Hi so ive come for a bit of advice and reassurance 😅 so im pretty new to prostate play but ive been practicing alot and gotten to the point to where im having theese contractions where I piss and like push the dildo out. Ive read that alot of people get this but it happens like over and over again nonstop for me to the point I get piss everywhere. Am I doing something wrong or am I just like that? And any advice to achieve an orgasm? However theese do feel very good just SO messy 😭

I'm new to prostate stimulation and I have some questions.

1. Is there a good position to use the "Njoy wand" sitting down?

2. Is the feeling of "wanting to ejaculate" the same as masturbating with the penis on an HFWO? I ask because I always feel like I'm halfway there.

3. Is there a good position they recommend using when using a "anero"?

4. How about playing with a massage percussion gun?

I've made great progress in recent months. From feeling nothing at all and only occasional P-waves after a long time, to now, when I feel a lot from the very first second I insert the toy. I think I also experienced my first little prostate orgasm - my heart was pounding through my whole body, I felt vibrations, tingling sensations, a sense of being filled with warmth and love, but it faded after about a minute...

For a while now, my P-waves have been coming faster and faster, but just as they’re about to build, just as I feel that fullness and warmth in my pelvis, just as I feel my heart pounding and that intense warmth...suddenly an orgasm builds in my PENIS and I cum. The first time it happened, I was satisfied because it was still the best orgasm of my life... But the refractory period ruins everything... I felt better without any orgasm because arousal stays and builds for a days making me feeling more.

You’ll say, “Slow down, stop, breathe slowly.” And that’s exactly what I’m doing! When I feel like I’m about to come through my penis, I stop, I don’t touch the toy, I slow my breathing, and it just happens on its own, and that’s it... It's still better than jerking off with frustriation like I used to do at the beginning of this journey. Now I don't jerk off at all. Im so rewired I dont feel arousal in my penis anymore... But it seems he want come back. I'm still happy that I discovered the prostate.

Heres a question to think about. basically i am moving home soon and will have a house completely to myself. ive decided im going to treat myself and buy some new things.

So if you were starting from scratch what would your shopping list look like? this could be toys, accessories, hygiene, prep….anything and everything. what are all the things you are buying?

For a while ive been playing with my itchy butt hole that doubles the fun of playing with your ass. When I scratch my ass I get such a massive hit of dopamine and serotonin since I'm not only scratching an itch, but im teasing my nerve endings around my anus which completely send me to outer space! I will sometimes go to the toilet and just wipe my ass with toilet paper, scratching the itch is very pleasurable and I let out moans which take zero effort to make... its addictive.

Is there anyone else that has this?

Hey there,

Been reading on here and love the content - gets me all horns just thinking about it!

I am rather new to prostate pleasure and wanted to gibe it a try, I initialls bought a 'hard plastic' toy which should lead to handfree pleasure but as I wasnt used to it I felt I preferred the feeling of touching myself and moving it toward my prostate. A few weeks in I felt I urge something that vibrates in me.

Todas this new toy arrived and i immediately gave it a try. I did not have that much time but it was a very good feeling, once I fumbled around with it and tried different positions and movements.

While enjoying myself while on my knees I noticed quite a bit of precum on the tip of my cock - that got me all excited as I didnt notice it before seeing. Continuing my journey, my cock somehow started leaking more and more. Not like when cumming from stroking my cock, more watery milky, so I guess still in the precum area.

I got so horny that I just started touching my cock as well and had an old fashioned orgasm.

I guess I am not where others here describe it but also I am not yet used to all the pulsating / sticky / dry gasm terms.

Did any of you start with similar experiences and did it go from there?

Last night I found the right path to hfdo, but I couldn't follow it all the way through.

It all started when I got a little turned on from watching Reels featuring girls. I started playing with my nipples, which turned me on even more. I turned on some porn while continuing to play with my nipples. I got really turned on and inserted my Aneros Helix Trident.

I started contracting my anal muscles, but it didn’t have any effect. For some reason, the idea popped into my head to check out r/aneros. There was a post there about muscles, explaining that there’s a difference between the muscles of the lower pelvis. I contracted my sphincter 2–3 times, and then my bulbospongiosus muscle 2–3 times as well. I started to feel pleasure that began to spread down my legs, through my prostate, and into my penis. My heart rate went up; I could feel it very clearly. I think that’s what prevented me from intensifying the pleasure any further. I took a break for 20–30 seconds, thinking it would help me keep going, but the pleasure didn’t return to what it had been before. I gave in and came from the stimulation of my penis.

Overall, I’m satisfied with the experience because I’m making progress, but I hate myself for always ending up climaxing from penis stimulation, and every time I have to wait a few days to start again.

(Sorry for my poor English; I'm writing this using a translator.)

I've had about 6 sessions of mindgasm with my aneros in, and had 2 wet orgasms, very nice. I recently ran out of THC and thought I'd try it sober. Prior to this I was high every session. I didn't get nearly as many waves, although had some nice feelings. But when I'm high, I get more pleasure waves, my legs spasm in pleasure, and sometimes I cum.

