r/SoCalR4R • • 19h ago

F4R 28 [F4A] #LosAngeles - Looking to show off in cute outfits! NSFW

58 Upvotes

hi! i'm 28, half-filipina and half-chinese and live in LA. i'm 5'5" with tanned skin, a curvy/pear-shaped body and dark hair with pink/red ends. i come off as cute and pretty innocent in my day-to-day life, but i bought some cute lingerie pretty recently and would love to show it off and feel sexy! i also love getting dressed up and also appreciate having people compliment my outfits, and i'm always down to compliment people right back! also, just down to have interesting conversations with people and see what's out there.


r/SoCalR4R • • 1h ago

F4M 29 [F4M] #pasadena - Regular cuddle + kiss buddy NSFW

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A little shy but extremely snuggly, and looking for someone who enjoys cozy hangs and genuine connection. Down for more if the spark is there. Let’s keep things soft, warm, and low-pressure from the start.


r/SoCalR4R • • 20h ago

M4M 27 [M4M] #Fontana - Looking to be your affectionate and nerdy boyfriend NSFW

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Hey there everybody! 27 year old gay male here, hoping to find that special someone I will fall head over heels for. I am 5'6" and 165lbs with long black hair and glasses. I would best describe myself as a fun-loving nerd who is very affectionate.

I'm someone who enjoys the little things in life as opposed to grand adventures. I’m very much one to "stop and smell the roses” as the saying goes. While I may be a bit more introverted overall, once I get comfortable around someone, you’d never be able to tell. There's nothing I enjoy more than spending quality time with the people I deeply care about. I love hearing them talk about their interests, hobbies, and experiences. I also love giving physical affection; I'm all about cuddles, kisses, and holding hands. It’s my main love language and the way I will always let you know just how much you mean to me, and that I will always be there for you.

Music is easily the most important thing in my life. I’m a singer, and have been performing in one way or another ever since elementary school. It's a talent I am very proud of, so expect me to sing some songs just for you!

I enjoy getting out of the house to go on long walks, either just through the neighborhoods, at a nearby mall, or hiking out on a trail. I also love listening to music in my free time. I mostly enjoy rock, some metal, and lots of alternative. Ghost is my favorite band. As for other hobbies I play PC games on Steam, my favorite being ARPGs like the Diablo series or Last Epoch, as well as collecting some LEGO sets and Yugioh cards. I love watching older horror movies from the 70's and 80's. I'm a bit of a writer as well, creating my own characters, stories, and even fanfiction from time to time.

There are only a few deal-breakers I have. I am deathly allergic to cats, and get bad allergies to most indoor animals. Pets could only be outdoors with me around, and absolutely no cats. No drugs or smoking either. Yes, this includes weed and vapes. I have asthma and any kind of smoke will make it flare up. I'm a leftist politically, and not interested in anyone right of center.

Thank you so much for taking the time to read all this! I hope to hear from you soon if you’re at all interested. Let's make this the start of something wonderful!


r/SoCalR4R • • 5h ago

F4F 36 [F4F] #SanGabrielValley - goth Latina looking for a bestie to kiss and hump NSFW

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Hey ladies!!!

Hope it’s going well for y’all.

A bit about me: 36 years old, poc Latina, 5’3, goofy nerd and gothy. I’ve been told I have cute dark nipples and a nice butt!! Super into getting coffee and chatting, flirting and making out/humping.

What am I looking for?

Another girl that’s 5’3 OR taller! Someone that likes making out and humping. We can hump pillows together and make out. Getting tired honestly of humping my bed alone. I’d love to have another girl grab my hips and hump my ass like she’s gonna breed me like the horny little slut I am <3

Something that I really do like that I want to try is the tongue kisses that they do in the JAV vids, god those women look so fucking hot when they kiss each other.

No pillow princesses.

Outside of that I am looking for a woman that’s near the same area!!

I do not drive.

I’m free Sundays and Mondays! I prefer something slow though, and something fun and chill. We can get coffee and see how it goes.

I cannot host at the moment but I love car play!!

I am non-monogamous! NO threesomes, it’s just one on one.

NO MEN NO COUPLES. LADIES LEAVE YOUR MAN AT HOME

WOMEN ONLY


r/SoCalR4R • • 1h ago

M4M 32 [m4m] #sylmar - Str8 4 str8 NSFW

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Looking for someone to watch straight porn with. I can’t host but down to travel, hike, car, split a room. I’m down for one on one or small circle.

