r/SteamDeck • • Apr 20 '26

Discussion I feel nervous playing steamdeck at public

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I felt someone is watching me

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u/Easy_Blackberry_4144 Apr 20 '26

I usually leave it for when I'm on a plane. My biggest uses outside the house is when I'm in a hotel or something away from my PC.

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u/balderdash9 Apr 20 '26

The SD has completely changed how I handle flights. Boot up on some Slay the Spire and I'm there before I know it.

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u/slamsmcaukin Apr 20 '26

I look forward to flying now cuz it’s the only time really that I use my deck lol

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u/asodafnaewn 1TB OLED Apr 20 '26

I packed mine for a trip this weekend and wound up sleeping the entirety of both flights 😢

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u/Grrrth_TD Apr 20 '26

Seems like you needed some rest and you got it!

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u/Proxliberator Apr 20 '26

Hahaha true.

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u/TheParmesan Apr 20 '26

My girlfriend is much earlier to bed than me, but she likes having me next to her. It’s become a great way for me to get my gaming in even though I’m confined to bed, and it makes her happy/she can live with the compromise! haha

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u/the-clawless 64GB Apr 21 '26

this is me and my fiance... except I end up kicking him out after a while bc the buttons clicking wakes me up and bro plays till like 5 am most nights lmao

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u/uha Apr 20 '26

Same!! It is totally unused until im on a plane and I wish I had to fly further so I could keep playing every time haha.

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u/Particular_Bag_3707 512GB OLED Apr 20 '26

12 hours to Japan = 20 minutes in factorio

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u/User-no-relation LCD-4-LIFE Apr 20 '26

Slay the spire works great on Android though. Not worth breaking out a steam deck for that

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u/RobertRossBoss Apr 20 '26

Do you strap it to the headrest in front of you?

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u/uha Apr 20 '26

Same. Best damn thing ever on a plane too.

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u/TradeSpacer Apr 20 '26

Yep, Steam Deck is a flight-only device. It's why I bought one, don't even use it at home really.

Long flights only, less than 2 hours and I just read instead.

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u/Im_Scruffy Apr 20 '26

https://giphy.com/gifs/zXA5VEmXr7OUg

me when i pick up my kindle instead of the steam deck

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u/hiimatlas 512GB OLED Apr 20 '26 edited Apr 20 '26

This is me and actually the worst case scenario happened to me:

Couple months back I was traveling to another city by train. It was early in the morning like 5-6ish and I decided it was time to whip out my Deck. I was playing L.A. Noir for nearly an hour with my cable earphones when the elderly gentleman next to me tapped me on my shoulder and said “Please turn down the volume its just too loud!”. There was this bug back then (I had no idea) when you connect by 3.5 mm earphone, sound continued to come from both outlets, earphone and speakers. I WAS PLAYING GAMES THROUGH THE SPEAKERS LIKE A TODDLER. With police sirens and everything. While people were trying to sleep. I was mortified, apologized and tried to explain immediately but the damage was already done.

Now I get extra nervous playing with my Deck in public.

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u/AmyHuntingt Apr 20 '26

Holy shit...I would die

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u/[deleted] Apr 20 '26

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u/Jerkass619 Apr 21 '26

I would dematerialize for sure.

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u/GlitteringAttitude60 1TB OLED Apr 20 '26

Yeah, that's why I always take one earbud out to check whether my device is really silent after I connected the earbuds

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u/AndrewCoja Apr 20 '26

I always do this. I take out both earbuds just to make sure there is silence and my brain isn't tricking me with one earbud.

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u/toodice Apr 21 '26

Yep. And then again when you launch the game. And again when you start playing. And at random points during the game to check that you weren't mistaken before.

Then you realise you can hear yourself breathing more loudly with the earbuds in and wonder if everyone else can hear it and you're actually breathing really strangely so you quit and put the deck away.

That last bit might just be me.

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u/Raider_Scum May 10 '26

Dang, I sometimes do that out of nowhere.

