i love my wife

My wife (38F) and I (36F) have been married for three wonderful years, and for our third wedding anniversary, I’ve made her this handmade, leather-bound book filled with Reddit posts I think she’ll love reading and some favourite ones. The ones we constantly talk about, laugh over, and bring up in conversation days after we’ve read them.

I’m asking if anyone in this community could leave a short message wishing my wife a happy 3rd anniversary as an epigraph . I’m hoping to print your comments and include them on that page, so one day, she’ll reopen this book, revisit all these posts, and re-read all the anniversary wishes.

Thank you in advance for helping add this personal touch.

And to my incredible wife: Happy 3rd anniversary, baby. I’d choose you — and all our wonderfully unhinged conversations — every single time.
🦋🔥🐝🌸

I think it’s safe to say that after so many years together, you’ve probably hurt each other in one way or another. Growing together means learning, making mistakes, and evolving as individuals and as a couple. How did you work through those difficult moments, heal from the hurt, and move forward without holding on to the past?

Coming to the end of 31 days “purity” challenge, to end on or around our anniversary.

In this time I’ve learned that to be pure in heart is more than just abstinence.

What I’m ultimately needing to work on is being a good man, aside from being driven by sexual reward (this becomes even more important as we age together), though I constantly have to wrestle through a fact that it feels like I love and desire my spouse more than they do me.

Any thoughts on how to get control over my “restless” heart, that’s always needing assurance from a spouse who doesn’t really have the will to try and comfort me?

I don’t want to upset the anniversary by rocking the boat and arguing. I could use some wisdom.