I’m 32, 5’8, 145, cut, white, straight


r/SoCalR4R • • 2h ago

M4F 40 [M4F] #LosAngeles - High standards, low expectations, and a bit weird. NSFW

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I'm a scientist, an adventurer, and a dork. I'm working a decent career in pharmaceutical chemistry and planning to retire a little early, but sometimes I quit my job to travel the country by motorcycle and live in a tent for a year.

I live in a van around North Hollywood and I mostly motorcycle everywhere I go. If my noho bff's roommates ever leave I would love to move in with him, but I don't care to rent an apartment for just myself.

I'm fit but I never go to the gym, I just bike, hike, run, and occasionally accept hard manual labor construction jobs for fun (and fair pay). I once ran an ad hoc half marathon while carrying a canoe.

I like to play video games, race off-road bicycles, talk over tv and movies, ride motorcycles, shingle roofs, see planes land, and watch the sun go down.


r/SoCalR4R • • 3h ago

T4F 21 [TF4F] #RiversideCounty - or anywhere! Looking for someone irl and kinda nervous 🫠 NSFW

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Hi! As I said, I’m a bit nervous but I am looking for someone to meet up with irl for kind of anything! Mainly just looking to explore and make a friend… well more than a friend ofc lol! Come say hi :)


r/SoCalR4R • • 5h ago

M4F 24 [M4F] #Oxnard - Fit & Bigger Than Soda Cans, Looking For A Fuck Buddy: [can't host] NSFW

1 Upvotes

Age, Sex, & Location first. I'm looking for someone in the Ventura County area, or that can travel to it.. Can't host. I'm about 5'10" got a cock bigger than tall soda cans, and a bunch of kinks. Final thing: I'm not into having kids, so birth control is a must; it can be condoms, implants, etc.; it doesn't matter to me.


r/SoCalR4R • • 7h ago

M4F 33 [M4F] #CulverCity - Attractive man seeking attractive woman for Full-Body Massage NSFW

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Hello!

I'm an attractive, single, olive-skinned, man who lives on the Westside with Finn the senior dog. Here's a picture: https://imgur.com/a/ktmjAIZ

I'd like to give you a full-body massage with no expectation of reciprocation. If you'd like me to make you cum too that'd be great! Happy to just work out your kinks (lol) if that's all you're looking for.

Please DM me with what you'd like, and a picture to make sure we're compatible, and let's go from there.

I have done this before and truly enjoy just being able to touch a woman and make her feel good.

xoxoxo


r/SoCalR4R • • 9h ago

F4M 28 [f4m] #Redlands - black cat princess looking for golden retriever to fall in love with (ltr) NSFW

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*don't waste your time messaging me if you just want to sext/hook up. NO ONE under 25.

Hey there! Im Kai (like hai) im not looking to rush into anything. Im more into just flirting and seeing where things go naturally. Im going to get my hard nos out of the way first so you dont have to waste your time reading haha

Hard nos(non-negotiables): NO trump supporters or voters. And im talking ANY election, idc if you've found the light recently.

NO gun owners

Zero tolerance for bigotry.

Anyone who struggles with their mental health but refuses to go to therapy and/or start medication

No nicotine/tobacco users.

No military or police (security guards can stay but youre on thin ice 👀🤣)

No one who already has or wants kids

No one looking for something poly/enm

About me: I teach preschool but I am happily childfree and intend on remaining childfree

Huge stoner and weed nerd. I love learning about and discussing the science behind different cannabinoids and our endocannabinoid system. (I also make a ton of edibles)

Introverted homebody who likes the occasional spontaneous adventure

Big animal lover. My cat Milo is my whole world

Diagnosed Audhd so expect direct blunt communication and questions on clarification haha

Definitely have a thing for nerdy gamers. Specifically those that play d&d, mtg, rpgs, etc

Half weirdo half brat. You'll never meet someone like me again. Whether that's good or bad depends on you 😉

Certified yapper

About you (hopefully): silly and goofy. Please dont take yourself too seriously

Full of whimsy ✨️ let's have a picnic in the park and frolic

Guy who loves being held and his head/back scratched

A guy comfortable enough in his masculinity to get a little girly sometimes but still able to treat me like a princess

Goes to therapy!!!!!