  • oh I think im breathing really loudly
  • ok im gonna space my breaths out, holding my breath a Lil to keep it quiet
  • oh, now im running out of breath
  • hyperventilate real loudly to catch up

Its probably just the autism tho

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u/McRawffles Apr 20 '26

Happened to me once like 20 years ago on my phone and I've double checked on every device every time since. It's just a learning experience

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u/JimJamSealion Apr 20 '26

It becomes second nature to do it with so many devices

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u/Pixel91 Apr 20 '26

I lived through the great public sound era of Sony Ericsson phones, with their always-broken proprietary headphone connectors, that shit wouldn't bother me anymore. "Oh you jostled the connector? Gotcha! *blaaaaaast*"

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u/ray199569 Apr 20 '26

Holy childhood trauma. That shitty connector haunts me all these years to not even trust the 3.5mm jack.

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u/Falcs Apr 20 '26

I had this happen once in class with Sony Ericsson Walkman being knocked slightly in my pocket. We were allowed earphones in if you were proven to get the work done and not be a disruptor, so quiet me in the corner and all of a sudden 90s/00s rock starts blasting in a mostly silent but full classroom.

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u/Koino_ Apr 20 '26

holy shit that's embarrassing 

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u/Punch_Your_Facehole Apr 20 '26

At least it wasnt pr0n.

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u/Porterhaus 512GB Apr 20 '26

Are you monsters really watching porn on your steamdeck in public?

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u/AndrewCoja Apr 20 '26

People go to auto shops and then go to the waiting area and watch porn on their phone and it connects to the Bluetooth of their car while it is being worked on.

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u/Psycho_Mania Apr 20 '26

I had that happen on a date. She got in the car and my phone connected and porn started playing. I turned off the stereo a soon as I could and said ‘I hate when songs start with sex sounds, it’s almost as bad as when songs start with a baby crying’. Don’t think she bought it…

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u/Positive-Injury-579 Apr 20 '26

That's hilarious

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u/tabas123 Apr 20 '26

Hilarious but also sad. You can’t even stop gooning for a couple of hours?! You’re in public my guy. That is advanced-stage addiction 😳

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u/Positive-Injury-579 Apr 20 '26

Well yeah. Agreed.

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u/Splinterman11 512GB - Q3 Apr 20 '26

This is me but with anime music/foreign music. I always triple check to make sure my phone isnt connected to my car when I give the keys over to the mechanic lmao.

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u/hiimatlas 512GB OLED Apr 20 '26

Oh my f****g god

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u/DennisTheConvict Apr 20 '26

I'm sorry but that's hilarious. You've done everything right, taken the steps to be considerate to other passengers and because of a bug you've been made to look like a carefree POS. Thinking about how others on the train must have viewed you is making me laugh, but thank god it wasn't an anime girl type game!

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u/FeelsGoodBlok Apr 20 '26

Type of shit I will be thinking about on my death bed.

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u/magical_swoosh Apr 20 '26

Type of shit I will be thinking about on my death bed at night trying to sleep.

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u/GrungeLord Apr 20 '26 edited Apr 20 '26

mfw I'm about to drift off, but this guy won't shut the fu- "DETECTIVE COLE PHELPS, BADGE 1247"

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u/ThePrussianGrippe Apr 20 '26

“Car 11 Adam, go for dispatch.”

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u/MonorailPurple Apr 20 '26

Please please tell me that bugs been fixed!

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u/hiimatlas 512GB OLED Apr 20 '26

It has been fixed, but better be cautious lol

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u/TehLeico 512GB Apr 20 '26

And then I remember that people in public watch TikTok at absurd volumes, and also do very loud phone calls, not giving a damn about people around them.

I take many trains/buses/planes through the year and I've seen this happen at any hour of the day, i don't know how they don't feel embarrassed.

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u/BornBeforeAll Apr 20 '26

When Apple stopped including headphones with the iphone it ruined waiting rooms and public spaces forever

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u/PJ_Ammas Apr 20 '26

I would derail the train at that point

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u/JimmyBisMe Apr 20 '26

I mean that does suck but people would have surely seen you with headphones in.

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u/MarieCry 512GB Apr 20 '26

Fr I'd hope someone would have mercy and tell me, especially since they were wired!