I'm still in the process of rewiring, but it does seem like THC powerfully amplifies the pleasure.

Hey guys,

There is something happening to me right now that I have never experienced before.

I am feeling horny….but the hunger isn’t coming from where it usually does.

Instead, I am now getting this feeling radiating exclusively from my backside? Like I currently have low to no desire to touch myself in the traditional way and don’t really feel aroused from there. Instead I have this hot, aching, longing desire that feels like it would only be satisfied by inserting a toy.

I am guessing this is a sign I am starting to rewire and these are the signals I should be listening out for when I play? 😩😮‍💨 Fuck I wish I had some privacy right now.

Wow!!

Last eve i had a toyless session that lasted about 2 hrs. I started orgasming and didn't STOP (unless i actively took a short break) for 2 hrs straight!

Orgasm after orgasm after orgasm!!

I put on a condom (with lube in it) at one pount because i was lying in bed and was anticipating a pee-gasm, but that never came.

Instead, i had about 5 ejaculatory orgasms with what prob was urine (some) with precum mixed in - i think - but they weren't full blown (bladder emptying) releases, but rather each was like a table spoon.

When i had finally reached my limit, i took condom off, and ever so slowly poured out (into my hand) what was inside.

It oozed out of the condom like the most WONDERFUL of syrup! Long strings... springing back up to the condom when the "flow" would break.

I have no idea really what it was (was mostly clear with slight yellow tinge), but GOD ALMIGHTY!!

I do not think i have EVER had such a wonderful session!

:)

So, i have a glass dildo, its a straight one, no curve, feels so good inside me sometimes, but other tines i dont feel nothing;
I want to make myself cum/drip precum (that transparent sticky liquid) from using that toy, so i started like almost 2 weeks ago to try to do that.Before this i used to cum from classic masturbation almost every day.Now its been like almost 2 weeks, i dont feel like i need to release, i play with that dilod inside me like every day,i get the pleasure part from it, but no orgasm or dripping.. sometimes i play with it inside me for like 2h..i try to stay as relaxed as possible, sometimes trying to do kegel exerxices.The problem is that nothing comes out from it, no orgasm, no precum dripping, and now i dont even feel like i want to cum anymore, why is that? Is it normal? (I had a sissygasm like 2 weeks ago, my first one, since then i try to do it again, but nothing, and now the desire to cum its gone too g)
Any suggestions or ideas that can help me get past this? Does someone felt the same as me?

So curiosity has got the better of me. Well tbh it's overwhelming and it's not my first toy i tried a plug and it felt amazing but I want to pump my prostate not just an idle pressure (that still was amazing) but it could be even better with the right toy so what should I get a trusting butt plug or a dildo i with a suction cup so can ride it?

hello. making this post because I don’t really know what to do next. in my prostate playing I usually reach the point where the prostate fluid just constantly flows from me, and that seems to be it. it feels really good, though I want to progress further. how do I actually reach something greater from this point, like orgasming, just with my prostate?

Hi there, I'm new to this and had a very, very intense sensation when playing today. I could use some guidance from a pro.

I started with 30 mins with a Lovense Edge massager, then switched to my brand new nJoy wand. I was feeling pretty good before the nJoy, but this took it to a new level. I moved the toy out an inch or so, then back in with gentle pressure upwards into my pelvis and immediately felt intense pleasure plus the urge to urinate.

I tried to relax into this feeling, but it escaped me. But each time I repeated the motion (out a bit, then back in with pressure) it built. I had an aching pleasure sensation in my pelvis and my heart rate and breathing started picking up. I was feeling contractions in my pelvis as well.

Finally, it was too much to take and as I relaxed into the sensation a large volume of liquid came out. This emission was coupled with a very intense sensation of pleasure that continued pulsing for several seconds as more fluid came out. The pleasure stopped when the fluid did.

I think this was urine, but I'm not sure. Given the volume, I think it had to be. Has anyone had this experience? I'm curious about how to separate the pleasure from the urge to urinate.

lately i've been doing sessions later at night and sometimes can't be assed to get up and clean my toys properly (i know its gross, i clean it up in the morning don't worry) and even if I DO go and clean it I use warm water and soap and then dry with a towel. is that enough for silicone or should I be using a proper toy cleaner?

Ive had a few instances where my prostate play took a nosedive as i could feel my prostate orgasming or actually could feel around it orgasming but i would get no pleasure is its numb. I have now pinpointed what causes it, my big plug.

My big plug is probably too big for me. I can get it in and wear it pretty easily but it gets painful at about an hour. I mostly skipped building up duration with a smaller plug which i now see was a bad choice.

I thought building up wear time with a bigger plug would mean all sizes below it would be good. While that has made my smaller plugs feel really good due to me being more open, it seems its bad for prostate play and probably safe butt play practices.

So if you wanna keep your prostate sensitive, dont get too ambitious with plugs. Size up slowly and gradually

I think I’m close, but would really appreciate as much detail as possible because I think that’ll help me recognise it and motivate me to keep trying lol

Thanks in advance for any help 🥰

Sometimes I go into a session imagining being fingered or pegged. Sometimes fantasies of two or more beautiful young women, sometimes my loving wife.