Bonus points if you play rpgs or tabletop games AND let me watch

PLEASE be willing to send face pics right away. Im not going to pretend physical attraction isn't important. I have pictures on my profile and will gladly provide more

Anyway if you're someone who isn't looking to jump into anything right away but just wants to casually get to know someone and see where things go and my post resonates with you send me a message ☺️. Just include your name, age, location and youre favorite Pokémon (if you don't have a favorite Pokémon you can tell me your favorite fun fact) low effort messages will be ignored ✌️


r/SoCalR4R • • 19h ago

M4F 25 [M4F] #OrangeCounty - Looking for a Nerdy FWB to Run Some Experiments With NSFW

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Hey! Thanks for stopping by.

I'm 25, East Asian, 5'8", 150 lbs, average build, clean, respectful, and easygoing.

I'm looking for the kind of FWB where we're just as excited about grabbing dinner or boba as we are about getting each other's clothes off. Ideally, I'd love something ongoing where we text during the week, flirt, laugh, hang out, and build real chemistry instead of feeling like strangers who only meet when we're horny.

I'm especially hoping to find someone who's a bit of a nerd. Not necessarily stereotypically nerdy—just someone who's naturally curious, gets really into random interests, enjoys going down rabbit holes, and thinks "wait, what if we tried this?" is a fun sentence.

And yes, that applies to the bedroom too. I've been getting interested in experimenting with different techniques and seeing what actually works, including some personal goals around increasing my volume. I'd love to find someone who's amused by the idea of being my enthusiastic research partner—and I'm more than happy to return the favor. If you're curious about figuring out what makes you tick, experimenting with different approaches, or seeing how far we can take our little science experiments, I'm game.

No spreadsheets required.

...Although I can't promise I won't eventually make one.

Outside of the bedroom, I have not just a touch, but a full whack of AuDHD, so I have a ton of hobbies and nerdy interests we can talk about and maybe explore together. I'm into photography, cooking, trying new restaurants, boba, walking, random drives, exploring new places, Genshin (I sorta play), 3D printing, and generally getting way too interested in whatever happens to catch my attention.

My ideal Saturday is probably finding a new ramen spot, wandering around somewhere we've never been, getting distracted by something random along the way, then spending way too long arguing about what movie to watch because neither of us can decide.

I'm happy to chat and get comfortable beforehand, but I'm ultimately looking for something in person. If we seem like a good match, I'd rather actually make plans—grab boba, get dinner, go for a walk, whatever—and see if we click than spend weeks texting without ever meeting. No pressure to rush into anything; I just want the conversation to eventually lead somewhere in real life.

I'm naturally a pretty giving and attentive partner. I really enjoy focusing on my partner's pleasure and taking my time rather than rushing through things. I'm big on making out, plenty of foreplay, and figuring out what my partner enjoys because everyone is different. Good communication, mutual enthusiasm, and feeling comfortable with each other make everything so much better.

I'm open-minded and enjoy exploring new things together. If you're the kind of person who likes experimenting, communicating about what works, laughing when something definitely doesn't work, and trying again, I think we'd probably have a lot of fun.

I can sometimes host depending on the situation, but if you're able to host, that's definitely a plus. Otherwise, I'm happy to split a hotel.

I'm East Asian, wear glasses, and I'm happy to exchange photos early on so we can make sure there's mutual attraction. Attraction is subjective, so no hard feelings if we're not each other's type.

If you've made it this far, send me the word "peach" in your first message so I know you actually read the post. I'd also love to hear what you're nerdy about, what you enjoy doing, or what random topic you could talk about for three hours without realizing it.

I'm not necessarily looking for a relationship, but I am looking for something genuine and ongoing—where we actually see each other, enjoy each other's company, have great chemistry, experiment together, and look forward to hanging out again.

If you're a quietly nerdy woman who thinks this sounds more fun than a conventional FWB setup, say hi. :)

P.S. Yes, I speak Chinese.


r/SoCalR4R • • 1h ago

M4F 28 [M4F] #SantaClarita - Love to worship some big tits NSFW

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I’ll show you how a real man appreciates your incredible pair.

I want you to relax while I take some time to feel your tits, grope them, compliment you, suck on them and find out how you like them played with.

I’ll give your chest the attention you have always wanted. The bigger the better!