Absolutely passes ye olde "if they can fix the issue in under 5 minutes, tell them" advice

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u/hydracicada Apr 20 '26

woah, a nightmare unfolds...

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u/Barry_Burton_1974 Apr 20 '26

Whipping out your d*ck normally makes old men a little grumpy. Not ALL of them mind.

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u/LoStrigo95 Apr 20 '26

This is a fear of mine, so i always do this:

I put earphones.

I start the game.

In the main menù, i put the earphones far from my ear and listen if i can hear the sound. If i can SOMETHING IS WRONG

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u/MoaiMike Apr 20 '26

Thats an honest mistake, dont worry too much about it friend

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u/FlareStar612 Apr 20 '26

IS THAT ONE OF THOSE NINTENDO SWITCH THINGS? What you playing is it Mario?

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u/AddictinApple Apr 20 '26

Exactly. I was playing my Steam Deck on the school bus, and I overheard someone behind me saying, “Look at that idiot, he’s playing a Nintendo Switch.”

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u/SirSabza Apr 20 '26

Guarantee you that kid plays call of duty whilst his parents fight

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u/casino_r0yale Apr 20 '26

Mann once upon a time Call of Duty used to be the shit. Call of Duty 4, Modern Warfare 2, and even Black Ops 1. Everyone was playing that in school. It’s sad what has happened to the series.

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u/NiTRo_SvK Apr 20 '26

it used to be the shit, now it's just shit

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u/SirSabza Apr 20 '26

Black ops 1 gun game were some of my best 360 memories man.

People talked shit but it was light hearted, mostly.

Seem some clips of modern cod and now it's just so toxic people just unironically not well lol

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u/xlindsey Apr 20 '26

Those were the three best games!!!! :’) So many memories playing those junior + senior year with friends I made.

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u/Never-don_anal69 Apr 20 '26

CoD 2 stalingrad mission would like to have a word 

Urrraaa, gave me goosebumps back then and probably would now too

But yes, MW 1&2 and BOPS 1 was goat 

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u/painfulbunny__ Apr 20 '26

I unironically made friends with the “cool kids” over MW3 back in like grade 5. Was too much fun and where my nostalgia gotta come from over mw2 or bo1

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u/LatteMacchiatoGames Apr 20 '26

Cod 4 was the one that I have more played hours than any other game in my steam library

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u/Even-Cheesecake-8506 Apr 20 '26

Um world at war is my favorite

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u/MrHazard1 Apr 20 '26

Can't even tell kids i did their mom. They just get their hopes up and call me daddy

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u/Melkman68 LCD-4-LIFE Apr 20 '26

Takes his parents divorce out on everyone

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u/Jonnyflash80 Apr 20 '26

Guaranteed. That kid doesn't get any attention at home, so desperately clamours for attention by making fun of others.

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u/Left_Chance_9159 Apr 20 '26

They are just upset they can't play it. Its a playing it cool thing. If they are serious they are not cool people. They got their soul snatched by their corporate style family or something. Enjoy your life. Play magic and card games in the library. Do "nerdy" shit. Most kids who acted like this ended up in a factory or bumming off others. Just dont bother others with it and it shouldn't matter.

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u/Jonnyflash80 Apr 20 '26

As you get older you learn to ignore the fucking idiots of the world. I wish I had this superpower when I was younger.

The important thing is, you do you, and ignore the attention whores who are trying to gain some sort of "social clout" by making fun of other people. Out in the real world those are the people who will fail, time after time.

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u/Jadey4455 Apr 20 '26

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u/FoundmyReasons Apr 20 '26

Then I said “this is a steam deck” and everyone clapped

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u/OddOllin Apr 20 '26

Man, you'd be shocked what kids go out of their way to shit on, lol.

When I was in high school, I loved playing Tetris on my DS on the bus. It was two of my fucking "friends" that made fun of me for it, lol.

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u/Scrumptious_Foreskin Apr 20 '26

No one said that

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u/[deleted] Apr 20 '26

You don't get motion sick looking at screens in cars?

