Never in my life have I looked down on someone's appearance, circumstances, money, anything. I do not understand how people find it so easy to do. Perhaps its just the chronically online who think doing that is the norm? The normalization of insulting people for their looks or anything on social media is something I've always found disgusting.

Anyways, I tried to meet someone after 2 years. Mental health was bad after my last relationship so I wanted a while for myself. I haven't even tried to date in this time period and wasn't looking for anything, but after so long I finally decided to keep talking to a girl who was a senior from school I'd asked help from. We're both mostly busy but I used to look forward to her texts. Waited for her texts throughout her exams for 2-3 months. Finally made plans to meet about 4 days ago. I'd been wanting to meet her for very long so I was looking forward to it.

A night prior to going, I texted a female friend of mine to help me out a little, it's been 2 years since I went out with someone so I would've appreciated any tips. I assumed she would be supportive knowing I hadn't been ready for anything for so long. Nope. She put her insecurities on me instead. I show that I have thick skin which is perhaps why she thought it was okay to say those things, and I do, but I also read public messages of my ex saying something about me in recent times. For context, she was conventionally attractive. I'm also not bad looking, I believe I carry myself well, I've been cold approached in public, I get many compliments, but I am short. Apparently, in hindsight, only the fact that I am short seemed like an issue to her, that it was a "boring" height to be, even though she was a couple inches shorter. I've always owned my height but man, seeing so many people portray it as a bad thing ended up hurting this time. I've never been insecure about it and of course I know the right person wouldn't give a shit about how tall I am.

But well, one of the things the friend said was also about my height. I knew she was projecting herself and her fucked up love life but I still listened. Most of it sounded silly and was a result of her own BS. I texted another friend who was very supportive and she did help me out but I was already overthinking by this point.

Fast forward to finally meeting up. She was about 2 cms taller maybe? Normally, I wouldn't give a shit about this. I would've completely joked about it and made her and myself comfortable on any other day. Except all these instances popped up in my head repeatedly and I ended up mentally freezing there. Had to apologize to her thrice like a fucking loser. I couldn't be myself, I wasn't mentally present the whole time and it just sucked overall. I could barely speak. I've spent the last 4 days sobbing. No appetite. I tried to explain to her but I was understandably ghosted. I don't blame her.

I've blocked the friend and many other "friends" in a period of a few months. Trying to get rid of the negativity these people bring in life in so many forms. I am getting back on track after this incident, just sucks to be looking forward to something for so long only for temporary circumstances to ruin it all. Welp.

bollywood got spine before gta 6

Drop down your homescreen wallpaper in commemts

You may contact me if you are a Patna Dweller.

I'm new to Patna City, and have never lived in Bihar.

Please don't make jokes, I am genuinely confused

I've faced this too from these disgusting people. If you oppose this you get called a bhakt.

It's been 4 years guys you can chill out. Plus the darth vader breathing mechanism t@rned her on.

Please don't vote for people just because of their caste, religion or gender. Bhagwan mat banao insaano ko, aankhein khuli rakho apni.😭🙏

Mera bas itna kehna hai ki kisi ke influence mein aake blindly support mat karo. Keep checking facts, question things and form your own opinions.

There are sooo many things that actually matter. Are people getting their fundamental rights? Are people getting justice? Are we really developing as a country? Because dekh liya humne kitna developed hai apna desh (caste or religion ke basis pr vote krke).

Government chahe kisi ki bhi ho, kaam karna unki responsibility hai, koi ehsaan nahi. We're not supposed to worship them for doing their jobs. We're supposed to question them when they fail.

Koi bhi party 100% honest nahi hai, so stop defending everything just because it's your favourite party.

It's not about left or right. It's about the people, their rights and their future.

Bhakti nahi, accountability honi chahiye. Vote soch samajh ke do, kisi ke influence mein aake nahi.

Jai Hind 🫡🇮🇳

I feel like schools teach us a lot of academic subjects, but there are many practical things we have to learn on our own.

What is one skill you wish schools taught, like managing money, communication, dealing with stress, or something else? And why?