Located around the Valley near Santa Clarita, open to public and car play, or I can come to you. You do not have to reciprocate. Bonus points if you have/want a friend to watch your tits get played with, the more the merrier!


r/SoCalR4R • • 1h ago

M4F 48 [M4F] #Orangecounty - It’s so hot out, anyone wanna take a dip? NSFW

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I can’t believe it’s still over 90°. My condo complex has a private pool that’s rarely used, anyone want to take a dip and cool off? You can wear a tiny little bikini if you want, I won’t judge.

If you’re interested, send me a message "Let’s go swimming!" so I know you really read this and aren’t a catfish or a 🤖. Include your age and location in your first message and be ready to send recent pics and meet soon before it gets too late.


r/SoCalR4R • • 2h ago

M4F 43 [M4F] #Irvine - Anyone interested in helping me out this week. NSFW

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Hello! Thanks for reading my post! I am a 43 year old man visiting family in Irvine and I am looking for a woman to have some fun with while I am here! I would be happy to reciprocate if you're open to it!

Something about myself. I am 5'10" tall, have a good build dark eyes and brown hair about 150lbs. I am open to F/TF as well. I just want to make this trip memorable.

I hope you are having a great week. I look forward to connecting.


r/SoCalR4R • • 2h ago

M4F 46 [M4F] #SanDiego - charming, well hung business traveler seeks amazing blowjob NSFW

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Hi all - I’m in San Diego this week for business. So naturally I’m in the mood for an amazing blowjob while I’m in town. And If you’re on here I bet you want to give one?

As for me I’m 46, white, 5’10”, in shape, well educated, even more well hung, mindful, safe, and fun. I’m into creating art, exploring the world, and generally bringing positivity to life.

I’m into women who’re smart, quirky, and a bit wild. Is that you?

If I’ve sparked your interest then send a chat my way and we’ll go from there!


r/SoCalR4R • • 2h ago

M4F 40 [M4F] #HuntingtonBeach - searching for a gf who likes threesomes and playing with other couples NSFW

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Hi! I’ve always liked having threesomes and group play. I would like to find a gf who is interested in being apart of that with me. I’m disease free and I don’t do drugs. I live alone with my dog. I have my few hobbies and keep busy.

If this sounds like something you’re interested in send me a message, we can exchange some pics and set something up.

If you’re a couple and interested in play, hmu


r/SoCalR4R • • 3h ago

M4F 37 [M4F] #OrangeCounty - Looking for a girl turned on by cheating NSFW

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Like the title says, I’m a clean and attractive M in Anaheim looking for a girl turned on by cheating. My partner enjoys this, no drama guaranteed. You can be single or attached, as long as there is no drama

Please be local, have time to chat and willing to share photos

Stats:

6’2

200 lbs - fit

7+ inches


r/SoCalR4R • • 4h ago

M4F 60 [M4F] #LosAngeles - Looking for F18+ Sub or Sub Curious NSFW

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If you are submissive, or curious about submission, and interested in an erotic relationship with an experienced dominant man, then we should discuss your desires and fantasies.

We will establish boundaries and a safe word.

Discreet or anonymous meetings are welcome.


r/SoCalR4R • • 6h ago

M4F 41 [M4F] #Gardengrove - FWB. Southern California. NSFW

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I am looking for a FWB. I would love to go on fun dates like the beach since it's so close by or perhaps try out some restaurants that I have been wanting to try. I prefer to keep things casual however I am willing to entertain something longer term if we fit well together. Regardless, I prefer something regular and ongoing even if it just stays casual.

I very much believe in the male role of leadership. Things like responsibility always fall on my shoulders and it's my duty to make sure that everything that needs to be handled is handled. In exchange, I seek a woman who looks up to a man like the one described and naturally falls into her submissive feminine role. Things like submission can only be earned when their is a mutual respect between us. I believe that having a masculine presence is very important and I do not need to make you feel small to make myself feel big. I understand the physical power imbalance between the sexes and it is my duty to make sure you always feel safe in my presence.

When we are behind closed doors, I am very much a dominant. I will put you in a mindspace where you will never have to think about what comes next. It will just happen. This will be your opportunity to fully clear your mind and not worry about any of life's challenges. It is always my goal to make sure you are just as satisfied as I am.