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u/Few-Panda-9497 Apr 20 '26

Personally no

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u/[deleted] Apr 20 '26

lowkey thats a super power

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u/bendap Apr 20 '26

Try holding it higher so you can still see out the window in your periphery.

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u/FenixVale Apr 20 '26

Seriously dude. I can't play a mobile console or even read a book. Well being a passenger in a car. I don't know what it is, but it always makes me motion sick

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u/[deleted] Apr 20 '26

Me too! I'm sure I've listened to a lot more music than I would have done because of it

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u/mvrander Apr 20 '26

I do in a car, don't on buses and trains.

My wife has an iphone app that puts little dots on the screen of her phone that move opposite to the direction the car turns and that seems to stop motion sickness for her

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u/[deleted] Apr 20 '26

Oh wow never heard of that, im gonna try it out looks amazing

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u/cassette_sunday Apr 20 '26

If you have an iPhone, this feature is built natively in the settings called "Vehicle Motion Cues" in accessibility menus

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u/[deleted] Apr 20 '26

I have a Samsung but that's pretty neat Apple thought to build it natively

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u/Owobowos-Mowbius Apr 20 '26

Ive been waiting for Samsung to add that to their options... works like a charm on my wife's iPhone.

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u/I_sell_Mmeetthh 512GB OLED Apr 20 '26

For me it depends on the driver. My father sucked ass at driving when i was a kid but he's more steady at driving now so less motion sickness. Letting in fresh air also help me a lot than just AC

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u/CapableDatabase6923 512GB Apr 20 '26

if you get in the car and IMMEDIATELY look at a screen without peeling your eyes off of it at all,you wont get motion sick

source:me and my phone and my steam deck

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u/sellmeyoursouI MODDED SSD 💽 Apr 20 '26

Guarantee no one said that cornball shit 🤣

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u/Blue_Wave_2020 Apr 20 '26

That’s when you say “look at this idiot, he doesn’t even know what a Switch looks like” Then turn around and keep playing

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u/rtz13th MODDED SSD 💽 Apr 20 '26

Search for 'Jealous bully' completed.

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u/CMDR_Kantaris Apr 20 '26

One day you will be liberated and not care what other people say/think about what you do and who you are.

You'll probably never see or think of these people in 10 years, and they won't think about you either

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u/greynovaX80 Apr 20 '26

Oh no you're playing video games. Have we gone from video games are lame to cool and now back to lame again?

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u/spinz Apr 20 '26

Pro tip: dont bring your deck to school. At worst it could be stolen or destroyed. At best, its distracting you from school things and socializing.

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u/balderdash9 Apr 20 '26

Me, playing emulated Wii on the Steam deck

"Well, yes, but also, no."

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u/Ramja9 Apr 20 '26

It's not a Nintendo switch. I am playing Mario though.

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u/Metahooman Apr 20 '26

In the Philippines, they would always refer to it as a PSP. Doesn't matter, steam deck, switch, 3ds, doesn't matter. It's always PSP.

Bro, nice PSP. What kind of games do you have on your PSP? Do you have Tekken?

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u/FlareStar612 Apr 20 '26

Huy phillipines!?

Yeah, or game boy is another universal term for everything 😂

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u/Inedible-denim Apr 20 '26

Lawd yess.. people here have NO idea wtf it is. Nobody who has seen it knows what it is and I always have to explain it.

And they call themselves gamers...hmph!😂

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u/8070alejandro Apr 20 '26

I was playing with my deck at the train station when a dude approached and was like

"Ey, that machine of yours is sick"

We started talking for 10 minutes or so until his train departed. He had a Windows deck but changed to a ROG Ally.

Cool guy.

This was maybe the fifth time I played in public.

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u/vallahdownloader MODDED SSD 💽 Apr 20 '26

Happens all the time to me in trams or trains. People either ask me what that is and where to get one or children are curiously watching

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u/8070alejandro Apr 20 '26

Where to get one? Boy...

Funny that I had read about the Steam Deck starting conversations like some unicorn, then happened to me like in no time after going out with it.