Sometimes I am not imaging something that is not happening, I am thinking of the hard plastic Aneros inside of me that is moving by my own contractions. I am aware that it is my fingers gently circling my nipples or rubbing my balls and my taint. If I rub my dick I am thinking of how my own hand is touching it. Sometimes I have an Aneros in, but I am imagining a sex machine slowly pumping a dildo inside of me.

Sometimes when I am having sex with my wife with a toy inside I am completely present in that moment and I am enjoying the feel of being inside of her and the feel of the toy in me. Sometimes I imagine the toy being her finger, her with a strapon, or even another woman behind me with a strapon.

The fantasies can all add to a session and most of us have fantasies when we play. I am wondering how many of you also sometimes are just in the moment knowing and loving that you are by yourself enjoying a toy in you and touching your own body? It certainly can be easier than making up a fantasy and pretending. I find these sessions to be great. It probably helps that I have a great sex life with my wife so that part is already fulfilled.

When playing with prostate would you just play with it for orgasm and cum or you guys actually enjoying the process and leave the thought about cum and orgasm?

Because I waste many years just by thinking it just a normal orgasm and its comes automatically like handjob but let me know you what’s I believe now!!!

• never chase for orgasms

• feel the prostate and gently massage it
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• try to play atleast one hour ,don’t stop in every 10 minutes
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• the bigger the toy the better the chance you will hit the sweet spot but don’t go rough

I can cum just by using my fingers but I will tell you this story later 😋

I'm a 28 yo, masculine, bi top who has never bottomed. I recently got out of a 7 year relationship with a very vanilla, Christian dude and want to expirement more with my body as he's the only person I've ever been with. I want to achieve pleasure from my prostate but I don't know how. I've tried using my fingers, an e butt plug, and a 6in dildo. I've gotten past the point where it's painful, but it's just uncomfortable and I get ZERO pleasure from it. It sucks because I really want to experience what everyone here is talking about.

Has anyone tried this toy? I have an Njoy Pure Wand which I really like. This toy has that similar magic shape that gets to the spot so well. It also has a mechanical "cum hither" motion that may subtly stimulate the prostate in an incredible way. Wondering if anyone has experience with this toy. Is it easier/better than the NPW?

I started experimenting with prostate play and notice my horniness has kind of redirected like I’ll feel it there. It’s strange, for as long as I can remember I would only feel arousal in my 🍆. I also stopped prostate play a couple weeks ago bc i didn’t want to keep pushing it. I also lacked interest as well. Yet I still feel arousal there even after weeks. Anyone know what I’m talking about?

I just got the Mr hankey mega milk it, shipping lines up perfectly with my off day, the plan was to lightly prime the day before to build anticipation, and to consume a light edible and feel out my new toy the next day. Any tips on what to expect with it or just user experience for anyone who's used it. Any feedback is welcome. Im looking forward to any potential milking i can get from this, feels like I've been sitting on a walnut since I ordered, so im definitely swollen in anticipation.

I was going down a Reddit rabbit hole about anal training for myself and stumbled on HFDO & the much sought after Super O, and the ability for men to be multi-orgasmic that way. Hubby has always envied my multi-orgasmic abilities so I want to bring this new info to him and gauge his interest. He’s pretty open sexually. No weird hang ups around ass play but we’ve never really explored prostate play before. Reading some of the posts here it seems like it’s really personal for you guys and while a wifey in the mix occasionally is hot, most of your prostate play needs to be solo while you’re working out what works and what doesn’t work? Is that a fair assumption? When bringing this idea to him (assuming he’s even interested in prostate play)should I encourage him to do a fair amount of solo exploration?

I have been toying around with prostate play in some form, but really dialed it up the last few months. While I hadn’t ever cum just with that before it felt really good. I’ve been doing a lot of hypnosis content through Shibby as I felt like it was very relaxing, and the haptics were fun. I’d been doing a setup for a while where I had a prostate vibe in and another on my dick, and while I had some great orgasms that was I wouldn’t say any of them were too different from my normal ones, maybe a little more intense.

Well, last night I decided to try just prostate play on its own for the first time in a while, and I finally did it. About 45 minutes my whole body lit up in what just felt like pure ecstasy for around a minute, maybe longer, before I finally subsided. Except that was just one pulse. I pulsed just like that over and over tapering off in intensity for around 10 minutes before it finally ended, but the session was far from over.

Over the next 3 hours I think I came another 5 or 6 times, none of them quite as mind blowingly intense as the first but all incredible. I could feel something oozing from my dick but not ejaculating like I normally would, it was more of a gentle flow. It felt remarkable. I ended the night off by putting on my second vibe on my dick again, and my final orgasm started as another prostate orgasm for about 30 seconds before, while that was still happening, I came again the more “normal” way. The two orgasms layering was again a mind blowing experience of just pure bliss. God I want to feel it again, it was incredible.

For all of you who have tried for a while please don’t give up good lord it was so so worth the wait.