I have a lot of lived experience, have led an interesting life, and can have conversations about most subjects especially those that involve the inner workings of how the world works and life in general.

I am 5'10 and weigh 160 lbs. I am white with brown hair with some grays peaking out and hazel eyes. I very much care about my health and how I look and have been working out for years. My body type is somewhere between fit and muscular and I am pretty lean overall.

STD free.


r/SoCalR4R • • 8h ago

M4F 43 [M4F] #OrangeCounty - California - Would you like an older mentor? Are you a younger girl into older men? Do your friends’ dads or dad’s friends turn you on? NSFW

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Whether you are shy and this is your first time flirting with an older guy or you’ve done it before, be a good girl (please be 18 or over) and say hi!

Even if you’re shy or nervous, I’d love to gently teach you and mentor you. Let’s enjoy flirting with each other and getting to know each other this summer/fall.

I’m white, 6’1” weigh 195 lbs and I have brown hair and brown eyes. I’m also looking to actually meet and not just talk online.


r/SoCalR4R • • 8h ago

M4F 40 [M4F] #SanDiego - The truth is… NSFW

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Let’s be honest…. I don’t want to date you.

And you aren’t looking for the love of your life on Reddit.

I want fun and excitement. I want it to be safe. You know.... like... without all the diseases and creepy vibes (I’m lookin’ at you old Craigslist).

But here’s the thing. I’m an upstanding member ofsociety. I have a very nice job and as much as I want to get my rocks off, I’m certainly not willing to compromise my career or reputation.

I can’t exactly walk up to a pretty lady at the coffee shop and say “Hello there fellow sexual deviant. May I throw my disease free 7 inches into your mouth?”

I’m married. I have a job and a life. I’m a non-smoker and non-ugly.

If you fall in to similar categories, maybe we should chat.


r/SoCalR4R • • 10h ago

M4M 28 [M4M] #Cerritos - Cocksucker for DL/Bi/Gay/Married/Str8 Curious Men in North OC NSFW

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Driving down to Cerritos this afternoon for a couple hours. Looking for masculine men in the North Orange County area that need an expert throat to use.

I'm also fine with edging you, if you prefer to just get jerked off with my JO cream. I'm open to carplay unless you can host. I have limo tint on my car for public play. For the str8 curious/married men, I can also wear a hooded face mask to make you feel more comfortable receiving a BJ.

My Stats: 28 yrs old, light-skinned Latino, 6'1, 183 lbs, slim build, clean shaven, smooth butt, HIV/STI negative (last tested 10/2/2026).


r/SoCalR4R • • 17h ago

M4F 31 [M4F] #Upland - Looking for something exciting, no pressure. Check out some of my confessional posts! NSFW

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5’11, athletic, White/Hispanic, easygoing and drama-free. I take discretion seriously and prefer a natural vibe—no rush, just seeing where the chemistry goes.

Open to meeting women in all kinds of situations—single, attached, or somewhere in between. I respect boundaries and value privacy.

If you’re clean, chill, and want something that feels good without complications, we’ll get along.

I can host or travel. Let’s talk, feel it out, and take it from there.


r/SoCalR4R • • 17h ago

M4F 30 [M4F] #BeverlyHills - Married dad looking for a sneaky link NSFW

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Looking for Cis Females only. No drama guaranteed I’m very discrete.

If you are into cheating kink or just wanna have some fun. Not looking to change my situation so this is no strings attached, one time or ongoing.

I require a recent test and have one to share. No cream pies or unprotected sex.

I'm 30, 5'10, 160 lbs, sane, down to earth, recently tested last month.

Got a picture in my profile for those looking for the D pic. Average size, good for those that want to practice DT.

Please be cis female, femme, 18+, HWP, clean, DDF and recently tested.

Can’t host but can come to you, get a hotel or Carplay works too.

Must be able to verify and be discrete. My hours are limited due to family obligations.

If interested, please respond with age location and stats as I won’t be responding to low effort messages.


r/SoCalR4R • • 19h ago

M4F 50 [M4F] #OrangeCounty - Do you like scary movies? NSFW

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It’s spooky season, wanna cuddle up and watch a scary movie tonight? Maybe you can wear your comfy pj’s and we can get cozy under a blanket, does that sound good?

If you’re local and interested, send me a chat with the name of your favorite scary movie so I know you read this far. Be ready to send normal pictures and meet soon.