r/LongDistance • u/Gullible-Clothes1875 • 7h ago

It’s hard

I liked a girl who lives in a different city and things are going pretty well but she told me that she has a problem with LDR , i dont actually know what should i do i like her and she likes me but I can’t move there yet i have strict parents and it’s actually either running away and meet her or doing nothing

what shall i do guys?

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u/CookieMonsterOnCoke 2386.065 miles! 7h ago

Unfortunately, she's already stated she has a problem with LDR, so this is a boundary you'll have to respect. I understand you guys like each other, but if her mindset going into this is anti-LDR, and you're both relatively young, there's a lot of factors moving against you.

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u/vexedcoverage 7h ago

man dont run away that's some movie stuff that goes bad in real life 90% of time

she already told you straight up she cant do distance so pushing it will just make things messy for both of you. i get it though when you click with someone the logic part of brain just shuts off

maybe keep talking but let her set the pace. if she changes her mind cool but don't bet your whole plan on it. strict parents thing makes it even harder cause you got no timeline for closing the gap

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u/Alarmed-Syllabub-970 4h ago

Play the long game, don’t force anything