This is genuinely so heartbreaking to see dude at least someone actually tried to do something different took the initiative and put in the effort but people genuinely couldn’t care less😭 The problem isn’t even just the government anymore it’s the people and their shitty mentality “Why should I stop littering? Someone will come and clean it up anyway it’s not my job" AND THAT RIGHT THERE IS THE PROBLEM

It was never just about the trash it’s about the people who have normalised this disgusting mentality and the real cleanup needs to start with people’s mindsets because what’s the point of cleaning the rivers if people are just going to keep polluting them? and the irony of it all is that these same people worship rivers as goddesses yet can’t even show them the bare minimum respect.

I’m 13f (please please tell me I’m just being dramatic cus I don’t wanna deal with the guilt after finding symptoms match )

No, it’s not contamination OCD. it’s P-OCD. Z-OCD. And more of the such. I’ve had these terrible guilt inducing thoughts since I was like 9-10? Crying non stop, self harm (only recently though), and suicidal thoughts, fully believing I don’t deserve to live. I was exposed to heavy sexual content from a super young age, I’ve seen stuff that no child that age (or at any age) should be consuming. Might be it. i Just found out about groinal responses too, and I cried like a dumbass cus I related too much. I’m not a therapist and I’ll never go to one cus mandated reporters are never gonna help, so I’m reaching out to the internet to see if symptoms match I guess. Am I just a bad person who deserves to die or do I have some kind of thing?

Koi ladki bata degi kya kese use karna hai reddit 😭bc karma aur ye baar baar remove kyu kardete hai mei kuch post karu to bot aake remove kar deta hai bata do koiiiiii

Strange how anyone who is silently protesting is detained. Two aged parents of a deceased girl is a security threat now????

(image is from my previous situationship) like i can talk to girls pretty well but only when i need it, but there are some of my friends who can talk to girls without any hesitation and without any reason like i also want to talk to girls but i just cant do it without a proper reason to do so. i can start a conversation but i just dont know how to handle it while also engaging the girl.

Few years back it was just limited to social media. All the trolling memes and bashing indians online was cool. But it's having real world consequences now. When u see things against indians everywhere u go, YouTube, Instagram, Twitter, reddit, u can't expect masses not to turn against the whole community. This is a matter of concern also because indians go abroad in large numbers. Back home everything is shit. But abroad too indians are not safe now.

So we all know that India has many festivals and their meanings as well but for me the meaning changes slightly like, holi it seems like normalising bad behaviour, when I was young, a boy threw colours on my eyes 😒 and my parents was very worried. There are some PPL who mixes iodex or balm just for fun . Rakhsha bandhan is right in a family way .

But in school it's like having a certificate just to prove normal friendship b/t a boy and a girl otherwise PPL might troll you. Ganesh chaturthi for food and travelling around city , Durga Puja for dance specially for those who have a partner and ya Diwali is good but only when you have money to fulfill your wishes.

Okay, so I’m just going to put this out here because why not 😭 I’m 19M from Lucknow and currently taking a drop year, which sounds fine in theory until you realize how ridiculously repetitive your days can get when you have a lot of free time and no college to go to every morning 💀. So lately I’ve been thinking that I should actually make an effort to meet some new people instead of spending half my day scrolling Reddit. I’m mainly looking for genuine friendships and people I can actually get comfortable talking to — not just the usual “hey / hey / wyd” conversation that dies after five messages. I’d love to have someone I can randomly talk to about life, send dumb memes to, discuss completely unnecessary things with, have late-night conversations with, or just complain to when a movie/show absolutely ruins its ending 😂. A little about me: I’m into working out, sports, music, gaming, movies and series. I can go from talking about some random match to discussing a movie for an hour to suddenly having a completely pointless philosophical conversation, so there’s that 😭. I’m also pretty chill and I’m not expecting everyone I talk to to become my best friend overnight — even if we just have a genuinely nice conversation, that’s cool. And yeah, I’d definitely like to make more female friends too, but I’m mentioning that because I genuinely enjoy having female friends, not because I’m here desperately looking for a relationship or anything. I’m honestly just trying to meet some good people, get out of my usual routine and hopefully find a few people I actually click with. So if you’re around my age, have similar interests, or just think we might get along, feel free to DM me. Tell me something about yourself instead of just saying “hi” though 😭. And if we end up becoming friends, great. If we have one completely random conversation and disappear into the Reddit void afterwards, honestly, that’s fine too. No pressure, no expectations — just looking for some genuinely good conversations and hopefully some good friendships along the way.

Looking for a girl who can talk with me about anything