I’m a licensed psychologist working as a sex therapist. Lately I’ve been seeing a clear increase in men who identify as bulls or cucks, or couples where this dynamic is central. They come in dealing with the practical, emotional and relational side of the fetish: how to negotiate it, manage jealousy or excitement, set boundaries, handle secrecy versus openness with a partner and reduce shame or compulsion around the roles.

This is not an ad. I don’t take clients from Reddit.

Typical work looks like this: we map how the bull or cuck role functions for the person (or the couple), what triggers the strongest arousal or distress, how communication happens (or fails) and what they actually want to change or stabilize. Sessions are mostly talk. When useful I use structured tools for shame, partner communication and sometimes more experiential exercises in session. The goal is rarely to stop the dynamic. It’s usually less distress, clearer agreements and a less split relationship with the desire.

People often arrive very reserved and become much more direct once they feel they won’t be judged.

Hiya all, well educated girl here who enjoys answering questions, meeting and chatting with people. As long as your question is intelligent, I'll provide an in-depth response.

Some more random facts about me:
I work out a couple of times a week and play volleyball a few times a week as well. I prefer living with guys than girls because we think more alike and don't bring as much drama. I currently live with 3 guys and before I relocated here over a year ago, I had 3 other male room mates. One of those room mates was my best friend at the time and is the one I would give handjobs to occasionally mostly because I am very empathetic and know how much he liked them and how hot he thought I was. I would love a hot straight girl friend that got me off occasionally even if it was just with her hand.

Some things to give more context and avoid the most common questions:

1. We were together for almost 2 years

2. No, we didn’t end up for that reason, in fact we didn’t break up for any bad thing-reason

3. We both agreed with it, it’s not the same of cheating

I‘m proud that he chose me, but is very boring because I have nothing to do. If you want to ask me something I happy!

My wife is /u/franki-pinks for context

It’s been awhile since our last, we are WFH today and thought why not run an AMA session between; as usual both of us will be answering again so please just say who the question is directed to. As always any and all questions welcome so feel free to ask away with anything on the mind to help entice a fun session for all 😉

He’s contemplating trying NNN this year again after his success last year unsure if I too should go no orgasms as well or try my absolute best to break him and make him cum 😈. Opinions and questions regarding this is most welcomed

Some brief basics:
- Have lived together for 4 years and have known each other since the start of high school.
- We are both currently single at the moment.
- Common kinks: lesbian, voyeurism/public/beach play, tease/edging, lingerie, squirting/strong orgasms
- Have always been very open discussing NSFW topics with one another which led to nudism/masturbation around the house. No we haven’t fucked

A brief description of her: 5’4 with mid length blonde hair, 34d boobs with pink nipples and average size aereolas. Waxed . Quite pale skin with a stunning smile and blue eyes.

A brief description of him: around 6ft and fairly tan with short brown hair and brown eyes. Fairly tonned body with 8inches - shaven.

Ask me or him anything