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u/Grand_Pop_7221 Apr 20 '26

Same, I take mine down to the coffee shop on a weekend or sit in the pub, and I only ever get interested people.

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u/guiraus Apr 20 '26

As someone with social anxiety this sounds like a superpower to me. How do you respond to that with something that isn’t ‘Huh huh’ followed by me burying my head back to my console. 

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u/Grrrth_TD Apr 20 '26

"Yea man I love my Steam Deck. I'm currently using it to emulate Gameboy Advance and play Pokémon Leaf Green like everyone is playing on their Switch or Switch 2."

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u/1nfam0us Apr 20 '26

I only feel comfortable in spaces like planes, airports, or intercity trains. Although I did play it in my university library when I was taking a break from my study marathons.

I could never play it somewhere like a café or something.

Of course, I'm not going to pretend this is logical in any way. It is just my nervous system telling me what us or is not safe.

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u/ItsKingDx3 Apr 20 '26

I can’t play it anywhere outside and enjoy it, including transport. There was a comment thread about this a while back and we were speculating that, for some of us, handhelds take up too much visual space now that our brains can’t “settle” and focus on them because we can’t tell what’s happening around us, they encroach too much on our peripheral vision.

Whereas I can totally focus on my phone, vita, GBA SP in public no problem.

I think it probably affects anxious people more than most.

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u/1nfam0us Apr 20 '26

For me I think it is that I am afraid of making myself a target for thieves having an obviously expensive item. In airports, planes, and trains there is no easy escape so people are less likely to try something.

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u/zobbyblob Apr 20 '26

Do you feel that way about having your phone out or in your hand?

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u/1nfam0us Apr 20 '26

Not usually, no.

I do think that is a little different simply because everyone has a phone, but you are certainly right to point out the similarity.

Like I said, it's not a logical impulse.

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u/Timmy_1h1 Apr 20 '26

I completely understand this feeling. My work commute is 40mins of direct public incity train and is perfect for some Slay the spire, hades type of games but I feel very uncomfortable with it.

The only places outside of my home where I am comfortable with deck would be intercity trains, planes and airports.

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u/jenvanilla Apr 20 '26

I 100% agree with this. I feel very exposed playing it in public. But planes, airports or long distance trains is only time I feel less exposed and more “normal” for playing it.

Odd, considering I’d easily read or watch tv with head phones on bus or short train distances (less than 20 mins) and wouldn’t think twice about it. But then I guess it feels more private reading.

It’s even funnier when I think about the fact whenever I see people playing games in public I just think it’s cool lol

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u/Wboys Apr 21 '26

I go out of my way to take it out in public (cafees, Kava Bars, trains etc) because people have only ever found it cool and it's a great way to meet other people because people with the same interests as you will just approach you to ask about what game your playing or compare steam decks etc.

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u/Burgundy_Man Apr 20 '26

I only play mine outside of the house when travelling because I feel like in any other situation, I could be doing something better with my time. I love the portability of the device but what's the point in going outside just to detach myself from my surroundings and do something I could do at home?

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u/glytxh Apr 20 '26

Outside of travelling long distance, I don’t think I’ve ever seen a Steamdeck in the wild.

I know mine rarely leaves home. It’s not portable in the same way the PSP or DS were. It’s more of a laptop in a really weird form.

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u/GL1001 Apr 20 '26

I'm a lawyer and my train commute to court is easily an hour each way. I'm tempted to bring my steam deck for the commute, but I would then have to pass it through the security scan and security would know that I'm the lawyer who plays video games at work. They probably don't care, but it matters to me. Working during the commute is probably more productive anyway

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u/Dado1208 Apr 20 '26

i would lowk fall in love for real if i saw someone playing stardew in the wild lmao

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u/nicoblue_28 512GB Apr 20 '26

Well, I usually go out of the house... in Stardew Valley.

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u/GrungeLord Apr 20 '26

Of all the games to have this stereotype, I really don't see Stardew as one of them lmao

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u/Reasonable-Dingo2199 Apr 20 '26

I play stardew at the bar surrounded by hot women who want to fuck me (sexually)

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u/FlatulentDirigible Apr 20 '26

It's my favorite game to play on flights! It doesn't use a lot of battery and the time just slips away.

