New Rule: Cross-posting and bans

[u/lizardjustice]

After mod conversation, we have noticed an uptick of people posting against the flairs. We have noticed that these coincide with posts that have been cross-posted to r/NannyBreakRoom . Those who cross-post posts from our subreddit into other subreddits, particularly subreddits intended to talk about how awful this subreddit and the participants of this subreddit are, are not participating here in good faith.

Going forward, anyone who cross-posts or engages in cross-posted activity from our sub into NBR will be banned with no warning.

[u/juniperbug123]

how do i prove i’m a NP? it won’t let me add flair

[u/lizardjustice → u/juniperbug123]

You post in nannybreakroom. You cannot post here as a NP. So I don't know if you're being honest with me or not but regardless, you cannot post in NP flaired posts.

[u/Ok_Tumbleweed2182 → u/lizardjustice]

Post or comment? Just trying to clarify.

[u/lizardjustice → u/Ok_Tumbleweed2182]

If you comment or post in nannybreakroom, you cannot comment on posts flaired NP only. You would essentially follow the same rules as non-employers, which is that you would be welcome to post on any post flaired All Welcome but not on the posts flaired NP only. It only has to do with how someone is flairing themselves and what posts they are interacting with.

[u/juniperbug123 → u/lizardjustice]

one of the flair options of former nanny who is now employing a nanny.

i was not aware i had to choose one group or another. i am asking you how can i prove this to you and you’re just saying i’m lying. this is part of the reason it’s impossible for me to ever post on here.

[u/lizardjustice → u/juniperbug123]

You cannot post here as a NP if you have posted in NBR in the last year. NBR does not allow employers to post at all, even if you are currently a nanny also. Because of this, we take the stance you cannot be both following their rules and our rules at the same time. You can wait a year from the date of your last post in May and post here as an employer if you wish. You are otherwise welcome to post on posts flaired All Welcome.

For what it's worth, posting in NBR is never going to prove to us that you're a NP since posting there is admitting you're not.

See the pinned post: New Rule - NP Only Flaired Posts : r/NannyEmployers

[u/juniperbug123 → u/lizardjustice]

i responded to a comment in may in that group regarding food stamps. i did not create my own post, seems a little unfair to now be on a waitlist for that.

it was the first time that group has popped up for me since i stopped nannying two years ago since i had to start chemo, hence why i’d comment about food stamps as i am also struggling during this time.

i’ll make sure to never ever comment on a parent post going forward in this group until my timer runs out 🫡

[u/lizardjustice → u/juniperbug123]

Well your year timer just started over since you made a comment there to complain lol You can't post there as a nanny and here as an employer. It's not that difficult.

You asked how to prove you were an employer so I put your name in pushshift and searched nannybreakroom to see if you had posted there to verify. Pretty weird thing to complain about when you're asking to essentially be verified and you're not even taking the time to read our rules or NBRs rules. But alas.

[u/juniperbug123 → u/lizardjustice]

you have too much time on your hand to keep stalking my comments i posted just a few moments ago.

of course i would have an issue with how you responded over me commenting about food stamps. i even share more information behind why i commented there.

i don’t want to comment in here after that interaction why would i. it does not feel like a safe place to even ask questions.

[u/lizardjustice → u/juniperbug123]

Im not stalking your comments, I was updating the notes on your account and can see your entire profile when I do that. Lol Love that you're breaking their rules though. It's cute.

[u/juniperbug123 → u/lizardjustice]

i stopped working since starting chemo. i’m not breaking rules, i’m not punished over there for getting cancer do you hear yourself

my account is private, you only got that from searching when i asked to you how can i prove to you. you then said since i commented about food stamps i can’t. i said i only did that after not being able to work from disability so i understand the system is frustrating.

you are now talking to me like a child and being rude.

[u/lizardjustice → u/juniperbug123]

Your post history is not private to modetators on the subreddits you post on. I can see your entire post history, which is why i knew you posted in breakroom. You cant post on NBR as an employer and you're claiming to be an employer. I dont know why that's hard for you to understand but i dont enforce their rules for them nor do i care if they enforce theres. Ours are clear.

I didnt read the content because I didnt care what it was about. Please read the rules of a sub before you participate. Thanks.

[u/JustNeonDust → u/juniperbug123]

You realize mods can see your full post history…right? It doesn’t matter if your account is marked private. That’s intentional, so they can verify that people posting actually meet the sub’s criteria.

Mods doing basic due diligence to weed out bad faith actors isn’t “stalking.” It takes all of two seconds. What’s actually weird is lying about who you are to force your way into a space you know you don’t belong in.