r/ShiaMuslimMarriage • • 11h ago

Married Life Sexual Desire | Always face denying from wife

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Salam Everyone!

I'm tired of thinking that is it my fault or something is wrong on my wife's side?

So we have been Nikkahfied for 2 years but not married yet according to Pakistani culture. We talk daily, discuss everything about family, the world, our daily life but whenever I try to discuss our sexual life, she starts pretending to have some issues like the battery is low, she's not feeling well etc to avoid such discussion. I completely believe the phrase "no means no" but in these 2 years she never asked me to have some romance and not even talk about it. I'm 25 and she's 22 so is it normal before formal marriage? Or am I being fooled?

We both are studying in different cities so we meet once in almost 3 months.


r/ShiaMuslimMarriage • • 16h ago

Middle East 26M | Bahrain | Looking for Marriage

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Salam everyone!
I’m a 26-year-old Bahraini guy, 176 cm tall with a slim build. I have a degree in mechanical engineering and currently work in the maintenance field.

A little about me: I’m a pretty chill and easygoing person who enjoys having fun and trying new things. I love traveling, exploring new places, and outdoor activities. Some of my interests include dirt biking, swimming, Muay Thai, and recently surfing.

I like to enjoy life and have new experiences, but I’m also responsible and take my work and future seriously. I’m naturally a curious person who enjoys learning.

What I’m looking for:
Someone around my age (a little older or a few years younger is fine), who’s open-minded, positive, easygoing, and enjoys life. It would be nice to be with someone who’s open to trying new things and sharing experiences together.

Religion-wise, I’m looking for someone who has a balanced approach to Islam, maintains the main obligations like praying and fasting, and values religion without being overly strict. I also appreciate someone who’s educated, has her own goals, and is working towards something in life.

My thoughts on marriage:
I believe marriage is a big decision, and both people should take enough time to get to know each other before committing. For me, compatibility goes beyond having similar hobbies or interests. It’s more about sharing important values and being on the same page about things like religion, family, children, and future goals.

I’m based in Bahrain, but we can discuss the relocation if things work out.

If you feel we might be compatible, feel free to reach out. I’d be happy to get to know you!


r/ShiaMuslimMarriage • • 8h ago

US/Canada 25M- Looking for Marriage, Canada 🇨🇦

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Assalamu Alaikum. I am posting on behalf of my family to seek a suitable bride for myself.

About the groom:

* Name: Will be disclosed privately.

* Year of birth: 2001.

* Location: Currently living in Canada on a study permit.

* Education: Pursuing an MSc at the University of Calgary. Has an excellent academic record and intends to pursue a PhD (later), In sha Allah.

* Height: 5 feet 8 inches.

* Build: Lean and athletic.

* Faith and lifestyle: A practicing Muslim who does not smoke or drink alcohol and eats only halal food.

What I am looking for:

I am seeking a practicing Muslim woman who is currently living in Canada , ideally pursuing her studies or interested in continuing her education. We value sincerity, respect, loyalty, and a commitment to building a marriage grounded in Islamic values and mutual understanding.

We are open to all ethnic backgrounds, including Bangladeshi, Pakistani, Indian, Kashmiri, Turkish, Lebanese.

Interested individuals or families are welcome to send a private message with a brief introduction. Further details can be exchanged privately.

JazakAllahu Khair.


r/ShiaMuslimMarriage • • 10h ago

US/Canada 26F | Seeking my co-founder for life

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Essential Information:

Age: 26

Origin/Ethnicity: Pakistani

Languages spoken (with proficiency levels): English, Urdu, Dari

Current residence (city, country): Canada

Willing to relocate (if yes, please specify or 'anywhere'): Yes, only USA

Siblings (number and older/younger): 3

Occupation: Tech

Education: Masters

Height (cm), weight (kg): 5'2

Smokes/Vapes/Hookah (Yes/No): no

Leisure activities: I enjoy traveling, stargazing, ziplining, exploring cozy cafes and bookshops, and I'm always on the hunt for a great matcha. I also love decorating my home, fashion, cooking, and spending quality time with the people I care about.

Your Preferences in a Partner:

Age range: 27-30

Origin/Ethnicity: -

Languages: -

Level of religious practice: Moderate

Education: At least undergrad / bachelors

Additional Information: I divorced my ex-spouse due to issues such as drinking and infidelity. I’m a practicing Muslim myself. I wear hijab regularly and am modest + into fashion. In my opinion, faith and personality can go hand in hand - you can stay true to your values while still expressing yourself. I’m kind, open-minded, and always strive to improve myself, while keeping my deen at the center of everything I do.

I'm looking for someone who is emotionally mature, calm, kind, caring, and loyal. Someone who values relationships, communicates with honesty and respect, and believes in growing together through life's ups and downs. I admire someone who is open-minded and strives to maintain a healthy balance between deen and dunya. Above all, I'm looking for a best friend and life partner with whom I can build a peaceful, loving, and faith-centered home. Extra points if you have good and independent decision-making abilities (No mama's boys please - I'm traumatized.)

Ideally, I'm hoping to meet someone based in the US (preferably west coast), or a Canadian who is open to building a future together in the US. It'd be nice if you're in the tech industry too.

If you're very rigid or overly strict in your outlook, we may not be the best fit.

P.S: I'm seeking Nikah/Marriage between one and two years from now. I'd like to get to know you first and see if we vibe!

DM me if you think we’d be a good match. Please respect both our time and reach out only if you’re serious.


r/ShiaMuslimMarriage • • 19h ago

Middle East 33M From India, lives in Dubai

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