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u/adrenadylan 1TB OLED Limited Edition Apr 20 '26

Especially if you crank the TDP almost all the way down since Stardew doesn’t need it. Adds hours to battery life.

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u/FlatulentDirigible Apr 20 '26

I never really explored the finer performance tuning that was available, this is really cool! Thanks for letting me know about it.

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u/exo762 Apr 20 '26

Yep, exact reaction I get.

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u/Rob230 512GB Apr 20 '26

With respect to the general public, fuck those guys and fuck what they think. Life is too short to give a crap what some arsehole thinks 👍

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u/OkFinish5763 Apr 20 '26

Yeah I play halo 3 on an exercise bike at the gym and these people are jealous they can't shoot the flood while exercising

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u/Pearse2304 Apr 20 '26

Oh my god I can’t believe I never thought of that

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u/ShevaJB Apr 20 '26

When they talk behind MY back they are in the right position to KISS MY *SS

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u/PurpleRegister508 Apr 20 '26

Someone asked me if it's worth the money and I said yeah it's one of the best things I've bought and they just ignored me and kept walking.

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u/Nchi Apr 20 '26

I mean, clearly they started daydreaming budgets for it

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u/No-Bunch-3833 Apr 20 '26

If someone asking I usually say that is Nintendo switch 3 pro max plus

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u/No-Shop4046 Apr 20 '26

Imma start saying that! A lot of people sadly don’t know what a steam deck is but I personally think that’s a good thing!

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u/ToeSlurper96 Apr 20 '26

You shouldn't feel nervous about public opinion, there's a shortage of literally everything and financial crisis all over the world. No one's left to call you a nerd. If you rock something like a steam deck during a train trip or such you should be more worried about potential burglars.

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u/Puzzleheaded_Bit1959 Apr 20 '26

I thought so, too, but people use phones more expensive than Steam Deck nowadays

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u/ToeSlurper96 Apr 20 '26

Phones stand out less, simple as that. But don't ever think you're safe if you go around with a 1k€ phone

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u/GeneralDash Apr 20 '26

I play with my deck in public every day!

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u/No-Shop4046 Apr 20 '26

When I got my oled in September I felt comfortable bringing it with me and playing it in public. Causes of the shortage and it being sold out I decided to enjoy it and really look after it. Playing a Steam Deck sometimes feels like an illegal privilege!

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u/EddieVedderTheCat 1TB OLED Apr 20 '26

I got asked if it was "the playstation one"

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u/GoldberrysHusband 1TB OLED Apr 20 '26

Well, it's not just a feeling, sometimes when I commute, I do get looks on the train. But so what? I can play Cyberpunk 2077 or Red Dead Redemption 1 on my way to work, whereas they are mostly doomscrolling.

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u/tundrbear Apr 20 '26

If you're at a party and doing this, you're in the wrong. If you're sitting somewhere public with sounds full blast, you're also in the wrong and definitely being stared at.

If you're sitting somewhere public with headphones in and not furiously clacking or playing a game that activates the fans extra loud, you're fine dude.

Most people assume I'm playing on a Nintendo Switch and either ignore me cause it's "Just a switch". Or become intrigued and ask "Is that a switch?". A few times I get the "Dam that's a monster in your hands!". I've been running into more people who know what it is nowadays though. PC Handhelds are definitely getting more popular.

Not to sound rude, but you're not special because you're playing on a Steam Deck. That's a good thing.

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u/This_Or-That Apr 20 '26

Unless you go out with friends, take this thing out, put your headphones on and start playing it and ignoring everyone/get mad that people don't want to talk to you while you are actively isolating yourself, i think you are good. There was a guy i know that used to do that, we don't hang out anymore

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u/SirSabza Apr 20 '26

Same but couldn't care less what random people think, more incase it gets snatched.

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u/Saivon-Vizier Apr 20 '26

Most people genuinely don't give a shit. Those that do give a shit, you shouldn't care about, on account of you having a kickass steam deck and they don't.

