I used to swear up and down by it. Now it’s genuinely better to throw your money into a fire.

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I just bought a new Viben Zen Rose from a shop near me because I haven’t replaced my old one that broke on me about a year ago. It was by far my favorite toy because it was the only one with enough strength and room (I’m FtM so the standard rose space allowance doesn’t work for me). I got the exact same color that I’d had previously.

However this new one has a hard plastic piece with a tiny hole in it halfway down the insertion area. This definitely used to exclusively be silicone. The hard plastic piece makes it extremely uncomfortable, it feels incredibly weak, and seems nearly impossible to properly clean. The plastic piece does not seem to be removable.

I’m so disappointed. This was the only toy that worked for me and it seems it was changed to be significantly worse. Since it’s a sex toy there’s obviously no returns. I guess I just wasted $70 on a useless sex toy. 😞

Did I just get an extremely weird version of the Zen Rose or is this just how they make them now? I am so beyond disappointed. I had been so excited. 😞

Also, does anyone know if the plastic piece can be removed? I tried to pry it out but it seems like it’s solidly stuck in there. What a waste. 😞😞


r/SexToys • • 1d ago

Discussion Is it possible that a butt plug wasn’t picked up on X-ray? NSFW

109 Upvotes

As the caption suggests I had to make an ER visit after not being able to find a toy. I used it around 1 am yesterday and after finishing up I went for a drive, it wasn’t until 2/3 hours later that I noticed it was missing. After trying to search internally at home, I went to the ER where they checked manually and via X-ray, found nothing. I was happy but as the day went on it just felt impossible that the toy could’ve disappeared. Now im worried again that it was missed by the abdomen X-ray and I have a toy floating somewhere inside me. It’s small with a jeweled base… is it even a possibility its in there?


r/SexToys • • 1d ago

Request Monster dildo recommendations? NSFW

5 Upvotes

Okay so i am not new to sex toys by any means, I have quite the fair share of vibrators and butt plugs, but my bf realized that I dont have any dildos, so he wants to buy me one for christmas

100-150$ budget range, I'm looking for something monstrous in shape, but not in size. I've looked at tentacles before and been interested, but I dont know how the suckers would feel inside me. I'm also curious about ones that could knott me, or even oviposter ones

Im not sure about firmness, I feel like seeing as I havent used anything inside me bigger than 3-5 inches around i should start sort of small, but we also want to get something that could fill me up pretty well too