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u/SeaworthinessSad3723 MODDED SSD 💽 Apr 20 '26 edited Apr 20 '26

Over the last couple months I literally just started taking mine everywhere and I absolutely love it. Specifically, if I'm going to a restaurant I'll walk up to the bar, order a beer and food and just play my steam deck until it all gets there. Some people think it's a switch which is fine. I explained to him it's not but then some people go. Is that a steam deck? And then we have a really cool conversation about it.

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u/rapscal 1TB OLED Limited Edition Apr 20 '26

"play my steam dick" same bro

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u/aanorlondo 512GB OLED Apr 20 '26

People are watching out of envy imo

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u/CanacTheBoredGator Apr 20 '26

Anyone should feel safe to pull out their deck in public.

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u/RakTWinterhowl01 Apr 20 '26

I've been bringing mine at work. Every colleague of mine Is like "is it a switch?"

I'm sick of it and I'm tired of pretending I'm not

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u/itsfabioposca Apr 20 '26

Jacob Elordi spent long hours in makeup for Frankenstein and used to play a lot on his Steam Deck. You can even see some behind-the-scenes moments on Netflix.

Henry Cavill is over level 80 in World of Warcraft and he said that he doesn't mind showing his warhammer collection to known people who don't really understand this world.

Whoopi Goldberg was frustrated because Diablo IV wasn’t available on Mac. Brendan Fraser loves the Nintendo Switch.

Do you really think that, even if they are famous, there isn’t a percentage of people who look down on them? In a patetic and childish way? At the same time the majority love them regardless.

Don’t care about what those people say. Remember there will always be people who like you and people who don’t. You just should be focused on yourself first, and secondary on a group of people who are aligned with your same interests.

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u/Archius9 Apr 20 '26

My SD is too precious to leave the house. My switch 2 is more sturdy and replaceable

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u/Kalahan7 MODDED SSD 💽 Apr 20 '26

Got the LCD on sale so for the price alone it wouldn't be the end of the world if I'd lose it.

But now we can't order a Steam Deck anymore and I upgraded my SSD to 2TB so all of a sudden that thing is one of my most priced possessions.

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u/Artemis732 1TB OLED Apr 20 '26

... is it more sturdy? i would think the steam deck to be more sturdy with the fixed controllers and extra thickness.

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u/Additional_List_4236 Apr 20 '26

Just say "expendable" lol

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u/Archius9 Apr 20 '26

Yes and no. Setting up a replacement switch 2 is as simple as downloading a backup, setting up a fresh SD is hours of tweaks and settings.

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u/Jacopaws 1TB OLED Apr 20 '26

Despite it being portable, I would never take it out where I live XD

I feel like it'd paint a huge target on me for a robbery.

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u/adrenadylan 1TB OLED Limited Edition Apr 20 '26

Same! I can’t imagine using it on public transport. Maybe a plane where people can’t get away, sure.

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u/Azot95 Apr 20 '26

Ice Cube - "Do ya thang man, fuck what they lookin' at"

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u/nagathenaga 512GB OLED Apr 20 '26

TL:DR; I got carried away typing about my experience with playing the Steam Deck in public. Steam Deck in public is awkward and attracts people. It's like wearing a big TALK TO ME sign.

I go to a clinic for appointments regularly and sometimes I'll be in the waiting room for 45 minutes. I used to fill that time on my phone doomscrolling, but now I bring my deck and play Valhiem or BALL X PIT. The thing that irritates me the most is that more often than not, someone will see it and want to talk about it. I'm not really a social person and I brought a Steam Deck to play it, not to talk to people about it. I stopped bringing it because 80% of the time I would take it out and play it at the clinic, I would end up spending the 45-60 minutes talking to some random stranger about what a Steam Deck is, what a "Steam" is and the game I'm TRYING to play.

Some people do make me uncomfortable because sometimes it seems like they are feigning interest to get close enough to me to snatch it and run. One guy was VISUALLY on amphetamines and was giving me weird vibes the whole time he was talking to me about my Steam Deck.

Some people don't even say anything and just watch me play a game over my shoulder. It's so painfully awkward that I won't say anything and just put the Deck to sleep and put it up.

One time I decided to just wear my over ear noise canceling headphones to advertise that I don't want to talk. I saw someone standing in my peripheral, and I thought it was someone wanting to talk about the Steam Deck so I ignored them and kept playing. They tapped me on the shoulder and I said "It's a Steam Deck, and I don't want to talk about it." in and irritated tone. Turns out they were calling my name for my appointment for 15 minutes and I couldn't hear them. It was a nurse. I felt my face go red, which is why I don't wear headphones there anymore.

I just wish that people treated me like I treated people that I saw in public with a Steam Deck before I got one. Yeah, I wanted to go up and ask them questions and stuff because I hadn't seen one IRL, but I would rather not bother people trying to enjoy a game, especially a complete stranger.

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u/miata85 Apr 20 '26

too big, too expensive, too fragile for whipping out in public. too many steps when taking out, cant be trusted to sleep in bag because its powerful enough to cook itself. if only it was a clamshell design

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u/shanzononymous Apr 20 '26

I can't get over the fact it doesn't turn off when it gets too hot

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u/DemWookieeCheeks Apr 20 '26

This is why I prefer my GPD Win Mini

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u/ClaptonOnH 1TB OLED Apr 20 '26

If I play on the metro it’s with my AirPods on so I don’t really hear anything, anyway the only time I heard someone make a comment he was just telling his gf “look that’s a steam deck wtf it’s cool” lol

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u/crispyones Apr 20 '26

is that mount and blade

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u/RektalShrekt Apr 20 '26

Looking for this comment. It definitely is.

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u/B4umkuch3n Apr 20 '26

I feel nervous playing in the tram, because someone could steal it. Which is really weird because I'm certain my six year old phone is more expensive and I don't feel the same way with it.

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u/taseradict Apr 20 '26

I bring it to the laundromat, best hour of the week

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u/PsychologicalPause23 Apr 20 '26

Stop giving a f what people think about you as a whole, do they pay your bills? Do they feed you or your kids. Exactly, do you.

Im the guy at playing games off the steam deck, with a controller, a 1080p 15.6 inch portable screen in public enjoying the f out of my life at 40.

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u/Zaelkyr 1TB OLED Apr 20 '26

I use mine everywhere. Planes, trains, car rides, Dr Appointments, work. You name it, I take it. It's going with me to an event in a week for those downtime moments out of the desert heat. That sucker is just the best device to take on the go.

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u/a716h Apr 20 '26

I’m a 38 year old man and no longer give a damn. No one else does so why should I

Edit: so many comments are saying the steam deck is too fragile. Guess i didnt get the memo. I bought the Jsaux case in 2023 and have never had an issue. Flown over 500 flights, all over the US, played just about daily, literally just tossing into a soft backpack.

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u/lentini1978 512GB OLED Apr 20 '26

I’m a 48 year old man and I don’t give a fuck either

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u/Additional_List_4236 Apr 20 '26

If you're afraid to play in public because you're worried it might attract the attention of thieves, then that's understandable. If you're afraid to play it in public because you think people are judging you, that's weak lol.

I can guarantee you that most people don't care! And if you do get attention, it will be most likely from people who are curious about the device more than anything. It's still a pretty niche device in the grand scheme of things. That's been my experience.

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u/grabsyour Apr 20 '26

we got a big man over here Mr badass

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u/gorore9150 Apr 20 '26

Don’t play it at the public then if you’re nervous!

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u/NonsensicalSweater Apr 20 '26

I've taken it with me on days out in London, drunk people have been very amused with it on the train ride home, never had anyone be weird or rude about it personally

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u/SkayPGC Apr 20 '26

I mean, if you're gonna take it to a party maybe its a better idea to just stay home

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u/Edwardteech Apr 20 '26

If i cared what those people think i would be like them.

Im happily noy

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u/sentinalism Apr 20 '26

I always get asked if it's a PSP, at this point I just say yes.

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u/bump909 Apr 20 '26

I just want to see what you’re playing. 👀